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Edalyn Lalli Obituary

LALLI-Edalyn Doris (Bledsoe) Lalli, 86, Surrounded by her loving family, Edalyn passed away peacefully on Saturday, December 2 0, 2008. She was born September 22, 1922 in Valley Mills, Texas, the daughter of Edward and Lillian (Robertson) Bledsoe. At the time of her death, she was living at her home in Sierra Madre, California. Beloved mother, grandmother and dear friend to many, Edalyn leaves behind her loving husband of 44 years, Mario, loving sons and daughter, Mario (Illiana) Lalli, Edward Burger, Sharie (Ed) Harmon, and her much loved grandchildren, Olive and Dino Lalli, Dylan Burger, Carly (Jamin) Triz, Joni, Chelsea, Makinse y, and Quinn Harmon. As a small child, Edalyn's family moved from Texas to Colorado to ranch near the town of Ellicott. She graduated as the valedictorian of Ellicott School in 1939, loving music, oratory, and basketball, where she was named an all-state guard. She entered Colorado College at the age of 16 and had leading roles in many CC operas and performances, including "Carmen," graduating in 1943. Singing "Carmen's Habanera continued to be one of Edalyn's audiences' favorite pieces. She was awarded a scholarship to the American Conservatory of Music in Chicago, where she received her Master's Degree with honors in music in 1945. She was selected to join the Broadway Musical tour of "Up in Central Park" in 1946, which included a performance in the Hollywood Bowl. She shared her many music talents, founding and performing with the Colorado Springs Theatre Singers, and The Colorado Springs Opera Association, hosting many performances in the Colorado Springs Fine Arts Center. Edalyn was a member of two loc al performing groups in Colorado Springs, The Duotones and the Starlighters, and was a soloist at Grace Episcopal Church and the First Christian Church of Colorado Springs. She was previously married to Lamont Burger of Colorado Springs. Moving to Denver in 1963, she became the director of vocal music at Loretta Heights College. She married Mario Lalli and they began a wonderful and successful restaurant career together in Mario?s Restaurant, "Where They Sing While You Dine," where they got to combine their love for singing and opera and great food. The restaurant business took them to California in 1973 where restaurants were opened in Palm Springs, San Diego, Rancho Mirage, Palm Desert, La Quinta, El Paseo, and Pasadena. Son Mario and his wife Nana continue to offer the best in both at Cafe 322 in Sierra Madre, where Edalyn and Mario attended "Opera Night" together every Sunday evening. Mario and Edalyn's love of opera took them to Italy, Santa Fe, Los Angeles, San Francisco, and New York many times. Of th e things that mattered most to Edalyn was her family. Mario lovingly called her, "Louise," and he made her laugh everyday. She was an inspiration to her family and passed on the flame of passion and love for music to her children and grandchildren. She was truly a beautiful lady in every sense of the word. It's with much gratitude and praise that we celebrate the life of Edalyn Doris Lalli. A memorial service tribute to Edalyn's life, officiated by Reverend Ned Ready, will be held Saturday, January 10, 200 8 at 11:00 am at the Douglass & Zook Mortuary (Chapel of the Foothills) in Monrovia, California (626-358-3244). The service will be followed by a celebration reception at the Lalli's Cafe 322 in Sierra Madre (322 W. Sierra Madre Blvd.) A second memorial service will be held in Colorado Springs, Colorado at a later date with interment in the Evergreen Cemetery of Colorado Springs. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the LA Opera Company, The Metropolitan Opera Company, or the Foothills Comm unity Center in Sierra Madre.

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Published by Pasadena Star-News on Jan. 4, 2009.

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Steve Fox

January 30, 2009

I was saddened to hear that Edalyn has passed away. She was a beautiful and gracious lady. The first time I heard her sing was at Marios on Tremont, 37 years ago. I was lucky enough to hear her voice many times at the different places in the desert always so strong and so familiar. Her and Marios love of the arts inspired me and influenced my view of the world. I have thought of her often and fondly throughout my adult life. I will miss her.
Heartfelt sympathy to Mario, Boomer and the rest of the family.

Dawn and Paul Ragone

January 13, 2009

We were so sad to here Edalyn has passed away. Singing at Mario's was one of the great highlights of my life. Edalyn was a wonderful talented lady. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mario and his family.

B Subia

January 13, 2009

A wonderful lady that I will never forget. I was a tenet at the Chickory address and I am so grateful to her for allowing me to reside at her property and for all the invitations she extended to the restaurant during the holidays. I always loved the way she referred to her husband as "Poppa"

Many Blessings to the Lalli Family.
B.Subia

The Baylors

January 7, 2009

We were so saddened to hear of Mrs. Lalli's passing! We, like so many others, have wonderful, joyous memories of so many good times at Mario's (in LaQuinta). It was our favorite place in the desert for many years and a "mandatory" destination for visiting family and friends. We think of Edalyn and see that radiant smile and shining eyes - truly a gracious lady. "Ah, yes... we remember it well." What a beautiful entry and photo in the Desert Sun. On behalf of our families, we wish to express our deepest, heartfelt sympathy to Mario and family.
Becky & Don Baylor

SALLY & JIM SKEOCH

January 5, 2009

We were not able to go to Mario's after they moved and we truely have missed that part of our life. We have known the Lalli's from the early 1980's. We followed them from 111 to to Palm Desert. We were always greated at the door by Edalyn's smile. What a sweet lady and she had a beautiful voice too. Both Mario and Adelyn asked me to sing which was a lovely compliment, that was always fun. Many of our friends came with us for special birthdays and anniversaries to celebrate and enjoy the music and the voices.
We were lucky to count Mario and Edalyn as friends. We will miss our sweet friend
We send our love and prayers to Mario and the family,
Sally and Jim Skeoch

Marcia and Roy Pitkin

January 5, 2009

We were saddened to learn that this wonderful voice has been stilled, a voice and a charming manner that lifted us so many times over the past 20 years, first in Rancho Mirage, then in La Quinta, and finally in Palm Desert. Whenever our family visited us, they always wanted to go to Mario's.

Michael Cruz

January 5, 2009

Thank you for printing the notice in the Denver Post . My father was the chef ( Jack Cruz ) at the Mario's on Lincoln , Broadway and later on Tremont st. Both Mario and Edalyn were the very best to my family, I have many fond memories of them both. I learned to play on the grand piano in the dining room on Tremont street. We were invited to their home here in Denver for many Holidays growing up . Their love of music and the arts inspired me , and I have carried that with me my entire life. I will miss Edalyn , she was a kind and gracious lady.

My condolences to the family.

Sis, Stacie and Julian Milward

January 5, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember what a fun loving group the Lalli's were and enjoyed working at Marios for 11 years and getting to know the whole family. Thanks for the memories.

Bill and Janet Peters

January 4, 2009

Janet and I are graduates of Colorado College ('55, '56) and send our condolences to the Lalli family. We have followed the restaurant from Denver to Pasadena and have fond memories of the fine music always presented. We live down the street from Cafe 322 and I have written several music reviews of that restaurant. We both wish we knew of the Colorado College connection. The Lallis have added a great deal to all our lives and Mrs. Lalli will be remembered fondly.

David & Victoria Parkerson

January 4, 2009

For over twenty-five years, Mario and Edalyn, you gave us so many wonderful,cherished and unforgetable evenings at your restaurants in the Desert. Our experiences made our world a much richer place. Edalyn was always at the forefront with her gorgeous smile and her beautiful voice. When you dined with the Lallis you always felt you were being welcomed by family. We love you and will pray for you.

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