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Bernice Hayes Obituary

Bernice Mary Hayes East Lansing Bernice passed away July 24, 2010, at the age of 93. She was born May 4, 1917, in Beloit, Wisconsin, daughter of the late James and Flora (Wehrwein) Cranston and grew up on the Cranston family Centennial Farm. She earned her bachelor's degree in political science from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. She was a long-time member of First Presbyterian Church of Lansing and volunteered for Ingham County Medical Auxiliary, as well as Mobile Meals and the Lansing Symphony. She was an avid golfer. Surviving are her children, Mary (Keith) Thomas of East Lansing, Thomas (Joan) Hayes of Troy, and Stuart (Ursula) Hayes of Sault St. Marie, ON; grandchildren, Justin, Kenneth, and Laura Thomas; sisters, Norma Schuele and Helen "Wootsie" (Philip) Simmonds; sixteen nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband, Dr. Robert E. Hayes, M.D.; sisters, Annis Brandon and Jeanette Haag. Funeral services will be held at 12:00 p.m. Tuesday, July 27, 2010, at First Presbyterian Church of Lansing, Molly Grove Chapel. She will lie-in-state at the church on Tuesday from 11:00 a.m. until time of service. Interment will take place at East Lawn Memory Gardens. Memorial contributions are suggested to First Presbyterian Church, Lansing Symphony, or the charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Estes-Leadley Greater Lansing Chapel.

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Jul. 25, 2010.

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Sara Rhem

July 28, 2010

Oh, dear Bernice. I joined the Medical Society Alliance when we moved to Michigan from Texas 12 years ago. She was immediately kind and welcoming to me. Additionally we worked together with Mobile Meals. She was a servant to the end. Kind, loving and a joy to be around. I am blessed having known her.

Randi and Billy Moss

July 27, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Randi and Billy

July 25, 2010

When I moved to East Lansing four years ago, I noticed this sweet woman walking almost every day, no matter what the weather, pushing her walker along.

I decided I had to meet her and we started attending group meetings and luncheons at the Hannah Communtiy Center. I am grateful to Bernice for introducing me to many of her friends and giving me all the information on our neighborhood.

She was one of the sweetest people I ever met and I am so glad I was able to get to know her.

Dorothy Meerschaert, neighbor

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