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Dr. Richard Farson

1926 - 2017

Dr. Richard Farson obituary, 1926-2017, La Jolla, CA

Richard Farson Obituary

Dr. Richard Farson
1926 - 2017, La Jolla
Dr. Richard Farson, a behavioral psychologist, author, educator, and president of the Western Behavioral Sciences Institute, was known for his innovative work in areas diverse as group therapy, children's rights, organizational leadership, distance education and design. He came to an understanding that "absurdity and paradox are the rule, not the exception" in human relations. He died Thursday, June 13, 2017, at the age of 90 in La Jolla, CA.
Born in Chicago and raised in Glendale, CA, Farson attended the University of Minnesota as a Naval officer trainee. He received his bachelor's and master's degrees from Occidental College where he met his mentor, famed psychologist Carl Rogers, and went on to study with Rogers at the University of Chicago, receiving his Ph.D. in psychology there in 1955. With Rogers he coauthored an article titled "Active Listening" which introduced this term into the vocabulary. While serving two years of active duty as a research officer studying motivation, morale and leadership for the Navy in San Diego, Farson visited La Jolla and fell in love with the clear water and white sand of WindanSea Beach.
In 1958, along with physicist Paul E. Lloyd and social psychologist Wayman (Bud) Crow, he formed The Western Behavioral Sciences Institute (WBSI), a nonprofit think tank in La Jolla devoted to improving human relations. During the 1960s Farson and his colleagues, who included Carl Rogers and other mentors such as psychologists Abraham Maslow and Alex Bavelas, did pioneering work in, for example, leaderless group therapy, producing an Oscar-winning documentary film Journal into Self, and in criminology, employing ex-offenders as researchers in studies that led to large reductions in crime in convenience stores. Upon being named chairman of the board of WBSI in 1968, Farson left the staff to become founding dean of the School of Design at the California Institute of the Arts, where the emphasis was on social and environmental design. His interest in the field of design was evidenced also by his over 30-year membership on the board of directors of the International Design Conference in Aspen, a leading forum for interdisciplinary discussions of the designed environment. In 1974, Farson published Birthrights: A Bill of Rights for Children, which examines how a society designed by adults conspires against children, and calls for a radical recasting of the status of children. Upon the invitation of Michael Murphy, Farson served for a year as president of Esalen Institute in Big Sur and San Francisco, and moved his family to Marin County. Bouncing around from job to job in the heady environment of the human potential movement of the 1970s, Farson, with characteristic self-deprecating humor, would later joke that his life and career had really been a sequence of failures.
Rather than reward success and penalize failure, Farson proposed that we focus on what can be learned from both. Paradoxically, Farson argued, the less we chase success and flee from failure, the more likely we are to genuinely succeed.
Returning to WBSI in 1979, he did pioneering work in online distance education, creating virtual communities of leaders in the School of Management and Strategic Studies. Among his other books are Management of the Absurd: Paradoxes in Leadership, Whoever Makes the Most Mistakes Wins (with Ralph Keyes), and The Power of Design: A Force for Transforming Everything, which champions the potential role of designers in shaping our social and physical infrastructure.
Never truly retiring, he continued to write and lecture with passion in his later years, to enjoy daily swims at WindanSea Beach, and to participate in the caf society of his La Jolla community. A great proponent of the importance of community life, he abhorred bad architecture and refused to shop at big-box stores.
Richard Farson was married and divorced twice, his first wife, Elizabeth Grimes Farson predeceased him and is survived by his second wife, Dawn Farson; five children, Lisa Maher, Clark Farson, Joel Farson, Ashley Bush, Jeremy Farson; six grandchildren, John Maher, Page Schlumpberger, Logan Messina, Savannah Bush, Clark and Chloe Farson; and one great-granddaughter, Ava Schlumpberger.
A celebration of life service will be held at a future date. Please sign the guest book online.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by La Jolla Light on Jul. 20, 2017.

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Andrea Lawrence-Stuart

July 14, 2021

Dear Dick (a k.a. my Boss): Not a day passes without a reminder of your strong presence and great heart. I do not claim to be religious but I cannot fathom a world without any of us who knew you holding you in our hearts and memories. That is a worldwide circle, when one thinks of it . As long asball who loved and admired you are still living, and as your continuing family for generations yet to come retells your life and great accomplishments, you are still here with them in spirit. And those who worked with and for you are privileged to be in your company.

David A Sleet, Ph.D.

August 25, 2020

As a graduate student in psychology and resident of La Jolla, I admired Dick for his leadership in humanistic leadership and organizational psychology based on human principles. I often visited with Carl Rogers at CSP after he left WBSI and he always had praise for Dr Farson's contributions. I miss that 1970-1980s era of peace and hopefullness.

William Grotevant

August 25, 2020

My apologies for this late entry .. and my condolences to Richard's family. I had the pleasure of meeting with Richard in La Jolla in the early 80's - he was genuinely 'human' and very compassionate/passionate about life and the environments (design) that support life. He was uniquely inquisitive and lived a 360 degree life. He inspired me in my professional career, and I am very grateful.

Friederike Bornträger

October 24, 2018

The Power of Design inspired and influenced my work a lot. Grateful for that I leave my best wishes to all who remember him and his work.

Kathleen O'Neal

May 7, 2018

Rest in peace and power, youth liberationist forefather. May you look down on the work I do in your stead with pride and may it bring us both honor. <3

The face of a woman whose life was changed by Richard Farson's work.

Kathleen O'Neal

May 7, 2018

Reading Richard Farson's Birthrights in 2011 changed the trajectory of my life. Reading this book inspired me to commit myself to the project of liberation for young people for the rest of my life. In the fall I will begin a Ph.D program at the University of Maryland in Philosophy. I was admitted there with the understanding that my primary research interest would be youth liberation. I am also currently at work on a book project of my own which draws heavily on Farson's work to make the case for youth liberation to a new generation. May this pioneer of youth liberation rest in peace and power forever.

Scott Wimer

March 5, 2018

It is comforting to read of others' love and at admiration for him. I had known Richard Farson about 10 or 15 years ago, and he was truly a great thinker, a man with a contagious and wonderful sense of humor, and a person with a true zest for life.

He was a real renaissance man. He made contributions in so many areas.

I was saddened to learn of his death, but the world is a better place I am sure because he has lived.

Sincerely,

Scott Wimer

Mara Robledo

December 1, 2017

I truly sorry for this loss. My sincere condolences to family, friends, colleagues and students.

Dr. Farson changed the way I relate to the world through my profession. Becoming a "Metadesigner" has being one of the most challenging and rewarding journey of my life. He'll be remembered and admired for many, many years to come.

November 11, 2017

Dear friends and family of Richard Farson, Here on Nov 12, 2017 evening I just learned the hard way (on line, obituary) my dear friend, former WBSI boss had passed on in June! I've tried to call him up
for months and as he had no message service at Casa de Manana I just figured he was out. I left messages for Dawn Farson. I have always worked for him in some capacity since late 1980. He was not only an innovative thinker and contributor to world peace, he had such a great heart. And now the last of the great WBSI founders and a kind, well-loved human being is gone. I was so very delighted to have been considered a friend as well. I was at his 90th last year but still 30 minutes ago, on what would be his 91st, a shock, empty numbness. and deepest sadness is in me. The planet is whirling out of control. My warmest love, thoughts for Dick's unique magnificent family. Andrea Lawrence-Stuart

November 6, 2017

We just heard of your very sad passing. Thank you for your great sense of humor and insight into the human condition. We will miss you greatly.
Jerry Hull & Marie Ruffalo

October 5, 2017

Miss you, dear cousin. Maisie

Alain Dufour

September 28, 2017

Dr Farson inspired me to create the World Design Summit, here in Montreal Canada. I met him once and I am keeping a great souvenir of him. His book "the power of design" will continue to guide my actions. My sincere condolences to his family. Alain Dufour, Canads

Dorothy Madigan

September 15, 2017

I'm so sorry to hear of Dick's death. I know, though, that he had a long and happy life with his wife and children and grandchildren. I typed his book "Birth Rights" and other things for him and valued his friendship and kindness. God bless all who survive him.

July 29, 2017

So sorry to hear of your loss. Remember the happy times you shared as you celebrate a life well lived and loved by many
(Psalms 90:10)

Mary Rayes

July 26, 2017

RICHARD FARSON, handsome, charming, charismatic and one of the most engaging people I've ever known. Richard was an unforgettable personality, always with a twinkle in his eye and a gift for making everyone feel special. I had the pleasure of meeting him at yoga, many years ago. Although I didn't know him well, it was the delight of my day to run into him in the village and pause for a little chat. To the family, my sympathy for the loss of this most special gentleman. God speed, Richard!
Mary Rayes

July 25, 2017

I was so happy to read this summary of Richard's life, knowing it only touches the surface of so much love and service to the community, and most of all, to his family. Lisa, sending you warmest sympathy. It's a huge void your dad leaves, I know, but I'm also confident he's with you always and that peace and solace will come with your treasured memories. Please know we're thinking of you, and when you're ready, it'll be time for a big hug in person!

Derelynn and Michael

mark and terre edwards

July 22, 2017

Dear Dawn, Lisa and the rest of the family,

We were so sorry to hear of Dick's passing.
He had so many gifts, one that stood out was, that he was
such a great listener, and always responded in a way
that that you knew he cared, or was interested in whatever the subject was. We will miss him.

May the peace of Christ be with him as well as all of you

Mark and Terre Edwards

Frances O'Neill Zimmerman

July 20, 2017

Dick Farson was charming, handsome and urbane, imaginative and bright, curious and always questioning the way things are. He always enjoyed Windansea and the Pannikin and encountering old friends at these quintessential La Jolla spots. He will be missed.
Condolences to Dawn and Joel and Jeremy, those members of his family I knew best. RIP.

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