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Jay Kirchner Obituary

KIRCHNER, JAY ALAN "BIRD," 33, father of Tayler Rose Kirchner and son of Mildred Twohey (Joe) and the late George B. Kirchner, died Monday May 30, 2011.

Bird worked at #33 Painting for 12 years and was an amateur UFC Cage Fighter. He is a 1996 graduate of Atherton H.S. where he played football.

Besides his daughter, mother and stepfather, he is survived by his fianceé, Tabatha Wheeler; three sisters, Rebecca Kirchner Schone (Adolph), Sandra Miller and Tina Gardner (David); four brothers, Chet Kirchner (Heather), Bobby Werner (Kathy), Terry Werner (Carol) and Larry Werner; 20 nieces and nephews; and 28 great-nieces and nephews also survive.

Bird always had a contagious smile on his face and was a very loving father. His family would like to thank his many friends for their support they have shown through this tragedy. "We Love You All." A service celebrating Bird's life will be held 11 a.m. Monday at Louisville Memorial Gardens F.H., 4400 Dixie Hwy. Burial will follow at Louisville Memorial Gardens. Visitation will be from 1 to 8 p.m. Sunday and 9 a.m. Monday at the funeral home.

Memorials are suggested to the funeral home to help with expenses.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Courier-Journal on Jun. 3, 2011.

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LeaAnn Montgomery

June 13, 2011

You will be missed you are always in my prayers! Tabatha, I love you too girl, I'm here for you!

Pamela Lewis

June 13, 2011

Jay, we met 10 years ago. We had our ups and downs. More ups then downs. I miss you man. You were a great man, brother, and friend. You always knew how to make me smile...love you always jay

Victoria Wilder

June 6, 2011

Jay, I was really upset that I didn't get to see you today, but I asked Libby to tell you I wished I was there. I wish the last time I talked to you I wasn't mad. This past week it has been amazing to see how YOU have brought people together. Not just Germantown either, but everywhere. I will surely miss ya, jay!

Tiffany Colmore

June 6, 2011

Jay you really was the most sweetest loving caring guy. You would never let me be sad around you. You would alwys tell me to keep my head and live for the day. Ive been doing it ever since. We will meet again till then keep an eye on ALL OF US!You have touched so many hearts and no one will for get you! REST EASY AY!!

Niecy Milliner

June 6, 2011

Juicehead man this is crazy for real I miss ya homie I know we didnt get that much time togather but know u a jay bird and ur free to fly now ill c ya when I get there bruh hold me a spot fam.... One <3 juice head love niecy ps yesterday I seen a jaybird I smiled looked to the sky one tear fell and I knew it was u rest easy and fly free now

BIG RICHARD PERSLEY

June 4, 2011

Me and my family sending out or deepest sympathy out to you and your jay to a good friend and family man god bless you.

BILLIE GOODMAN

June 3, 2011

jay bird i remember u from grade school your thoughts n prayers r with your family. sad how the good die young, but we all no we will have our spots will b waiting 4 us. good bless your family. BILLIE JEAN GOODMAN

christopher OWEN

June 3, 2011

i met jay a few years ago when he moved in across the hall from me on krieger street. Jay was a straight shooter...a good man. We became good friends in a short period of time. Shared many beers and even more stories.........good times with big Jay. Feels like yesterday I was watching him fight at Wiccs. Youll be mised my friend.

Jennifer Bell

June 3, 2011

I didn't really know Jay and haven't seen him since I was a kid growing up in Germantown, but I understand the magnitude of this loss and feel the deepest sympathy for his family and closest friends. Tragic accidents are very difficult to understand. Rest easy, Jay, and say hello to Lonnie for me.

Victoria Huntsman

June 3, 2011

In a circle; there is no beginning or ending, and Jay has created the biggest circle that I have ever seen. Although his passing is tragic; I have been humbled and touched by the outpour of condolence and support that I have witnessed. May your family somehow find serenity within your circle Jay “Bird” and may god be with you on your journey. Ron and Victoria Huntsman

Dena Shelburne-Arnett

June 3, 2011

Jay, we r going to miss ur smile, ur laugh and ur life!!! I love u my little buddy. Rest easy Bird! Until we meet again. My prayers go out to all Jays loved ones! Dena Shelburne -Arnett

Jennifer Wheatley

June 3, 2011

i could not imagine what the family must be going through @ this tragic time,so unexpected.I met Jay a few years back & i can honestly say he was such a great guy.I believe he would do just about anything for anyone.You don't meet people like that often.I could not agree with you more,his smile was very contagious!I consider myself very lucky to have met such a genuine,fun-loving person.You will never be forgotten.May you rest in peace..my thoughts & prayers to Jay & his family...

J M

June 3, 2011

IN LIFE WE LOVED YOU DEARLY, IN DEATH WE LOVE YOU STILL. IN OUR HEARTS YOU HOLD A PLACE, NO ONE ELSE WILL EVER FILL. IT BROKE OUR HEARTS TO LOSE YOU, BUT YOU DIDN'T GO ALONE. PART OF US WENT WITH YOU, THE DAY GOD TOOK YOU HOME!

JAY TOUCHED SO MANY LIVES AND WILL BE REMEMBERED ALWAYS!

DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR YOUR LOSS!

Christie Mills

June 3, 2011

R.I.P Jay you will be dearly missed by all. save a spot for everybody in heaven.
Love, Steve Newton and Christie Mills

Amber Rutledge

June 3, 2011

You will be greatly missed!!!! Prayers are with you and your loved ones

TAMMY COLYER

June 3, 2011

I LOVE YA JAY AND IM SAD TO SEE YOU GO SAVE ME A SPOT BIG GUY SO WE CAN LAUGH IT UP AGAIN IN THE SKIES!!!YOU WERE A GREAT DUDE AND THERE IS MANY TO KEEP YOUR MEMORY ALIVE!! R.I.P JAY NOW YOUR A FREE "BIRD"!!! REST EASY YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN

Shannon Mahaffey

June 3, 2011

Jay,
We miss you sweet angel. please watch over us and help your family and friends to make it thru this. They are hurting so badly, we all are. You were such an incredible person, its heart wrenching to think you are really gone. We love you and are holding on to you as tight as we can. Find Lonnie,Frankie, Fred, Mikey, Keith and all the rest of our friends and tell them they better take real good care of you until we get there. GTP for life and beyond-love ya-Shannon Mahaffey

Bill Vincent

June 3, 2011

Jay i'm going to miss you friend when every I would see you we would have a good time . Rest easy your friend Bill Bill

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