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Maj. Carley Obituary

Maj. Gen. John T.
Carley
November 7, 1923-
May 15, 2015
Clemson, SC- Major General John T. Carley, 91, of Clemson died, Friday, May 15, 2015 in Greenville, SC. He was born to loving parents, Jack Talmadge and Ruth Wilder Carley, on Nov. 7, 1923 in Hattiesburg, MS; grew up in Lyman and Richton, MS; served in the US Army from 1945 until 1973 when he retired to Shalimar, FL. He moved to Clemson, SC in 2002.
John attended Marion Military Institute in 1941-42 in preparation for West Point. He graduated from West Point in 1945 and later graduated from the Army's Command and General Staff College, the Armed Forces Staff College and the Army War College.
World War II against Japan ended while John was on his way. He served in the occupation of Japan where he met and married Laura (Lolly) Bing, daughter of the late Col. and Mrs. Ralph Bing, one of the first American military families to arrive in Japan after the war. He returned from Japan in 1948 and in July 1950 shipped out to the Korean War with the 2nd Infantry Division. He served a total of seven years at Fort Benning, GA as student, teacher and curriculum planner, designer of the Instructor Training Course, Director of Instruction and Assistant Commandant in charge of Army Infantry School; it was his favorite Army assignment. He served four years with the 82nd Airborne Division in Fort Bragg, NC where he was division G-2, G-3, Deputy Battle Group Commander, Chief of Staff and Commander of the 2nd Brigade. During his 82nd Airborne years he helped restore law and order in Detroit in 1967 and again in Washington, DC in 1968 during the riots following the assassination of Martin Luther King. He was a member of the Howze Board that developed helicopter tactics used in Vietnam. He served three years as an intelligence officer in NATO while living with his family in a small French village near Fontainbleau. He was a strategic planner in the Army War Plans Division, the Pentagon, after which he became military assistant to Army Secretaries of Ailes and Resor. In the Vietnam War, he commanded the 2nd Brigade First Infantry Division for one year (1968-69) and returned to Vietnam in 1971-72 as J-3 MACV in Saigon. His last assignment was as Commander US Army Operational Test and Evaluation Agency.
John's first wife of 49 years, Lolly, died in 1996 and he married Emily Ashley Glover, widow of his Marion Institute roomate, USAF Lt. Col. Fred Glover.
His awards include the Silver Star, two Distinguished Service Medals, 20 Air Medals, four Legions of Merit, the Bronze Star, Combat Infantry Badge and Senior Parachutist Wings.
After retirement he became a free lance writer and newspaper columniist. He wrote magazine articles and short stories, but his primary writing effort was a regular newspaper column for the NW Florida Daily News between 1980 and 1993. He considered his best work to be an article for Armed Forces Journal titled "The Road to A Less Dangerous World Goes Through the Jellybean Jar," (October 1983), because the article may have helped end the Cold War.
John Carley is survived by his second wife, Emily Ashley Carley; son, Lt. Col, John C. Carley, USA Ret., of Melbourne, FL; daughter, Ann T. Carley of Tallahassee, FL; granddaughter, Arielle; grandsons, Robin, Jeff and Mike; and sister, Beth Sims of Columbus, MS.
A Memorial service will be 1 PM, Wednesday, May 20, 2015 in the chapel of Duckett-Robinson Funeral Home, Central, SC.
Graveside service with full military honors will be 9 AM, Friday, May 22, 2015 at the Military Cemetery, Fort Benning, GA.
In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the charity of one's choice.
Condolences may be expressed online at www.robinsonfuneralhomes.com or at Duckett-Robinson Funeral Home, Central, SC.

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Published by Columbus Ledger-Enquirer on May 19, 2015.

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Graydon Boles

March 4, 2016

Dear Family,
I learned of his passing today March 4, 2016. I served with John on 2 February, 1969 as helicopter door gunner during extraction. I miss him.

Charlie Williams

June 28, 2015

I was privileged to have known General Carley and work for him at Ft Benning and then as his Exective Officer when he was the MACVJ3. He was a great Officer and Leader. I talked with him over the years and am saddened at his passing

May 20, 2015

I will miss Seeing John on the golf course. I will miss have conversations with him. I will miss bickering over that one dollar bet. My world is a better one for having known him. My sincere condolences to the entire family

Jim Dye, Elk Park,NC

Betsy Spragins Russell

May 20, 2015

I remember General Carley with the fondest of memories. One of my father's closest friends, such a swet and gentle man, a true gentleman. My love to all of you.

Cena Spragins

May 20, 2015

It has been an honor and a privilege to have known John. He was Pete's best friend. Blessings to those he left behind.

MAJ Carl Fedde, USA Ret

May 19, 2015

I was John's command helicopter pilot when he commanded the 2d Bde, 1st Infantry Division, and our paths crossed again at Fort Benning in 1971 when he was the assistant commandant of the Infantry School. I have seldom met a finer officer and gentleman. To his family, your loss is mine too. I have many fond memories, and a few good stories too!

Lou and Don Krueger

May 18, 2015

The world lost a truly brilliant mind and a wonderful man. We are privileged to have known him.

johnand janet klodowski

May 18, 2015

it was great to have john and Emily as neighbors and we will miss talking to him and seeing him walking the neighborhood.he was a pleasure to know. may god rest his soul!

Tom Maertens, Jr

May 18, 2015

John and my father were West Point classmates and good friends throughout their Army careers. I had the pleasure of meeting John and Emily when they moved to the Clemson area and thoroughly enjoyed their friendship. He was very outspoken about all the changes at the Academy but he always expressed himself as a professional and as a graduate who cared about the institution. John was an American hero whose exceptional service to our Nation in two wars should be noted and appreciated. Well done, sir. Be thou at peace.

Tom Maertens, Jr.
LTC(Ret) USMA Class of 1970

Carley Page

May 18, 2015

What a great man Uncle Jackie was! He had a long and well-lived life. He was a true hero, and I am honored to call him my uncle. Love to the whole family!

Dorothy Mullin

May 18, 2015

I was very saddened to read of Gen. Carley's passing in today's Northwest Florida Daily News. It was my pleasure to type his hand-delivered columns over the years they were published in our local newspaper. Always the epitome of a gentleman, Mr. Carley was so nice and kind and a very humble man. You never would have guessed he was a general. He insisted on being called John. I have often thought of him over the years. He will be truly missed. I am honored to have known him. My condolences to the family.

Bill Putman

May 17, 2015

I was MG Carley's S-1 part of the year that he commanded the 2d Bde, 2d Inf. Div. He was the best boss I ever had. He was a true leader, and remained calm no matter what the situation. Bill Putman

May 17, 2015

My condolences on John's passing. I've played golf with him at The Walker Course for several years and always enjoyed his jokes and stories. I'll miss giving him my nickels on Tuesdays and Thursdays!

Chuck Smith, Seneca, SC

John Paul Jones Jr

May 17, 2015

My Heart is Broken!! A True Gentleman, A National Hero, Wonderful Husband and Father...My Golf Partner and Friend. He leaves a Void that cannot be Filled......We will miss him Always.....Love Jan and JP

Dr. JACK D ROWE

May 17, 2015

My sincere condolences on the passing of John. We met a few years ago as members of the First Sunday Discussion Group. It was always a pleasure and a learning experience to have John present. He is missed. Dr. Jack D. Rowe

George Hammond

May 16, 2015

I am proud to call John a friend! He was a soldier, a patriot and a gentleman. Well done, General, you will be missed.

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