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JOHN HESSLER Obituary

John Charles Hessler, 55, of Belton, MO, died peacefully on Oct. 31, 2012. John was born June 3, 1957, to John and Shirley Hessler. After graduating from Grandview H.S., he attended Crowder College on a baseball scholarship. His sophomore year he was drafted by several major league baseball teams, including the Mets and the Phillies, but turned them down to continue his education at Tulsa University. In 1978, in a 3rd round draft, he started his professional career as a pitcher for the Houston Astros. "Big John" was a jokester with a big heart that matched his big personality. He loved spending time with family and friends and was always the life of the party. He always took pride in a hard days work. John is survived by his 3 daughters, Julie and Lori Hessler, Kristi Watt; 3 granddaughters Alize', Hailey and Paige; brothers and sisters Butch and Skip Gregory, Gail Cole, Chris and Gretchen Hessler, Gloria and husband Mike Brinker, as well as many nieces and nephews, extended family and friends. In one last act of giving, John decided to donate his body to Science Care, a research institute. For memorial service details please contact an immediate family member or email [email protected].

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Published by Kansas City Star on Nov. 4, 2012.

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Stacey Denney Wilson

February 20, 2013

We all remember that smile...

Lori Hessler

February 19, 2013

Hey Dad,
Just thinking about you today. I hope that your happy and healthy where ever you are. When you came and saw me that night, it really put my mind at ease. Your smile(and full head of hair) spoke a thousand word : ) i still miss the hell out of you! I will keep on keepin' on, till we meet again.Love you dad!

Lori Hessler

November 12, 2012

Well Dad, I think the memorial went really well. I think it was exactly what you would have wanted. The whole family got together, shared great stories and memories about you, then we made a toast in your honor, and sat down for some drinks together. I cried a little, you always said "theres no crying in baseball" but we werent playing baseball, so i think it was ok : ) I love you so much dad, and I miss you. Thank you to all who came to honor my dad in the respect he deserved. He loved everyone so much. Dad, we will continue to work hard and play harder, just like you always wanted us to, and you will be in our hearts and thoughts the whole time. Until i see you again; I love you and miss you and always will.

November 12, 2012

To my brother and friend may you R.I.P. I will miss the good times and laughs and arguments that we had. And all the times we went to breakfast at the VFW. Great times were had by all. Miss you bro'. It was a wonderful memorial as you very well know. Love you

Jackie Gessaro

November 7, 2012

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Marcia Roberts

November 5, 2012

I knew John in the early 90's through Fitzsimmons in Grandview; he was a favorite of everyone, He always talked about his girls and how great they were; my prayers are with you all durig this difficult time.

Cindy Harvey

November 4, 2012

Hess was our friend and lifelong buddy! His heart was big and those brown eyes were so forgiving! He loved his family and was so proud! He will be missed by the Harvey family!

Stacey Denney Wilson

November 4, 2012

I'm so sorry for the sadness that John's passing has brought to the family and friends he has left behind, especially his girls. He could make you feel so safe and loved. He will be missed.

Autumn Coleman

November 4, 2012

I grew up with John as my second dad. I will miss him dearly. You were a great man. RIP John

Beverly Denney Carter

November 4, 2012

Rest in Peace, John. You will be missd.

Carol Farrington

November 4, 2012

Uncle Pat and I are thinking about and praying for you girls and your dad. He truely was one of the best guy I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. We had so many good times together throughout the years. He loved you girls so much and you were so lucky to have him for a father.

Beverly Denney Carter

November 4, 2012

I'm the mother of Stacey Denney Wilson and knew John through her. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Especially his daughters that I knew as lovely little girls and I'm sure they're now lovely young women. My condolances to all who loved him. May he rest in peace.

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