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Lysander McKechnie Obituary

RANDOLPH -- Lysander E. "Sandy" McKechnie, 74, of Randolph, formerly of Gardiner, died Monday, May 16, 2011, at the Eastern Maine Medical Center in Bangor, surrounded by his family and loved ones. He was born in Richmond on Sept. 27, 1936, a son of Earl and Florence Choate McKechnie.

He was employed by the state of Maine at the Augusta Mental Health Institute for 36 years, retiring in 1985. Sandy enjoyed fishing, hunting, race cars and family get-togethers. He was a lifetime member of the Gardiner Sportsman Association and the National Rifle Association

He was predeceased by his parents; brothers Clarence and Ronald McKechnie; a son, Everett Chapman; and a great-grandson, Peter Thornton Jr.

He is survived by his wife of 29 years, Sandra Morven McKechnie, of Randolph; his daughters, Sandra Ellis and husband Patrick of Chelsea, Caroline Markham of West Gardiner, Cindy Pare and husband Gerard Jr. of Litchfield, Harriet Nadeau and husband Norman of Jay, and Sylvia Thornton of West Gardiner; his sons, Jeffrey McKechnie and wife Karen of Vassalboro, and Steven Trask and wife Janice of Augusta; sisters Earlene Emmons of New Hampshire and Paulette Cram of Manchester; his former wife, Barbara L McKechnie, of Pittston, and her family; 20 grandchildren; 21 great-grandchildren; and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

Visiting hours will be from 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday, May 19, at Staples Funeral Home, 53 Brunswick Ave., Gardiner. A funeral service will be held Friday, May 20, at 1 p.m. at the Church of Jesus Christ Latter-day Saints, Hasson Street, Farmingdale. Burial will follow in Oak Grove Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to your favorite sportsman activity.

The family would like to thank the medical staff and doctors at the Eastern Maine Medical Center in Bangor for their excellent care and concern.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Kennebec Journal on May 19, 2011.

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Ann (McCutcheon) Cavanaugh

May 20, 2011

Sandra and family, I'm very saddened to read about Sandy. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rosemary (Brann) Rowles

May 20, 2011

Carol, Sandra and families - so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

The Cadwalladers

May 20, 2011

Our thoughts and prayer are with you Sandra, slyvia and the rest of the family though this differcult time and healing process, may God bless you all and help you heal the pain.

Vern Cram

May 19, 2011

Aunt Sandra, Sandra, Jeff, Carol: Smile to see him in a better place and dream of the good times and what he gave to us all while he was here. Take a moment and reflect on this wonderful man, God Bless!

Vern Cram (Manchester, ME)

Dorothy Smiley

May 19, 2011

To the whole Mckechnie Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you, we send our heartfelt condolences to each and everyone of you.

Tia Docimo

May 19, 2011

Aunt Sandra, I will miss uncle Sandy, He meant so much to my dad and we are greatful to both of you for being there when we needed you so much, I know they are together now and with the rest of the family and if you ever need anything please let us know, I love you aunt Sandra and I will miss Uncle Sandy's kindness very much.

Love Tia, Joe and Faith

May 19, 2011

Father, we miss you and love you so much. We know you are with PJ now and you are smiling down on us. You are forever in our hearts...Steve And Jan

Amy McCollett

May 19, 2011

Sandra and Sylvia~ May God bring you comfort during this difficult time. Praying for you and your family.

Sharon & Bub Morang

May 19, 2011

Our thoughts and wishes are with you, Sandra, Carol, Jeff, and everyone. Bub and I always enjoyed seeing him and our talks at the boys' birthday parties and other gatherings here in our hometown. If we can help in any way, just let us know. We are so sad to hear of Sandi's passing.

Mike Cote

May 19, 2011

I knew Sandy many years ago, when he and my dad were members of the sportsmans club. He was always smiling and enjoyed fishing. My deepest sympathy for your loss Jeff and family.

May 19, 2011

(DAD) YOUR THE BEST OF US ALL IT'S TEARING ME APART TO THINK THAT I TOOK SO MUCH FOR GRANTED AND YOU WOULD JUST BE THERE;WELL YOU ALWAYS ARE AND WILL BE!! I TRULY BELEAVE THAT,,,,SOARING WITH THE EAGLES& THE ANGEL'S YOUR WALKING WITH GRAMPA'GRAMMY,GRANNY,EVERETT&YOUR BROTHERS AND GRANDSON,PLEASE SAY HI FOR ME!!!YOU AND UNCLE CLARENCE .C. STAY OUT OF MISCHIEF,DONT SPEND TO MUCH TIME AT THE POND!!AND REMEMBER IT'S THE BIG ONE'S THAT COUNT!!!!!HA HA,,(I LOVE YOU DAD ALWAYS&FOREVER)WELL KAREN IS TELLING ME TO SHUT UP AND LET YOU GO FISHING,SO TALK TO YOU SOON..WE MISS YOU DAD SO VERY,VERY,MUCH,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!

Jaye Malcolm Trimm

May 19, 2011

Sandra, Carole and Family:

My heartfelt condolences are with each of you as you grieve the loss of your Dad. Having lost my Dad only months ago, I can reassure you that although the void is never filled, the memories will encourage and sustain you. My prayers are with each of you, as well as my hope that you find comfort in your Dad's peace.

Sincerely, Jaye

Patti Mansir

May 19, 2011

Sandra, you have my deepest sympathy for you and your family, I will always treasure his memory. Love Patti, Darryl & boys

Sonny Martin

May 19, 2011

I am sory to here of Sandys passing,I new him many years ago.

Sonny/Sheila Martin

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