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Tommy Gaston Obituary

Tommy Lee Gaston Born June 17, 1942 in Charleston, MO, to Johnny and Ollie Marie Gaston, who precedes him in death. He was one of 8 siblings. He retired from Federal Drop Fordge after 17 years. He enjoyed fishing, bowling, singing, playing the guitar and social outings. Tommy is preceded in death by his daughter, Dorothy Gaston. He is survived by his wife of 49 years Odessie Gaston; daughters Sandra (Houston) Bailey, Marilyn (Kurt) Donald, Lori Gaston, Shaneen Gaston, Tanielle Gaston; son Johnny (Carlotta) Robinson Jr., 3 sisters; 23 grandchildren, 4 great grandchildren, a host of nieces, nephews, family and friends. He will be dearly missed by friends and family. Services will be at 11:00 a.m. Thursday, April 15, 2010 at Tiffany Funeral Home, 3232 W. Saginaw, Lansing, with a one-hour visitation before the service. Friends may sign the online guestbook at www.tiffanyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Apr. 13, 2010.

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Tammy Thomas

April 15, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

April 15, 2010

Odessie I'm sorry about Tom, May God bless you and take care of YOU. I'm here for you. I LOVE YOU. Love you Cynthia Cheeks

Butch Sweet & Sparrow Hospital Cafeteria Staff

April 15, 2010

Our deepest sympathy for your lost.Our prayers are with you.

demitrious meadows

April 13, 2010

That Was My Uncle.... R.I.P UNcle Tom... U Will Be MIsst By EvEryone.. Sincerly Ur NEphew , Demitrious Meadows

April 13, 2010

To the Gaston family sorry for your loss. Odessia my prayers are with you. I'm here if you need me.

Carla(Scates)Smith

Les kohagen

April 13, 2010

Rest in peace My frend

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