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Benjamin Gilkey Obituary

Gilkey, Benjamin Wilson
February 11, 2017
"Since it is so likely that children will meet cruel enemies, let them at least have heard of brave knights and heroic courage." –C.S. Lewis
Once upon a time, there lived a wonderful boy. He had hair of gold, eyes of the ocean, and a lion's heart. His name was Benjamin Wilson Gilkey. Just after his seventh birthday, Benjamin accepted the mighty task of slaying the most vicious monster in the land, Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia. News of the boy's unparalleled gallantry spread. He became known far and wide as Benjamin the Brave, the most courageous of knights. On Saturday, February 11, 2017, after a valiant 772 day conquest, Benjamin, age 9, defeated his nemesis. His final act was his bravest of all, for in conquering his mortal enemy, he sacrificed himself.
When he was not engaged in battle, Benjamin was a happy third-grade student at Southside Elementary School. He was well known for his throwing arm, his innate empathy, and his spicy sense of humor. His favorite things in the world were fishing before dawn with his father, playing football and video games with his brother, and riding his four-wheeler through the South Georgia woods. He loved Roald Dahl books, songwriters who tell stories, and the Tampa Bay Rays. He enjoyed camping, art, science, card tricks and prankery of all kinds. He aspired to attend the University of Florida and to one day open his own restaurant, which would serve, among other things, the best omelets in town. His laugh sounded like sunshine. He asked insightful questions, he gave great hugs, and mostly, to all who knew him, he was a very good friend.
Left behind to honor Benjamin as best we can are his grateful parents, Michael and Laura; his brother Banyan, who made him the happiest of all; and a mighty tribe of loving grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and dear friends.
Benjamin's family would like to extend the deepest of gratitude to the care team at Johns Hopkins All Children's Hospital. We would also like to thank the hundreds of people who have offered selfless acts of kindness during Benjamin's transition.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, March 4th at 2pm at Sarasota Middle School. Please consider honoring Benjamin's bravery by giving blood, or by contributing to The Benjamin Gilkey Fund for Innovative Pediatric Cancer Research. Donations can be made by mailing a check to the Johns Hopkins All Children's Foundation (memo: Benjamin Gilkey), PO Box 3142, St. Petersburg, FL 33731-9954; by phone at (727) 767-4199; or online at www.hopkinsallchildrens.org.

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Published by Herald Tribune from Feb. 17 to Feb. 19, 2017.

Memories and Condolences
for Benjamin Gilkey

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Glenn Acomb

March 6, 2017

Mike and Laura: It is difficult to find words to say, except that Benjamin was indeed a valiant young man and a tribute to his Mom, Dad and brother. I send a warm hug to your entire family from Gainesville and said a prayer yesterday at the United Church of Gainesville, where he was remembered. With love.

Laura Meyer

March 4, 2017

I did not meet Benjamin when he was old enough to remember me, but I do know enough about his sweet mama to know that he was a beautiful, loving spirt. May peace & love surround his family.

Michelle Guzman

March 4, 2017

With love and gratitude

Fred and Janet Leonberger

March 4, 2017

Our sadness is countered only by the beauty of the love which surrounded Benjamin. His joyful spirit is the grace we can carry forward..

JD Gilkey

February 28, 2017

I am custodian of the Gilkey Famliy Tree on Ancestry.

I get notified whenever a Gilkey dies, but I don't always get all the info.

If someone could contact me with some family info and photos then I will add the whole family to the tree. I need lineage back as far as you have.

need dob, marriage, service, dod, burial location, etc

With sincere hope for the family to over come his short life that God gave him, here on earth.

JD Gilkey

Sandy and Duayne Whitehurst

February 27, 2017

To The Gilkey Family,



Our deepest sympathy to you at the lose of dear Benjamin.

Kay Williams

February 24, 2017

Bob and I send our love to all of you. Words are so inadequate to express feelings at a time like this. The best we can do is be thankful for how Benjamin enriched the lives of those around him, and strive to live in ways that honor his spirit.

Donna and Steve Duerwachter

February 24, 2017

My tears are falling like rain. The devastating news came my way, as I was sitting on the "rock" overlooking the water in the beautiful landscaped garden you, Michael, created for us.
Our thoughts are with you and we send our sincerest and deepest condolences to you and your family.

Barton Family

February 24, 2017

The right words can be so hard to find. Please know that we are thinking of you all. Sending our thoughts and prayers that you may find the strength you need to get through each day.

Mark Pochesci

February 22, 2017

May god bless his soul. So sorry to his family for such a huge loss

C Lyons

February 22, 2017

I want to extend my deepest sympathy to your family. I know Benjamin has a deep place in your heart that will always be there. The scripture lets us know that God deeply cares about him too. It also lets us know that he has definitely has plans for mankind that includes the end of death.

Chris Kemp

February 21, 2017

To our family, you celebrated Benjamin's life as no one else could. You all astound me. My deepest condolences and sympathy to all.

Claudia Cleary

February 20, 2017

Laura, to you, Michael, Banyan, and your extended family, I extend my deepest condolences for your loss. Benji was such a brave little warrior, and his fight was impactful to so many people, as was your unity, and love for each other. I know that Benji is free, laughing, and waiting to whisper to you all in your dreams, flit through your house on a cool breeze, and smile at you in the face of a stranger when you least expect it. I will be at your memorial with many tissues in hand on March 4th. Shalom.

Johnel Martin

February 20, 2017

My words at this time will not mean much, so I can only offer you my deepest and most sincere sympathy. I will keep all of you in my prayers and thoughts. I am in awe of your family and the strength, love and power that I have seen first hand and read about in Laura's journal. Love always.

Vickie & Dave DiCasa

February 20, 2017

Our hearts are breaking for you and your family. i gathered my own strength and gratitude from reading your blog, Laura. Thank you for that. May peace find you and you have a wonderful angel watching over you. In our prayers everyday.

February 19, 2017

Dear Laura, Michael and Banyan,
I'm so sorry. I'm keeping you in my prayers still, keeping you all and Benji together in my prayers because he will always be part of you.
With love,
Pat Brennan (Emily's mom)

February 19, 2017

May God give you a peace that surpasses all understanding. May He comfort you through this time. Hold close the precious memories of your brave little boy. My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Gilkey family. ❤

Vicki Pobicki

February 19, 2017

Gilkey Family,
My sincerest sympathy.

Damayanti Blanchard

February 19, 2017

May your soul shine bright little warrior

Michele Monaghan

February 19, 2017

So sorry for your loss Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. God bless

Suzanne Atwell

February 19, 2017

My condolences to the Gilkey family. Benjamin the Brave is surely a testament to extraordinary parents, extended family, and a loving community who all created this most wonderful boy. I will be honored to attend his Celebration of Life.

Lynn Shaffer

February 19, 2017

His bravery inspired me! My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

February 19, 2017

Sending love ❤

Cori Wethington

February 19, 2017

"You know that place between sleep and wake, the place where you can remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~ Peter Pan

Laura, we have many mutual friends and I have been following your journal daily. Please know I send love and light to your family during this part of your journey.

Sonia Fuentes

February 19, 2017

My condolences and love to Benji's family.

Sonia Pressman Fuentes

Koby and Karson Stone

February 19, 2017

So Sorry for your loss, Prayers for everyone.

Josh Stone

February 19, 2017

Love and prayers from Josh Stone, David Wilson's life-long friend. I could only dream of being half as brave as you Lil Buddy.

Amanda Merritt

February 19, 2017

Words cannot express my sympathies for your loss. You are in our prayers. "One day, a son asked his father, "Why is it always the best people who die?"
The father answered, "Son, if you are in a meadow, which flowers do you pick? The worst ones or the best?"
-Author Unknown
Wishing you peace and love on your healing journey. <3

February 18, 2017

A Stranger who cares....

February 18, 2017

For Brave Benjamin and all who fought beside him....I am registered to.... Be The Match....please donate blood and or register to.... Be the Match. My deepest condolences to the Parents, Brother, Grandparents, Family, and Friends of Benjamin. I pray the Promises of Our Heavenly Father sustain you through this unimaginable time and comfort you until you greet your beloved Benjamin again.

Kristopher Baker

February 18, 2017

It sounds like your boy was amazing and strong. I weep with you.

February 18, 2017

We have been following your journey and send our fond wishes on the path forward. Adam and Regina Tebrugge

Rebecca Finklea

February 18, 2017

All our our love and prayers with big hugs to all of you as you cherish your memories and learn to walk through the days ahead.

Kelly Mcritchie

February 18, 2017

Our hearts are full of sorrow for this beautiful family. You can tell that Benjamin was born into the most loving family and they all fought hard with him. Children should not have to carry the burden of cancer, sometimes life here on earth is unfair. May Benjamin live an eternal life with peace and harmony and in the warmth of his gladiator parents and his brothers' forever love. Sleep well angel.

February 18, 2017

Laura,You will never know me but your words have been a gift to the world touching people in ways you could never have imagined. My only prayer is for God to wrap His heavely wings around your family and comfort you until you see Benjamin again.

Mary Wheatley

February 18, 2017

His light of love will glisten in the heavens forever and throw sparkles over the magnificent arcs of his rainbows

Elizabeth Bornstein

February 18, 2017

"The bravest are surely those who have the clearest vision of what is before them, glory and danger alike, and yet notwithstanding, go out to meet it."
-Thucydides
Shine on Benjamin! You and your family have taught us all the true meaning of bravery!
Holding all of you in the light! May peace and love surround you always!

Gale Fulton Ross

February 18, 2017

...and a little child shall lead them. I read most of your posts Laura about Benji's daily ups and downs. Hanging on every word some times in my imagination replacing Benji with one of the healthy children in my family.. I could hardly bare to continue reading. Benji's mom, dad and brother also fought a valiant fight. He lead his little band of brave soldiers well. I sobbed with you, I sobbed for you but most of all I kept reading filling my mind and soul with affection and deep respect for a family named Gilkey. I wish you all many blessing-- you have an angel now named Benji who's earned his wings watching over you.

All us Brocks

February 18, 2017

All our love & continuing prayers--God Bless you--such a beautiful, fitting tribute!

Pamela Anderson

February 18, 2017

Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

lexi abeln

February 18, 2017

surrounding all Gilkeys with eternal rainbow star love. i am so deeply sorry for your loss of Benjamin the Brave. he will always be a true hero, and his story will live on to inspire for always.

Patricia Barichivich

February 18, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. No parent should ever have to go through what you've been through. While I don't know you personally, I've seen this tragedy unfold via a friend. My sincerest sympathy.

Larry Shaw

February 18, 2017

Prayers and Love

Lizzie Lamb

February 18, 2017

Love and prayers to you all

D Kiger

February 18, 2017

I am in awe of your mighty heart. You have shown how hard families play, laugh, love and fight. My prayers are with the Gilkey family.

Meghan Greenwood-Johnson

February 18, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss of Benjamin the Brave. The strength your family has shown is amazing.

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