Edward Andrew Lapekas Jr.

1943 - 2017

Edward Andrew Lapekas Jr. obituary, 1943-2017, Sarasota, FL

Edward Andrew Lapekas Jr.

1943 - 2017

Edward Lapekas Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 5 to Dec. 6, 2017.
Lapekas Jr., Edward Andrew
Edward Andrew Lapekas, Jr., was born in Battle Creek, Michigan, on April 16, 1943, to Elizabeth Yaw Lapekas and Edward Andrew Lapekas. Ed succumbed to cancer on December 1, 2017, in Sarasota, Florida, with Dana (Lillie) Lapekas, his wife of fifty years, and children, Anne Hill and Mark Lapekas, by his side. As was his way, he met the challenge of a cancer diagnosis and all that accompanies it with grace and dignity, while never losing his sense of humor or bypassing a chance to laugh and to savor the joys of family and life itself, large or small.
Dana and Ed divided their time seasonally between their homes on Walloon Lake in northern Michigan and in Longboat Key, Florida. Anne lives in Richmond, Virginia, with her husband, Jeff. She has three boys, William, Peter, and Nicholas Humble, and is step-mother to Connor and Julianna Hill. Mark lives in Chicago, Illinois, with his wife, Carolina and their two boys, Edward and Gabriel.
Ed's grandchildren gave him endless joy. He was and will always be a role model for them as a wonderful, devoted, husband, father, and grandfather and an all-around great human being, gentle but persistent in message. He was admired and valued as a sibling (to Jim, Ron, and Nancy and their families), an in-law ( Patty and Vickie), friend, neighbor, businessman, board member, golf companion, and more.
Ed earned a BA from Albion College and an MBA from Wayne State University. He was drafted into the US Army in 1969, the day his daughter, Anne, was born. He was commissioned as an Artillery Officer after finishing Officer Candidate School and served one year in Viet Nam. He was awarded the Bronze Star.
During the course of their fifty-year marriage, Ed and Dana moved over twenty-five times and lived in many American cities, as well as in London, England and the Netherlands. As a result, they have a network of friends worldwide.
Professionally, Ed served in various roles in the packaging industry throughout his long career, culminating as Chairman and Chief Executive Officer at American National Can until he retired in July of 2000. Ed has served on several boards and was currently a director of Silgan Holdings, Inc. This is his own brief list of his professional achievements. It is modest, as he was, and doesn't do justice to his stature among his peers and to his many achievements in the business world.
He served as President of the Walloon Lake Country Club, President of the Walloon Lake Association, and Vice-president of the Walloon Lake Trust and Conservancy. He was also a member of Longboat Key Club and Bird Key Yacht Club.
Ed's family knows his passions: grandchildren, family, collecting, Asian cooking, boating, and golf. He was also a serious gardener, as well as being a reader, a thinker, an observer, and an honest and valued resource to many.
Ed will be missed in the flesh but never forgotten in spirit. He exuded class but also humanity, generosity, and decency. A memorial in celebration of his life will be held in early summer on Walloon Lake, a place he so loved and worked to maintain its long-time viability as a place of pure and natural beauty. He will live on in all of us who knew him.
That said, these are the donations Ed chose, should you wish to honor his life in this way:
The Walloon Lake Trust and Conservancy,
https://www.walloon.org/about/walloon-lake-trust-and-conservancy/,
The Salvation Army, https://give.salvationarmyusa.org/site/Donation2?df_id=25333&25333.donation=form1&mfc_pref=T
A philanthropy of your choice.

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December 6, 2019

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July 13, 2018

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July 11, 2018

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Nancy Lapekas

December 6, 2019

A day does not go by without remembering with gratitude the life that my brother had and the close relationships that he had with so many others. It warms my heart to know that he was remembered by so many. Missing him dearly.

Gregg Miller

July 13, 2018

Ed was a year ahead of me at Albion and was the Pledge Trainer for my group of Sigma Nu pledges. He was one of my favorite fraternity brothers, although we weren't really close friends. He was always thoughtful of others and, to me, was much like a pledges big brother. It is not surprising to learn that he lived such a fulfilling life - wish we had had a chance to renew our friendship again after leaving Albion.

Jess Womack

July 11, 2018

I knew Ed as student at Albion College in the 1960's, and the words that best described him then apparently did not change during his life. He was a gentleman, a kind person, an intelligent, thoughtful person and most of all loyal to his friends. We became close friends in our last two years through student government and student resident advisors. We had mmany wornderful and long conversations. We lost contact and it saddens me that he has passed away, but it makes me happy to know that he lived so well and was loved by so many.
Jess Womack
Class of 65

April 8, 2018

I met Ed when he first came to Continental Can Company. I remember him as a "class act," fun guy and very intelligent. He went on to a very successful and accomplished career in the primary packaging industry. We kept in loose touch over the years, and I've always admired him. I just found about his passing the CCC Veterans' newsletter, so I extend my condolences to his family. I also honor his service in the Army. Being the modest guy he was, he never talked about it. Rest in Peace Ed. Your legacy will endure. Richard J. Nicholson

Paul & Beth Harding

December 12, 2017

"And He will raise Him up on eagle's wings, bear him on the breath of dawn, make Him to shine like the sun and hold Him in the palm of His hands"
Prayers, peace, comfort, support, an abundance of hugs to his family. He sounds like a remarkable man that was my DEAR friend, Nancy's big brother. If I may, I have a feeling he'll be an Archangel or Warrior. God bless you all.

December 10, 2017

To my Dear Brother,
You lived a life full of grace and love toward others, and even in your dying days, showed graciousness. I miss you more than words can express. Your Sister, Nancy

Ann Zinke McKinstry

December 10, 2017

I remember Eddie well from our Pennfield High School days. He was a great guy back then and it is clear he continued to be a great guy during his lifetime as a husband, father, grandfather, veteran and leader. I am not surprised. My sympathy to his wife and children.

Janice Fleming

December 8, 2017

To the family, My love and prays for your loss. Ed was a awesome guy, also a neighbor, & class mate. My love to you all in the coming time.
Always, Janice Kerr Fleming

Don Vire

December 8, 2017

Ed was a leader all of his life and obviously contributed greatly to society through his military and industrial leadership. My condolences to his family and my high school friend, Ron, in particular.

Janet Donaldson

December 6, 2017

This obituary captures the essence of this man so beautifully. He was one of the most special men I ever knew. He will be so missed by so many.

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