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Carlos Lee Obituary

DERBY - Lee, Carlos Ray, was born April 21, 1944 in Crestview, Florida and passed away June 20, 2008 in Fort Walton Beach, Florida. Ray was preceded in death by his parents Louise Boswell and Carl Davis Lee, two brothers and two sisters. Survivors include: wife of 41 years Linda S. Delamarter Lee, daughter Lara Shobe and fiancDanny Thomas, son Scott Lee and wife Jennifer, three granddaughters - Rhiannon Shobe, Addison and Isabelle Lee. Ray joined the Air Force and served four years in Germany, playing football in the military league and also while attending at Southwestern College. He red-shirted at K-State and played at Western Carolina University. He was a student assistant coach at McPherson College and graduated with a teaching degree in history and physical education. He also attended graduate school at Wichita State University. He was commissioned as a 2nd lieutenant in the United States Air Force and served in the Air Force for 16 more years. He earned 2 masters degrees in Human Relations and Counseling. He taught and coached football at Derby High School, was a counselor at Belle Plaine high school and taught at the Haysville middle school. After retiring from teaching Ray worked at the VA hospital in the records department, as an education counselor and in the contracting department at McConnell Air Force Base. He retired from civil service as a Major in the United States Air Force. Memorial Service 2PM Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at Woodlawn United Methodist Church. A memorial has been established with Woodlawn United Methodist Church - Stephen Ministry, 431 S. Woodlawn, Derby KS 67037. Smith Mortuary - Derby in charge of arrangements. smithfamilymortuaries.com

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Jun. 29 to Jun. 30, 2008.

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Phyllis and Tom Whitten

August 26, 2015

I am so sorry to hear this. He was my friend and supervisor at Whiteman AFB,Mo where he was Squadron Commander of the 351st Services Sq. Hubby also worked part time at Whiteman NCO Club as night time manager. He hired me and on my first day on the job he asked where I was from when I told him Crestview He and I were both surprised. What a wonderful man he was and great boss and leader. Again so sorry for your loss of a great man, husband and father.

Rich Mackey

October 23, 2012

Linda, when Kim and I came back from the states, after our wedding, Ray helped us throw a great party. I remember you and Ray, like the rest of us dancing up a storm. We had the time of our life and Ray was a big part of that. Ray's time on the field and side lines will be with me foever. God bless you.

Fred Skeen

October 22, 2012

Linda, many years have passed since last saw you and Ray Lee, with the kids, @ Randolph AFB in San Antonio. I can still see Ray Lee yelling at a player or laughing, 1derful man, husband, father and friend. I send my love and prayer to you and family.

Ernie and Jeannette Heikes

July 24, 2008

Linda and family:

We were so sorry to learn about Ray's death. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you!

Jim Pittman

July 7, 2008

Linda/Lara/Scott
I know Ray will be missed everyday, but always remember the GREAT times we all had with Ray over the years. Some of the best years of my life was spent with your whole family in Germany, and then again in Derby. When I think back into the past I thank God for putting us together in a little town called Bitburg. I played football with Ray, he was my Coach, but first he was a great friend. He will be missed!!! Jim

Jenny Shumate

July 5, 2008

A.Linda, Lara & Scott ~ What a beautiful video tribute to Uncle Ray; I have played it many times & laughed and cried and smiled. It made my heart leap to see mom in those reunion pictures w/ Uncle Ray--they are truly reunited in Paradise. Uncle Ray, you have always been my favorite uncle. You made me feel special and strong and self-confidant. I will always remember your zest for life and the fun times spent w/ you and Aunt Linda and the kids, sharing good food, laughs, big bear hugs, boiled peanuts...the beach ~ I love you, Uncle Ray and I'll see you again in Paradise ~ Jenny (aka "slick") Shumate & the boys

Karen Blevins

July 2, 2008

Dear Linda and Family, What a shock! I had received notice of another entry on Mrs. D's guest book and read about Ray's passing there. Oh My words can not express our sadness in his passing. Please know we love you and will keep you in our prayers. I am sure Our Lord and your wonderful Mom was there to welcome him home. May Our Lord continue to give you comfort in the days, weeks, months before you.
Always
Karen & Keith

Brigette Gage (Broas)

July 2, 2008

Linda, Lara, and Scott,
Am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband/father. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Tonya Culton

July 1, 2008

Aunt Linda, Lara & Scott: We are so thankful we got to be part of your Florida goodbye to Uncle Ray. We will cherish that precious time forever. Uncle Ray, you are the coolest uncle a girl could have! You introduced me to gourmet cooking & your love of life impressed me at a young age. I have such fond memories of North Carolina, Myrtle Beach & Satellite Beach. Say hello to Mom for us ~~ Until we meet in heaven, Tonya & Robert

Brandi Nickel

July 1, 2008

Linda, Lara & Scott,
Words cannot express the loss you are feeling right now. It's nice to know you were able to enjoy some great times together in Florida. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember the GOOD times!
Love,

Claudia (Slick) Burns

June 30, 2008

Linda & family,
You know our hearts & prayers are with you all. The video is a beautiful tribute to Ray and his love for his family and friends. Sure can see the twinkle in his eyes when he looks at you, the kids, and those delightful granddaughters.
May God ease your sorrows and help you treasure precious memories.
In Christ's love,

Charlotte Lee

June 30, 2008

Linda and Family,
I know that Ray will be missed each minute of every day by someone he has touched in the past. He was the best of brothers-in law and a good friend. Love Charlotte

Diana and Jonn Unkel

June 30, 2008

We were so sad to hear the news about Ray. You and your family have been in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Bumgarner (Potter)

June 30, 2008

Linda, I'm so sorry for your loss. Ray was a terrific guy. I'll always remember his great sense of humor and his "never met a stranger" personality. Thinking about you and the family and praying for your comfort and peace.

Bob & Meribeth Smalley

June 30, 2008

Dearest Linda, We are so sad for your family. We all loved Ray and his hospitality to our family. Our hearts will miss him terrible.

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George & Pollia Colebrook Jr

June 30, 2008

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Linda, we were saddened to hear the passing of Ray. Ray played a major role in the direction of my life. His recommendation to have me attend Southwestern College changed my life forever. The first night I spent in Kansas was at your mother and father's house. Ray's friendship and interest in me affected my career path, which turned out to be very successful. I will forever be grateful to you, Ray and your family and I will miss him dearly.

I was trying to rearrange my schedule to attend the memorial services. However, I could not secure a flight to Wichita. Please accept our condolences. If there is anything we can do, do not hesitate to ask.

I'm sending you a picture of our 1966 football team. It was taken in Frankfurt, Germany.

George







Linda, please know how much our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ray touched so many lives and put so many smiles on so many faces. My kids still talk about his wonderful cheese grits and of all our friends, they never forgot who Ray Lee was. Please also know how much we would love to be at the services and so sorry we can't make it. Sometime later on, if you could send us a copy of the services, we would appreciate it.

Love & prayers always,

Pollia
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Sherry (Abshier) Cusick

June 30, 2008

Dear Linda and family,
So terribly sorry to hear about Ray.
Please know that our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Love to you,
Sherry (Abshier) Cusick and family

Kendra McBroom

June 30, 2008

Linda and family,
Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your husband/father. You have been in my prayers as soon as I heard of your loss.

Julianne Harrison

June 30, 2008

Dear Linda and Family,
We were very sad to hear of your loss and want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Juli and Kay Harrison

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