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Louis Stamatakos Obituary

Louis C. "Lou" Stamatakos Okemos Age 85, joined the Lord on January 25, 2011, after having lived a charmed and wonderful life. Lou will be remembered for his unparalleled sense of humor, selflessness, earnest interest in others' well being and devotion to family. He was an inspiration. Born in 1925 in Indianapolis to Greek immigrants from Sparta, Lou was the second of four children. Lou was raised in Dayton, Ohio during the Great Depression. Much of his boyhood was spent getting into mischief and having fun with his older brother, Straty, and his many cousins who affectionately called him "Big Louie." Big Louie's strong arm and athleticism made him the obvious choice for quarterback and pitcher in both sandlot and organized games, and his humor, optimism and relaxed and engaging ways made him a natural leader. When he was not playing sports, he was participating in Boy Scouts or making airplanes from balsa wood. In the 1930's, Dayton was a national aviation center and Lou daydreamed about flying the planes that roared over his neighborhood. In 1943, at 17, Lou volunteered for the Army Air Force. Lou survived 31 missions over Nazi Germany as a tail gunner in a B-17 Flying Fortress and recorded one "kill." In addition to 10 other medals, Lou received the Silver Star for gallantry in action when, after a bombing run, he straddled an open bomb bay door at 23,000 feet over Germany and repeatedly swung a fire axe to dislodge two bombs that had become hung up in the plane. His actions saved the bomber's crew of 10. After the war, Lou attended the University of Dayton (where he played football) and transferred to Indiana University (where he threw javelin, discus and shot put). He thrived in the classroom and earned bachelor's, master's and EdD degrees from IU. At IU, Lou met his wife of 58 years, Bess Makris, a bright, vivacious and attractive "coed" from South Bend. They married in 1952. She was the love of his life and his indefatigable partner. Together, they raised three sons in a joyful and loving household marked by unity, music, deep intellectual curiosity and often dynamic, lively and loud discourse on any topic worthy of discussion or argument. Lou served as Dean of Students and Dean of Men at four universities. In 1967, Lou accepted a position as Associate Professor in the School of Education at Michigan State University. He became Professor in 1970 and retired as Professor Emeritus in 1992. During his 42 years in the profession, Lou received more than 20 awards for leadership, scholarship and service in higher education, but his students will remember him most for his friendship and lifelong guidance as a mentor. Lou was preceded to Heaven by his father, Constantine, his mother, Dimitra (Karanzalis), his brother, Stratin, and his sister, Joan, and is survived by his wife, Bess, and their sons, Philip (Sarah), Theodore (Alyssa) and Timothy (Corrin), eight grandchildren and his brother, John. The funeral service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, January 29, 2011 at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 1701 East Saginaw Street, Lansing, MI 48912, with interment to follow in Evergreen Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the Estes-Leadley Greater Lansing Chapel from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. Friday, where a Trisagion will be held at 7:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church Memorial Fund in memory of Louis Stamatakos.

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Published by Lansing State Journal from Jan. 27 to Jan. 28, 2011.

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Glen Eskedal

January 21, 2021

It is difficult to realize that it has been ten years since Lou joined the Lord. He was my boss, mentor and friendi n the early days at Grand Valley State University (19665-67). Having relocated to Boston my wife and I were pleased to join Lou and Bess for dinner in Okemos the year before he passed. He will remain as one who has shaped my professional life. RIP Lou.

Lynne Sebille-White

February 6, 2011

I remember fondly the many conversations I had with your Lou while in my masters program at MSU. Although he was not my advisor, he always made time for me and I've always considered him one of my professional mentors. His passion for higher education and student affairs was an inspiration. I enjoyed his candor and humor and have thought of him often over the years. He was one of a kind and he will be sorely missed. We lost a true legend in the field. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Dick Robertson

February 5, 2011

Lou Stamatakos was a hero to me for good reason. He was a firm and fair reviewer of my dissertation at MSU. He was an encouraging force as I developed a career in student services. He challenged me to be disciplined and to be the best that I could be. I am eternally grateful for having had this great man in my life.

Vice President of Student Services
MiraCosta College, Oceanside, CA

Ginger Randall

February 3, 2011

Lou Stamatakos has been a role model, mentor, and friend to so many. He left his mark on each university where he spent time and on our profession. My condolences to the family.

Rey Guerrero

February 2, 2011

To the Stamatakos family -

Lou was such a dynamic individual, and as a first-generation graduate student, he was a role model for me as I embarked on my own career in College Student Affairs. I will always remember the boundless encouragement he provided while I was beginning my full-time employment after graduating from MSU. He is truly one of the icons of our profession, and he will be missed by the scores of former students he inspired over the years, including me.

February 1, 2011

Dr. Stamatakos was a major reason I was successful at MSU. His support and guidance was very much appreciated. As an administrator at Grand Valley State University, I often would reflect on what would Lou think or do. His impact on my career has been priceless. Thanks! Andy Beachnau

January 30, 2011

Dear Bess and Sons,
Thank you for sharing your husband and father with me. Lou was my immediate boss at Grand Valley State University in the 1960's. We attended conferences together, played pool during lunch, and I regard him as one of the important role models in shaping my professional career. After Grand Valley I served in the military, went to Boston for a doctoral degree in psychology and recently retired as a professor emeritus. My wife and I were pleased that we were able to spend an evening with Lou and Bess in October while visiting my sister in Michigan. Thank you for the wonderful memories and may God bless your family during this difficult time.

Glen Eskedal

January 30, 2011

Dear Mrs. Stamatakos,
I would like to express my deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband. His life experiences and accomplishments were so very wonderful to read.

I am one of your former students from Western Civ many years ago. You were one of my most favorite professors. I expressed that to you on more than one occasion, especially when I discover you would be the instructor for all sessions of Western Civ. You were insperational and held a wonderful class. I had a special opportunity to meet Lou when you allowed me to take a test with him as proctor. On another occasion you called me at home when I missed questions on a test because I neglected to turn the page over. I laugh at this still....I have gone on to a very successful career. I have you to thank for my perseverance.
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
God bless you and Lou. May eternal peace be granted unto him.
Brenda Bartkowiak

Anne Blair

January 30, 2011

Stamatakos Family, My deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband and father. I knew Louie (as we called him years ago) from the time I was a toddler. Growing up we attended the same schools, had our own circle of Greek friends, etc. etc.
During the teen years, Louie, Bob Tilger, and my beloved husband, Alex, were dedicated to lifting weights at the Dayton YMCA. Louie and my husband, Alex, also ushered at Loews Theatre together. It was Loluie who introduced me to my husband.
Bess, my husband, of 63 years died last January. Bob Tilger died a few years ago. I like to think that all three are together in heaven once again lifting weights.
May Lou's memory be eternal.
Anne Christon Blair

Mike Shannon

January 29, 2011

Lou was a professional colleague. We spoke over the phone over when I was an up and coming professor of college student personnel. He would respond to questions from my students and was always available. Friends and family probably will never realize the breadth and intensity of positive impact this wonderful man had on so many. His words, wisdom and personality will continue to affect people in his circle for many years to come. God bless!

Diane Wilczak

January 28, 2011

Phil, Sarah, and family,
I am extremely sorry for your loss. The story of your father's military service and his deep love of learning are truly inspiring. May his memory be eternal!
Diane Wilczak
St. Luke the Evangelist Orthodox Church

January 28, 2011

Dear Phil and family,

We are very sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man, and we are grateful for his service to our country. May his memory be eternal!

Friends from church,
Sue and Nick Lisowski, and Alex and Nick

Theodore (Ted) K Miller

January 28, 2011

Lou Stamatakos was truly one of a kind. He was an articulate and passionate advocate of the importance of the role and function of student affairs in the higher education arena and was always willing and able to debate any who challenged his views on many a subject including the place of student development as a fundamental aspect of his chosen field. I was personally enriched by professional contact with Lou over more than four decades. He will be missed by his many students and colleagues throughout the country and beyond. My thanks go out to Lou for his dedication to our mutual commitments.

Dick Mullendore

January 28, 2011

As one of Lou's "Golden Spikers", I will be forever grateful for his inspiration, humor, and tolerance. I would not have had the wonderful career opportunities that I have had were it not for Lou and his gentle prodding to make sure I finished the dissertation. Rest in peace, my friend.

Dick Mullendore, Professor, University of Georgia

Lynne Zelenski

January 28, 2011

Dear Stamatakos Family: Lou was my advisor in my MA program. He encouraged me to get my PhD which I finally did just two years ago. He wrote the most wonderful letter of recommendation for me as I applied to the doctoral program and I think it was his faith and confidence in me that made the difference in my admission to the program. He was a wonderful teacher, advisor, mentor and friend and I will miss him. My deepest condolences to the entire family.

Carly Jones

January 28, 2011

Tim and Corrin,
I am so sorry for your loss. How great it is to know that he is with God and no longer in pain. I enjoyed reading about his life and look forward to more stories soon.
Love you,
Carly

Betsy Kateyiannis

January 27, 2011

Mrs. Stamatakos, Phil, Ted, Tim, and your families;
Your husband/father was a terrific person and he will be remembered by everyone. I am sorry for your loss but he is definately in good hands watching over all of you.

Betsy Kateyiannis

Doug Torrance

January 27, 2011

Lou served as chairman of my guidance committee and dissertation director during my Ph.D. studies at MSU. The dedication, thoughtful advice, and personal interest he conveyed provided me with invaluable assistance and support. He contributed a great deal, both personally and professionally, to my graduate studies and subsequent growth in the profession. I will miss our occasional e-mail communications which continued until recently. He was a true mentor and friend who exemplified a life well lived. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Stanley Cahill

January 27, 2011

Your dad/husband was a wonderful professor and mentor. He advised me throughout my Ph.D. and MA programs at Michigan State and was a true mentor to me as I moved into my professional roles. I will miss him.

Spike Fuehr

January 27, 2011

Tim, he was a very nice man. When I would walk my dog past your house to the lagoon he would stop and talk to me.

Bill Mehrens

January 27, 2011

I admired and liked Lou very much. He was a great colleague. He will be missed by many.

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