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Dorothy Carter Haven Obituary

Dorothy Carter Haven March 27, 1914 - January 2, 2017 La Jolla Dorothy left this world on the evening of January 2, 2017, after a very short illness. She was 102 and lived every day to the fullest. Dorothy was born in her parents home in Clintonville, Wisconsin, on March 27 1914. Dorothy moved to La Jolla from Clintonville, Wisconsin, during WWII while her husband served in the Philippines. She fell in love with the area and the people. In 1950, she and Franklin purchased a lot in the Bird Rock area. She then asked her father to come out from Wisconsin to build her dream home. She lived independently in this home until her death and it is one of the few remaining original homes in the area.Dorothy attended Sherwood School of Music and Drama in Chicago and earned her teaching credential from Oshkosh State Teachers College in 1943. She taught at various schools in the La Jolla area, retiring from La Jolla High School as the Registrar in 1984. She was very active in the Theater Arts and earned her Masters Degree from San Diego State in 1970. Dorothy starred as a Mono Actress from 1945 to 1963 playing rolls as Mary, Mother of Jesus, Queen Victoria, Concepcion Arguello and Tamsen Donner. She was an active volunteer for the Old Globe Theater, the Old School House in Old Town, the San Diego Historical Museum in Balboa Park and the La Jolla Historical Museum, where in 2013 she presented a program of Life in La Jolla During the War Years.Dorothy was preceded in death by her husband, Franklin and is survived by her daughter, Jeri Bellona of Gardnerville NV; three grandchildren; four great-grandchildren; and a son, Carter Haven, of Lompoc CA.In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in the memory of Dorothy to the La Jolla Historical Society. Please sign the guest book online at legacy.com/obituaries/ lajollalight .

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Published by La Jolla Light on Jan. 12, 2017.

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Lee Lambert

May 6, 2017

I was also a student of Mrs. Haven's. I remember her class at the old location of La Jolla Country Day school (where she taught in the early '60s). I send my condolences to her family.(I had the privilege of seeing her at a '60s grads reunion held in May of '08 at the old location of the Balmer school (at the Wisteria cottage)in La Jolla... Just found out about her passing today...How sad.

chris travers

January 23, 2017

I enjoyed seeing Dorothy every week, as we all did. She was such a lovely person, always smiling and spreading kindness. I can't help but smile when I think of her. Dorothy was a good example of how to grow old with grace. We will miss her physical presence but it feels like she's still here with us too!

January 20, 2017

With deepest sympathy, may the power of prayer ease your sorrow, give you peace and provide much comfort for you and your family during this difficult time. (Matthew 21:22)

Karl Moore

January 18, 2017

Dorothy was more that a teacher to me. She was also my mentor. A great part of what I am today is because of her instructions, not only dramatics but also in how to approach and deal with life.
There are those who bring a light so great to the world that even after they are gone, the light remains.

Karl Moore & Georgann
Class of 1946
La Jolla High School

Karl Moore

January 18, 2017

There are those who bring a light so great to the the world that even after they are gone, the light remains.
Dorothy was my mentor and much of what I am today is from her teaching and friendship though the years.

Karl Moore and Georgann
Class of 1946
La Jolla High School

Connie

January 16, 2017

May the God of comfort be with you at this time

Helen Cartwright

January 14, 2017

Mrs. Haven was one of the most outstanding teachers I ever had in my life. I was her student at La Jolla Country Day School and to this day, my memories of her are vivid and wonderful. She was a brilliant and talented teacher. Thank you, Mrs. Haven!
Helen Henderson Cartwright

Brian Earley

January 14, 2017

We were so fortunate to have Ms. Haven as our neighbor. Thank you for all that you did for La Jolla, San Diego and your family's service to our country. You will always be in La Jolla.

January 14, 2017

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I pray in the midst of your sorrow you find comfort in all
the joyful memories shared and will always cherish these beautiful memories . Romans 15:13 -

D. Wilmington-California

S. Jenkins

January 13, 2017

Sending my condolences to the family, may the peace of God be with you and the many DECADES of joyful memories of the active Ms. Dorothy serve to assist you through these difficult days.

January 13, 2017

Condolences to the family,sorry for your loss,may the good times spent with Dorothy live on in your memory.while you look forward to Jesus promise at. John

11:25.

January 12, 2017

With deepest sympathy, may the power of prayer ease your sorrow, give you peace and provide much comfort for you and your family during this difficult time. (Matthew 21:22)
D. Wilmington-California

KELLEY

January 12, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FRIENDS AND FAMILY SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BE OF COMFORT TO YOUR FAMILY.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

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