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KATHARINE A. GOODNOW

1936 - 2014

KATHARINE A. GOODNOW obituary, 1936-2014, Kansas City, MO

BORN

1936

DIED

2014

KATHARINE GOODNOW Obituary

KATHARINE A. (LONDON) GOODNOW Katharine (Kay) Goodnow, 77, passed away Saturday, July 19, 2014, at Lakeview Village in Lenexa, Kansas, surrounded by the love of her family, her friends and Crossroads Hospice. Kay was born on July 20, 1936, in Kansas City, Missouri, to the late William J. and Emily London. She attended Notre Dame de Sion High School, Baker University and the University of Missouri. Kay's seemingly endless energy and phenomenal communication skills served her brilliantly in her insurance, publishing, retail and real estate careers. She gave tirelessly of her time and talent to the Alpha Chi Omega Sorority, Daughters of the American Revolution, Johnson County Young Matrons, Shrine Ladies, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests and the Philanthropic and Educational Organization for Women. She was also an accomplished classically-trained pianist and published author. For the last several years, she was actively engaged in the Lakeview Village community; volunteering in the "What Not Shop" and the Lakeview Pantry, contributing writings to the Lakeview Journal and assisting with the 50th Anniversary Celebration. Kay was preceded in death by her brother, William J. London, Jr., who gave his life to his country in 1970 while in the service of the United States Air Force. She is survived by her loyal husband of 51 years, Weston E. Goodnow of Lakeview Village, Lenexa; her devoted sister, Allison "Peachy" Smith and partner Bob Williams of West Plains, Mo.; her daughters, Allison (Goodnow) Verman and husband Brian of Independence, Mo., and Betsy (Goodnow) Masters and husband John of Merriam, Kan., her son, Bill Goodnow, nine grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. A celebration of Kay's life will be at 10 a.m. Tuesday, July 29, Lakeview Village, 9100 Park St. Lenexa. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory are suggested to the Child Protection Center; 3101 Broadway, Suite 750, Kansas City, MO 64111, or to Crossroads Hospice, 11150 Thompson Ave., Lenexa, KS 66219. Ever a crusader in life, our mother has waged her final battle. We mourn her passing, yet rejoice that she finally can be at peace.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Jul. 23, 2014.

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Donna Dempsey

September 6, 2015

As a survivor I met Kay at several SNAP workshops and was impressed with her dedication to this cause. What struck me about Kay was her incredibly positive outlook and lovely sense of humour. A Canuck who will forever have a place in my heart for Kay.

Gayle Van Auken

August 4, 2014

I met Kay only recently at the Lakeview Village Care Center. She was my mother's roommate. My mom was, like Kay, being cared for by Crossroads Hospice, a wonderful group of caregivers. I spoke with Kay on only a few occasions. In the last weeks when I was visiting she was often sleeping. Just from those few times, I am not at all surprised to learn what a splendid human being she was. My mom, Dorothy Jensen, passed away on July 25th. She was 97.

My mom was quite ready to depart this world. She had lived a good life. Kay was taken much too soon. I regret not having known her before her illness. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Douglas Stewart

July 29, 2014

Our deepest sympathies to you all. Mrs. Goodnow was quite a woman - formidable, as you so eloquently said, Allison. She was always very gracious and sweet to me. Love and condolences to you all, on behalf of our family.

Willis Wilson

July 29, 2014

Wes - Please accept my deepest sympathy and condolences.

Diane Blackwelder National President, Alpha Chi Omega

July 28, 2014

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your wife, mother, grandmother and mentor to many. I met Mrs. Goodnow when I was an undergraduate at Baker University and she guided our Omicron chapter members with wisdom, humor, personality, and challenge. She set the bar high for our sisterhood - and that's how I continued to be involve with the sorority all these years. She never forgot anyone and it was always a treat to spend time with her. She was a true leader and had many followers. Thank you, Kay, for being a Real. Strong. Woman and paving the way to "Seek the Heights."

Kim & Kevin Dunn

July 27, 2014

So sorry - know that we are thinking about you all during this difficult time... Hugs from NY
Kim and Kevin

July 27, 2014

Our sincere sympathy to the family. Kay is at peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Eldon and Judy Masters.

Jan Marie First

July 25, 2014

Katharine was an incredible woman. She inspired me and meant a lot to me. She made the world a little brighter with her presence.

Steve Theisen

July 25, 2014

Kay was very special to me. She helped me so, so much when I began my healing journey.
I'll miss her but is a comfort to know that I was so fortunate to know her.

Sincere sympathies to her family.

Carla Mattson

July 25, 2014

As an Alpha Chi Omega, I was able to know Kay. She will be missed by all.
Carla Mattson, MuMu of AXO

July 24, 2014

Kay and I have been best friends since 1944 when we lived on Locust, in Kansas City, MO. We went through school together, at Notre Dame de Sion, and stayed in touch through the years, long after I left K.C. I last saw Kay in October 2012, while in K.C. for Sion's 100th anniversary. I am blessed to have known this brilliant, courageous woman, and my condolences go to her beloved family: Wes, Allison, Betsy, and Peachy.

Felecia Fenberg Stitcher
Surprise, AZ

Alan Tenczar

July 23, 2014

May God bless you Kay on your new journey. Your dedication to the safety of children as well as your friendship will alway be cherished. I'll miss you.

mike ference

July 23, 2014

Kay Goodnow is in a much better place, I'm sure. Not only was she a champion for survivors, but Kay was truly a champion for all of mankind. Although she'll be missed, there's no doubt in my mind that Kay's spirit will live on and continue to fight for those who need it the most.

Irene Deschenes

July 23, 2014

I have such fond memories of Kay. She taught me so much in the years I knew her. She spoke so fondly of her family - her beloved Wes, two daughters and her son, as well as her grandchildren.

RIP dear friend and Warrior Woman; you've earned at least that.

My roommate at SNAP Conferences :)

Irene Deschenes

July 23, 2014

July 23, 2014

My heart almost stopped. I met Kay through Bill as a teenager and we connected again in our very early 30's. Both lived in Nall Hills. It was Kay who told me that if I had not dusted that day just to spray a little Pledge before the husband came home:>) We lost touch. I divorced and remarried,moving to OH and then lived for years in MA...Allison I remember you well. I, too, have an Allison. I have always remembered Kay as a wonderful spirit and so she will remain in my heart.
Julie(then Bath) now Julie Bright, Leawood, KS

Bob Schwiderski

July 23, 2014

Kay touched my soul.

david clohessy

July 23, 2014

Kay was indeed a crusader, but a crusader with a huge heart. Our deepest condolences to her family.

David Clohessy, SNAP

Susan (Schaumburg) Ainsworth

July 23, 2014

Kay will be sorely missed by many, not least of all her Alpha Chi Omega sisters. I will miss her sense of humor! Credo, Kay!

Sheryl Hartje

July 23, 2014

Hugs to you Betsy and Allison. Love you.

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