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Allen D. Verhey

1945 - 2014

Allen D. Verhey obituary, 1945-2014, Durham, NC

BORN

1945

DIED

2014

Allen Verhey Obituary

Allen D. Verhey, 68, of Durham, NC, died at home Wednesday, February 26, 2014, after a long struggle with Amyloidosis.

Allen is survived by his beloved wife of 48 years, Phyllis (DeKruyter) Verhey; his three loving children, Timothy Beach-Verhey of Faison, NC, Elisabeth "Betsy" Verhey of Davidson, NC, and Kathryn Davis and husband, Craig, of Holland; five adored grandchildren, Ryan, Caroline and Janie Beach-Verhey, and Jack and Meghan Davis; and his brothers, Ron Verhey of Grand Rapids and Roger Verhey of Ann Arbor. He was predeceased by his brother, Carl Verhey.

Allen was born in Grand Rapids on May 14, 1945, to the late Richard and Catherine Verhey. He attended Grand Rapids Christian schools, graduating in 1962. After high school, he received his B.A. from Calvin College in 1966, his B.Div. from Calvin Theological Seminary in 1969, and his Ph.D. in Theological Ethics from Yale Divinity School in 1975. He taught for over 30 years in the Religion Department at Hope College before finishing his career as the Robert Earl Cushman Professor of Christian Theology, at Duke Divinity School.

Allen loved being a teacher and a scholar, continuing to teach until six weeks before he died and still working on writing projects until the very end. He wrote or co-authored several books, contributed essays to numerous books and journals, and lectured all over the country and around the world. Among his students and colleagues, he was known for his humility, generosity, and kindness. He was not only a gifted theologian but a faithful Christian, who did not simply write about Christianity but practiced it. This was evident in the way he taught, thought, wrote, and spoke.

In addition to reading books, writing books, and talking about books, Allen also loved Detroit Tigers baseball, Duke basketball, puttering in the yard and playing with his grandchildren. There is nothing he enjoyed more than a good game of wiffle ball on the beach or in the backyard with his family, continuing to participate as all-time pitcher when he could no longer field or run the bases. Allen loved his family and his family loved him. His grandchildren called him different things-some named him "Papa Duke" and others "Pop-Pop Scratchy"-but they all loved him dearly and knew that he loved them.

Allen's family is thankful for his life and mourns his passing but takes comfort in the words of the first question and answer of The Heidelberg Catechism which meant so much to him throughout his life. Q: "What is your only hope in life and in death?" A: "That I am not my own, but belong-body and soul in life and in death-to my faithful Savior, Jesus Christ."

Funeral services will be 4 p.m. Monday in Duke University Chapel. Private cremation will follow. A visitation and vigil service will be 2-5 p.m. Sunday in First Presbyterian Church, Durham, NC.

In lieu of flowers, gifts in Allen's memory may be made to: First Presbyterian Church, 305 E. Main St., Durham, NC 27701, or Duke Divinity School, Box 90968, Durham, NC 27708 or divinity.duke.edu. Arrangements under the care of Hall-Wynne Funeral Service & Crematory. On-line memorials: hallwynne.com.

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Published by The Holland Sentinel on Feb. 28, 2014.

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Heather Leslie Hammer

May 7, 2019

To the family of Dr. Verhey:
I did not know Allen Verhey, except through his book that I am reading now, The Great Reversal. I asked for it at my library because of its title, not knowing what a scholar Dr. Verhey was. Nor did I know that he had died. Today reading one third of the way through the book, I wanted to know more about this author. I googled him and now have arrived at this website.

I want you, his family, to know how Allen Verhey lives on in his life work. I am deeply impressed by his scholarship, his vocabulary, his organized thoughts, and his principled faith. Though much of his book is over my head, I follow his logic and am inspired.

I am a second-career pastor in The United Methodist Church. My dad was a professor too, at Pacific School of Religion in Berkeley. My grandfather taught at Boston University School of Theology. Ethics has been a topic at our kitchen table always.

I offer my genuine condolences and tribute. I wish I could have studied with this man.

Mary Siebers

February 22, 2019

To Phyllis, I am saddened that we have lost touch with you. I continue to hold you up in my prayers as I have done since the day we learned of Allens passing. Please reconnect! Sending my love.

Gary and Pat Nederveld

March 19, 2014

Dear Phyl,
Please know how much we care and grieve for you and your children/grandchildren as you face the time ahead without Al. You are on our hearts and in our prayers. It's hard to convey our sadness and sympathy in words. . . wish we could hug you and cry with you.

David and Karen Kass

March 9, 2014

Phyllis, we are so sorry to hear of Al's death. Dave has fond memories of growing up with his Verhey cousins. We will be praying for you and your family as you go through the difficult journey of missing him.

March 4, 2014

Phyllis,

We were just so sorry to learn of Allen's passing. We have such fond memories of both of you in your years at Hope. May you literally feel the love and prayers of so many that are lifting you up into His Healing Light.
Warmly,
Ray and Sue Smith

March 3, 2014

So sorry to hear about Allen. My sincere sympathy to the family. May Almighty God provide you with comfort and peace during this difficult time of your life (2 Cor 1:3).

Gwen Sherwood

March 1, 2014

I enjoyed working with Allen during his time in Houston. It was a privilege to know such an intelligent yet compassionate and caring man. Gwen Sherwood

Eric Gemmen

February 28, 2014

I will remember Professor Verhey as a thoughtful teacher with a gentle spirit. Prayers and love to his family during this time.

Rev Mary Lokers Merrill

February 28, 2014

Dr. Verhey was a great teacher. It was my honor to take several religion classes from him while he served at Hope College. I read and appreciated many of his books. My favorite was his commentary on the catechism.

February 28, 2014

I remember many bridge games with an avid player. Miss those times. Love and prayers to Phyllis and family. Ann Fredrickson

February 28, 2014

Our Sincere Condolences
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Lynn Stegenga Watkins

February 28, 2014

He was a wonderful teacher. I had him for several religion classes at Hope College.

Fred VanDyke

February 28, 2014

Dr. VerHey was one of my favorite professors at Hope College in the early 80's. He was a humble man who challenged us all to thoughtfully defend our convictions. My sympathy to the family.

February 28, 2014

With deepest sympathy to all. Blessings to you as you walk this journey of grief. Jeanne Engelhard

Mary Siebers

February 28, 2014

Precious memories of being neighbors on South Ottillia in GR, watching our kids grow up together on the sidewalks of Alger Heights.
Jack and Mary Siebers

February 28, 2014

Precious memories of being neighbors, our kids growing up together on South Ottillia Street, Alger Heights, in Grand Rapids, MI.
Jack and Mary Siebers

February 28, 2014

Precious memories of being neighbors, our kids playing together on South Ottillia in Grand Rapids.

Jack and Mary Siebers

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