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Joel & Kathy, 1994.
Kathy Walker Van Citters
April 19, 2015
This is Kathy, Joel's wife, always his wife, can't do the other "w" word.
In case some of you who wrote on legacy are checking in, note that the Herald-Tribune obituary is the longest and most descriptive of Joel's life but it will come off the legacy.com site this week, so you might want to read it now if you only saw the much shorter Philly and Boston obits, which apparently are permanent on legacy.com; and no, I don't know why the policies differ.
Some friends from the 60s-70s expressed hope that the Joel you knew way back when lived a happy life after you lost contact. Yes! Your friend and my sweetheart lived a full and interesting life, and the 21 years and two months that we had together were filled with love, laughter, adventure--the happiest years any couple could wish to have. And we had the sense to know how very fortunate we were.
If you want to see samples of Joel's photography and videos and web content, look at AllMediaMarketing.net. The site hasn't been updated since he got sick, but he built it with an array of materials. The site will stay up until I can bear to deal with it.
Attached is a photo that was taken in the spring of 1994, soon after we met. It was a Saturday and I was doing PR for a charity fundraiser. Not wanting us to spend the day apart, Joel said, "I'll grab my camera and go with you and donate the pics." That was how we did life--together.
Best wishes for a long and happy life.
Kathy
Bill Chuck
April 2, 2015
Joel was an important part of my life when I needed an important friend. Joel and I worked together when I was on television in Boston and we worked even more frequently when I became a freelancer (due to Joel's guidance).
We worked and laughed and made fun of the world around us. His talent was huge and his sensibility while working was invaluable to clients and colleagues.
He was the photographer at my wedding and was a great friend to both me and my wife Maxie.
It took me so long to write this remembrance because I wanted to write it with love and not the pain of his loss.
To me he was "The Director" and I will always treasure his memory.
Corn and nuts, my friend.
With love,
Chucker
Mike Vizvary
March 30, 2015
Dear Kathy,
Our sincere sympathies to you and your family. May God's peace be with you. Cherish the memories.
Elena, Maya, Roman and Mike Vizvary
One of the few photos I have of Joel... goofing it up... as always!
Deborah Burke
March 30, 2015
I'm in shock to hear this news. I was with Joel back in the late 70's, early 80's during his Channel 7, Boston days. All the memories are flooding back as I think of him. He was such an incredible and talented guy. He mastered everything he touched (except for the time he took that sharp turn going 1 mile per hour and I fell off the back of the 250cc Honda motorcycle. Luckily for me, he was a better pilot in his Cessna. His photography awed me, even as we pointed cameras in the same direction, his was a masterpiece... mine was a snapshot. His guitar pickin' was equal to his other talents. He was a gentle, fun, lovely soul.... and though I never met you, Kathy, you were so lucky to have found each other. I only wish I could have heard his laugh one last time. And yes, this photo captures him perfectly. Straight-forward, honest, open, joyful. A friend to all who ever met him. What a sad day for us all to lose SUCH a man.
Mike Hawker
March 24, 2015
Kathy, I,like Bart was part of Van's journey out west in the late 60's. We were quite a group. Many were the times we played music til the wee hours. We had recently reconnected but, sadly, much too late. I will forever regret not getting to see him again. He will be missed by all.
Cady & Scott Ferguson
March 24, 2015
We were so sorry to hear about Joel. We had the privilege of working with him on several video projects in Sarasota. He was fun, creative and just a wonderful guy to be around. It hardly seemed like work. Kathy, we know how much you and the rest of his family will miss him. We will too. He was a very special man.
Gary Whiting
March 23, 2015
I can truly say that Joel was one of those few people who changed my life for the better. His imagination and delightful humor sticks with me to this day, and I still smile at the outrageous ideas he injured up. (I'm smiling right now, just looking at his bio photo on this web-page). Joel was a great guy and a great friend when I needed one. He seemed to know the right thing to say to lighten the moment. I know my experience with Joel was just a fraction of all those that he impacted. He will be missed by many, but we all cherish the memories!
Mike Mears
March 23, 2015
I was lucky to be able to work with Kathy for many years. And even luckier that I met Joel along the way, though he was tasked at one point with helping make me more presentable in interactions with the media (I do not "make presentable" easily). When I think of Kathy, I think of Joel, and am saddened that they will be apart, at least for now. My prayers and thoughts are with the whole family, as I know this will be a tough period. In the end, I hope good memories survive, along with smiles.
March 23, 2015
I was a part of Joel's adventure out west in the late '60's and even then, his guitar mastery and humor were significant signs that he would leave the world a better place by being a part of it. Bart Miller
Mary & Paul Cultrera
March 23, 2015
Kathy, we are so sorry to learn about Joel's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Virginia Carnahan
March 23, 2015
Kathy - I was shocked and so saddened to read about Joel yesterday. I saw the two of you so seldom but it always was a delight to reconnect. My heart goes out to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Mark Bell
March 23, 2015
I worked with Joel in the late 70s/early 80s in Boston. Wonderful coworker, funny guy, and I bought his Yamaha XS11 when he was done with it in about 81-82... I hope he was living a happy life, and am sad to learn he passed. Seems he enchanted many just by being Joel. RIP Joel.
March 22, 2015
Kathy I am so sorry to read about Joel's passing. My thoughts are with you as you make this transition. May your memories sustain you. Janet Cameron
Peggy Clarke
March 22, 2015
My thoughts are with your family. Joel, and my memories are of you as my classmate in Moorestown, NJ. Your life and your accomplishments will never be forgotten.
March 22, 2015
The world could use more people like Joel in it. Those who knew him well will miss him greatly.
Rich walker, New Hampshire
Carolyn kehrli
March 22, 2015
Joel, your love for Kathy was matched only by your quick wit and easy acceptance of everyone you met. Thank you for the few wonderful times we shared.
David Setzer
March 22, 2015
Joel,
Rest in peace.
I remember you well after so many years.
May God console your family.
Rick Bell
March 22, 2015
I played music in a trio with Van back in the early 70's. He taught me some good guitar & we always laughed a lot. I had recently connected with him and spoke on the phone for an hour a year or so ago, and it was like no time had passed. I'd been thinking of him just last week. Sorry to hear this sad news. Love to family & friends. Take care.
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