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Rachel Dayvault Obituary

Dayvault, Rachel Lou (Wright), 82, homemaker, author and world traveler made her transition on Wednesday, January 12, 2011. Memorial service 3 p.m., Monday, January 17 at Unity Church, 2160 N. Oliver. She was born on April 15, 1928 in Chandler, Oklahoma, to Carl L. and Myrtle Landsaw Wright. Grandfather, A. D. Wright, made the 1889 Oklahoma Run and helped found the small town of Chandler. Rachel graduated from Monticello College for Women and the University of Oklahoma. She was a member of Delta Gamma Sorority and taught kindergarten prior to motherhood. She was proceeded in death by her husband of 59 years, David M. Dayvault. Though untrained, she was architect and co-designer of the couple's dream home, built in 1963. She was a published writer at 16, worked as a travel writer, and contributed over three dozen creative non-fiction stories and essays to area publications. She also wrote humorous verse, one novel, and one compilation. Her wide range of interests included gardening, antiques, music, sculpture, history, art, decorating, and tennis. Her friends remember a fun-loving chocoholic drawn to practical jokes and innovative costume parties. Her 2 favorite words were, "Touchdown Oklahoma." She was on the board of: The Kansas Writers Association, Embassy Club, Zeta, Carter Wives Club, and the OU Kappa Sigma Mother's Club. She was active in Victory in the Valley and Landmens' Wives Club. A dedicated wife, mother and grandmother, she is survived by: children, David, Jr. of Wichita; Mark of Aspen, CO; Ann E. Carollo (Jim) of Prairie Village, KS; grandsons, Jim and Kenton Dayvault; Connor and Cameron Carollo; brothers, Carl, Jr. and Dan Wright. Memorials have been established at: Victory in the Valley, 3755 E. Douglas, Wichita, KS 67218; Unity Church, 2160 N. Oliver, Wichita, KS 67208. Downing & Lahey Mortuary East. Tributes may be sent to the family via www.dlwichita.com.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Jan. 13 to Jan. 15, 2011.

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Cristyl Harper

January 19, 2011

I am saddened to hear of Rachel's passing. I truly enjoyed knowing her and David! My deepest condolences to the family.

Bryce Matteson

January 17, 2011

Both Rachel and Dave were atop my list of favorite clients to work with. Over the years, they became close friends. While a family emergency prevents me from attending Rachel's memorial today, know that I am with you friends and family as the life of this dear lady is celebrated. Boomer Sooner Rachel!

January 14, 2011

Ann,
I remember your mother fondly and I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ginger Denny Tebbutt

Butch & Sue Lassen

January 14, 2011

David, Mark & Ann,
In your Mom's Book, "TOWARD THE SUN-RISING", she writes abour two lovers whose children comingle their ashes to then commit them to the Missouui River to travel the world eternally. Dave and Rachel are once again dining together, only now as guests of honor at the Captin of Heaven's Royal Banquet.

In honor of her Authorship, I cite this small poem by Emily Dickinson that was reecently sent to me by a friend, I find it fitting and hope you will too.

"The world is not conclusive
A sequel lies beyond
As invisible as music
As positive as sound.

Jackay Kueser

January 13, 2011

Ann and family,
I am very happy to have met your mom recently and know she must have been a great woman to be the mother of my good friend Ann, who is a most accomplished and admired person. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jackay Kueser

January 13, 2011

To the family or Rachel Dayvault,
We are saddened to hear of Rachel's passing. She was a very sweet lady and a great neighbor. We will miss her. We know that she will be greatly missed by all. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. May god keep you in his arms during this difficult time. Love, The Dickerhoffs, Richard, Debi, and Eddie

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