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Donald Flynn Obituary
Donald "Don" Flynn of Herndon, VA passed away on January 19, 2014 surrounded by his family. Born in 1952, Don grew up in Chalmers, Indiana. He left home at the age of 18 to become a clerk at FBI headquarters in Washington, DC. He quickly moved on to his dream job as an officer with Fairfax County Police Department, where he worked as he put himself through college. In 1980, he became an agent with the U.S. Secret Service where he served on the Reagan and Clinton Details, among many other assignments. At the time of his death, he was Vice President of Security Strategies of Disney Parks and Resorts.
Don is survived by his wife of 23 years, Kam (Kathy) and his sons, Jack and Joe; his mother, Carol; his brothers, Clifford and Carl; his sisters, Linda and LouAnn; as well as many loving nieces, nephews, cousins and in-laws. A Service of Prayer and Remembrance will be held at St. Anne's Episcopal Church in Reston, VA on Sunday, January 26 at 7:00 pm. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Anne's on Monday, January 27 at 10:30 am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to one of Don's favorite non-profits: Concerns of Police Survivors or KaBOOM!
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Memories and Condolences
for Donald Flynn
Jose A. Brown
January 17, 2025
To KAM and Family,
Remembering a close friend and colleague who will always be remembered.
Cherish the beautiful moments that you shared with him.
Jose A. Brown
Ret-USSS
Andrea Hogan
January 17, 2025
Don helped me and directed me while we were in Hqs. He also loved participating in fun times we shared full of laughs. Jam I so enjoyed the events we shared!
Traveling north in the snow to celebrate Don´s life I´d do it again
Jose A Brown
January 17, 2024
To Kam and Family,
Don's friendship will always be remembered and cherished.
When I think of dedication to the Secret Service and being "Worthy of Trust and Confidence" that defines Don Flynn..
Hang in there "Kam,"God is there with you and your family.
Greatly respected and missed!
Deacon Jose A. Brown
Ret-USSS
Jose A Brown
January 17, 2022
Dear Kam and Family,
Just a brief note to let you all know that the memory of your husband, father (Dad), and our colleague still flickers like an eternal flame.
Don's friendship is truly missed, but his legacy of being a good and decent person, will always be remembered and respected.
Kam, you the family will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Blessings and Prayers,
Deacon Jose A. Brown
Retired-United States Secret Service
Sr. Principle Analyst - SAIC
Jose A. Brown
Coworker
Jose A. Brown
January 17, 2021
January 17, 2021
Dear Kam and Family,
The wonderful memory of your husband, father (Dad), and our colleague and friend still flickers like an eternal flame.
Don's friendship is truly missed, but his legacy of being a good and decent person, will always be remembered and respected.
Kam, you and you family will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Blessings and Prayers,
Deacon Jose A. Brown
Retired-United States Secret Service
Sr. Principle Analyst - SAIC
Jose A. Brown
Coworker
Jose Brown
January 17, 2021
In Memory of "Don."
Jose A. Brown
January 17, 2021
Dear Kam and Family,
The wonderful memory of your husband, father (Dad), and our colleague and friend still flickers like an eternal flame.
Don's friendship is truly missed, but his legacy of being a good and decent person will always remembered and respected.
Kam, you and you family will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Blessings,
Deacon Jose A. Brown
Retired-United States Secret Service
Sr. Principle Analyst - SAIC
Helen Morrison
January 17, 2021
RIP-Don Flynn, my friend! Your smile and humor are missed here on earth. You were joined by another academy friend and colleague last year. Don't get into too much mischief up there together. Look out for us as 2020 was a rough year for all.
Tillie Kukulka
February 21, 2014
My sister, Dolores Michels, and I are so sorry to hear about Don. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. He will be missed.
Ezzat naghdi
February 16, 2014
To the Kam, Jack, Joe,It was a shock to hear the news's of Don's passing trough another client yesterday. I knew Don for more than 25 years, I was not only his hairdresser he was more like my Owen brother, we shared so many memories, he was so proud of his kids and knowing Jack was ready to go to Military collage, he had a heart of gold, word's can not express the sadness I feel, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jack please stop and visit me sometimes.
Chuck Conine
February 4, 2014
I send my sympathies to Don's family. Don was a very classy guy. I met him through the Lehe family from Brookston. It was easy for me to see why Mr. & Mrs. Lehe and the kids Denise, Dick, Don and Dale Lehe liked Don so much. He was a regular guy, full of life.
May his memory inspire us to care about others and do great things, and may God grant all his blessings to Don's family.
January 29, 2014
Dear Kam, Jack, and Joe, I was truly saddened when I heard about Don's passing. He was always very kind and an inspiration to me while working at the White House with him. I have the utmost admiration for his integrity and the way he made every person, no matter what their position was, feel as if they held great value and worth. Don has always been an angel here on earth and he now joins God's angels in heaven to continue to guide and watch over us. My prayers go out to the entire Flynn family that you may be comforted by His hand and know that Don continues to perform great works in the kingdom of God. With Deepest Sympathy, Jim McLeod
Connie Mariano
January 29, 2014
Dear Kam, Jack and Joe, We are heartbroken over the sudden loss of your beloved Don. I have so many good memories of Don during our years serving at the White House. Don so loved his sons and often shared stories of his parenting skills. May God bless him and comfort you in this time of sorrow. Dr Connie Mariano
Steve Paul
January 28, 2014
Don was my first roommate in the DC Area (1974). He could tell great stories and had a heart of gold. RIP MY FRIEND.
January 28, 2014
To the Flynn Family we are so heart broken to hear of the passing of Don. He was the kindest and nicest person you could meet. My husband Orlando spent time with Don when he was on the USSS/UD section. I met him while working West Wing and East Wing. He was a fine man and will be missed. God took a good man to sit on the right side of him at the table of Glory!
Orlando & Jackie Lawson
Nathalie Hawkins
January 28, 2014
We so enjoyed meeting you all on the trip to Ireland and then working with Don at Disney. He enriched all our lives with his humor, stories and safety wisdom. Sending you much comfort.
January 27, 2014
Dear Kam, Joe & Jack - Cathy & I send our deepest sympathies, and prayers for strength and understanding - Donnie is with the Lord and at peace. Over thirty years later, I still recall the huge impact Don had on me, a brand-new C Squad rookie at St #2 - Don was motivated and ambitious but always sympathetic to those less fortunate (most of those we interacted with)- he was such a super role model for me. God Bless you and the boys Kam- Peace, Tom Coyle
Melissa Smith
January 27, 2014
I was very sorry to learn of Don's passing. I have such fond memories of Don's sense of humor, his wonderful stories and his obvious love for his family. My thoughts and prayers are with Kam and their boys.
Jack Beury
January 27, 2014
Kam & Family,
Very sad for your unexpected loss. I am privileged to have known Don and had as a neighbor. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Troy Hiner
January 27, 2014
Don was an amazing person and touched so many lives! What a GREAT guy! He showed my brother and mom and dad and I around Washington DC years ago and I bet I still tell people about that trip 5 times a year! He made it a trip of a lifetime for us. I remember everyone liked and respected Don there. He seemed to know everything about that city and everyone in it. We were always trying to test his Secret Service skills. We were high school kids then. He knew so much! A true leader that seemed to know everything! He even seemed to be able to remember every license plate number of every car that drove past us. Talk about an inspirational person! I think Don had a big impact on me as I grew up. You would just hear Don talk and you'd know that anything was possible if you put your heart into it. What a great guy! He'll be missed of course. But he's in God's great presence and care right now, and there could be no better or happier place to be! You'll be missed, but we'll see you soon Don!
January 27, 2014
We were so sorry to hear about Mr. Flynn, he was a wonderful person and we enjoyed having him at Evergreen..Bill & Pat Westfall
Jim Pomeroy
January 27, 2014
I am so sad to hear of Don's passing, and my thoughts and prayers are with Kam and her boys.
Brian, Denise, Jake & Julia Carey
January 27, 2014
Words cannot express our sadness on learning of Don's passing late yesterday. He was a true friend to me and my family and I am a better man because of him. We will keep Kam, Jack and Joe in our thoughts and prayers. All our love...
Carol Farmer
January 27, 2014
What a loss! I've known Don for over 30 years. He was a wonderful and amazing best friend to my sister and her husband (Dixie and Jay). My prayers have gone out to his family and all those that knew and loved him. May God hold him close and grant peace to those left behind.
Andrea Hogan
January 27, 2014
We will surely miss you I know you were looking down at all who love you last nite it was for you and all the words spoken made me laugh and cry. So happy the Flynn family came into my life. Say hello to my Iris mom she is the one who is dancing all the time. See you again
J.J. Connery
January 26, 2014
my thoughts and paryers are with his family. i had the honor of serving with Don on the Fairfax County Police force in Groveton. Don was a heckuva cop and a better man. He will be sorely missed and fondly remembered.
Sharla Gibson
January 26, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with Kam and the boys...I will always remember his love for his family, and grateful I am for his friendship.
January 25, 2014
Carol, You are in our thoughts and prayers Pat and Phyllis Doran
January 25, 2014
Thoughts and prayers going out to all of you, from all the Hendryx family.
JD & Mable Hendryx Family
Jacquelyn Ellison
January 25, 2014
So sorry to hear he is gone. Too young. Praying for your family in this difficult time.
LaMont Rodgers
January 24, 2014
Kam,
It is with great sorrow that I send you and your family my heart felt condolences. May the fond memories you and your family have of a loving husband and father comfort you in these difficult times. All of us who knew Don will miss him and pray for you and your family.
Nancy Olds
January 24, 2014
It is difficult to realize that he is gone.. . Don left us far too soon. He was wonderful with people, always making you feel part of whatever task he was involved with. Don shared great anecdotes and stories that were unforgettable and at times amusing. Don made every day count. My prayers and sincere sympathy for Kam, Joe and Jack.
Ron & Jan Hiner
January 24, 2014
Kam, Jack and Joe - Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May your strength help you move from hurting to healing and may God's peace bring comfort. All our love, Ron and Jan
Jackie Chester (Kerr)
January 24, 2014
To all of the Flynn family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I remember as kids he was older and we followed him around. Carol you must be so proud of what Donny accomplished in his life! God is watching out for him now.
Helen Morrison
January 24, 2014
All my prayers for the family. I share in your loss as he has been my friend since our academy days in 1974. May he be at peace in only giving 100% in heaven rather than his normal 150-200%
Donella Carter
January 24, 2014
I have many memories of Donnie when were growing up in Chalmers. He was a cousin of mine and I remember many holidays our families spent together. My prayers are with his family at this time.
Donella Park Carter and family
Cindy & Joe Orndorff
January 24, 2014
Kam, Joe & Jack - Our deepest sympathy to you. Prayers for strength and understanding are being sent up for you. We will miss him very much. We loved listening to the great stories that he told and spending time with all of you. Prayers & Blessings,
S. Dyer
January 24, 2014
Don was a great person and I am lucky to have known him.
Rev. 21:3, 4 ~ Kim
January 24, 2014
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
January 24, 2014
Praying for Don's family in this time of sorrow. May God comfort you with many loving memories.
Billie, and John Dangler
Jose Brown
January 23, 2014
Dear Kame (Kathy) and Family
During your bereavement, I wish to express my deepest sympathy, and extend condolences to you and members of your family.
Family, my prayers and thoughts are with each of you during this difficult time.
Don was a great person whom I admired. He gained the respect of many others because of the way that he conducted himself.
I always regarded him as a friend and decent person because he didn't let his position rule him. He was the type of leader who carried himself in such a dignified way, that he demanded respect.
He was wonderful to work with and to work for during my tenure with the Secret Service.
Deepest Sympathy,
Dea. Jose A. Brown
USSS/UDW/PPD-Retired
Peggy Oilar
January 23, 2014
Thinking of Don's family. Grew up with Donnie in Chalmers - what a great guy and neighbor. Can still hear his laugh after all these years! God Bless.
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