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David McCarver Obituary

DAVID EDWARD McCARVER died January 31, 2005 in Houston, Texas after a four-year battle with a brain tumor. David was born May 27, 1946 in Wilmington, Delaware to Barbara and O.B. McCarver. David graduated from Jesse H. Jones High School in Houston, TX in 1965. After receiving a BA in Theater Arts from the University of Houston in 1970, he moved to NYC to pursue a career in the theater, where he was an active member of the AFTRA, SAG and AEA unions. David also studied acting with celebrated actress and teacher Uta Hagen. David delighted audiences performing in "Gilbert," "Fishing," "Arms & the Man," and "The Importance of Being Ernest," on New York stages, and acted in regional productions of "The Black, The Blue and The Grey," "The Andersonville Trial" and others. David appeared on television in "The Doctors," "Love of Life," "Sommerset" and NBC's "The Guiding Light." His feature film work included roles in "Crossroads," "Jose Limon, A Life," and "Headin' for Broadway." When not performing, David worked behind the scenes as a dresser for Broadway and Off-B'Way theaters, Lincoln Center's NYC Opera, and the Brooklyn Academy of Music, and directed fellow actors in showcase productions. Over the years, David became interested in Eastern disciplines and became a practitioner of Shiatsu, Reiki and Yoga. David was preceded in death by his father, and is survived by his mother Barbara McCarver and his brother Dan McCarver. A special thanks to David's loyal friends in New York and Houston and to the caring staff of Regency Village Nursing Home, American Hospice and M.D. Anderson Cancer Center. A large and diverse group of people became David's loving family of friends during his more than twenty years in New York. His compassion, humor and spirit will be very missed by many. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, February 5th at Clear Lake Presbyterian Church, 1511 El Dorado Boulevard Houston, TX at 9 A.M.. In lieu of flowers, a donation would be appreciated in David's name to Dr. Marnie Rose Fund, M.D. Anderson Cancer Center, P.O. Box 4486, Houston, TX 77210. For more information call 713 792 3450.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Feb. 3, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for David McCarver

28 Entries

Josh Wick

February 25, 2005

I only knew David briefly. We performed together in a couple of short films I directed in New York. All that I learned from him I absorbed by just being in his presence. He was kind and gentle and thoughtful and wise. He was also one of the most talented actors I have ever worked with.

Thank you, David, for the honor of your friendship and your work.

Neil Eddinger

February 16, 2005

In the name of our mutual love and grief for David, I greet his family and friends and offer my condolences.

I met David sometime in the '80's at the New York City Opera where it was his job to dress me and calm my nerves. If necessary, he would even escort me to the stage to insure I was delivered in time and in appropriate atire. We got to be great friends over the years. We would pursue our shared theatrical passions and try out monologues on each other. We really listened to each other in other ways too.

A cross word never passed between us in all those years.

I met Dan and many of David's friends when David first went to the hospital for brain surgery four years ago.

As I remember that week, I couldn't imagine how David or anyone could withstand such a traumatic event. I always considered from that moment that each day of life David might enjoy was a gift. He certainly made the most of that gift and those four years. I know how exciting it was for him to be studying and working in theater in Texas and having contact with people like Edward Albee.

In all these past years I can't remember anything that David ever expressed that sounded even remotely like self-pity. He accepted the gathering limitations of his illness with dignity and he magnified and sent back all the love he received.

David was a giver and a carer and it is always sad when one of those rare types is lost to us. But remembering David will certainly make me want to try to be a person like him.

We spoke for the last time just a week before Christmas. He was in the same facility as his mother, who was on another floor, I believe. It was a good exchange but we didn't talk as long as usual.

Although we didn't say so, I think we both knew it was our last time.

Well he was a hell of a nice guy and I sure will miss him.

Now maybe I'll just weep a little bit.

Thanks for everything, David.

We'll be in touch.

love,

Neil

CHRISTINA GANDY

February 14, 2005

DAVID AND I WERE "ROOMIES" AT DIFFERENT BUT VERY DIFFICULT TIMES IN OUR LIVES. THE SAME WEEK I WAS RELEASED FROM THE HOSPITAL AND MOVED IN WITH MY AUNT SUE DAVID WAS BROUGHT IN LATE AT NIGHT BY SUE AND RICHARD AND WAS LATER DIAGNOSED WITH THE TERMINAL DISEASE. I HAD BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH A POTENTIALLY FATAL DISEASE MEANING I BETTER START TAKING CARE OF MYSELF, SO IT WAS A NEW BEGINNING FOR BOTH OF US...WE LIKED TO CALL EACH OTHER MIRACLES AND ENJOYED HAVING COFFEE AND EATING OATMEAL IN THE MORNING...AFTER WE MOVED HE OFTEN SAID HE MISSED THOSE MORNINGS..SO DO I. LATER, DAVID SUBLEASED HIS APARTMENT IN NYC TO ME WHEN HE HAD TO MOVE TO TEXAS. I AM FOREVER GRATEFUL TO HIM FOR THIS. DAVID IS A BEAUTIFUL SOUL AND I AM BLESSED TO HAVE KNOWN HIM. HE WILL ALWAYS BE A CREATIVE AND SPIRITUAL INSPIRATION TO ME. LOVE AND LIGHT ALWAYS..CHRISTINA GANDY:)02.14.05

sherry mccarver

February 14, 2005

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can't remember the connection between our families as my granny McCarver has long sinced passed but I did want you all to know that you're being thought of and being prayed for at this sad time.

Sincerely.

Sherry McCarver Bailey

Shirley Miller

February 9, 2005

Dan and Barbara-David was introduced into my life by my cousin Sue Gandy. While our visits together were few and far between, David made an impact on me. What a wonderful, sensitive and heroic man he was. David-soar with the eagles, rest in the beauty.

Raymond Godeke

February 6, 2005

May God Bless you, Mrs. McCarver, with His Peace.

Class of 65

Magie

February 5, 2005

Fly into the light David.

Fly into the light you

loved so much.

We will always love you.

David and friends

sue gandy

February 5, 2005

David, you are and will always be a true light of my life. I embrace your freedom to soar with eagles, angels, and ancesters. God speed your flight. you know my love...forever Sue

Charlene Partington

February 4, 2005

"There is a land of the living and a land of the dead, and the bridge across is love."

David's love for all of us, whose lives he blessed, sent forth a pure energy that has touched me forever. His courage, his acceptance and his faith in God blessed us all. It is my hope that we all now live through David and view our worlds with his enthusiasm and with his certain belief that all that happened to him was part of God's plan. It was a plan David did not question. One that instead, he looked at and wondered how he could best serve. Knowing and loving David has made me a better person and I aspire to both his life and his memory.

Dan, I ask that God bring you and your mother comfort in this sad time for us and this joyous time for David, as he has begun his new journey without pain.

Sincerely,

Holly Laibson

February 4, 2005

Dear sweet David, we will miss you always. Our whole family feels the loss. Dan, you have a lot on your shoulders. Please know that we are thinking of you wishing you well.

ginger grancagnolo

February 4, 2005

David, your true Sprirt is free now,...we are so happy for your victories of courage and faith... God ,our Divine Lover is well pleased to have you home again ..peace

Grace Ben-Ezra

February 4, 2005

David, you were a sweet, kind spirit that touched so many lives in profound ways. I will always think of you under that beautiful cherry blossom tree in Central Park just enjoying being alive. You will be in my heart always.

Love,

Grace

Barbara Stewart

February 4, 2005

I am deeply saddened by David's death, but know it must finally find him at peace. He will be greatly missed by all of his dear friends in the theater community. I only regret that my book, My Year in the Dark With Tony Randall has not yet found publication, but still has promise since Heather Randall, Tony's widow has offered to write the introduction.

In the founding year of the National Actors Theatre, David was an ever-present contributor and deeply loved by all the Company. He will stay forever in my memory, in my book, and in my wonderful photos of him at NAT.

Betsey von Burg

February 4, 2005

My heartfelt condolences to David's family. His gentle and generous spirit will be with us always.

Michael Laibson

February 4, 2005

David has been a quiet yet strongly loving influence on me, my wife, and my kids. His presence in our lives has helped to shape who we are and how we interact with others. I hope that I can be as positive a force as I move forward. He makes me want to try.

We love you David, and will continue to do so forever.

Dan, our thoughts and wishes for strength are with you. Please take care of yourself, physically and emotionally.

Larry Auld

February 4, 2005

Blessings upon you David. You will be remembered with love.

Brad Stratton

February 4, 2005

May the Lord be with his family and friends.

Allan & Nancy Lusky

February 3, 2005

David was one of the most caring, loving, dear men we have ever had the pleasure of calling a friend. He and his wonderful ways will be sorely missed.

Keith Partington

February 3, 2005

My deepest condolences. David was a great friend and teacher to me.

Sebastien Sabatier-Curial

February 3, 2005

Sometime back in 2000, David came to take my Martha Graham dance class at the Graham School in NYC. One day I had brought books about Martha to show the strength of that Woman and the impact she had in our modern theater. After asking if anyone could read excerpts of the book, David read one and was so involved in his reading that he left us with tears of emotion. I shall foverer remember that day where our friendship was born. To our friend David, yours Saba

Beth Durham

February 3, 2005

I met David while working at New York City Opera in the wardrobe department. Although we were both confirmed New Yorkers, we shared a Southern sensibility. I was always comforted by his inate gentlemanlyness. He was a kind and attractive man, and his memory always will bring a smile to my face. Thank you, David, for gracing this world for a while.

Joseph Citarella

February 3, 2005

Danny, My thoughts are with you. So much for you to deal with.

I really loved David and am thinking of him constantly.

With all my good thoughts. Joe

Pat Ponthieu

February 3, 2005

Dear David,

I hold the memories of you close to my heart, your strength, love and compassion will live on in my heart.

We love you David!

Goodbye,

Pat

Jim Bauknight

February 3, 2005

My sincere sympathy. "Thy will be done".

Bran Marah

February 3, 2005

David's creativity, spirit, humor, and generous soul will be greatly missed.

February 3, 2005

Nancy (Carr) Sullivan

February 3, 2005

I know David will be greatly missed. Reflecting back to high school, David was a wonderful person and we shared a great friendship. I will keep his family in my thoughts and prayers and may your memories of David sustain you in the days to come.

Diane Grizzoffi

February 3, 2005

I am so sorry for your loss.

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