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1964
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2010
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Thomas Tarwater Obituary
Thomas worked for San Joaquin County as a building engineer for over 20 years and was a member of SEIU Local #102.
He is survived by his parents, Nel and Jerald Tarwater of Stockton; and a grandmother, Lydia Bennett of Oregon.
A memorial services will be held Friday April 30, 2010 at 1:00 p.m. in the Chapel Of Rocha's Mortuary, 215 S. School Street, Lodi, CA.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Tarwater
Angela Wright
October 29, 2021
I stumbled upon Tom's Obituary in an effort to find my old friend. He was my best friend in high school- I loved him dearly. I am so sad to see he passed away. My heart goes out to you all. Casey, thank you for uploading the photos. I remember you and Tom were besties too.
Disneyland 1996
Casey Holt
April 30, 2010
Tom's Pride (boating & water) 1998
Casey Holt
April 30, 2010
Tom Playing around 1986
Casey Holt
April 30, 2010
Having lunch at the American River 2002
Casey Holt
April 30, 2010
Tom's 30th "B" Day
Casey Holt
April 30, 2010
Mexico Cruise 1996
Casey Holt
April 30, 2010
Houseboating 1986
Casey Holt
April 30, 2010
snow trip, 1989
Casey Holt
April 29, 2010
Casey Holt
April 29, 2010
I've known Tom since grammar school, we went throught alot together growing up,he was more like a brother to me than my own, he was the most loyal friend you could have.. if you had a problem he'd be there. We stayed friend's after school into our adult yrs. Tom loved the water, enough to live on it. We kept our boat docked next to Tom's for years. Had alot of good summer outings. Tom made a choice to end our 30+ yr. friendship a few yrs ago..never knew why, but I will always be that one friend that would have been there, no matter what. Tom will always be in my daily thoughts. Tom will be Deeply missed...Best Friend,Brother,Classmate, Casey
out enjoying the boat
Casey Holt
April 29, 2010
Cindy Wells
April 29, 2010
Nel and Gerry
I am so sorry to hear about your son. My deepest sympathies and if there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.
Tom and Dolores Lopez
April 29, 2010
Our deepest sympathies, Mr and Mrs Tarwater. We were very fortunate to have known 'Tarwater'.
Lynn Betonio-Burress
April 29, 2010
Mr. & Mrs. Tarwater ~ Mom called me yesterday with the news. I wasn't fortunate to have ever met "Tommy" but remember the stories you shared with us during my lessons with you many many years ago. May your memories stay close. God bless.
Elizabeth Panzarino-Mobley
April 28, 2010
Mr.& Mrs. Tarwater, I've know Tom since we were both teenagers he was the sweetest man I know. He was always willing to help in what every you needed. We use to go out on his old boat and fish on the delta we had alot of fun. We also worked together at Western Radiator. I will always remember Tom as the kindeset man I know. Will Love and Miss you Tom
Kelly Morris
April 28, 2010
Mr. & Mrs. Tarwater -- Tom will be greatly missed by all who were lucky enough to know him. I worked with him at the Jail.
My deepest sympathy in your time of sorrow.
Kelly Morris
April 28, 2010
Mr. & Mrs. Tarwater -- Tom will be missed dearly by all that knew him. I worked with him at the Jail & he was always very friendly & easy to get along with.
My deepest sympathy in your time of need.
Kelly Morris
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