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for Janet Rhodes
John Frey
July 27, 2025
Always remembered!
Sherri Hollaway-Hess
July 27, 2022
Never forgotten
Kevin Stultz
November 15, 2016
I just today learned of Janet's passing. I had no idea and am so incredibly saddened to have learned. To Janet's family and especially her sister Linda and most prince of a guy you would ever meet her husband Brian, you have my most sincere thoughts and memories. Janet was just an awesome sole and I will certainly miss the encounters, however infrequent. A wonderful family with a star role model. I am in shock and very sorry the family lost Janet at such a young age.
Mark Ryniker
August 15, 2016
Doris, my heart is with you - many hugs coming on Friday. LOVE
Ward Noll
August 11, 2016
Last night I was shocked and saddened to hear the devastating news of Janet's passing. My heart goes out to you, Brian, Doris, Linda and family. My memories of meeting all of you at the pie shop in 1972 are special to my heart. Janet was always so sweet. She made me feel like family. Having sent me on a better path, to this day her goodness remains a positive influence in my life. At the pie shop Janet made the cinnamon rolls, Ann made the pie crust and I cleaned the mess, loving every minute. The grief I feel is overwhelming and I am filled with sorrow and wish I had stayed in touch. Somehow the years have become decades, but I have never forgotten the incredibly special, Janet. You are in my thoughts.
Ward Noll
David Mason
August 11, 2016
Brian,
Deb and I were out of town and shock to hear of Janet's passing. She was such a beautiful and fun person to be around. We will miss her dearly. Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Sabrina Bardwell-Titelbaum
August 10, 2016
Brian,
Everyone here has expressed the same sentiment that's on my heart....That this is just so heartbreaking, that Janet was a wonderful, loving, kind soul,that she will be sorely missed and that our heart goes out to you and your family. But, I have to add this: After losing two siblings three months apart, you feel a loss that you just can't imagine is real. You will feel that emotion, too. After the service is over, some friends only call or come around sporadically, when you go back to working...there will be a feeling of sadness that will wash over your entire being because of the love you shared with Janet. But, that old saying that time heals all wounds is true. Your wound now is deep, and trust me, it will never completely go away; it just gets a little less painful. Like when you scrape your knee and it first hurts like hell, but then a scab forms and it feels a bit better, and then the scab falls off and it feels fine. But now you have a scar in place of that scab that will forever remind you of that scrape. You'll laugh when you remember how you got it, but also remember how bad it hurt at that time. Janet's love and life is your scab. She will never leave your heart, mind or soul. Your life together was one that most of us dream of having. You were so blessed. When a memory pops up, that's Janet reminding you of your life together. When a memory brings tears to your eyes, CRY! That's Janet saying, "Hey, Brian, I'm still with you and don't forget it!" That familiar song you hear, that movie or picture that you see that will trigger a memory of her is the blessing that will be given to your heart to say, "Okay, Janet, girl! I know you're here! Thank you!" It will not be easy, but you'll be strong for HER. She deserves that. I love you and wish I could be there to comfort you. But, you know the moment I get back to Wichita, you'll be the first person I call. I will truly miss her! May God continue to comfort and bless you my friend. Call me whenever you want! xoxo Beano!!
Jane Jones
August 10, 2016
Brian, Doris, Linda, and family--
What a shock to hear of Janet's passing. I so enjoyed being around her. She was so creative and vibrant. Your house so reflected her personality. My prayers are with you all.
Jane Jones, Bradenton, FL
August 8, 2016
DEAREST BRIAN AND FAMILY,
I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR TODAY OF JANET'S PASSING. I WAS OUT OF TOWN WHEN JANET PASSED AND FOR THE FUNERAL. I'M AM DEEPLY SORRY THAT I WASN'T HERE IN WICHITA.
JANET WAS ALWAYS A WARM AND KIND PERSON. SHE WAS ALWAYS ENGAGING AND WELCOMING TO EVERYONE. WHEN LINDA AND I WERE YOUNG AND HANGING AROUND TOGETHER, I GOT TO SEE JANET AND BRIAN IN THEIR DATING YEARS. THEY WERE SUCH AN AWESOME COUPLE AND CONTINUED TO BE THROUGH THE YEARS. I ALWAYS ADMIRED JANET AND HER BEAUTY. SHE HAD A NATURAL BEAUTY INSIDE AND OUT.
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS FOR YOU BRIAN AND THE LANSDOWN FAMILY.
DEEPEST SYMPATHY, LORI CLONTS
August 8, 2016
Brian and family,
So sorry to hear of your wife's passing. Our family (Shigley's) will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely, Ed Shigley
August 7, 2016
Brian & family,
So sorry for your loss. I am sure your wonderful memories will help to keep Janet close in your heart. You will be in our thoughts & prayers.
Becky Waller (Brewster) & Salvador Estrada
Molly Daniels
August 7, 2016
Brian, I am so, so sorry for your loss. I got to know Janet in junior high school at Robinson and have wonderful memories of coming over to her house to hang out and figure out the world. I'm thinking of you...
Danny (& Susie) Gill
August 7, 2016
Brian & all,
I'm heartbroken and stunned today to hear of your loss. Janet was such an amazing person. My memories of those incredible years at Wichita East HS go so deep. Janet was such a gracious, fun and genuine friend to so many. She lit up those hallowed halls with her smile.
It may seem off-the-wall, but I have this memory of the incredible grace and beauty Janet displayed when ice-skating. It seemed like a special glimpse into her soul to watch her skate. She was just amazing on the ice.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kim Alexander
August 6, 2016
Brian, I am so sorry for your loss. Peace to you and your family.
Terri and Marty Dondlinger
August 6, 2016
Brian -we were so sad to hear of Janet's passing. Please know that we'll keep you both in our prayers, my old friend:)
Terri and Marty Dondlinger
August 5, 2016
Brian so sorry for your loss.
Joyce Asbell Helms. Stockton. mo.
Mike Asbell's mom
Janet & Carol... Love her!
Carol (Freeman) Blair
August 5, 2016
Carol (Freeman) Blair
August 5, 2016
Janet was such a loving person. This picture is from the day I got married and she surprised me at my Grandparents house with a party. A day I will never forget, and a special person that will stay in my heart forever. I love you Janet... And give Ali a big hug when you see him!
Dennis & Robin McAdoo
August 5, 2016
Robin & I are very sorry for your loss. We are here for you if you need us.
God bless,
Dennis & Robin McAdoo
Janet Wright
August 5, 2016
Brian,
My thoughts have been with you since I learned of Janet's death. It's hard to find words to express my sorrow. Knowing her as a Gamma Phi when she was in college, working with her at Big Brothers/Big Sisters, and most recently witnessing her dedication and effort on our capital campaign, gave me a true understanding of her thoughtfulness, kindness and friendship. She will me missed by me and many others.
Ed Ball
August 5, 2016
Brian,
So very sorry for your loss my friend. Peace be with you. You will be in my prayers.
Diesa (Bostic) Bouthillette
August 5, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Janet and I were pledge class sisters in Gamma Phi Beta in 1973. She was such a wonderful soul who made you feel good every time you saw her! So many great memories of our college days! I last saw her at a luncheon for our pledge class a few years ago and she still had that bright
smile that lit up the room. We had a lot of laughs that day. Condolences to you and your family, heaven just received a great one.
Steve Radke
August 5, 2016
Brian- So very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
August 5, 2016
Will miss Janet and her smile! She was our pledge class trainer at the gamma phi beta house in 1976. She was a fantastic leader for a crazy group of girls, but she got the job done. In the
last 2 years she has worked endless hours on our gamma phi capital campaign. She made a real difference. Keeping her family in my thoughts, miss you Janet.
Kevin Kitchen
August 4, 2016
I'm very sorry to hear of such a terrible loss. May the Lord Jesus Christ bring comfort to the family left behind.
Mitch Krumrey
August 4, 2016
Brian and Family, We were so sorry to learn about the passing of Janet. Such fond memories of Janet from East and WSU. God Bless you all.
Mitch and Terri Krumrey
Randy Schuessler
August 4, 2016
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Janet. Time and distance cannot diminish fond memories of her. My condolences to you and all family. Janet will be greatly missed.
Chris and Cindy Poulson
August 4, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Janet was a great individual and will be missed.
Valerie Love Musick
August 4, 2016
Brian, I am at a loss for words to express how very sad this is. Although I moved away many years ago and haven't seen you guys I have such fond memories of Janet. I loved riding in that orange Nova. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I have walked the journey ahead of you. If you need to talk all you have to do is let me know. I am a great listener. Lean on your friends and family.
Beth Harlenske
August 4, 2016
Brian, Doris, Linda and family - Words cannot express my sadness over Janet's passing. I have so many wonderful memories of her - college days spent playing Spades at the Gamma Phi Beta house, Hippodrome, and spring break of 1976 when we packed up the Orange Nova and headed to Padre Island. So much fun and laughter! Janet was a true friend and such a strong woman - someone you could always count on. I will miss her sparkling smile and her wonderful, infectious laugh! Please know that Dale and I have you in our thoughts and hope that you find comfort in the knowledge that Janet was loved and cherished by so many. May she rest in peace.
William Comley
August 4, 2016
Brian,
Incredible sadness that Janet is gone... She could make anyone having a bad day brighten it with that million dollar smile... I have great memories with both of you... I going to miss this wonderful woman and her sweetness... Rest in peace Janet..
August 4, 2016
Brian,
We are saddened to hear about the loss of your very special wife and friend. Thinking of you and your family.
Larry & Lisa Thompson
and we will be here for you.
Larry & Lisa Thompson
Paris Airshow wiht the RSI family, 2007
Andres Budo
August 4, 2016
Brian,
We are terribly saddened about Janet's passing. She will always be in our hearts
I have fond memories of the first time we met her, Paris, 2007. This is how we will remember her
August 4, 2016
Brian, With a heavy heart I'm sending hugs and love to you and your sweetheart . I'm so heartbroken for you please know I'm praying for you and your family during this life changing journey. All my love your friend Diane Blackwood
Craig and Beth Cleghorn
August 4, 2016
One of my favorite pictures of Janet. It depicts for me her sense of folly and humor. I will treasure my memories of the times we spent together in high school, at reunions, and our visits to Wichita. For Brian, Doris and family we send our sympathies for a great loss.
Love,
D'Narda Coggins
August 4, 2016
Brian,
I'm truly sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers.
Kim Shoemaker
August 4, 2016
Brian, Tremendous sadness to hear of Janet's passing. I believe the last time I saw you together was at Angelo's many years back. I think I first met Janet in my sophomore at East. I think it was with the spiritual group "All God's Children". It seems she carried that Spirit throughout life. To quote from the book of Hosea; 6,2: He will revive us after two days; on the third day he will raise us up to live in his presence. I believe she now is one of All God's Angels. Best Regards, your old friend Kim Shoemaker
Mike Blue
August 4, 2016
Brian, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Mike has fond memories of you both from East High. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Judy Blue
Mark & Trish Schmalz
August 4, 2016
Brian and family we are so saddened by your loss. We only met Janet once and I'm so glad we did. She filled the house with Joy and laughter. She's left this life too soon. However, she won't be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kathy Mize-White
August 3, 2016
I was so saddened to hear of Janet's passing. Although it's been many years since I've seen her, I will always remember her heart of gold, contagious smile and the day I spent in the pie shop on E. Harry with her. She was a sweetheart! My sincere sympathy to Brian and her extended family.
John and Nancy
August 3, 2016
Brian, Doris, Linda and family,
Our family has wonderful memories of Janet. Please take comfort knowing Janet will live on forever in our hearts and minds. We are here for you anytime.
Loann Weltha Maldonado
August 3, 2016
Brian,
I am deeply sad for you on the news of Janet passing. I have such fond memories of working with her at the Pie Shop. And of course both of you from high school. You put together such great reunions. I got to come to town and enjoy them. Thank you for that. You are in my prayers.
August 3, 2016
Brian and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God bless you all.
Love, Sherry (LaForce) and JC Cowdin
Joe and Jana Millikan
August 3, 2016
Janet introduced my wife Jana to me over 40 years ago. She will always be in our hearts. Brian our thoughts are with you.
Robin Moore
August 3, 2016
Dear Brian and family,
I was shocked and saddened to read of the passing of Janet. Our college years were nothing but wonderful memories. Janet was such a big part of those memories, watching your baseball games, going to dances and of course hippodrome. Such a good, kind person. This world will miss her. She is now in God's hands. I am just sick that I am not in town to attend Janet's service. My heart and spirit are with you.
Nancy Hammel Kuehler
August 3, 2016
I am sad to learn of Janet's passing. Heaven has received an angel with a heart of gold. Sending hugs and prayers to all.
Melissa Ansberry
August 3, 2016
You will be sorely missed Janet. Your smile was always joyful and the care you showed toward others will be remembered. I remember seeing both you and Brian at many family gatherings, and always looked forward to your additions to the stories about times past. We love you so...Melissa, Allen and Madison Ansberry.
Steve Poulson
August 3, 2016
My heart goes out to you Brian and to Janet's family. The memories from East High and the bakery come flooding back. There are no words. I am so sorry for your loss.
The Lamkin's
August 3, 2016
What a sad loss for us left on earth. Our lives are forever changed for the better in knowing Jan. She was a wonderful friend and will be missed. Our thoughts of comfort are with you. Love you all.
Sandy Stump
August 3, 2016
I worked with Janet for the past 3+ years on the Gamma Phi Beta Capital Campaign. She was on my fundraising committee and the decorating committee. What a blessing! The house looks incredible because of her efforts! Even when she wasn't feeling her best, she & Brian came up to the house to paint & talk. I truly enjoyed our time together. It was an honor to know her and call her my Gamma Phi sister. I am so sorry Brian, Linda and family. The world lost a beautiful soul...
Ron and Carol Gardenhire
August 3, 2016
Brian, we are so sad to hear of Janet's passing. I am very happy that we were able to talk to you two last year at the ball game. We have many fond memories of her, the fondest one of all is that you guys introduced us and we have been married now for 36 years as well. By doing so, she changed our lives forever. We will be thinking of you, she was always a wonderful person. Thank you God bless
Sandy and Gary Schmidt
August 3, 2016
We are so saddened by the loss of Jan, she was always so warm, friendly and loving, she will be missed. The family is in our thoughts and prayers.
August 3, 2016
Dear Brian,
Bob and I are so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Janet. My daughter, Carolyn, still talks about how much fun it was working with her at BB/BS.
Our hearts are with you,
Bob Moore and Cheryl McGuire
August 3, 2016
Dear Brian and family,
We are so saddened to say good bye to your wonderful Janet. We have so many special memories with you both beginning in Paris (for me) where Janet graciously was my tour guide. Eiffel Tower , shopping, museums, hilarious dinners, cocktail parties during the Air Show... Then the Broadmoor weekend in Colorado Springs, more gourmet food, and laughter! We will miss her so much. You remain in our prayers and our hearts. We love you and are on our way driving now to give you a big hug.... See you soon
Much love,
Bruce and Bonnie Page
Fort Collins, CO
Becky Mason
August 3, 2016
My life was changed in 1973 when Janet and I pledged Gamma Phi Beta together. A true and constant friend. Brian my thoughts are with you, and Janet my sister in Gamma Phi I will always treasure our friendship.
Franci Nicks
August 3, 2016
Brian,
I was shocked and very saddened when Mindi called me to tell me about Janet's passing! Words cannot express my sympathy to you. But I know she is resting in God's arms safe and sound. You are in my prayers Brian for peace and grace!!
Bob and Ruby Christensen
August 3, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Bob and Ruby Christensen
Cindy Ketchum
August 3, 2016
Brian,
My heart goes out to you and family. Janet was such a joy and the last time I saw her in your kitchen she was so excited to be remodeling. Almost all the time I saw you , your Beautiful wife was with you. I along with other family members enjoyed the time you shared Yeager Lake with us. Her Love for you and family ran deep. Together you were an inspiration to all. Tim ,McKayla and I loved her. May all the wonderful yrs you have spent with each other live forever in your Heart. God Bless. We have another Angel among us. Whenever you see a Cardinal a Loved one is near. If you need anything let us know.
With Love,
Cindy,Tim,McKayla
Ann Wommack
August 3, 2016
I met Janet when we were 12 and we were best of friends growing up. I have so many wonderful memories of our fun times. We shared so many experiences and secrets maneuvering our way through our youth. We were inseparable as we navigated Robinson Jr High, East High and WSU pledging Gamma Phi Beta together. She had the biggest heart and was a friend to everyone. My heart is heavy with sorrow and sadness. Love and hugs to Brian, Doris and Linda and all of the family.
Marvin Ballard
August 3, 2016
Brian,
Janet was always such as sweet, upbeat person. I never saw her without a smile. I'm so sorry for your loss. You will be in Wanda and my prayers.
Marvin
Jim Cline
August 3, 2016
August 3, 2016
Brian,
We just learned about your loss of Janet. Our sincere sympathy to you and all who knew her well.
Sylvia & Jim Cline
Shawn Griswold
August 3, 2016
Words fail me. I am so very sorry for your loss. Janet was a wonderful person, heaven must have needed a very special angel. I extend my thoughts and prayers for your comfort at this difficult time.
Sherri Hess
August 2, 2016
So many memories over the years. I'll share two. I remember how surprised Janet and I were to run into each other at a family reunion in about the 7th grade. Apparently we are distantly related, so we affectionately referred to each other as "cuz"☺
The next one, since Janet was 16 before several of us I remember her hauling us around in her parents station wagon (surely we weren't out tee-peeing!!)
Even though lots of us don't see each other often I feel our East High Class of 1973 has a real bond! Janet and Brian have lent to that in a big way! My heart aches for you Brian, and the rest of her family We will all miss her dearly!
Dave and Cathy Burton
August 2, 2016
I've known Janet since our middle school days at Robinson Jr High and have always cherished her company and friendship. She was a beautiful soul, extremely generous and always wiling to offer a friendly ear or help when needed. The last several weeks showed everyone how strong and brave Janet truly was. I will forever be inspired when I think of her. To Brian, Doris, Linda, Steve, Roger, Colten, Cara, and the rest of her extended family, we offer our sincerest condolences and love. She was a special lady. Rest in Peace my friend.
Marla Sutton
August 2, 2016
Janet Mae, I cannot wrap my heart around the fact that you are gone. Not a Christmas will go by that we won't make your favorite peanut clusters, carmels and toffee, with a toast of wine to celebrate your extraordinary life! I laugh when I recall our first candy making on Volutsia. The guys had gone outside to the backyard and we placed our pan of carmels on the floor of the back porch to cool, only to have Brian come in wearing them on his shoe! We laughed so hard!! I will miss you dearly! You were the sister I never had
Robin Rives McAdoo
August 2, 2016
When I think of Janet, I think of her smile and of Brian. I've only known them together (since our high school days). My heart is saddened knowing how much she will be missed by all, but particularly Brian and her extended family. My heartfelt condolences and love to you all.
Jessica DeVader
August 2, 2016
Life on this earth will never be the same without Jan's shining soul. I met her 10 years ago and from that moment on she, Brian, Linda, Steve, Doris and dear Colten and Cara treated me like family. I had some great times laughing with Jan over movie lines from Blazing Saddles and dancing in the barn in Rago to the Eagles concert (more than a few times). Jan will forever remain one of my very favorite people I was blessed to know on this earth. Brian, my heart aches for you. Thank you for both treating me like part of your pack. I thank you both for being so good to Paul and Gage. I love you ALL and miss you dearly. I am truly very saddened by the loss of dear Jan. You all gave her so much love and a wonderful life. I never saw her without a smile. God Bless.
Buster Fairleigh
August 2, 2016
I will forever cherish September 1970. This is the time I met Janet sophomore year at East High School. I am extremely happy that we remained friends the past 46 years and am truly going to miss my friend. Love to Brian, Doris, Linda and all the extended family.
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