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for James Vanderhider
Sponsored by Hallie Vanderhider, Matt's mom.
Harry Herbst
July 5, 2023
Hallie, I hadn´t heard about the passing of your son Matt. Words cannot express my sympathy and empathy I feel for you and your family. May God bless you and welcome Matt with open arms.
Harry
Bailey
June 19, 2008
Family -
I love you guys very much and miss you dearly. Hope you are taking care and remembering what a blessing Matthew was to all of us and how thankful I am that he was in my life!
i love you matthew!
Tiffany
May 5, 2008
Hallie and Michael: Madeline and I will be praying for you this week. I wish there was something we could do to comfort you. We care deeply about both of you. Hallie: Not only was the world blessed by having Matt, but Matt was blessed to have such a wonderful mom. For a couple of years I saw first hand how you put your kids above ALL else. I remember Matt reciting the entire Green Eggs and Ham book verbatim because he said you read to him at night. I remember you frantically running into their birthday party at the rock wall place saying that you had just walked out of an important meeting and weren't sure if you would have a job on monday. I remember you letting the boys skip school and watching three movies back to back at the theater w/ them. I remember that you always seemed to be the team mom for whatever sport, despite the fact that you were one of the only working moms (and talk about a demanding and stressful job you must have had!!!) In the few years I was involved with the boys, you were a real inspiration to me because I saw you spending any free time you had w/ the boys. And from what the boys said about you, I could tell they KNEW they were loved deeply by you, and they loved you in return for all the love and time you gave them. This week I really hope that you reflect on all that you gave to Matt and know that God must have given him to you knowing that only you could pack a lifetime of a mother's love into such a short period of time. Very sincerely, Tiffany
madeline vanderhider
April 14, 2008
hi,hallie this is madeline.just saw the stone.loved it.i think that is a awesome picture of matt.we will stop by in a couple of days.
Tiffany Vanderhider
April 14, 2008
Hallie: Madeline and I were out at the site today. The stone is beautiful; I love the picture and verse. Madeline liked the balloons there, and I told her I bet they were from you. She pushed the balloon holder down as far as it would go into the ground so they wouldn't fly away. You and Michael are in our prayers at night. Stop by and see us some time.
Bailey Ortiz
March 19, 2008
Hi Matthew....
I wish you knew how badly it hurts to live without you. Yet you came to me in one of the most amazing & reassuring dreams I have had since you passed... You made sure that I knew you have never left me and told me repeatedly that you are here with the people you love in everything thing that they do. You & Danny were together and smiling and the both of you seemed more happy than I think I had ever seen you during your time here. The both of you explained how you never left us and mentioned that the only difference was that you could not PHYSICALLY touch us. I don't think thats true Matt... I woke with the feeling of your skin still in my hands... I also woke with the vision of your smile still imprinted in my mind and the sound of your over-joyed laughter still ringing in my ears. I feel you and also Danny.... everyday. If your presence is absent during my dreams of Danny, I tell him that when he sees you, to tell you that I forever LOVE you and miss you. I am always thinking of you Matthew. I just wanted to thank you for coming to me and reassuring me through my dreams that you are STILL here. I woke up in tears and overwhelmed with the feeling of a heavy burden gone from my shoulders & mind... I was happy, because you were happy. I miss you. MY LOVE FOR YOU IS INFINITE. Stay with me and guide me through life.... I couldn't make it if you didn't. I love you.
Hallie & Michael- I miss and love you dearly. It's been too long and I am sorry for that. I hope that you don't hold it against me and I pray we get to spend more time together soon. Love you both very, very much
Rachel Lewis
February 10, 2008
It's been 9months and 3 days since Matt left us, and it still feels like yesterday. He is missed so much by so many. Hallie and Michael i pray for you every day and love you both very much.
Sarah
December 25, 2007
Family!
Just wanted to wish you all a Merry Christmas, and hope you are all doing good! You are all in my prayers.
Matthew, I miss you so much, and visiting with your mom and brother the other night was so wonderful and touching! *Love you*
Bailey
December 23, 2007
Matthew...
i miss you
Bailey
November 20, 2007
love you
Bailey
November 7, 2007
My Matthew ....
You've been gone from us for six months today and it is very hard. I hope you know that you are still just as much a part of my everyday life as you always have been! I just miss you.. I miss having you to call when things aren't going so well, such as now! You were always ready to listen and provide me with helpful tips that would get me through the hard times.... I miss your face, your smile and your laugh. I love you with everything i have and still turn to you for guidance. Your mother and I are as close as ever and I love her as if she is my own mother.. You would be proud of the relationship we share. Things here aren't so pleasant without you but I know that you will be there to put us back up on our feet. Please continue to watch over all of your friends and especially your family. They miss and love you so much! Just wanted to remind you ... you are my lifelong best friend. and I will cherish our friendship for the rest of my days..
til' we meet again, I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND ALWAYS...
~bay
October 4, 2007
Momma V & Michael
I haven't seen either of you in quite some time now.. I miss both of you and will stop by this weekend to visit. I hope the both of you know that Matthew will never be forgotten and we all still think about him everyday. He was the best person i've ever known. Far too amazing not to be remembered. I love all of you and hope you are doing well...
Hallie- thank you for sending the MP3
love your other daugther,
Bailey
Tiffany Vanderhider-Kunz
September 25, 2007
Hallie and Michael: It was nice seeing you. Madeline and I love you both very much, and we are praying for your hearts to not ache so badly. I know you will find the perfect picture and verse for the grave site, and it will be a wonderful tribute. And don't worry--Matt will never be forgotten. He was way too special. Take care of yourself, and don't be afraid to reach out to people when you need help. We will come and visit you and the pups again soon.
Bailey Ortiz
September 18, 2007
I love you... Thank you for watching over me last night ...
You will always be my best friend & i miss you more everyday
Bailey
August 30, 2007
hey matthew
i miss you very much & still think about you everyday. Thank you for everything you have given me in life. Love you forever
August 29, 2007
i'll see you soon buddy and you know we'll fly away
Mom
July 30, 2007
Matt I miss you so much. Every day is such a struggle without you. Michael and I are keeping on with the Astro's streak...when we go, they win...just like when you and I went. I so wish you were with me every day not just in my heart. I love you.
Bailey
July 24, 2007
heard this and it made me think of you.....
" I spent time with an angel, just passing through... now all thats left is this image of you "
love you.
Bailey
July 8, 2007
Hey Matthew....
I definitely missed you on my birthday , it was not the same, but i know you were there looking out for us. I love you so much and can only imagine how wonderful this summer would have been if you were here! I didn't get to come see you yesterday and i apologize... i will get there soon. Well Matthew, i Just wanted to tell you that I love you and miss you....
Cathy Schwarzbach Pettit
June 19, 2007
Dear Jim and Family,
I have such fond memories of you and John from our days at St. Thomas More and Weingarten's #109. You both made such an impact on all who knew you and inevitably your names always come up at reunions. It was under those circumstances that I have recently learned of the sad loss of you son. It is with the deepest sympathy that I write to you today. I extend heartfelt condolences to all your family and pray that the unity, loyalty, humor and love that I remember of the Vanderhiders is helping you to get through each day. As evidenced by the many entries in this guest book, Matt was a true gift to all who knew him and I am sure that he continues to be so with the angels in Heaven. Please remember that there are many who pray for you and your family. May you be able to again find some of the joy that God promises to us.
Bailey
June 19, 2007
i miss you matthew....
Bailey
May 29, 2007
Matthew-
another night where you are the only thing i see in my dreams. i love you. i miss you. i need you
God bless....
Bailey Ortiz
May 22, 2007
matthew- had an interesting dream about you last night. just glad i got to see you and tell you that i love you. keep visiting me. i miss you
Momma V, Michael & the rest of the family - hope your days are getting easier and you are able to smile! take care.
Cindy Carr
May 17, 2007
Hallie, Michael, and Jim - We are so very sorry for the loss that you are experiencing. Matt is a fine young man who will be sorely missed by all those who knew him. We have such fond memories of baseball, Indian Guides, Halloweens, football, Apple Tree preschool, etc. Our prayers will be with all of you during this most difficult of times.
The Carrs - Cindy, Steve, and Tony
Al Cantrell
May 15, 2007
“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name; you are Mine!” (Isa 43:1b)
Jim, Hallie and Michael,
My heart is breaking for you. I cannot begin to imagine your sorrow. It warms me to see how much love and sympathy you are receiving from friends near and far. I know how special Matthew is to you, and I can tell how many lives were touched by his effervescent joy. He is clearly special to the Lord, for He called him home long before any of us would have wanted Him to.
And although the love we send and the prayers we lift up on your behalf cannot stop the heartache, I trust that Matthew would remind us all even now that the separation is temporary – that to live is Christ and to die is gain. The Lord knew this day from the beginning of time. What a gift of grace for Him to have Matthew’s flame burn so brightly and warmly, although seemingly far too briefly.
May He who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think comfort and strengthen you every day.
Al Cantrell
Bailey Ortiz
May 15, 2007
Matt-
service was beautiful....your family did a wonderful job, but it was so hard to say goodbye to you. We all miss you more than you'll ever know. Lex slept with me the other night & kept me up about 90% of the time with her obnoxiously loud snoring =) reminded me of you.... i miss you and i love you! I can't say that enough...
Hope you like your gift and got a good laugh out of Michael and I's gifts to Momma V on mothers day =)
- me
Veronica Davis
May 14, 2007
Vanderhider Family,
I find myself at a loss for words at this most devestating time in your lives. I could not possibly understand how you feel. In your time of grief, please know that you are not alone. The many who love and care for you and your son are praying for you. Through your faith, may you find the peace to lighten your heart and allow you to focus on the many joyous memories Matt's life has left with you. I did not have the pleasure of meeting Matt during his short time here, but I wish I had. His beautiful spirit touched all he came in contact with. Rest assured that he will continue to touch many more lives as he looks down from Heaven. God has called one of his precious angels home and may you find comfort in His embrace.
Always in my thoughts and prayers.
Jacki James KHS English
May 14, 2007
My prayers are with your family during this time. I can only imagine your anguish, but know that God is holding you close.
Tamara Seiter
May 12, 2007
Jim & Hallie,
I remember Matthew as a cute little boy and I am sure he grew up to be a wonderful young man. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love, Tamara Seiter
kristen david
May 12, 2007
i waited on matt SO many times at strack's. he will be greatly missed. i am so sorry for your loss...
Terrie Smith
May 12, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kathryn Maxey
May 12, 2007
Dear Jim,
My heart broke for you and your family as I read of your son's passing. I am so very sorry for all of you. God bless you and yours.
Kathy (Malacord) Maxey
Monti Brewer
May 11, 2007
Dear Jim - Kathy Maxey and I knew you and your brother, John when you worked at Weingarten's on Gessner. We worked down the way at Rolando's. When we heard this tragic news, our hearts broke. You and your family are in our prayers. Remember, Jesus is walking through this with you, lean on Him.- Love from Monti and Kathy
Barbara Onorato Falkenhagen
May 11, 2007
My deepest sympathy in your loss.
I was friends with your Aunt Connie at Fox and Jacobs many years ago.
My prayers are with the family.
Gregg and Angela Blanchard
May 11, 2007
Dear Vanderhider family,
I am honored to have known and coached Matt in the 7th grade. Matt wasn't the best athlete but he would always pour his heart out on the field. He would always come runnin off the field with his helmet wobbling around and he would stand next to me ready to go back in. When I would look around the sideline Matt stood there looking at me with the funniest lookin smile and eyes shining bright. In you go Matt, go make a tackle. The one thing that stands out and I still use Matt as an example is when Matt tried out for basketball his 7th grade year. God did not really bless Matt to be a basketball player but he had the heart of one. Matt was probably the hardest cut I ever had to make as a coach. Vanderhider family thank you very much for giving me the opportunity to coach Matt and Mike. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dawn McDonald
May 11, 2007
Dear Vanderhider family,
There is nothing in this world worse than the death of a child and in this pain we do know how you feel. And our hearts are broken with yours. When we think of Matt we can't help but smile. There is no one on earth or in Heaven like him. The time on the Rams with you all brings such good memories. We are here when ever you need us.
Tom, Dawn, Jon,and Amanda McDonald
and our little Laura from Heaven
THEODORE SR MCKINNEY
May 11, 2007
HALLIE& MIKE
This is coach THEO MCKINNEY as u know I love MATT&MIKE like were my own sons. MATT was really special to me because he looked just like me in stature when I was coaching him.The Klein Rams would have never been the same without him. Ilove each and everyone of my boys,I say my boys because,those years I had with MAT and the other young men I hold very very close to my heart.
SINCERLY
COACH THEO MCKINNEY SR
I LOVE U GUYS
Betsy Scardino (Lauren Blair's mom)
May 11, 2007
I grieve with you in the loss of your son.
Rick and Rosanne Oliver
May 11, 2007
Dear Hallie, Jim, and Michael.
We are so sadden by your lost of Matthew. My God bring you much comfort and peace at this time of sorrow. You are in our prayers and in our hearts.
In His loving care,
Rick and Rosanne Oliver
Chasity Jimenez
May 11, 2007
Hallie & Michael
I send my condolences to you and your family.I never got to meet Matt personally but my mom (clemencia) highly talked about him and always had wondeful things to say about him ,it's unbeliveable that God could take such a heart touchin, intelligent young man.Even though Matt was young i belive he lived his life to the fullest with no doubts of looking back but looking towards an amazing future.
Tiffany Vanderhider Kunz
May 11, 2007
Matt:
For about the last 5-6 years, I have thought about you "literally" every single day. Once your stepsister Madeline started to talk well and get her own little personality, I noticed that she had SOOOO many of your mannerisms. She says the most outlandishly funny off-the-wall things that crack me up, just the way you did when I knew you. All her friends tell me Madeline is the class clown. She wears her feelings on her sleeve, just like you did. If Madeline is mad, everybody knows it. If she is happy, everybody knows it. She stomps out of the room when she is mad, and she has the biggest belly laugh you have ever heard when she is happy---just like I remember you around that age. I will think of you every day because I see you in my daughter. It was a pleasure being your step-mother. When I told Madeline you died we were at the park Madeline held me while I cried my eyes out. A flood of memories came back that I shared with her. I hadn't thought of it for 10 years, but I remember that we ALWAYS had to go eat at Dirty's because that was your favorite restaurant. And I remember you yelling up the stairs to the maid: "Josefa, "Foootbaaaaall!!!!" That was her cue to run around and find all your football gear quickly so you could get dressed. Your dad would admonish you for it. I always laughed. But a moment that Madeline and I have shared many times over the years and laughed until we cried is when we talked your dad into letting us hot wax his back. You made me hide the video camera and film it without your dad's knowledge. You would pull the wax off really slowly on purpose so your dad would scream in pain. I am so glad I have that day on film because we all laughed until we cried it was so funny that your dad would let us do that to him. The world is missing a wonderful person, but there are a lot more angels laughing in Heaven because of your great personality. You will always be in my heart.
Darby Sere
May 11, 2007
Hallie and Jim,
Judy and I are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. May God to give you the strength, faith and hope to endure this terrible tragedy.
Harper, Ken, Zachary, Celia and Julia Shank
May 11, 2007
Dearest Hallie, Jim, and Michael,
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss and cannot even imagine the pain you must feel. We often do not understand God's plan, however, God will not abandon you and your family during this time.
Please know that your friends and family are here for you always.
Love,
The Shank Family
Lisa Bowman
May 10, 2007
Dear Hallie, Jim, and Michael,
How deeply sad we were to learn of Matt's passing. We have fond memories of soccer, baseball, Indian Guides and more as we shared in watching him grow up. Matt cherished family, always eager to share his family and home with with his many friends. Matt's smile, twinkle in his eye and spirit for life are a treasure to hold. We pray for God's comfort and blessings upon you.
Lovingly,
Brad, Lisa,Kyle, Emily and Avery Bowman
Sarah Ray
May 10, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless
Janice Hanlon Melhorn
May 10, 2007
Dear Jim and Family,
I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. May God bless you with strength, courage, peace and comfort all the days of your lives. I know Matt's parting has left a huge void but please try to fill it with remembered joy.
God Bless you all.
Susan Sattler
May 10, 2007
Jim
My heart goes out to you and your family. Our children were the same age and grew up as part of Torch Energy's family in the early 90's, Your entire family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Pat Victor
May 10, 2007
Jim, Hallie, and Michael - We were deeply saddened to hear of Matt’s passing. Our families paths have crossed many times over the years – work, school, sports – and Matt was always a joy to be around. We cannot imagine the grief you must feel, but know that you are all in our prayers.
The Victor Family
Vance, Pat, Megan and Weston
San Diego, CA
Sarah Ray
May 10, 2007
Matthew,
Thank you so much for all that you have taught me throughout life. I will never forget all the wonderful things you did for me and all the great times we spent together. I wish you were still here with me and your family but that’s being selfish because I know you’re in a better place watching over us. I also want you to know you have impacted my life greatly and I have learned so much through our relationship and your family. I love you with all my heart and please lead me in the right direction in life. Thanks again for all that you have done!
“Momma V” and Michael,
I love you both so much and know this is going to be hard but we will get through this as time progresses. Thanks so much for the support you have given me throughout my life and thank you for all the wonderful things you have done. God and Matthew are watching over us and we all know that Matthew is safe up there and would want us to be happy. I love you guys so much! God Bless
Sydney Miller
May 10, 2007
Matt,
From the first day I met you, you have been an amazing friend. I could always talk to you about anything and you were willing to listen. Not a day goes by when I don't think about you. I love you and I always will. Watch over everyone and help us stay strong.
Your family is in my prayers!
Melisse Reynolds
May 10, 2007
Hallie,
My thoughts and prayers are with and your family during this difficult time. God bless.
Donna Patton
May 10, 2007
To the Vanderhider family:
I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you in your time of grief.
Donna Patton
A mother
May 10, 2007
Blessed are those who mourn,
for they will be comforted.
Matt. 5:4
I have often reflected upon this beautiful truth and found it the greatest and surest comfort in time of mourning. A firm faith in the real and continual presence of our loved ones has brought the conviction and consolation that death has not destroyed them, nor carried them away. Rather it has given them life! A life with power to know fully and to love perfectly. With this new life and new power our loved ones are always present to us, knowing and loving us more than ever before. The tears that dampen our eyes in times of mourning are tears of homesickness, tears of longing for our loved ones. But it is we who are away from home, not they! Death has been for them a doorway to an eternal home. They are still with us, lovingly and tenderly waiting for the day when we, too, will enter the doorway of our eternal home. It is such a mistake to see death as separation and nothing more. For us who believe, death is a preparation for eternal union with those we love, in the peace and joy of heaven.
God Bless your hearts and family.
Melinda White
May 10, 2007
Jim,
My heart is heavy for you and your family. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Jo Ann White
May 10, 2007
Jim,Hallie and Michael
Words can not express enough how heavy my heart was to learn of Matt's passing away. May god bless each one of you during this difficult period.
Cherye-Ann McNamee
May 10, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember him when he was just a little guy at one of the Torch picnics. I cannot even begin to imagine how hard it is to lose a child. My heart goes out to you.
Megan Sheler
May 10, 2007
Mattie-
You were an amazing person in every way. You are by far one of the funniest and kindest people I have ever met. You will never be forgotten and could never be replaced. Life would not have been the same without having at least known you. Thank you for all of the laughter and great times you have given to me and my family. We will love you always!
Kathy Kelley
May 10, 2007
Hallie
Your Christ the Good Shepherd family grieves with you. It seems like just yesterday the boys were preparing for First Communion.You are in our prayers as are both your beautiful boys.
BJ Bertrand
May 10, 2007
I worked with Matt's uncle (John Vanderhider) at American Exploration in the late 80's.
I extend my sincere sympathy to Matt's family and dear friends.
May the days to follow be filled with God's grace until you meet again.
Michelle Marshall
May 10, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jody Thompson
May 10, 2007
Jim,
My deepest sympathy for the loss of Matt. My heart aches for you and your family. May God bless and comfort you.
Ann & Ron Kaesermann
May 10, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
lauren hand
May 10, 2007
matt! when i think of you, i htink of all the coutless times we had with your smile! that smile will stick with us forever, we know you are watching down on us and keeping us safe. we love you and i will miss you...and hearing your nickname you had for me!!
love always,
lauren hand
The Todd Guest Family
May 10, 2007
Jim & Hallie,
Words can not express enough how heavy our hearts were to learn of Matt's passing away. Matt was such a sweet kid and we watched him grow up into a fine young man. Take comfort in the light he shined on us all while here. May god bless you during this difficult period.
Ann Young
May 10, 2007
Hallie,
Bill and I are so deeply sorry to hear of your great loss. We pray for God's blessings and comfort to you and your famiy.
With love,
Ann & Bill Young
Billy Stevens
May 10, 2007
I worked with his Aunt Marilyn at Pennzoil. It is sad to learn of his passing at such a young age. My thoughts and prayers are with Matt's family during this time.
May God continue to bless you and may you find comfort in him in the days ahead.
Charles Schulz
May 10, 2007
Hallie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow. God bless.
Charles, Dawn, Thomas & Michael Schulz
Jill Luera
May 10, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. God be with you.
The Luera Family
Spring,Texas
Cynthia Cristian-Greene
May 10, 2007
As a close friend to Matt's Aunt Marilyn, and as an Aggie Mom, my heartfelt condolences to Matt's family. At the next Silver Taps and next year's Muster, know that I will accompany my two Aggies in rememberance of this young man. God bless you during your time of sorrow!
Belinda Ibenthal
May 10, 2007
Our deepest sympathy for your family.
God Bless
ELIZABETH SMITH
May 10, 2007
HALLIE,
I WANT TO SEND MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
MY HEART TRULY BREAKS FOR YOUR LOSS, AS ALSO BEING A PARENT, I CAN'T IMAGINE GOING THROUGH YOUR PAIN. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS.
ELIZABETH SMITH
Richard Griffis
May 10, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Joseph Small
May 10, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Bailey Ortiz
May 10, 2007
Matt-
just so you know.. you will always be my very best friend. I can't imagine how things are going to be without you i just hope that you will guide us through this every step of the way and visit us every now and then. I never thought i would have to say goodbye to you this soon, i always pictured you being my MAID OF HONOR at my wedding ;) just joking.... but i will you miss you Matt more than you will ever know. I have something for you that I am going to give your mom. Hallie (Momma V), i also have something for you. I am going to miss your laugh and mostly your crooked smile and the countless family dinners i have shared with all of you. You & your family mean to world to me and have since day one. Thank you for all of the fun times and wonderful memories that you left with me,i hope you cherish them as much as i do. Hallie, Michael & the rest of the family.... me and my family keep you in our prayers and send our love. Keep your head up, he would want all of us to be happy. JMV- take care of your friends and family... nothing will be the same without you, but i can't wait to see you again! our friendship is endless, i love you forever and always and will miss you more than words can express.
i love you James Matthew Vanderhider
-Bay
Mom
May 10, 2007
My dearest son,
I will love you all the days of my life. You have brought me more joy than I believed possible and I will continue to try and learn from your example. You are the finest human being I know. I know you are united with Grandaddy and I must take comfort in knowing that you are safe and at peace with our Lord.
Tom Clay
May 10, 2007
We are praying for the Vanderhider family. Tom, Leslie, Courtney, Chase & Christa Clay.
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