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SYLVAN SIEGLER Obituary

Sylvan Siegler, 85, passed away peacefully on September 4, 2010 with his loving family at his side. Sylvan was a prominent tax attorney for 57 years and an active member of the Kansas City community for more than half a century. A service honoring Sylvan will be held on Tuesday, September 7 at 10am at Congregation Beth Shalom (9400 Wornall Rd., K.C., MO 64114). There will be a private, family burial. Sylvan was born on July 11, 1925 in Kaisersesch, Germany to Bernhard and Amalia Siegler (nee Ermann), who immigrated to the U.S. in 1937 with 12-year old Sylvan and 10-year old Manfred. The family lived first with relatives in Pittsburgh, PA. They then moved to Maysville, MO, where Sylvan attended a one- room schoolhouse, where he was initially placed in a second grade class because he knew very little English. The family then moved to Omaha, NE. Always a quick study, Sylvan graduated, as valedictorian, of his several- hundred student class at Omaha's Central High School in 1943. Sylvan's exceptional work ethic was formulated at a young age; he held a number of part- time jobs during junior high school and high school, including delivering newspapers, shining shoes and bagging groceries. He was particularly proud of an essay published in the 1941 edition of the Thanksgiving Day Omaha World Herald entitled "Thankful for Refuge," that highlighted his appreciation for the gifts of freedom, democracy and opportunity provided in America and won him a $5 prize from the newspaper. "Probably the only thing that could discourage me from writing about all of those things which make me thankful is the tremendous size of such a job," said Sylvan in the article. In 1943, Sylvan volunteered for the U.S. Army, where he served in Company K of the 405th Infantry Regiment of the 102nd Infantry Division, which participated in the invasion of Germany. Sylvan was awarded the Purple Heart for wounds sustained in battle in November, 1944 and numerous other decorations and medals, including the Bronze Star and Combat Infantryman's Badge. In April, 1945, he was reassigned to Headquarters Company, 3rd Battalion, to participate in interrogating prisoners of war and communicating with civilians in occupied German areas. He served with Military Government in Bavaria until May, 1946. Following the war, Sylvan attended the University of Nebraska-Omaha and received his J.D. from the Creighton University School of Law in 1950. He was recalled to active duty during the Korean War, where he served as an Army civilian lawyer, near Tokyo, from August, 1951 to November, 1952. Sylvan began his legal career with the Internal Revenue Service, where he served with the Office of Chief Counsel and was Assistant Regional Counsel in charge of the St. Louis office. He was a partner for the past 21 years with Shook, Hardy & Bacon, where he mentored many younger attorneys and enjoyed the firm's camaraderie and team approach. Sylvan previously spent 27 years as a partner with law firm Margolin & Kirwan. He was Chair of the Taxation Law Committee of the Missouri Bar Association and Co-Chair of the Heart of America Tax Institute. Sylvan was Vice Chairman of the American Bar Association (ABA) Section of Taxation and also served on various committees of the Section. In 2005, Sylvan was presented with the Jules Ritholz Memorial Merit Award "in recognition of outstanding dedication, achievements and integrity in the field of civil and criminal tax controversies." He has been listed in every issue of The Best Lawyers in America for 25 years. Sylvan, with his friend and law partner, Stan Weiner, developed the succession plan to keep the Kansas City Royals in town after the death of owner Ewing Kauffman. The innovative, tax- structured sale allowed the baseball team to be bequeathed to the Greater Kansas City Community Foundation and directed proceeds from the sale to local charities. "Give more than you get," was a favorite saying of Sylvan, who supported a variety of charitable and civic organizations and strove to make the world a better place. Sylvan was awarded the Donald Chisholm Award for outstanding service to the community from the Greater Kansas City Community Foundation. He was active with Congregation Beth Shalom, where he was President of the Congregation and the Men's Club and Co-President of the Couples Club. As a lay leader, he served as the congregation's Gabbai Rishon and led Friday morning religious services for many years. He also was Vice President and Trustee of the Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy, Vice President of the Jewish Community Center and a Member of the Board of Trustees for the Jewish Community Foundation. Sylvan will be remembered for his love of God and country, service to community, sharp mind and extraordinary sense of humor. He is survived by Merna, loving wife of 51 years, three children (son Mitchell and wife, Elizabeth of San Diego, CA; son Jerry and wife, Stacy of Memphis, TN; and daughter Susan and husband, Moti Rieber of Overland Park, KS) and eight grandchildren (Jacob, Rebecca, Emily, Adam, Hannah, Elianna, Abigail and Joseph), brother, Manfred (wife, Virginia of San Jose, CA), sister, Judy (husband, Gary Liberson of Washington, D.C.), sister-in- law, Carol Lee Seliger, of Houston, TX, and countless relatives and friends. In lieu of flowers, Sylvan's family would be honored by a donation to either the Siegler Family Fund at Congregation Beth Shalom (14200 Lamar, Overland Park, KS 66223), the Siegler Family Fund at the Jewish Community Foundation of Greater Kansas City (5801 W. 115th St., Ste, 104, Overland Park, KS 66211) or the charity of your choice. Online guest book at www.louismemorialchapel.com Arr.: The Louis Memorial Chapel, (816) 361-5211.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Sep. 5, 2010.

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Paula Brown

October 18, 2010

Dear Siegler Family,
I cannot say enough good about your dear Sylvan. I worked with him on the Lawyers Association of Kansas City Board of Directors and have always been so impressed by his kindness, humbleness, intelligence and giving spirit. (His neckties were always my favorites, too!) I will sorely miss this fine example of what a lawyer and a man should be. You have my deepest sympathies.

Leslie and Bill Fargotstein

September 14, 2010

Dear Siegler Family,
We were so sad to hear about your loss. My connection to your family is through my long friendship with Jerry which started when we met at the University of Missouri. After some years later our paths crossed again when we both married people from Memphis and settled here. He was then and is now one of the nicest, and most genuine guys I have ever known. I believe this is a true testament to having such good and caring parents. Today especially I think of Mr. Siegler of blessed memory . May your memories and the love of of your friends and family give you comfort at this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincere Sympathy- Leslie and Bill Fargotstein and Family

Jim Merritt

September 9, 2010

Merna, as I know you are aware, Sylvan gave me and others great support and confidence. He was always most gracious and encouraging to me and my nontax partners. I will miss him and I wish you my condolences upon your loss. Jim Merritt (Sherwood Oregon).

Joel & Judi Gerber

September 8, 2010

Merna: We were sorry to hear about Sylvan. In addition to his connection through family, he was helpful at various stages of Joel's career, providing thoughtful advice and alway willing to supply a solution to problems that he perceived. Sylvan had the highest reputation in the Tax community. All knew him to be thoughtful, honest, and courteous, which sadly is not always the case with lawyers. His selfless service to the community and the bar was well-known and will not soon be forgotten. Please accept our profound and sincere sympathy. With love, Joel and Judi Gerber

Evelyn Hanauer

September 8, 2010

Merna,

Sylvan was one of the sweetest and most caring individuals I have ever met. He supported so many and so many wonderful causes. Each year he always brought in cards for St. Jude Children's Research Hospital that the two of you had made. He always had a smile on his face whenever you would encounter him in the halls or the elevators at SHB. He will be missed. I am so sorry I could not make the service. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Ann Cohen

September 8, 2010

Dear Myrna and Family,

We "go back a long time", and we share your loss. Please accept my sincere sympathy.

Karen Hawkins

September 7, 2010

Myrna: You know how much I care for you and Sylvan and am so very sad to hear such a wonderful man has left us. Sylvan was one of my biggest supporters (and fans) for which I always felt both honored and blessed.
Sylvan's contributions to the ABA Tax Section will endure forever and there will NEVER be another gentleman of his caliber walking the halls of ABA meetings. I know how much you loved one another and I know how much you will miss him. However, I also know how many beautiful memories you have to reflect on of your time together. I was not able to make the memorial service but I am sure it was something which would have made Sylvan blush. I will miss him terribley. Love, Karen

September 7, 2010

Mrs. Siegler, please accept my condolences. Sylvan was an outstanding tax lawyer. He really did give more than he got back. Charley Jensen, Kansas City, MO.

September 7, 2010

Mrs. Siegler,

Sylvan is someone who always encouraged me during my time at Shook Hardy & Bacon. He was a great man.

Scott Nehrbass
Foulston Siefkin LLP

September 6, 2010

Merna,
Erwin and I join in sending you our sincerest condolences on the loss of Sylvan. May his memory forever be a source of strength and comfort to you and your family.
Phyllis and Erwin Abrams
Arnold, MD

Peter and Becky Berman

September 6, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Sylvan Siegler family during this time.

September 6, 2010

Merna, please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved Sylvan. Bea used to talk about him so much and even though I hadn't seen him much in recent years, she kept me up to date. My best to your family. Judy Fremerman

Michael Kaye

September 6, 2010

Dear Merna, your family, and friends,

We remember last seeing you and Sylvan at an afternoon chamber music concert at the JCC. We will not forget Sylvan's warm words of greeting and friendship. Yesterday we recalled your Passover seder we attended and thought of the many times we met you at the synagogue. Words cannot express how much we admired and genuinely liked Sylvan ( and you of course). He gave so much to the Jewish community and helped us feel that we too were members.

Susana L. Valdovinos, Michael Kaye and children.

Barbara Penzner

September 6, 2010

My heart goes out to Merna, Mitchell, Jerry and Susie and your entire family. All of my memories of Sylvan are of a man of integrity, graciousness, generosity and learning. He was a great man. May his memory bring blessing to us all.

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