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Steven Abbe Obituary
Stevie was the grandson of William and Lillian Abbe of East Windsor and leaves behind several loving aunts, uncles, and cousins, as well as his "best buddy," Kathy Morgan. Stevie was a 2008 graduate of the East Windsor Middle School multi handicapped class. He will always be remembered for his contagious smile and laughter. Throughout his life, his courage has and will continue to inspire us all. Stevie will continue to show us that strength and determination come from within his heart.
Stevie's family would like to offer a special note of thanks to Dr. Gerald Calnen and his staff for their extreme dedication in caring for Stevie throughout his life.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 3, at 10 a.m. in St. Catherine Church, Broad Brook. Relatives and friends are asked to meet directly at the church. Burial will follow in St. Patrick King Street Cemetery.
Visiting hours will be held on Thursday, April 2, from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Bassinger & Dowd Funeral Home, 37 Gardner St., East Windsor. Memorial donations may be made to Stevie Abbe Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o Webster Bank, 2 North Road, East Windsor, CT 06088.
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Memories and Condolences
for Steven Abbe
Jennifer Abbe
June 17, 2025
Thank you Mr. Bubs for always being here with me. Love and miss you so much!
daddy
April 27, 2009
MY little buddy daddy misses you so much.you need me come get me.
Mommy
April 26, 2009
My precious, precious baby. Everyday seems to get harder without you here with me. I love you so much and miss you terribly.
PATRICIA TALLY
April 9, 2009
My deepest sympathy to you and your family for the loss of Stevie.
George Mudgett
April 5, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Kelly Strba
April 4, 2009
heyy guys,
stevie and all his new buddies are having a party and waching over us all. papa, aunt jo, aunt eleanor and grandma all welcomed him the other day so hes safe. love you forever mr bud.
with love,
alan breen
April 4, 2009
I am sorry for the loss of your son and brother. I have only know stevie for a few months he was a wonderful person and always full of life he will be missed by everyone my thoughts and prayers are with you
alan breen
April 4, 2009
I am sorry for the loss of your son and brother. I have only known Stevie for a few months, he was a wonderful person and full of life. My thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Michelle Blachuta
April 3, 2009
Rachel,
In deepest sympathy to you and your family. I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. Please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers.
April 3, 2009
Dear Uncle Steve, Aunt Maggie, Rachel and Jen-
My heart is with Stevie's, and with yours forever. I would like to thank you and to say how honored I am to have been a bearer.
Stevie was and will always be an amazing sign of hope and of strength to all of us, and we will never forget him as we live from day to day.
I love you all very much.
-E.J.
Brad & Tammy Thrall
April 2, 2009
Rachel,
With our sympathy to you and your family.
We were very sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. You're in our thoughts now and in the days to come.
Marie and Carlos DeSousa
April 2, 2009
Steve, Maggie, Jennifer and Rachel
Our heart is with you today, tomorrow and always. When your looking for comfort just look into the evening stars and search for his or run in the rain for Stevie will be riding the raindrops!!
Love always -Hugs and Kisses
Aunt Marie,Uncle Carl and Nichole
Chuck Noble
April 2, 2009
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Karen & Yves Downey
April 2, 2009
Dear Abbe Family,
We are so sorry for your loss of Stevie. Please know you are all in our thoughts, prayers and hearts. May your memories and love help you through this horrible time in your life.
Donna Abbe
April 2, 2009
Dear Steve, Maggie, Jen, and Rachel,
You know how saddened we all are over our loss of Stevie. Of all the Abbe men I think we all agree that Stevie was the strongest. His strength and resilience throughout his life was a lesson to all of us, to keep trying no matter how difficult the journey may be. Our family gatherings will never be the same now, but Stevie, we will hold our glasses up to you and remember your incredible life on our special Christmas Eves. Now it's your turn Stevie, to run, jump, laugh and soar.
We love you, Uncle Eddie, Auntie Donna, E.J. and Kimmie
April 1, 2009
Dear Maggie, Steve, Rachel and Jen,
Words can't express our sorrow for your loss, a loss so hard to comprehend. You devoted your lives to Stevie and hopefully those memories and the love you shared will get you through this sad time and the years to come. You know if there's anything at all we can do for you, we're just a phone call away.
Much love, Jim and Coni
sean Murray
April 1, 2009
Hello Abbe's
Sorry for your loss much love Sean Murray
KERRY & RACHELLE RICE
April 1, 2009
STEVE AND MAGGIE, WE ARE SADDENED TO HEAR ABOUT STEVIE'S PASSING. I KNOW THIS WILL BE AN EMOTIONAL TIME FOR YOU, WE HAVE EXPERIENCED IT AS WELL. BUT YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS, AND THERE ARE MANY PRAYERS GOING UP FOR YOU. WE PRAY THAT YOU WILL HAVE PEACE AND COMFORT, AND KNOW THAT HE IS FINALLY ABLE TO RUN AND JUMP, AND I'LL BET EVEN SING, AS THE ANGELS ARE HIS NEW PLAYMATES. WE LOVE YOU
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