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Ralph Dau

1938 - 2016

Ralph Dau obituary, 1938-2016, Los Angeles, CA

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1938

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2016

Ralph Dau Obituary

February 27, 1938 - July 14, 2016 Ralph "Bud" Dau dies at 78; Los Angeles County Superior Court Judge and Former Litigator. Ralph W. Dau, Los Angeles County Superior Court Judge and former partner with the law firm of O'Melveny & Myers, has died. He was 78. Surrounded by his family, Judge Dau died on Thursday in Los Angeles, bringing to a close a distinguished 50-year legal career. Born in Milwaukee to Ralph and Angie Dau, he was raised in Dallas, where his work ethic first made an appearance in elementary school with a paper route by bicycle before dawn. Through a Naval R.O.T.C. scholarship, he earned a bachelor's degree from The University of Texas at Austin in 1959. Upon graduation, he was commissioned as an Ensign in the United States Navy and later promoted to Lieutenant (junior grade). He served aboard a destroyer in the Pacific as weapons officer until 1963, and saw duty off the coast of the Republic of China during the period when an invasion of Taiwan was threatened and with the first U.S. task force to patrol in the Gulf of Tonkin at the outset of the Vietnam War. Judge Dau received a law degree with Honors from The University of Texas School of Law in 1966, and was elected to Order of the Coif. He served on the board of editors of the Texas Law Review, and was its Comment Editor in 1965-1966. He was admitted to the Texas Bar in 1966, followed by the California Bar in 1967. He spent almost 30 years in trial and appellate practice with O'Melveny & Myers in Los Angeles, where he specialized in complex litigation with a focus on environmental law, insurance and constitutional litigation. He became a partner in 1974, organized and ran the firm's trial advocacy program from 1983 to 1991, and became the first chair of the firm's environmental law practice group in 1991. Appointed by Governor Pete Wilson, he served as a Los Angeles County Superior Court Judge beginning in 1995, with the majority of his service in an unlimited civil trial department in the Mosk Courthouse in downtown Los Angeles. In 1999, he was assigned by the Chairperson of the Judicial Council to sit Pro Tem on the Court of Appeal. He moved to a dedicated trial courtroom in 2015. Praised for his intellect, integrity and exhaustive approach to the pursuit of justice, Judge Dau handled thousands of cases in his courtroom, typically managing a case load of more than 300. Numerous affirmances by the appellate courts attest to the quality of his decisions. Upon learning of his death, his judicial colleagues described him as "a gentleman of the highest order," "a man of grace and dignity," "who served justice as a meticulous craftsman and as an exemplar of judicial virtue." Those close to him enjoyed Judge Dau's dry sense of humor, wit and mischievous nature. He was a voracious reader, and held a deep appreciation for classical music, regularly attending the Los Angeles Philharmonic. He enjoyed hiking in the Sierras with friends, skiing in Colorado with family, and sailing with anyone who was brave enough to climb aboard knowing they would be docking under sail. He was a member of the California Club. Judge Dau is survived by his wife of 52 years, Marilyn, their son Ramsey and daughter Sara Jones, and by his grandson Kevin Jones. He treasured his friends and family, who he considered to be "the joy of his life." A funeral service will be held on Wednesday, July 20 at 11:30 am at St. Bede the Venerable Church in La Canada Flintridge. Cabot & Sons, Pasadena Directors

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Jul. 19, 2016.

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Mark Nisall

April 2, 2017

I was honored to be Judge Dau's Judicial Assistant from October 2001 until July 2006. In my 24 years with the Los Angeles County Superior Court, I worked with many fine Judicial Officers. However, Judge Dau was the hardest working and most dedicated Judge I ever had the pleasure to work with. His typical work day would begin at 7:00 a.m. and end at 7:00 p.m. He had a very keen intellect in all respects and a passion for the law. I learned a lot about the law from Judge Dau and my five years in his courtroom were long and hard. He was demanding at times but also patient and fair. He always treated me and other members of his staff with dignity and respect. My professional development while in his courtroom was directly responsible for my promotion to the position of Court Manager. Judge Dau was a Lt. Junior Grade in the United States Navy as was my father. He ran a "tight ship" but I was proud to be a member of his crew. He was highly respected by his peers and will be missed by many including myself. R.I.P. Judge Dau and thank you for your long years of service.

Ted Frank

July 21, 2016

Bud was a classmate and fellow member of Review. I enjoyed seeing him again at the 50th reunion and, while he walked with a cane, I did not know he was in ill health. He was a first class individual and I am sadden to hear of his passing.

Richard Jones

July 21, 2016

Marilyn, Marlene and I were shocked and dismayed to learn of Bud's passing. We remember him as an extremely intelligent man with a keen humor. I believe my first-ever assignment at O'Melveny back in 1976 was for Bud Clary and Bud Dau, and one of my very earliest professional meetings was with Bud Dau -- just him and me. I was terrified! And of course I started off by calling him "Mr. Clary". He corrected me with that stern look of his and I figured my career was over right then. But we both got through that meeting somehow, and I was fortunate to get to know him better over many years and to admire him. He was a great guy and we miss him.

Rick Jones

Scott Petty

July 19, 2016

Dear Marilyn,

I was really saddened to hear of Bud's death. I so enjoyed visiting with him at our pledge class reunion and also enjoyed our visit with you. Eleanor sends her condolences as well and I only wish that we had more time to spend together with Bud. He was a wonderful friend and pledge class brother and was really a person of the highest integrity and a fun member of our group. Our prayers are with you and the family. We will all miss Bud. All the best, Scott

Scott Petty Jr.
Pledge Brother, Phi Gamma Delta 1955
San Antonio Texas

Don Wukasch, M.D.

July 19, 2016

Dear Marilyn,
I want to express my sadness over Bud's death. I enjoyed meeting you at our Phi Gamma Delta 1955 Pledge Class Reunion in Austin in April 2015. I feel especially privileged to also have had the opportunity of an extended conversation three months ago on April 17, 2016 over breakfast when Bud was again in Austin for his law class reunion. He spoke so fondly of you and your family. We had some good times during our college days, and I will always remember Bud as a loyal friend and a man of integrity. We will miss him .
Sincerely,
Don Wukasch
Pledge Brother, Phi Gamma Delta 1955

Kip Burgweger

July 19, 2016

Dear Marilyn - I am very sorry to hear about Bud's passing. I worked with him for 15 years before transferring to the New York office. He was a terrific guy, very helpful to a younger lawyer, a good man to spend after-hours with, a humorist and good friend. I very much regret that I will not be able to give you my condolences in person. I have added him to my prayers.
Kip Burgweger

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