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ANTHONY MITHELAVAGE Obituary

Tony Mithelavage fought the most valiant battle against cancer, on November 26, 2013, but he is now humbly kneeling before Our Lord. Tony is well known for his life-long list of bowling achievements; his life- long career in information Technology, and his love for sports cars. As a 15-year old, Tony received continuous recognition for his bowling skills, including 12 weeks on the Junior Bowling Championship TV series, averaging over 200 during that span. In the late '60's and early '70's, Tony established himself as one of the most accomplished bowlers in the Kansas City area. He has 19 perfect 300 games, several 800 series and a lifetime average of 210. Tony graduated from St. Mary's High School in 1961 at the age of 16. He attended Rockhurst College and then enlisted in the U.S. Air Force Reserves. For over 50 years, Tony worked in the IT field. He retired this past year from his last employer, Meyer Companies, headquartered in Lee's Summit. Tony has always had great enthusiasm for sports cars, especially the Datsun / Nissan Z-Car line. Tony is a founding member of the nationally recognized Heart of America Z Car Club. He is generally considered to be the person who made it what it is today. Tony is a member of St. Mark's Catholic Church in Independence and is a 4th Degree member of the Knights of Columbus. Tony is preceded in death by his parents, Anthony V. (Tony Sr.) and Anna (Pauline) Mithelavage and his nephew, Jeffery Still. He is survived by his new bride Connie Mithelavage of Independence; his sister Cathy Savlin of Independence; his sister Phyllis Still (Frank) of St. Joseph; his brother Mick Mithelavage (Anna) of Lee's Summit; his brother John Mithelavage of Kansas City; his former spouse Loreta Mithelavage of Grandview; dozens of nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews. Donations to Catholic Charities please. (www.catholiccharities- kcsj.org) Visitation will be from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm on Sunday, December 1, at Carson-Speaks Funeral Home at 1501 West Lexington, Independence. Funeral Mass will begin at 2:00 pm on Monday, December 2, at St. Mark's Catholic Church at 3736 S. Lee's Summit Road in Independence, (816- 373-2600). Interment will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery at 7601 Blue Ridge Blvd., Raytown. Special note to Z-Car owners: We expect you to show up in style. On line condolences may be expressed at www.speakschapel.com. Arrangements: Carson-Speaks Chapel 816-252-7900)

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Published by Kansas City Star on Nov. 29, 2013.

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Brian & Dee Ann Lange

December 3, 2013

Tony was one of those guys that made everyone around him a little better of a person. Watching his success with people would make you want to me a little more like him: kind and sincere. We will miss him.

Gloria West

December 3, 2013

I am sorry to hear of Tony's passing away. He and I were co-workers at Universal Mfg Co. He was a wonderful person to work with. I send prayers to his family.

Shannan Mulcahey

December 2, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Peace and comfort to you.

Tami & Kevin

December 2, 2013

Tony was such a sweet person. Always treated everyone with kindness and respect. He will be missed by so many. Our condolences to his bride, Connie, and all the Mithelavage Family.

Nena & Greg Bittner

December 1, 2013

RIP Tony. Our thoughts & Prayers For You & Your Love Ones You Leave behind Knowing Your in Good Hand with God in Heaven!I Enjoy Bowling with You in the Filipino Mixed League for years!You Went to Coronation of Our Lady Parish Church were we also go Greg & I We will miss You Dear Friend!!

Scott Brown

November 30, 2013

We pray for God to comfort you and your family in this season of sorrow.

Judy and Dave Soutar

November 30, 2013

Our prayers are with your family. We were lucky to know Tony in his early bowling days before we moved to Florida. He will be missed by many who knew and loved him.

Ray and Nancy Elder

November 30, 2013

Connie: Ray and I send our prayers and condolences - He was a very special person.

November 30, 2013

Connie, My deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers for you at this very difficult time...Karole Zinger

Sharon Comer

November 30, 2013

God's blessings to you Connie and to Tony's family...Saying prayers for you both at this difficult time..

November 30, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

John and Pat Bayless

Mary Cincotta

November 30, 2013

Connie, Thinking of you in this difficult time and praying that you will find comfort in your memories and your faith.

November 30, 2013

My dear Connie,
My thoughts and prayers are with and for you and Tony's family.
Though I didn't know Tony, I know he was special.
I leave you in God's hands and pray for your peace and serenity.
Bobbie

Rhonda Gilmore Shields

November 29, 2013

My parents (Jay and Laila) were heartbroken when I told them of Tony's passing. I loved watching him bowl when I went to work with my mother at Maywood. Thoughts and prayers for your family.

linda white

November 29, 2013

I consider it a priviledge to have known Tony, he was a quiet, kind and gentle man. He left a great example of a life well lived for his friends and family.

Roberta Kipper

November 29, 2013

I'm so sorry to be unable to attend. My heartfelt sympathy to Connie and Tony's family. You are all in my prayers.

Bob

November 29, 2013

I am grateful for the life of Mr. Mithelavage. Thanks to his service and to the service of others in our armed forces, my family and I have been able to lead our lives in freedom and peace.

Mary Ellem Myers

November 29, 2013

Mike and Anna, so sorry to hear about your brother.

November 29, 2013

I will always have fond memories of Tony from the old & current days at the time I was a member of the Z club. His kindness, gentleness & dedication to the club's success. I know that on his final journey, God will give him his greatest ride through the golden gates right into heaven. Chuck Bua

Sue Kinney-Bullington

November 29, 2013

Started grade school with Tony,St Ann's,such a long time ago. So sorry for your loss.

Cindy and Daryl Craft

November 29, 2013

We wish we had known Tony better but in the time spent together in HAZCC we respected Tony as a totally CLASS guy who was passionate about the things in life that were important to him.

November 29, 2013

Connie - we love you and will miss Tony....your sweet, quiet soul mate.

Sharon and Brad Jones

Don Thomas Sr.

November 29, 2013

How sad to hear of Tony M's passing! Seems only a short time ago that Tony and I worked at the Maywood Bowl! Quite a shock that it has been nearly sixty years ago. Tony is one of my fond memories of those years. I will keep his family in my prayers and meditations. God Bless you all, real good!

steve sealock

November 29, 2013

Connie.... Thinking about you and praying for you... ..what great memories you and Tony made...
... Janet & Steve Sealock

O'Sullivan Jim

November 29, 2013

I appeared with Tony on Bowlin with Molin in the 50's. Was an honor to have met him. May his soul forever rest in peace.

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3736 S. Lee's Summit Road, Independence, MO

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