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Ralph Houghton Obituary

KENOSHA - Ralph John Houghton, 89, passed away peacefully early Monday morning, June 1, 2009, at Kenosha Hospital in the presence of his beloved wife and five children. Born April 14, 1920, in Hoopeston, Ill. to Ralph J. and Veronica Houghton, Ralph lived a long and fruitful life and will always be remembered as the 'Music Man' for his tireless contributions to music in Kenosha and throughout the state. Ralph served his country during World War II. An Army Infantry Captain, he was captured by the German Army at the Battle of the Bulge and escaped over Christmas, 1945. He was Honorably Discharged in 1945. He met his wife of 63 years, Mathilde Jane Houghton, while attending Illinois State University, Normal, Ill. They were united in marriage on June 4, 1946. With a Bachelor's Degree in Music Education, he moved to Racine. He later received a Masters in Administration from DePaul University. In 1947, he became the Music Director at Franklin Junior High School in Racine. At the age of 28, he was unanimously selected Outstanding Young Man of the Year by the Racine Jaycees for starting a band and a chorus at the school at which he taught. In 1955, he and his family moved to Kenosha, where music and the name Ralph Houghton truly became synonymous. Appointed Director of Music for Kenosha Unified Schools in 1956 when there were only eight music teachers spread over 17 public schools, he nourished the program into a musical powerhouse that became a model for public schools throughout the country. Always working on the front line, Mr. Houghton was instrumental in organizing the Band-O-Rama, the Great Lakes Band Championship, the Orchestra Festival, the Choral Festival, and over a dozen more annual music events. He helped combine the competing Tremper and Bradford bands to form the Band of the Black Watch, and founded the Band-Boosters as a network of band support for parents and the community. The original Ice Cream Socials were held in his own front yard, Ralph and Jane's former residence on Seventh Avenue. Ralph Houghton was appointed Assistant Superintendent of Schools for Kenosha Unified in 1979. With new, non-music related responsibilities, he still made sure funding and support for music, theater, and the arts never went to the wayside. Mr. Houghton was a founding member of the Kemper Center Board of Directors. At the state level, he established a high school music honors program for the Wisconsin School Music Association. He retired in 1987 at the age of 67. In the years to come, he still remained active in promoting music, from seeing through the construction of the Kenosha Band Shell to privately mentoring his own grandchildren as they took on musical instruments themselves. In 2008, the sheet music and recording archive at the Wisconsin Center for Music Education in Waunakee was named the Ralph Houghton Honors Library. Over the past 50 years, Ralph Houghton received more honors for distinguished service than could be mentioned on a single page or that he would care to admit. Humble to the end, Ralph always deflected credit for his success back to the community and those he worked with. In May of 2008, he received the Anderson Arts Center 2007 Lifetime Achievement Award and was presented the last two portraits done by renowned Kenosha artist, George Pollard, a close, personal friend. This was a final testament to Ralph Houghton's status as a true Kenosha legend. His capacity for community service seemed endless, but nothing meant more to Ralph than his family. He was a loving, faithful husband; a wise, compassionate father; a fun, supportive grandfather; a patriarch by every definition of the word. To all who knew him, he will be remembered as a great storyteller with meticulous attention to detail, a gracious host, an avid sports fan, a political enthusiast, an entertainer, a shoulder of support, and an inspiration. Ralph was preceded in death by his father and mother. He is survived by his wife; and his five children, John (Janey) Houghton of Roseville, Calif., David (Koreen) Houghton of Kenosha, Kathy (John) Spiro of Gathersburg, Md., Steve Houghton of Bloomington, Ind., and Mary (James) Erickson of Kenosha. Also surviving are his cousins, Renick (Jan and family) Ross of Janesville; 16 grandchildren; and nine great- grandchildren. We love you. Visitation for Ralph will be held at Proko Funeral Home on Thursday, June 4, 2009, from 5 until 8 p.m. Funeral services will be held on Friday, June 5, 2009, at 9:30 a.m. from Proko Funeral Home. Mass to be celebrated at St. Mark's Catholic Church at 10 a.m. Interment to follow at St. James Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the Houghton family asks that a donation be made to Kenosha Band Boosters, c/o KUSD Fine Art Program, 3600 - 52nd Street, Kenosha, Wis. 53140, or [email protected]. PROKO FUNERAL HOME AND CREMATORY 5111 - 60th Street Kenosha 262-654-3533 Visit Ralph's Online Memorial Book at: www.prokofuneralhome.com
Published by Racine Journal Times on Jun. 3, 2009.

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Sue [Nelson} Soetenga

June 4, 2009

My condolences to the Houghton family--I have fond memories of "Mr. Houghton" as a charter member of Racine Elks Band and all of the fun and challenging activities he planned for us about 1949 or so. He made music participation come alive that left a permanent influence in adult life. I will never forget Mr Houghton.

June 3, 2009

There will never,ever be another Ralph Houghton (my sister, Bobbie, called him 'Pudge'). He and his wonderful family were intertwined with our family through the Racine Elks Band and beyond for many, many years. John and David were playmates and were at every family function. We saw Ralph and Jane last at our Dad's 90th Birthday party and could not believe how good-lookin' they both were and how happy we were to see them.
God blessed the Houghton family and my prayer is that He will continue to bless them as the years go by...
With love and hugs,
Suzie (Sorenson) Erskine

Sally Sorenson

June 3, 2009

Ralph Houghton and his entire family hold such profound and wonderful memories for me. He ranks way up high on the list of people I have truly felt sincere fondness and love for. From the time I was a little girl doing Louie Armstrong impersonations and Hoola Hoop demonstrations for Ralph & Jane and all the many times our families spent together, to not all so long ago when I would run into Ralph on the tennis courts when my own son was having lessons. I especially remember Ralph and Jane coming to my father's 90th birthday party several years ago where I literally spent so much time chatting with them, I almost forgot the other guests! Time with Ralph was always that interesting and profound. I will always adore this man, and my heart goes out to Jane and the entire family for this great loss of such a tremendous soul.

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