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Phyllis GIBSON Obituary

Phyllis Gibson, born Phyllis Ann Barbour, died at age 63 on February 13, 2010. She was born July 30, 1946 on Long Island, New York, to Paul and Elizabeth Barbour. Due to her father's lifelong career as an educator and a soldier, Phyllis lived in a variety of countries as a young girl, including Germany, before settling in San Antonio, Texas, for the majority of her school years. Phyllis moved to Los Angeles at the age of 17 with her first husband Michael Nesmith of The Monkees, with whom she had three children. In the late 1960's she travelled the world with the band and was truly adored by young fans everywhere. In the 1970's she worked as a political aide to Senator Alan Cranston and many others. During those years she raised money and awareness for many of the causes she believed in. She took a very personal interest in helping Vietnam War veterans gain access to government benefits and easing their transition home. Following that, she had a long and successful career as a senior vice president, working with people she dearly loved at Winner & Associates, an L.A.-based communications firm. Her volunteer activities included work as an adult literacy tutor and service on the board of directors of the Travelers Aid Society of Los Angeles. She was an avid hiker, a voracious reader, yoga-enthusiast, a cat-fancier, and an angelic singer. Her passion for hiking and biking was truly established when she married her husband Bill, nearly twenty years ago. She is survived by her beloved husband Bill Gibson, her children Christian Nesmith, Jonathan Nesmith and Jessica Nesmith, her granddaughter Chyna Dale, her brother Bruce Barbour, and her sisters Cristine White and Joannie Cass. Phyllis was much beloved by all who knew her and she will be deeply missed. A memorial service for Phyllis will be held at the First United Methodist Church, 4832 Tujunga Avenue in North Hollywood on Sunday, February 28th at 3:00 p.m. All are welcome. In lieu of flowers please send contributions to The ALS Association - Greater Los Angeles Chapter.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Feb. 25, 2010.

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Jean

March 15, 2010

A gift that one can touch so many lives with class and grace.

Dana Lybrand

March 12, 2010

As a life long Monkees fan from way back, the passing of the lovely and beautiful Phyllis Barbour Nesmith Gibson is truly very sad. Even though she was in the background during the Monkees heyday, many fans felt they knew her also on some level. My condolences both to her family and the Nesmith family. I know she was a tremendous mother and a beautiful human being who will be very missed.

Nichole Choice

March 10, 2010

I am saddened by this news.

Sheila Reiboldt

March 8, 2010

This is so sad -- I have often wondered what had happened to Phyllis. I often did some internet search of her name, but came up with nothing.. She seemingly was a wonderful person who my generation came to know as Mike's lovely wife during the Monkee days.. Mike was my favorite of the group, and I followed his career through out the years.. Phyllis was featured in many of the Monkee magazines of the times. I still have the beautiful pictorial that Herny Dilz (celebrity photopgrapher) did of her in one of the Monkee Specatular Magazines, along with my other Monkee things of the time in the mid 1960's -1970's, the picture here in her obituary, was one of them. They are special as they are memories of my childhood (I am 54 now). She was truly a positive role model of what a wife and Mother should be to us young, pre teen girls of the time.. .. I always wished her best, and hoped she had found happiness in her life, according to this she did just that.. May God be with her husband, children, grandchild, brother, sisters, family members and friends as they travel through this difficult time in mourning her loss...

Rita Smus

March 5, 2010

Phyllis was the epitome of what the model wife of a rock star should be, and she never allowed that fame to overshadow her family; an excellent mother and philanthropist in her own right. Stylewise, she was a fashion-forward futuristic crusader. I cherished every teen magazine I read with your name in it, Phyllis. You will always be looked up to by young women as a pillar of strength & by all of us who came of age in a man's world.

March 5, 2010

I was saddened to here of the passing of Phyllis. I had a business relationship with Phyllis for many years. She was fun to work with, very direct in her beliefs and thoughts and extremely honest all of which contributed to her success. A rare combination in today's business world. She will truly be missed. John Burke (Burbank,CA.)

Kim Smith

March 1, 2010

I am so sorry for the loss. She will truly be missed by many.

Tina

February 27, 2010

I'm saddened to hear of Phyllis' passing. I'm touched to hear how she used her time here on earth to help others. She was obviously a beautiful lady inside and out. My prayers are with her family and friends. Rest in peace.

Susan Lloyd

February 27, 2010

So sorry for her loss to all of us.

Lauren Balk

February 27, 2010

My sincerest condolences to Phyllis' family; she was a truly classy woman and her life reflects the reasons for why she was and is so well-respected, both by Monkees fans and surely by everyone she touched in life.

February 27, 2010

With love and sympathy. Rest in Peace.
~thea

February 27, 2010

Remembering a life well lived, that touched the lives of so many others.

David Evans

February 26, 2010

It is a real shock to hear about Phyllis' passing. I knew her well, primarily during the time of the Monkees, and a few years after. She was a wonderfully gracious person, and I had a great affection for her. She was really fabulous and had a wonderful mind and spirit. It makes me want to re-read "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintainence," one of her favorite books. God bless you, Phyllis! David Evans

David Evans

February 26, 2010

It is a real shock to hear about Phyllis' passing. I knew her well, primarily during the time of the Monkees, and a few years afterward. She was a wonderfully gracious person, and I had a great affection for her. I treasured her mind and spirit. It makes me want to re-read "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintainence," one of her favorite books. God bless you, Phyllis!

Cindy Wittich

February 26, 2010

My thoughts and prayers will be with the family. Phyllis was an amazing woman and well-respected by us Monkees fans.

Cynthia Friedman

February 26, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cynthia Maez

February 26, 2010

My most heartfelt condolences for the loss of your beautiful sister. I pray for her quick repose to continue her very unique mission of helping those in need. Her life was very meaningful and her spirit will live on through all her compassionate acts. My love and respect, Cynthia Maez

Karen

February 26, 2010

With love and remembrance.

Jan B

February 25, 2010

Rest in Peace.

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