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Robert Anthony Rough

Robert Rough Obituary

ROUGH, ROBERT ANTHONY, 34, passed away April 12, 2010 at Clark Memorial Hospital.

He was a self-employed plumber at Rough Services.

Robert is survived by his father, William "Punkin" Rough (Jean) and mother, Becky Portman (Chris); son, Lathan M. Rough and Lathan's mother, Jessica Heeke; daughter, Olivia L. Rough and her mother and Robby's companion, Sarah Runyon; sisters, April and Kacy Rough; and brother, Shawne Portman.

Funeral service celebrating Robert's life will be 11 a.m. Friday at Louisville Memorial Gardens Funeral Home, 4400 Dixie Highway. Visitation will be Thursday from 3-8 p.m. and Friday from 10 a.m. to service.

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Published by Courier-Journal on Apr. 14, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Rough

Sponsored by Sarah, Olivia & Lathan Rough.

53 Entries

Cynthia Calloway

April 8, 2020

I can't believe its been 10 years. I know we didn't see each other often but that doesn't mean you weren't important to me. I find myself thinking of you a lot more these days because we never really got to know one another as adults even though we are cousins. Nothing should be more important in life than family. I failed you there. But I do remember you always clowning and instigating when you were around. I know you are with grandma, so I want you both to keep a watch over Aunt Becky. She doesnt show it or talk about it but I know she struggles with the loss of you being on her birthday. She has been so strong in everything she has been through and I know its because you are holding her up.
I am missing you today Robbie, missing the time we missed out on. We will meet again one day and catch up as close cousins and best of friends. Love you and miss you, Cindy Ray

Ryan

April 7, 2015

Thinking about you my friend. I miss you and remember fondly our friendship. You always made me laugh and were always there when I needed you. Gone, but NEVER forgotten. Love you Brotha.

Dawn Stanley

November 30, 2011

Still can't believe your gone. I miss talking and hanging out. I think about everything alot especially when I hear certain songs. You was my buddy....love and miss you bunches :(

Dawn Stanley

November 30, 2011

Still can't believe you gone :( miss you so much. Just to hear that laugh would really make me happy now-a-days! Love you.

Sarah Runyon

April 13, 2011

Sarah R Here it is 11:35 pm, exactly one year after I had to walk away from you at the hospital! Your heart was not only strong enough to beat for almost 20 mins after you took your last breath, but it was big enough to love us all so deeply! Your love has been and will continue to be passed on through all of us, but especially your two beautiful children, Lathan and Olivia! Walking out of that hospital I could not imagine how I was going to get through one night, one day, one week, one month, let alone one year! I know I have gotten through it because you, along with god and Jesus, have been by my side, as always, helping me make decisions, keeping me safe and watching over me in all aspects of my life! I know you will continue to do these things not only for me, but also for everyone you love! Please continue to visit often I especially love to hear Olivia laugh out loud when you are playing with her and tickling her! I love to see her eyes light up! (Some will say I'm crazy, but Olivia talks to you and I feel you around always!) Enjoy yourself with our loved ones in heaven and we know that when it is our time to come meet Jesus ourselves you will be there waiting for us too! I can't wait for that awesome hug that always made me feel so safe! I love you Robby and miss you so much!
Love you always babe! :)

Sarah Runyon

April 10, 2011

52 weeks ago was the last time I woke up to you and was able to say good morning, I love you! I miss you so very much, but know you are watching over me and our baby girl! Please help keep us safe until we meet again! Love you always Robby!
Love,
Sarah

Sarah Runyon

November 8, 2010

It has been 30 weeks since I have held your hand, felt your arms around Olivia and me and had you sweetly kiss me good night or good morning! I still miss you like crazy and think about you all the time! I wish for one more day, one more hour, one more second, one more picture, one more kiss, one more! I love you honey!

Dawn

July 26, 2010

Going out to patoka and renting a boat all day this w/end wish u was going. Gonna go tubing and swimming just like we used to when we was kids. Think about you all the time ecspeially times like these:( my memory of things we did growing up run through my mind all the time. All I have to say is "GONE TO SOON" WHY?????

Dawn

June 29, 2010

Miss you:( as days go by I wonder why your gone. I can't accept it that your gone it's not right. Death is hard but yours is even harder. I will never know anyone like you, your personality,your laugh(always made me smile)just the great person you were can never be compared to anybody. I think bout you all the time(which is a good thing)but I want so much to talk to you. I guess if that was possible we'd all be a little better. This is the part of life I don't understand:( any way I got to go swimming with Olivia and Sarah this past w/end and it was awesome. She's so much like you(fearless and daring)the way she would go under the water and how she was just throwing herself backward and floating on her back was great. I couldn't believe it but then again Sarah said you would of made her go under and learn anyway and that ain't no lie. She's such a happy baby,smiling all the time. I love being around both your babys because their so much like you,it makes me happy. Their you through and through but their not you. I wish you was here doing these things with us. Miss you so much it hurts,there's definitely a hole there:( Love ya always.

Michelle H-Clan

June 29, 2010

The last time I saw you, you came and gathered with the family in our time of loss.

The following day we received the devastating news. Your passing came way too soon in life. It was a shock to us all.

As we prepare to get together again in our "family and friends", traditional way in Paducah, I have reflected back at the good times. So many pics that I took (Thank you, Lord!!). Man, could you do some tricks!!! I will share them with your children and make sure they know what an advid swimmer/diver you were. Your love for life is reflected in the joy you received around that water! Little did you know what joy you were giving others when you did those fantastics tricks! Robby, you will be missed but your spirit will carry on to the next generation of "Cannonballers", "Divers", and "Belly Floppers". LOL We love you! The H-Clan

June 20, 2010

Happy Father's Day dad. I love and miss you with all my heart. Lay

Mommy & Olivia on Father's Day 2010

Sarah Runyon

June 20, 2010

Baby Olivia and I just left the cemetary, where we wished you a Happy Father's Day! We mish you and Love you with all our hearts! Wish you could be here to help us celebrate your day! Whether it was putting shoes on little feet or reading bedtime stories with all the right voices, it was there your commintment to being the BEST dad you could be. And that is exactly what you were (are)... the BEST dad ever! Happy Father's Day from one lucky mom...and one lucky baby girl!

Love you always,
Sarah & Olivia

Chad Paris

June 19, 2010

It's been 2 months since you passed but it's still hard to believe you're gone. although I didn't know you all that well, the brief time that I did get a chance to witness your presence, I will say this, I could not have met a nicer person and friend. A friend who was always smiling, laughing, and so full of positive energy. So I'll say this my friend, you'll truly be missed and I thank you for giving me the chance to know you. I know you're smiling down from heaven, as you always will. R.I.P. Your friend, Chad.

May 18, 2010

They say time heals all wounds
I really don’t think that is true
I just have to learn to live
With the pain of losing you.

So on this sad day my son
I want to say to you
How very much I love you
And miss you so much too

MOM

May 15, 2010

I guess it is true that when someone loves his dog and his dog loves his person they pass around the same time! I hope you and Alex are playing ball, rolling around and running together! I miss you both, but can see the two of you REALLY enjoying yourselves! You two were great buddies and went through a lot together! We love you both and we know you are watching over us and protecting us at ALL times!
Love you always and with all our hearts,
Sarah & Olivia

April

May 14, 2010

This is not my good-bye because you are still here. Mother’s day – all day long on the radio they kept playing your songs from your funeral because you were there with all of us. It has taken me a while to accept the fact that your body isn’t here – but your spirit is.

Growing up most people say we fought all the time but when I think back on it – I can only think of the good. The chocolate Easter bunny that was on the top of the ceiling fan that you let me have, the turtle you caught for me at the lake, even trying to take me to the mall with you to help you pick up chicks. We really got closer after I got a house because you were always willing to help me with whatever. Still had one problem though and you were going to help after Andrew moved in but I didn’t realize that would be the last day that I saw you alive. I never said that I love you - but I always have and always will!

Thank you for the dream and come visit me in my sleep any time.

May 13, 2010

I love you dad. Its not the same without you here. I miss you so much. You will be in my heart forever. I love you always,
Lathan

Dawn

May 12, 2010

REST IN PEACE

Daddy and Livie - who wore who out first?

May 10, 2010

I love you and miss you Daddy!
Love always,
Olivia "Livie"

We danced like no one was watching and still do!

May 10, 2010

Robby you have been gone now for 4 weeks and I can't believe how much our lives have been turned upside down in only a matter of seconds! Our lives changed forever at 6:23am on Monday, April 12, 2010. Only days before you and I were discussing how we were going to make us a "real" family. I always considered you my husband and I know you alwasy considered me your wife! I can remeber you always introducing me and Olivia to your friends by saying, "this is my wife Sarah and this is our beautiful angle Olivia!" I have always known you were my best friend, soul mate, husband and the best daddy Olivia and Lathan could have! I miss you with every fiber of my being and I am still not sure how I am holding on, but you did leave me the most precious gift you possibly could have given me - our sweet precious baby girl Olivia Louise Rough! I promise to never let Lathan or Olivia forget how much you love them, how protective you are of them and how much you are a part of them! No one will ever be able to fill any of our hearts or lives the way you did and always know that no matter how much we might have had our "fights" we were so much in love and I will always love you! You were my first love and no one can ever take that away from us! You are my strength and my love and I will continue to be strong because of the love you gave so freely to me! I still feel you around us and know that you are still loving, protecting and caring for all of us!
Love ya always and with all my heart,
Sarah

May 7, 2010

I can't beleive your gone. It's so unreal. I pick Lathan up everyday from school. He tells me its just like he's waiting for you to call to come pick him up. All he says is "ITS NOT FAIR" which its not. You are going to miss so much with him, his first car, his graduation, his big 21st birthday. He's going to want his Dad to be there with him. He loves you so much.

I will never forget when Lathan was born, you grabbed my arm and took me out in the hallway of the hospital and said "DID YOU SEE HIS HEAD, HE LOOKS LIKE A CONEHEAD BABY, HIS HEAD IS SO LONG" will he be alright. I had to laugh at the look on your face when you said it. you were so worried about it that I asked a nurse that came by, she grinned and patted your arm and said Honey, don't worry, it will be back to normal in a couple of days, you were so relieved (so was I, I just never said anything) and she was right, Look at Lathan now. To this day it still makes me laugh when I think about it.

Robert, you were so good to Jess when Lathan was born, you took such good care of her and did everything for her and Lathan. I will never forget it and you will always be in my heart for that.

You are loved and you are truly missed.

Love, Becky

Dawn

May 6, 2010

I thought as time past this would get better. Seems not to be the case here. Maybe cause you should still be here. I want to talk to you,ask you questions,hang out and just have fun. I know everybody feels the same. I guess I'm havin a hard time with this closure thing. Your not suppose to be gone. I hear your laughter in my head all the time which was a laugh that you can't forget. It
breaks my heart to see your boy and baby girl( what's she's gonna miss) but Lathan ain't nuttin but a spittin image of you,acts
just like you and laughs just like you. At the funeral it was like u
were there makin him mess with everone to get them to be happyand stop cryin just like something you would do. Just want
to say thanks for all the good times especially the one to Bristol.
We had to much fun going down there although we got off the
beaten path(pig trails) and stayed in walmart for two hours just for some food. Jason was so made at us the day after we finally
found them. We both agreed he shouldn't been in such a hurry to
get there. I rememer calling you that night or the nite before and
asked you to ride with me. (Jason headed down earlier with
friends) I knew you wanted to but you had things going on. But
you wouldn't let me go by myself so you went. But hey we had a ball and I got my souvenir from you(that cone you ran over) I will never get rid of it. I miss you as each day goes by. I wish you would of called me when you was havin hard times. I know you've had your fare share in your life and I'm so sorry. You are diffently one of a kind:)

Dawn

May 6, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

MOM

May 1, 2010

My thoughts are of you everyday. My prayers go to those of us you left behind. Love you now and Forever

Jennifer Casey

April 25, 2010

Wow! I don't know where to start! The news that I received the morning of April 12 broke my heart! First, My heart goes out to my best friend Sarah and Lil' O! This is the hardest thing to face. There are no words, nothing to make the pain easier, but the good times and memories sure help bring a smile!! So many wonderful memories all the way back to first grade! He always had more energy than all of us put together! I will sure miss all of the jokes from him making me race on the playstation for 5 hours straight (no breaks) to recently following me home late at night to scare the crap out of me when I opened my truck door (lol). We all sure had wonderful times. I will miss his attitude, personality, sense of humor and big heart! Sarah, I know you remember that night he asked out of the blue (like rob would do) if someone was hurting us do we think he would protect us, did we trust him? We laughed like normal and he was mad and said I would never let anyone hurt either one of you!! We were just waiting for a joke, and that was one of the few times we were joking and he was so serious! Now we know he is up there watching over...he is the guardian angel!! Rob you will be missed but never forgotten!!

April 24, 2010

Robert, I've been trying to think of the right words to say but I've realized there aren't any. Saying goodbye was the hardest thing I've ever done. You were gone way to soon. I knew you were someone special the moment we met way back when we were eleven. We loved like crazy and fought like crazy and I miss you like crazy. You brought magic to my life through your smile, laughter, heart and our beautiful son. I will never let him forget that he was the light of your life. I love you Robert, forever. I'll see you on the other side someday.

April 23, 2010

BECKY YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS. IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO FOR YOU PLEASE LET US KNOW. LOVE RICKY AND WANDA MADISON

Melissa Healey

April 20, 2010

To Becky, Crit, and family,
I am very, very sorry for your loss. I've always thought alot of Robbie. I will always have great memories of us as kids. An may he watch over Lathan & Olivia and be there guardian angel.
Robbie, I'll miss u buddy.

April 18, 2010

This was found by Robbie's cousin Dawn who thought it was such a true and fitting poem.
God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be. So He put His arms around you and whispered "come to me.
" With tearful eyes we watched you, and saw you pass away.
Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best.

Cindy Calloway

April 16, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with my Aunt Becky, April, Crit, Lathan, Olivia, Sara, Jessica and the Rough family. I know Robbie is in a better place now. May he rest in eternal peace. I love you Robbie, wish I had told you sooner and not only been a better cousin but a better friend as well. You will be missed.

Carman Wilson

April 16, 2010

With deepest sympathy, my thoughts and prayers go out to Robert's family and to Jessica. It's hard to believe when a life is taken of someone our age. I saw Robert about 2 years ago and he seemed to be doing well. I still remember the bus rides when he would tease me in junior high. He will be missed.

Todd Ewing

April 16, 2010

I am so sorry for your family's loss. I was good friends with Robbie growing up, and I have a lot of great memories of him. Todd Ewing

Tasha Bucalo

April 15, 2010

I give my condolences to the family and friends of Robert. I will never forget his fearless attitude, abundance of energy and sense of humor. He would help us out on the drop of a hat. You will be greatly missed my friend! Love ya Tasha

Terri Dunn

April 15, 2010

Becky,Crit,April, and the rest of the family.
In the loss of someone special in your life words are not enough to ease the deep sorrow. Words however kind, cannot mend the heartache, but those who care and share your loss wish you comfort and peace of mind.

May you find strength in the love of family and the warm embrace of friends.

My heart goes out to you and the rest of the family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Patricia pullin

April 15, 2010

To the family ,I am sorry for the homegoing of your loved one. Just know that God loves you and he cares deeply for us. Be incouraged I will keep you all in my prayers. Sarah just in case I don't make it there tonight, just know that you are thought of and in my prayers if anything I can do please dont hesitate to call me. I love you and so does God . We Love You Mrs Patricia Pullin
Ms. Marjorie Hyatt
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Marie Senn

April 15, 2010

Becky, There are no words that can take away your pain. The one thing that cannot be taken away is your memories, they are precious and will last a lifetime. Robbie was a wonderful young man that touched so many peoples heart. He will forever have a place in mine. I was lucky enough to have wonderful times with him growing up from a little boy to a young man. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Jean's sister

Marie Senn

April 15, 2010

Punkin,Jean,Kacy and April- All of our memories of Robbie will never be lost, Robbie's energy along with his joking around is something that comes to my thoughts during this time. It gives me a reason to smile. I loved this kiddo and will miss him very much. May you rest in peace my dear nephew.

Jeremy Shearer

April 15, 2010

Lord I ask that you help this entire family, in their most desperate time of need. Hold their hand and guide them, through this. Let them see a glimpse of your presence, so that they can see that they're not alone. Show them that you are with them, and that Robbie is with you.
Amen

Stacy & Cassondra Perkins

April 15, 2010

Sarah and Olivia,
There are no words. Just know that we are thinking of you and wish we could ease the hurting.

Terri and Troy

April 14, 2010

My Dearest Sarah, You and Olivia are in our thoughts and prayers. Nothing can ease the loss you feel, but know God is with you in times of sorrow and grief as well as in times of joy. I'll never forget the way Robbie looked at Olivia on Easter morning at our church breakfast. He loved you both so very much.

Dawn Stanley

April 14, 2010

What to say??? Not enough time in the world to talk about everything we did growing up. Always goofing around doing dumb stuff. So many memories that just keep going. You were more like my brother than cousin. We been through alot. I loved you then and I still and forever will. I miss u and have for awhile. Just be good up there ok:) your ok now!!! LOVE YOU

Janet A

April 14, 2010

I am so very sorry for your loss. Robert was a wonderful father to his Son and Daughter. He really started growing as his little girl was born. I do not know why God works in these ways, however, we have to continue to have faith that he has other plans for Robby! He and Dennis will be remodeling a halo or something. I love you and wish I was there to give you a hug.

April 14, 2010

Now who will give me a discount rate when I need help with my plumbing? I'm gonna miss you, Rob. Steve & Victoria McDaniel

connie shelton

April 14, 2010

jean and punkin, i can`t imagine what you are feeling but i do know how deep the pain is when you are seperated from a loved one.I can tell you that this is what a real broken heart feels like. I love you guys and time will heal and keep faith that you will see Robbie again GOD has tucked him away.

April 14, 2010

Punkin & Becky

GOD BLESS YOU
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you and your family.

Audrey (Fuchs) Rahm
LaGrange, Kentucky

Dale & Jenny

April 14, 2010

Becky, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May the love of friends and family carry you through this very difficult time. God Bless

Kari Williams

April 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

April 14, 2010

Robert, as i sit here & type this, it makes me remember all the fun times we all had at Rouck & at the lake house. I really hope life after death is true because what a great personality to not have around.... Hopefully they have plumbing problems up there as well because he is getting a good one!!!!! You will be missed a lot man!!!!

Samantha McIntyre

April 14, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the Rough family at this difficult time.

Teresa Masterson

April 14, 2010

Nothing could possibly compare to the loss of a child. Bernie qnd I have fond memeories of Robbie that we will always hold dear to our hearts. We share in your grief and have you in our thoughts and prayers.

Joel Love

April 14, 2010

Would love to box one more round, Miss ya buddy

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