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Edgar Self Obituary
EDGAR "ED" RAY SELF
Jan. 10, 1944 - May 30, 2010
Edgar "Ed" Ray Self, 66, of Calipatria passed away May 30, 2010. Ed was a cherished son, husband, father, grandfather, brother and uncle and was loved for his humor and captivating smile. His family was his most valued possession and his proudest moments were cheering for his grandsons Matthew, Gabriel, Edgar and Austin in the field of play. He loved camping with family nd jusst being with his sons Brandon and Eddie. His daughters Linda and Claudia were his princesses who he adored. He was a dedicated son to his mother Oneita Self. Martha, Ed's wife was continually by his side as his loving partner.
Ed is well known for his 35 years of service to the students of Calipatria High School wearing many hats as Teacher, Coach, Athletic Director, Vice Principal, Interim Principal and School Board Member. Affectionately nicknamed "Pops" by his students, Ed believed anything was possible. In Addition to his service to Calipatria High School, he was also a member of the American Legion and St. Patrick's Church. Ed was also proud of his service with the U.S. Navy as he served aboard the USS CHicago (CG-11) during the Vietnam War.
Ed was preceded in death by his father, Edgar A. Self.
Edgar is survived by his wife, Martha Self; mother, Oneita Self; sons and daughters-in-law, Brandon and Linda Self and Edgar and Claudia Self; grandsons, Matthew Self, Gabriel Laguna, Edgar and Austin Self ; brother Jon Self and wife Dian; sisters, Wyna Gilbert and husband John, Sandra Cooper and husband Byron and SueAnne Watkins; father-in-law and Mother-in-law, Leo and Jeanne Haggarty; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Services for Ed were held on June 5, 2010.
In lieu of flowers contributions can be made to the Pioneers Hospital Foundation.
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Memories and Condolences
for Edgar Self
Joan Hill
July 1, 2010
I am so sorry for you loss Martha. What a blessing to have had Ed Self as a husband and father. You and your sons will be in my prayers.
Connie Fanning (Sharp)
June 26, 2010
So sorry to hear all of you have had to endure such a loss. I am so sorry and have you in my thoughts and prayers. You know Mr. Self and my Dad are in heaven making plays for the Lord's football teams...May you find comfort knowing you will be with him again.
Brian Steen
June 18, 2010
Ed, we will miss you. I had the pleasure to teach at the same school with Ed from 1981-1983 and he showed me that tough and big-hearted could co-exist. I can hear your cowboy boots in Heaven.Love, The Steen Family
Juana Hisel - Braxmeyer
June 15, 2010
To: Family Self, So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Aprilyn Diaz
June 10, 2010
Mr. Self was a nice man. I will remember him as one of my teachers, coaching, a man of faith, a family man.
May wonderful memories of him comfort you, his loving family, during this difficult time.
Rest in Peace Mr Self.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
June 10, 2010
Hey Coach,
May peace be upon you and yours in this difficult time.
RK Allen and family
Vicky Trejo
June 8, 2010
Self Family so sorry for your loss. God Bless
James Gow
June 8, 2010
Please accept my condolences. Mr Self made this world a better place. As my coach in football he taught me many things, not only how to be tough and always to give 110% but to also respect others. He always had passion for whatever he participated in, he was truly a leader and I will miss him.
I thank the lord for the opportunity of having known Mr. Self. Rest in peace Coach.
Claudia Beverlin
June 7, 2010
Coach Self was a great coach and very nice person. I took stats for the wrestling team when I was in high school (1976) and he was loved and admired by all of us. He always made us laugh, truly one of my favorite teachers. I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts and prayers to all of his family.
Joan and Brad Bush
June 7, 2010
To Martha and all of Ed's loved ones, We are deeply sorry for your loss.
He was a wonderful man.
Rob Wyatt
June 7, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with the Self family during this time of sorrow. May God give strength to those who are mourning during this difficult time.
June 6, 2010
My brother, Ed, was loved by all and we will miss him.
Love,
Sandy
Will Torrez
June 6, 2010
Brandon and family sorry to hear about youre Father.Not to many people remember that he was our Coach back in '82' good guy.God bless you guys.
Tom Watkins
June 5, 2010
To Martha,Brandon,Eddie and the rest of the Self Family. I am very sorry for your loss and may God ease your pain and give you strength through these trying times.Ed,you will be missed.
Janet Underwood
June 5, 2010
Martha and family, sad to hear of your loss, I enjoyed having Mr. Self as a teacher in my years of Calipat high. He will be truly missed, remember the great memories.
Pauline Villalba
June 5, 2010
May God Bless your family in this time of sarrow. Mr. Self touched so many lives. He will forever be part of you and the lives he touched. We are truely blessed to have known him. May god guide you through these hard times.
Jr, Nora, Daniel, etc. Banaga
June 5, 2010
Mrs. Self, we pray that God graces you & your loved ones with peace during this time. May you find comfort in knowing you walk with the Lord through all things. We will never forget the spot Mr. Self always took with you at Sunday Mass on the side pews. There he will remain forever in our memories. God bless you.
Juan and Lilia Salinas
June 4, 2010
To the Self family, our deepest condolences. Mr. Self was a great Man and teacher, he will be missed.
Colleen Lovecchio
June 4, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Gary & Tunisia Stanford & Family
June 4, 2010
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Gary & Tunisia Stanford & Family
June 4, 2010
Mrs.Self & Family
No one can know or understand when those we love leave this earth too soon before we are ready to say goodbye.May you find comfort in knowing that he is resting in the loving arms of Our Saviour Jesus Christ. Mr.Self was a Honest Respectful man full of Integrity I count myself blessed to have known him.
Jim & Debbie Turner
June 4, 2010
Sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers go out to your Family in this time of sorrow. Please take comfort in knowing that he will be greatly missed and we were blessed to have known him.
June 4, 2010
Mrs.Self & Family,
Sending a gentle hug your way,To comfort you,And to let you know that you’re on my mind and in my heart.
Mr.Self was a great friend and will forever be missed.
Korina Sampson
oscar Martinez
June 4, 2010
My condolences to the Self family. Ed Self was my wrestling and football coach in High School. One of the nicest men that has made an impact on my life. My thought and prayers go out to the family.
Oscar Martinez
valdez
June 4, 2010
Mrs. Self & Family our deepest condolences and prayers go to you & yours in this trying time. Valdez family
Ramon & Bonnie Verdugo
June 4, 2010
Shocked & saddened to hear about the passing of a great wrestling & football coach, teacher, & member of the community-a great man. Sorry for your loss Martha and family and grateful to have known him. May you soon find comfort from your grief in the happy memories of your time spent together. Sincerely.
Cassie Bailey (Turner)
June 3, 2010
To Mama Self, Martha, Brandon, Eddie & family, my prayers go out to you & your family in your time of sorrow. Mr. Self will be dearly missed, he was a great a Man.
June 3, 2010
We were saddened to learn of Ed's passing. He was a good hardworking man. We have fond memories of him. Our sympathy to the family. Homer Stiff
sandy george
June 3, 2010
to mama self, martha, brandon, eddie and the rest of the family....remember all the good times...too young too soon.....
Maria Ambriz
June 3, 2010
Martha, Brandon, & Eddie:
Please accept my condolences on Mr. Self's passing...I still find it hard to believe! My prayers for him and for you, as you deal with such irreparable loss.
Maria Ambriz
June 3, 2010
TO THE SELF FAMILY; MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND THE FAMILY DOING YOUR TIMEOF SORROW. MR. SELF WILL BE MISSED BY A LOT OF PEOPLE. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. THE HUNTER FAMILY (CALIPATRA AND BRAWLEY)
Marisa and John Muse
June 3, 2010
Martha, Brandon, Eddie, and family:
We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
June 3, 2010
My deepest condolences to the Self family. Former student-Calipatria high
Johnny & Dora Chavez
June 3, 2010
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
June 3, 2010
You will forever remain in my heart uncle Ed I love you. - Michelle watkins
Sue Ann Watkins
June 3, 2010
I love you Ed
Diane Harris
June 3, 2010
My condolences to Mr. Self's family. I remember when he first started at Calipat as the assistant football coach, all the girls thought he was so handsome! Thirty years later I had the pleasure of working with him at the same high school. I respected him, found him a pleasure to work with and enjoyed his dry sense of humor. He will be missed. Diane Harris
Fernando Zepeda
June 3, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Self family. Mr. Self you will be missed.
June 3, 2010
We were saddened to learn of Ed's passing. He was a good hardworking man and we have fond memories of him. Our sincere symbathies to his family. Homer Stiff
June 3, 2010
to mama self, martha, brandon and eddie.....so sorry to hear of ed's passing....he and i worked many years together at calipatria high school....to lose a son, a husband, and dad is never easy and never the right time.....remember all the good times.........martha - you were the best thing to happen in ed's life.....and the boys are terrific young men.....you can be proud of that for sure....take care....thinking of all of you......sandy george
sandy george
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