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Debbie & Pogie
February 23, 2021
It is so good to see Clay. I love memory popup's
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Ellen McCarty
March 30, 2012
The kids and I miss you terribly! We want you to know how much we loved you, and we know you are with us in spirit every day! Big squeezes from all of us!!!!!
Carol McCarty
March 29, 2012
I keep thinking about you, the week before you died, when you came by and Dad and I had a nice visit with you, you told us both you loved us , when you left and you gave us both big hugs, I do believe the Holy Spirit sent you to us that week,
March 28, 2012
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Margaret Hare
March 28, 2012
Miss you Clay....I knew we all would.
John Mock
March 15, 2012
I am saddened to hear the news of Clay's passing. I was not aware until minutes ago from an old Convenient Food Mart fellow employee. I echo the sentiments shared by the Harralson family and others in the Brownsboro Village area. I worked at the CFM where Clay would stop in and he literally lit up the store with his charm and his never-met-a-stranger personality. Work got awfully boring when Clay exited the store. We will all miss him but will never forget a young man with a zest for life. God bless Clay's family, wife, and children.
Sabine Klimek
March 15, 2012
I met Mac in 1982 in Berlin where he was stationed. He was a close friend back then. I am very sorry you lost your husband, father and family member.
Sabine Klimek
March 14, 2012
BoouYaaa
Grant & Chris Willsie
March 14, 2012
We are very sorry for your loss. Mac and I were roommates in Berlin while we were in the Army. Mac is also a very good friend of my wife Chris, he was on the subway with us when I asked her to marry me, that was 30 yrs ago. I visited him in 1991 in L'ville, what a friend. I will miss him more now.
March 6, 2012
We are so sorry. We loved him and we will miss him.
Greg and Jill
Dayna Lachapelle
March 5, 2012
Dear Ellen, Spencer & Katie,
We are so sorry for your loss as you move through these difficult times. We can only imagine how hard it must be for each one of you. Please know that your family is in our thoughts & prayers. Should you need anything, please don't hesitate to call me, Ellen! When you feel that Katie is ready, Zoe would love having Katie for a play date or sleepover! My number is 641-1251. Call anytime. Godspeed. Dayna, Pete & Zoe.
Tom Harralson
March 3, 2012
My condolences to the whole McCarty family. I always remember Clay when thinking about the old neighborhood when we were all young. The McCartys definitely brought something special to the neighborhood with the block parties and cookouts. I remember Clay showing us how he could ride a wheeley on a motorcycle all the way down the street. He was one of a kind. Dad had some old slides of The neighborhood I scanned several yrs ago with about 7 pictures of Clay/weasy. I emailed them to Carol.
Jennie C. Denker
March 3, 2012
Dear Ellen,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of times spent with Clay. No matter how crazy life got, he always made me laugh. My life was enriched by the good times we shared.
I will keep you and the kiddos in my prayers.
Much love!
Victor Saho
March 3, 2012
Dear Ellen,
So sorry to hear about Clays passing. I remember all the good times we had at Patricks. Remember our chicken cook off. I hope Clay is now at peace. I know he loved you very much, and how good you were to him. Please get in touch when you feel up,to it. Would love to see you. You are a wonderful person and I know things will turn out alright for you. Time always makes things easier. Love you. Victor Saho
The Deters
March 3, 2012
Dear McCarty family & Cynthia,
Thinking of you at this time and how much Clay meant to you, his family and friends. He was always someone who included others in good conversation and a pleasure to be around. May all of our thoughts and prayers go out to Clay at this time, as well as those who he had touched in life.
Sincerely,
Ward & Chamie
Pinky Jackson
March 3, 2012
Cynthia ~ our love goes out to you and all of your family. We pray that peace washes over all of you. xoxo
March 3, 2012
Dear Carol,
Thinking and praying for you and your family at this sad time.
I'm sure Clay knows how much he was loved.
Kitty Caldwell Morrison Sarasota, Florida
Debbie Decker
March 2, 2012
Clay was Pogie's own Dustin Hoffman. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with ALL of you. May Clay rest in peace and the rest of you live with peace.
Our love-Debbie & Pogie Decker
Linda Kunz Bayens
March 2, 2012
My heartfelt sympathy to you Ellen, Spencer and Katherine. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Linda
March 2, 2012
We will miss you lots , love Faye,Jessica,Cindy,ChrisAnn
Sue Babin
March 2, 2012
Clay was always VERY SPECIAL to me from when he was a little boy. We had a strong connection and could talk about anything. We had many many conversations about life, Gram, our family and lifes challenges over the years. I loved his mischevious grin and twinkle in his eye. He loved everyone in his KY and RI families. He was a unique guy who could always make you smile! Rest in peace dear cousin! I know you are up there playing Scrabble with Gram and that you will watch over Spencer, Katherine and Ellen. LOVE YOU!!!!
Jennifer Brizendine
March 2, 2012
We love you all so very much. Sending big giant hugs to you and oodles of prayers.
March 2, 2012
Im am so sorry to hear of your loss of Clay...All of your family are in my thoughts and prayers..stay strong and believe Clay is resting in a better place Eloina Schiavone Johnston, R.I.
Theresa
March 2, 2012
Words cannot express the sorrow I feel for you all but I do know that even though you will feel the hurt, God will give you the peace and comfort that only He can give. I love you all and continue to pray for you. Hold on to the good memories.
Gail Dumstorf
March 2, 2012
Ellen, These words may sound so simple and repetive but they are true, my prayers and heart go out to you and your children for the loss of your husband the loss of a father to your children, Nolan and I are keeping you in our prayers, Nolan is thinking alot about Spencer right now and will be there for him at anytime, Nolan has been through losses himself and Spencer has been a terrific friend to him and now it will be Nolan's turn to be a friend to Spencer in this sad time. Call me if you need anything. Gail and Nolan Dumstorf
Sandra & Joe Actis
March 2, 2012
Dear Carol, Mac and Family, Know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. He is now resting in the arms of the Lord, I am sure of that. We will continue to keep him in our prayers, Love and Prayers, Sandra and Joe
March 1, 2012
Remember the good times.
Rains Family
March 1, 2012
Ellen, Katherine and Spencer, We are so sorry for the loss of Clay he was a joy to be around and moving to Oxford and meeting you all has and will continue to be a treasure to us. God works in mysterious ways, We pray that Clay's light will shine down upon you all and light your heart's with love. Your friends always, whenever you need us. You'll be in our hearts and prayers always especially during the difficult days ahead. Love, Glenn, Susie and Abby.
Richard Travisono
March 1, 2012
My brother, the times we had (all the summers together growin up, late nights on the beach/lifeguard chairs w/friends), the mischief we always seemed to be in (from time to time) we grew closer and closer - me staying in your apartment in Kentucky - you stayin with me in RI condo then house - all good brother! Two peas in a pod, those memories will never leave me. Love ya my man - gonna miss ya dearly, till we meet again, rest safe - Peace!
Charlene Natale
March 1, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoghts and prayers.
Marion Smith Whelan
March 1, 2012
Peace to my sweet childhood friend and hugs to his wonderful family.
Nanci Jones
March 1, 2012
Clay, I will always remember the fun times with you. Little brother of Cynthia. My love and thoughts for all the family whom I know will be grieving your loss.
Love you Clay,
Nanci
Douglas Nash
March 1, 2012
So sorry to hear about our loss of Clay. We had some good times together, he will greatly missed.
Lea Ann Close
March 1, 2012
Ellen
We are sorry to hear about Clay. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. If you need anything please call.
Lea Ann,Jeff Richard and Mary Jo.
Theresa Close
March 1, 2012
Ellen
We are so sorry to hear about Clay.
If you need anything us for anything please call.
Theresa, Joe & Jessica Close
March 1, 2012
Ellen
We are so sorry to hear about Clay.
If you need anything us for anything please call.
Theresa, Joe & Jessica Close
honey, everett travisono
March 1, 2012
your aunt an uncle loved you very much
joey ,ashley,sophia, travisono
March 1, 2012
love you guys so much, he will always be in our thoughts in rhode island, truly missed,so glad i seen him last time we were there
spencer mccarty
March 1, 2012
you will be missed so much from the whole family we loved you so much your favorite son
Johnny Harralson
March 1, 2012
Clay and the whole McCarty family were a big part of my childhood in Brownsboro Village. Back then, to a young Johnny, Clay was truly a larger than life figure! Deepest sympathies to all of his family and friends.
Ann All
March 1, 2012
Ellen,
Our hearts go out to you and your family. We are including you in our thoughts and prayers.
Joe and Ann Nord
Nora Gill-Hansen
March 1, 2012
Cousin Ellen: So very sorry for the loss of your Husband. Uncle Mike told me today. Best wishes to the whole family. Miss you.
Ann Ronald
March 1, 2012
Dear Ellen, I was so sorry to read about the loss of your husband. I send you and the entire Gill family my love and thoughts..
Annie Hayes Ronald
Scott & Jill Wegenast
March 1, 2012
Ellen and family,
So sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you all.
Bobby & Cinzia Travisono
March 1, 2012
Bobby and I are thinking of you all. We are so sorry for your loss and just want you to know that you're all in our prayers.
Love,
Bobby & Cinzia
Tarah and Colby engagement party
March 1, 2012
March 1, 2012
Sandy 50th
March 1, 2012
March 1, 2012
We are all so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Love, Janice, Bart, Joey and Kayla.
I love you all so much!
March 1, 2012
Marg and Carol. Please know you and your family are in my prayers today. I am so sorry for your loss. Maxine Resler
Norma Johnston
March 1, 2012
Dear Art and Carol,I'm so sorry for your loss. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely Norma Johnston
Kristine Kincaid
March 1, 2012
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
The Kincaids, John, Kristine, Justine, Stephanie, and Jackson
March 1, 2012
There are no words...Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sue Forgue Griffin & Family
Mike Gill
March 1, 2012
Dear Ellen - I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your children in my prayers. Uncle Mike / Oak Park
Kristine Kincaid
March 1, 2012
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
The Kincaid Family
Tod Mour
March 1, 2012
My thoughts are with the entire McCarty family. Lots of memories of my friend that was always by my side growing up. Clay, you'll be missed.
March 1, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
March 1, 2012
This is sad news. I am so sorry to hear this about Clay. I hope and pray that God will give you all comfort.
Doug Mortberg
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