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Richard A. O'Gara
August 2, 2021
There isn´t a day that passes that I don´t experience Ben´s work as he was beloved by my wife Mary. He helped to open our eyes to so many interior design options that we never would have found on our own. Ben was also great to work with as we liked to mix new and old together. The family should be sustained by the amount of love so many people had for him because of how he enriched their lives.
Richard O'Gara
August 2, 2020
We see Ben every day in our home, in almost every room. He made such a difference for so many people, from his personality to his artistic talent for interior decorating. Recent guests commented on several of his additions to our home. Ben opened our eyes to new and different ideas. He would get a kick out of the fact that his ideas were so lasting.
Scott Francis
August 23, 2012
I am very saddened by Ben's passing. He was a person of great talent and taste, and I feel privileged to have known him. My condolences and prayers go out to his loving family and many friends. Ben brought beauty and caring to the lives of so many of us.
Christy Fiedler
August 16, 2012
Dear Sundermeier Family, Please accept my most heartfelt condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mark, Margaret, Alex, Julia & Ryan Gowan-Nuehring
August 14, 2012
Elisabeth, Jack and family, we are so sad to learn of this news. We've delighted for 20-plus years in stories of the close bonds your family holds. May you feel God's love deeply and hold each other even tighter as you grieve. Our love to each of you.
August 12, 2012
Ben, we will remember you each time we walk into our perfect kitchen. You were marvelous from start to finish. Thank you for your talent and friendship. Condolences to your family.
Cynde and Art Brookfield
Chris Vincent
August 12, 2012
Bridgett,god bless your family,
Chris V & Family
Dawn Assadi and family
August 12, 2012
Becky, we are so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear brother Ben. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I will never forget our trip to KC where Ben was so hospitable and generous with his time.
August 11, 2012
August 11, 2012
My deepest sympathy Grace to you and your family. My prayers and thougths are with you during these sorrowful times.
In Prayer,
Clara
Patrick Gauthier
August 11, 2012
Words can't describe how sorry I am about Ben passing away. I wish so bad I could be with you today. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you all and you are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless all of the Sundermeiers and may God give you all strength to make it through this difficult time. We love you all! Ben is in heaven looking down over all of us. Love, Patrick, Ryan and Aidan Gauthier.
Diane Birginal
August 11, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the Sundermeier family. May you, through God's grace, find comfort and healing in this difficult time. My most heartfelt condolences.
Gary and Linda Buchlinger
August 10, 2012
May his life talent and love, forever brn in our hearts and in our minds. May his generous spirit rise up in others as his shining example. Our prayers our with Sundermeier family.
Sandy Lowery
August 10, 2012
We have lost a talented soul. My prayers are with the entire Sundermeier family.
Maureen(Mike O'Connor's daughter) Gilliam
August 10, 2012
Dear Sundermeier Family, We are so sorry for your loss. Memories with keep Ben close to your heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Laura Poeppelman
August 10, 2012
I knew Ben through my sister, Christy. Although I didn't know him well, I knew what a giving and gracious man he was for many years to Christy as she dealt with her husband Casey's battle with cancer. Ben always had a smile on his face and a joyful attitude that was very engaging.
I am so sorry for your family's loss and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Courtney Beaumont
August 10, 2012
Ben was a gentle giant and I will always be remember his kindness in both friendship and business. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers to all his friends and the Sundermeier family. His spirit is a testament to his family.
Bill & Shelly Gauthier
August 10, 2012
Thinking of the Sundermeiers........
Shaul Jolles
August 10, 2012
We will all miss you so much Ben.The Jolles' boys get to live in your creation every day. Keep on smiling at us.
Dot. Wade
August 10, 2012
Grace and Michael, I worked with Ben at his Westport and Crossroads studio. I have lots of memories of Ben living his life. He often ordered milk when were out to eat, said it was a carry over from childhood. I liked that. We all need to carry a bit of childhood into our adult life. I helped him with the flowers for Kate and Javier's wedding in Omaha,so I got to see him with his family. He liked his clan!!I learned a lot from Ben and was glad for our brief period of sharing life and work.
"Moments pass...Memories last"
Dot.Wade
August 10, 2012
So sorry about the loss of Ben. Our deepest sympathies and prayers. Jeff,Pam and Ben Gauthier
Harvey Josin
August 10, 2012
I am so terribly sorry to hear about Ben. He was an integral part of establishing Omaha's interior design trade showroom. We enjoyed working with him as he showed great creativity and resolve. He will be missed. Rest in Peace Ben
Tom Cohen and Lena Price
August 9, 2012
We consider ourselves one of the lucky one's to have worked with Ben. We began our relationship on a professional level and it quickly developed into a great friendship. When we look around our beautiful home, we feel Ben's presence. We got to experience and know his gentle nature and see his creative genius in action. He has left his mark on us and on our home and we feel a profound loss.
Tony, Norma & Vanessa Gauthier
August 9, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Gail Bailey
August 9, 2012
Dear Gig and Mike and all the family: We just are so very sorry for your loss of Ben. It's so very difficult to lose our loved ones, I know. When our son, Eddy, died someone sent this poem to us, and I have kept it all these years. I think it might help you a little too:
When you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am on who you are. It means that you can summon me back to your mind even though countless years and miles may stand between us. It means that if we meet again, you will know me, and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart. For as long as you remember me, I am never entirely lost.
I know many people were touched by Ben. I will be praying for you in the difficult days to come. We love you, and our hearts ache for you. Gail and Phil Bailey, Brett Jess and baby Phillip Edward
Ian Severes
August 9, 2012
Dear Grace, Mike and Family
Please accept our deepest Sympathies Prayerfully from our Family to your Family.
Sincerely
Anne & Ian Severes.
Cynthe Johnson
August 9, 2012
I had the privilege of working with Ben during the Expressions years. I have so many found memories of working together and traveling to New Orleans for market.
His talent and kind heart were truly a blessing.
My sympathies to Ben's family.
Vikki Morford-Bennett
August 9, 2012
My dear Ben, we spoke only a few weeks ago and tears are falling as I write this. You are and were such a beautiful soul and I will never forget you. Your influence on my life will last forever!
darrell cone
August 9, 2012
I feel privileged to have known Ben on both a professional and personal basis. Ben was a wonderful person always smiling and glad to see me. I will miss Ben greatly.
Darrell Cone
Habitat For Humanity Restore
John Taylor
August 9, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May the strength of your family and faith carry you through this very difficult time.
Anne Chaffin
August 9, 2012
Dear Mike, Grace and all the Sundermeier Family,
I am so saddened for you all. I have such strong and vivid memories of Ben being kind, compassionate, warm and friendly from our times at Holy Family together as children and teens.
He will be dearly missed by the many who love him.
Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time.
Much love and peace,
Anne Ramsey Chaffin
August 9, 2012
From Ben Jonson, when his son Ben, died:
It is not growing like a tree
In bulk doth make Man better be;
Or standing long an oak, three hundred year,
To fall a log at last, dry, bald, and sere:
A lily of a day
Is fairer far in May,
Although it fall and die that night—
It was the plant and flower of light.
In small proportions we just beauties see;
And in short measures life may perfect be. Garcia Family
August 8, 2012
My very deepest sympathy to you and your family, my thoughts are prayers are with you.
Sue Wisehart
August 8, 2012
Dr. Sundermeier and family, May God's love give you comfort at this difficult time. May time provide wisdom and understanding.
Jack Healy and Kathy Buso Healy
San Antonio, Texas
Nancy Gordon
August 8, 2012
Rebecca, Please accept my sincere sympathies on the physical loss of your brother Ben. Praying that your memories of him will bring you comfort and your faith, peace.
Ben certainly was quite accomplished and well traveled in his short life.
May God's love empower you with stength and peace. My thoughts and prayers remain with you.
Lynn Karabatsos Retter
August 8, 2012
Dr. and Mrs. Sundermeier and family, I am so very sorry to hear of this sudden loss of your incredible son, brother, uncle. Please know the Karabatsos family sends our deepest condolences at this time. Our prayers are constant for all of you.
Regina Kort
August 8, 2012
I feel privileged to have known Ben. He was a gentle soul who enriched my life. We just had a leisurely lunch two weeks ago and promised to get together sooner than later.........how lucky I am that I had that time with him before he passed away. I will miss my special friend.
Jo Marie
August 8, 2012
Ben, you are a kind soul with a gentle heart. Thank you for the beauty and all that you did for our Columbus Park Neighborhood. YOU helped make it a better place to live. You are missed, but will never be forgotten. May you be held in the palm of Gods hand.
Your Columbus Park friend and neighbor.
Richard & Mary O'Gara
August 8, 2012
We feel as if a family member has passed from our midst. Ben always had a smile and more ideas than he could articulate when you met him personally or professionally. His intelligence, drive, personality and humility will be missed by all who know him and those that would have met him in the future. Our sincere condolences to his family and friends.
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