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Thomas Cole Obituary
Thomas F. Cole, Sr. died at the age of 73 on January 31, 2012. He was born in Peekskill, NY on November 14, 1938 to David E. and Mary Edith Cole. Tom was a graduate of Hendrick Hudson High School and a member of the National Guard. He married Geraldine Teed on October 15, 1960 and had four children. Tom and Gerry were married for 36 years until she was taken too soon from her family in 1996.As the proud, hard-working owner of Cole's Market, a family business for over 110 years, Tom was a familiar face to many in Montrose. When Tom was not working, he spent much of his time with his family at his home on the Hudson River. He also enjoyed boating, fishing and vacationing in Montauk, NY. Tom was a lifetime member of the Peekskill Yacht Club and the Cortlandt Engine Co. He was an avid golfer, bowler, Nascar, and Giants fan.Tom is survived by his loving fiancee, former classmate Barbara Conklin, and his two brothers David Cole Jr. (Dianne Cole) of Northport, ME and Albert Cole (Gail Cole) of Port St. Lucie, FL. He is also survived by his beloved children Christine Cole Wu (John Wu), Tricia Cole Delamater (Joe Delamater), Thomas F. Cole, Jr. (Val Loh), and Robert M. Cole (Laura Zarrelli Cole) and by his five grandchildren who were his pride and joy; Benjamin Cole Wu, Stefanie Cole Wu, Madison P. Delamater, Camryn A. Delamater, and William F. Cole.Visiting hours will be held on Sunday, February 5, 2012 from 11:00 AM - 4:00 PM at Cortlandt Funeral Home.A Service of Witness to the Resurrection will be held on Monday, February 6,2012 at 10:00 AM at The Reformed Church of Cortlandtown 2124 Albany Post Rd, Montrose, NY 10548, (914) 737-6482. Interment will immediately follow at Cedar Hill Cemetery.In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to The Reformed Church of Cortlandtown, P.O. Box 277, Montrose, NY. 10548 (914) 737-6482.
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JoAnn Heady-Perez
February 6, 2012
I am so sorry to here of Tom passing-I spent most of my childhood sitting on that old bench in the front of the store back in the late 60's-when Tom came home wearing his uniform-how handsome he looked-[I can actually still see him in my mind]-I Know the sorrow your feeling-But your heart and mind holds everything you'll need to get through this-God Bless your family-
Jeanne and Herb Wienkoop
February 6, 2012
On behalf of the Wienkoop family we wish to express our deepest sympathy to the Cole family on Tom's passing. Our two families share a lifelong friendship and our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Jeanne and Herb Wienkoop (Jupiter, FL)
Bobbie & Gary Brown (Fulgum)
February 6, 2012
We are keeping the entire Cole family in our thoughts and prayers. Tom was a good neighbor to all on Orchard St., he was a wonderful employer, but even more a great friend. His parents opened that back door to us, and Tom never shut it. He was the big brother on our street.
Susam Tice-Turner
February 5, 2012
Tom will surely be missed but not forgotten. My prayers are with the entire family during this time of great sorrow.
Robert Pagliaro Jr
February 5, 2012
My heart goes out to Tommy, Chris, Trisha, Rob and the entire family. Your Dad was an incredible man with a big heart. He touched so many lives and had a lasting effect on so many people. I will never forget everything he did for me. He will be greatly missed. As you celebrate his life, know that we too raise a glass to a great man.
February 4, 2012
Tom was a great guy.I was in the U.S. Army with him Fort Devens Mass . His bed was next to mine.Allthough i live in Cortland i havent seen him in forty years . He will sure be missed. Jerry Hatzmann
February 4, 2012
To the entire Cole Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. He will be missed by all. -
Susan Reichard Johnson (Ticonderoga, NY)
Patrick Maloney
February 3, 2012
A great man that will be surely missed but not forgotten.
February 3, 2012
Our thoughts and our prayers are with you and your family at this time of sadness. Mr. Cole always had a smile on his face and was always proud of his family and his business and will be forever missed by everyone who ever met him. Sharon Schacklinscky-McGreevy and family
February 3, 2012
Please accept our prayers and condolences. Tom will be sorely missed. We have many fond memories of him. May he rest in peace.
Aiice and Steve Fucheck
Judi Gilmartin (Fulgum)
February 3, 2012
I have know and loved him for many years. His parents treated me like their own child and Tommy was the big brother I never had. I have many fond memories of hanging and working at the store. Thank you for sharing your Dad with all of us. He will be sorely missed.
Christine Akins
February 3, 2012
My condolences and prayers to the Cole family. He will be missed by many!
February 3, 2012
Our sincere sympathy to the entire Cole family. Tom was an outstanding person and local businessman. He touched many lives and will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
(Patti & Bill Harbolic)
Todd Orlando
February 3, 2012
Tom Cole, Sr. will be missed by all those around him. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with the entire Cole Family. Rest in peace Tom.
Chris Michele Justin n Craig Barger
February 3, 2012
Our prayers, thoughts and condolences are with the Cole Family, Tom Cole Sr was such a gentleman always greeting me n all his customers with a genuine smile . He will be missed. May the loving memories you have comfort you today and always. God Bless
February 3, 2012
Our sincere condolences to the Cole family. Your Dad was a great person. We had many great times together with he and your Mom especially rooting for the Giants to win. He will always be remembered.
Barbara & Roger Schacklinscky
Lady Lake, Florida
Janet Schacklinscky Fuller and Family
February 3, 2012
Our sincere condolences to the Cole Family. Growing up with the Cole family was always fun! Mr. Cole was my 2nd Dad, my 2nd family even giving me a job during high school. I remember the fun times, the tailgating, the big pool parties! He will be missed by all and will be looking down keeping the family safe. I wish I could be there in person, but I will keep you and the family in my prayers.
Jolene Lent
February 3, 2012
Tom Cole will always be remembered by the Hesselgraves and Lents/Koski/Wassil families. He was so sweet, had a great sense of humor and just fun to be with. RIP Tom - love and prayers, Jolene & Eddie
Eileen Alexander
February 3, 2012
My condolences and prayers to the Cole family - he'll be missed. Remember my father always bringing something delicious home from the store. Eileen Alexander
February 3, 2012
My sincere condolences to the family. Luke 22:43.
February 3, 2012
Our condolences to the Cole family. We knew Tom personally and from the store for many years. May he always be in your hearts
Ruby and John Murphy
Lady lake, Florida
Fritz & Michelle Fulgum
February 3, 2012
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
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