Rev. Bettie Ruth Engram Kennedy

Rev.  Bettie Ruth Engram Kennedy obituary

Rev. Bettie Ruth Engram Kennedy

Bettie Kennedy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 31, 2015.
Bettie Kennedy was born May 19, 1931 to Willie Mae Ingram, a single parent, in Broaddus, Texas. She was legally adopted by her great uncle and aunt, Will and Evie Bell Engram of Lufkin, Texas, in 1934. She attended Lufkin Public Schools, graduating from Dunbar High School in 1949. Following high school, she attended college at Prairie View A&M University where she was an extremely active student. She was elected ROTC Queen and selected finalist in the Queen's Court at Prairie View A&M University. In 1953, she earned a bachelor's degree in education. She also attend post graduate courses at Stephen F. Austin and Texas Southern University. She completed her Post Graduate certification in Special Education. She received special training and certification from the Texas Deaf, Blind and Orphan School in Austin, Texas. Bettie taught at the Deaf, Blind & Orphan School in Austin for a number of years. She subsequently taught in Lufkin Public Schools for over twenty-five years. After teaching, she became an ordained minister and was pastor of Collins Chapel Christian Methodist Church (C.M.E.) for over twenty-five years. She continued as an affiliate pastor of Long Chapel CME Church until her death. In recent years, Bettie has received numerous awards and honors including the Yellow Rose of Texas, Texas Community Service Award, Angelina Award Lifetime Achievement Community Service Award, Cultural Diversity Award, Paul Harris Fellow Rotary International Award and Fellow, Citizen Chamber Pinnacle Award, Civil Rights Award, Diboll History Center Award, U.S. Forestry Award, Outstanding Citizen Award, Black History Award, Jewel Award, Preservation Award, Concerned Citizen Award, Top Ladies of Distinction, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, American Cancer Society Presidents Award, Dunbar Hall of Fame Honor inductee, Salvation Army Award, AmeriCorps of Texas Award and the Angelina Award. Bettie lived her life as a servant of the Lord and to serve His people. Her ministry to others began when she was a small child. During the throes of the Great Depression, she saw her mother, Evie Bell, feeding, clothing, and taking care of those in the community. Bettie would ride her bicycle far beyond her home on N. Chestnut, laden with food and clothes to give to people in need. She continued this love for God's people throughout her life. She started a Thanksgiving Community Food Drive over twenty-five years ago. Over time and with the support of churches, friends, family, and others, particularly Bruce Love of DP Solutions, this Food Drive has grown to feed more than 1,600 families in the Lufkin and surrounding communities. Bettie was an amazing storyteller and historian. She was always sought out for her portrayals of great African American women - Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth, Rosa Parks and Coretta Scott King. Bettie has worked with Stephen. F. Austin University to research and preserve African American history in East Texas, having a collection and exhibit named for her in 2014. Bettie was preceded in death by her former husband Oscar Kennedy. Parents: Will and Evie Bell Engram and Willie Mae lngram. She is survived by her children. Sons: Oscar D. (Myrt), Kermit A., Keith C. (Lisa); Daughters: Oscar Vernell Jordan, Miriam (Howard) Coleman, Bettell (Rex) Benham; Willette (Roy) DuBose, Valencia Kennedy, Bettie "Boo" (Anthony) Watts, Angela Moreland. Also left to cherish her memory are 20 grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren and 4 great-great-grandchildren; sister, Katie Louise Harris; and a number of nieces, nephews and cousins. Also left to cherish her memory are her special cousins, Gladys Square, Willie Ingram and Lee George Ingram; her best friend, Myrtle Davis and her husband, Paul Davis (who Bettie referred to as her little brother). Bettie had numerous close friends that she considered family, including lifetime friends, Harold Hicks; Lacy Chimney and his wife, Dorothy; Shirley Fears Davis, and her husband, Rev. Milbrew Davis, and numerous others. Bettie's personal circle of influence included the common men and women you meet in every day life, from the highly elected and successful people, to the ordinary man on the street. Bettie touched countless lives and lived her life to lead and inspire others. Funeral services for Reverend Bettie Ruth Engram Kennedy are scheduled for Saturday at 1:30 p.m. in the Harmony Hill Baptist Church. Reverend Robert Gipson will officiate and Reverend Dr. Edward Thomas will be the Eulogist. Visitation will be held on Friday from 4 to 8 p.m. in the First United Methodist Church, 805 E. Denman, Lufkin, Texas. Colonial Mortuary, directors.

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June 24, 2018

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June 22, 2018

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August 10, 2015

Shirley Allen posted to the memorial.

DeLaura McClelland

June 24, 2018

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Dianne M Miller/Callaham

June 22, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.From Your Family In Denver Colorado. Issac Joseph Lee/ Mary C Lee

Shirley Allen

August 10, 2015

Keeping the family in mind and prayer.

Jim Wark

August 6, 2015

Thoughts and Prayers go out to Bettie's family! What an amassing lady! Loved by all she touched! The Mother Teresa of Lufkin! I could not attend any services due to my health! She always said a prayer on the spot when we met! She will be missed greatly here on earth but may she Forever Rest in Peace in the House of the Almighty Lord! Until we meet again sweet friend and Family!

Robert Howard

August 5, 2015

All the wisdom that Rev. Kennedy over many years has bestowed upon my wife and I will be greatly missed. May your family be blessed as we are praying for you in your time of sorrow.

Carolyn Olford-Wenger

August 3, 2015

May it comfort you to know that we were so sorry to hear of your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Carol McCoy

August 2, 2015

Rev. Kennedy was such an amazing and beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing you life with our community, and especially my classroom any time I called upon your service. Prayers for the family during this difficult time.

Felicia Hackney- Nix

August 2, 2015

Rev. Kennedy had been a part of my family for many years. Thank you. Rest in peace.

Danny Roundtree

August 1, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Stephanie Dwire

August 1, 2015

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Charles Burns

August 1, 2015

Remember the memories that this great Lady of God has given you and apply it to your life everyday. May God continue to bless you.

Michael Tanner

August 1, 2015

Praying for the family at this time of loss. She was truly an inspiring woman of God.

August 1, 2015

Rev.Bettie Ruth Kennedy you will be missed
From the Mumphery family

Anthony and May Dessa Thomas

August 1, 2015

A beautiful Rose has fully bloomed. Beautiful woman of God admired and loved by all will truly be missed. Love that woman. Praying your strength in the Lord.

Chandra Anderson

August 1, 2015

Bettell and family we are sad about the loss of your mother and my mother's lifetime friend. Although we were unable to travel we are there in spirit with thoughts and prayers as you attend her home-going today. May God bless and comfort you.

DeLaura McClelland

August 1, 2015

Bettell and Family,
Since Bettie and I were roommates my
Freshman year,
I feel as though I have
lost a sister. We communicated until the
end.
Love and prayers!
DeLaura Massey McClelland

J.T & Ann Washington

July 31, 2015

Bettie will be missed by all of us.

Angie pangie

July 31, 2015

Moma,
If I could only hear your voice once more I would say I love you more than you'll ever know. I miss you so so very much. I need you. I miss you moma.
I love you
Angela
( your Angel)

July 31, 2015

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious mother. She was always so kind and sweet and she raised great kids. You are in my prayers.

Michele Hollingsworth Smith

Caryn Hopson Dupree

July 31, 2015

It was an honor to know such an inspiring woman. Praying for God to give you peace during this difficult time.

Sharon Cauley

July 31, 2015

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Velmar J. Brown

July 31, 2015

From the late Arbetha Glenn Davis family, the late Delroy Brown family, we remember Rev. Bettie Engram Kennedy. God gave her great wisdom and richly blessed her.

Kwik Kopy Printing (Gina & Shelia)

July 31, 2015

Our dearest Ms. Bettie departs from this earth and never truly leaves, for she is still alive in our hearts and minds, through us, she lives on. Please accept our condolences, she will not be forgotten. Hope there is a copy machine in Heaven.

Brenda & Bubbie Ross

July 31, 2015

From our family to the Kennedy family our prayers are with you. Mrs. Betty was a great lady! Remember God always has your back! We will continue to keep you in our prayers!

Brenda & Bubbie Ross
Crockett Tx

Ray Green

July 31, 2015

Sorry to hear about Mrs. Kennedy, she was my teacher at the little white building called Caver. I remember she always said do your best, that sticks with me today. She tried hard to help us understand what was going on in America during the sixties, She inspire lots of us at a very young age. Always willing to help. She would say you need to learn this, and make sure you write well so someone will be able to read it.A very like person growing up. Her early teaching will stay with me all my life. RIP. You will be missed.

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