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Alan Durocher Obituary

Durocher, Alan J. "Dobie"

Alan J. "Dobie" Durocher, age 64, of 3028 - 37th St. Two Rivers, died peacefully at home early Saturday morning, April 13, 2013, with his loving family at his side.

Alan was born June 19, 1948 in Two Rivers, a son of the late Frederick and Isabel (Brault) Durocher. He attended schools in Two Rivers and was a 1966 graduate of Washington High School. On November 16, 1974, he married Carol Tappa at St. Joseph's Catholic Church in Oconto. He worked for Fisher Hamilton Company of Two Rivers for 43 years.

Alan enjoyed golfing, playing in a long-standing Wednesday night league. He also enjoyed spending time with friends and family at his cabin in Lakewood, Wisconsin; hunting, fishing, and kayaking on the many nearby lakes. He and Carol were avid Badger fans, following the team to several bowl games in recent years.

He will especially be remembered for how he found his own special way to take care of those around him. From helping a neighbor with a project, to babysitting for his granddaughter a few days a week, to stocking up on things he knew his family liked; he was always thinking of little ways that he could help and ways to make sure "his girls" were taken care of.

Survivors include his wife, Carol; his three daughters: Allison Durocher & husband, Carlos Tarazona, and their daughter, Frances of Chicago, IL; Katie Durocher & Michael Bateman, and daughters, Isabel and Alexis of Francis Creek; Elizabeth & husband Christopher Schwantes, of Oregon, WI and their daughter, Anna & expected daughter, Elana, to be born on Grandpas birthday; and Stephanie Raasch, and her family. Alan is further survived by a brother, Patrick Durocher of Madison; two sisters, Rachael (David) Bartz, Sturgeon Bay, and Renee Stefaniak of Milwaukee; two brothers-in-law, Richard (Mary Ann) Tappa of Appleton, Michael (Kathy) Tappa of Howard; along with several nieces, nephews, other relatives & friends. In addition to his parents, he was also preceded in death by a brother, Alfred Durocher; a sister, Gemma Chase; father-in-law & mother-in-law, Rollard and Marion Tappa; and a brother-in-law, Paul Tappa.

Funeral services will be held at 11:30 a.m. Thursday, April 18, 2013 at St. Peter the Fisherman Catholic Church, 3218 Tannery Rd. Two Rivers. Officiating at the Mass of Christian Burial will be Rev. Tom Reynebeau, with burial in Forest View Cemetery at a later date.

The family will greet relatives and friends at St. Peter the Fisherman Catholic Church, Thursday morning from 9:30 a.m. until the time of mass at 11:30 a.m. There will be no Wednesday evening visitation.

In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund will be established to help benefit cancer patients at the Aurora Medical Center.

Deja & Martin Funeral Chapels, 1506 - 18th St. Two Rivers is assisting the Durocher family with funeral arrangements.

Alan's family would like to extend a special thank you to Dr. Andrew Yetter, the caregivers at Aurora Medical Center, the staff of the Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic, and the Aurora VNA Hospice team for the loving care and compassion shown to Alan and his family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Manitowoc Herald Times Reporter on Apr. 15, 2013.

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April 20, 2013

Alan's Family...I am truly sorry!You are in my thoughts and prayers. Linda Timm Tipping

Chris Nelson

April 19, 2013

Carol and girls, I was so sad to hear of Dobie's passing, I remember your visit to FL many years ago and was always sorry we lost touch. I have fond memories of Dobie in high school being a great friend, always there when you needed a friend. Please accept my deepest sympathy and know that he will live on with memories of good times. God bless you all.

Kriss Flentje-Adams

April 18, 2013

To the Durocher Family:

My sincere sympathy goes out to you. Not only was Dobie a great classmate, He was also a "Hamiltonian". We spent some fun times together both in High School and at work. God rest your soul.

April 18, 2013

Carol and family, Our heartfelt sympathy to all of you. Dobie was always such a fun and friendly guy. He will surely be missed by all who knew him.
Jane Hurst & Doug Rohde

April 17, 2013

Katie and Carol and family, you are all in our thoughts and our prayers and my deepest heartfelt sympathies go out to you. May God help you to find peace and comfort during this difficult time. Karen, Emily and Craig Schultz

Kevin Timm

April 17, 2013

Carol and girls,so sorry to hear about Dobie. I will cherish many memories of "shooting the bull" with him. He was always happy go lucky, seemingly never letting anything bother him, and always willing to give a hand! My thoughts and prayers with you and your family as we remember all the good times spent with Alan.

Renee Durocher Stefaniak

April 16, 2013

Alan's legacy will be one of thoughtfullness and kindness. Thank you to everyone who let us know how he was loved.

Glen and Gloria Koenig

April 16, 2013

Sorry to hear about Alan, He was very close to his Aunt Alice Koenig.

Jane & Peter Sweetman (Sinkula)

April 16, 2013

Our sympathies to Alan's family. I remember Alan from grade school and high school, but especially as part of the "old neighborhood" and lots of fun times at Vets Park. May he be at peace.

Reyne & Jim Schepper

April 16, 2013

Thinking of you Carol and your family during this sad time. Always got a friendly hello from Alan, sending prayers your way.

April 16, 2013

Met Dobie when I was 8 yrs. old. He and my brother Dick hung out at the house. Worked at Hamilton's and interacted with him alot. Used to golf and play sheephead with him at Golden Nugget where Ron Emond dubbed the nickname Padre. Knowing him for 49yrs. was priceless. He will be missed.the Wachowski Families Keith and Dick.

Angel Heinemann

April 16, 2013

I know Dobie through Mike and Lovey. Such a kind and wonderful man. I will miss seeing him in Lakewood and teasing him about stealing some beer from his cottage!

My sincerest condolences to his family and friends. May your memories of him warm your heart throughout all your days.

Laura Grant

April 16, 2013

Carol: My condolences on your loss. I am so sorry to hear and wish you God's love and protection.

Tina Downing

April 16, 2013

Dobie was a great man to work with and learn from. My thoughts go out to his family.

April 15, 2013

Renee and family, you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure. Alan was a treasurer.

Sharon Bauknecht and Karen Bauknecht Van Sistine

Louise Wos

April 15, 2013

Our Thoughts and Prayers go out to Carol and her Family. May Dobie rest in peace!!

Mike Ahearn

April 15, 2013

A truly great guy always ready to help out somewhere. You will be missed. I know you were on the Express Train to Heaven you earned it.

Barb & Al Peroutka

April 15, 2013

Rest in Peace Dobie, You will be missed. Our deepest sympathy to Dobie's family.

Luann Peters

April 15, 2013

Dobie was a great friend and always willing to help me on a personal or professional issue, he would never say no to anything I asked of him. I will cherish the memories of him the rest of my life, he always put others first and himself last. He was a mentor to many people, I am so privledged to have the opportunity to know him for 25 years.

Debi Kasten

April 15, 2013

My thoughts and sympathy to you Carol & your family.

April 15, 2013

I will miss Dobie - especially "Lakewood Dobie" - kayaking - teaching him how to catch fish and sitting around his campfire.

April 15, 2013

Another of our class gone to sing with the Angels. Rest in peace Dobie. Classmate of '66 Jenine Disjardin Soucoup

Richard Altergott

April 15, 2013

RIP my friend! My sincere sympathy to the family. He graduated with my brother. Saw him this last summer at Neshoto Park at a reunion Bill Glandt had. Had a nice chat with him about the past and the present. Used to have a few cold ones together at the local bars we hung out at. Good times.

One Sunday afternoon

Tom Stefl

April 15, 2013

I knew Dobie briefly in Madison about 1970. I remember him as being a real nice quiet guy. I recently stumbled across the attached old photo from back then and sent it to him at an address that I had. Hope he received it, hope he enjoyed it. My condolences.

Richard Altergott

April 15, 2013

So sorry to hear of Al's passing. He was a good friend to my brother and me. Many good times. Just saw him this past summer at Neshoto Park at a reunion Bill Glandt put together. Had a nice chat with him about the past and present. He will be missed. Again I am so sorry for the family and your loss. RIP my friend!

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