Elaine was born on Nov. 30, 1934 in Flushing, N.Y., the daughter of Russian immigrants, Boris and Olga Dmitrieff. She entered public schools in New York not speaking English and graduated from Bayside High School. She ultimately obtained a degree from the Katherine Gibbs School in New York.
Elaine married Harlan J. Choate on Nov. 20, 1955. She earned an honorary "Putting Hubby Through" certificate from the Boston College Law School upon her husband Harlan's graduation.
Elaine was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother. In addition to being a homemaker, she worked in a diversity of interesting occupations, including as a secretary for Mademoiselle magazine in New York City and at "Where It's At," a craft store owned by her dear friend, Joan Hathaway. She worked as an activities aide at the Gray Birch Nursing and Rehabilitation Center and at the Maine State Legislature from where she eventually retired.
The job she was most proud about however was being a doting grandmother. Elaine was blessed with five wonderful grandchildren who were the light of her life. Elaine loved all children and played a significant role in the lives of her nieces' and nephews' children. Elaine so loved her "little people."
Elaine enjoyed working with her hands and was a talented craftswoman. She loved painting, decorating and knitting. One of Elaine's favorite craft activities was collecting sea glass and pottery shards from the coastal shores of Downeast Maine that she would later turn into works of art. Elaine was also an avid gardener and proudly grew her own vegetables each summer.
Elaine never forgot her Russian roots and she helped numerous Russian families that immigrated into the United States in Maine. She translated for them, helped them learn English, found them jobs, and assisted them in becoming American citizens. Elaine felt blessed to be able to travel to her parent's homeland of Russia twice in her life -- once on vacation with her childhood best friend, Nina Knese, and once with her niece, Jennifer Choate, who was adopting a baby from Russia.
Elaine was predeceased by her husband, Harlan J. Choate; and her brother, Boris Alexis Dmitrieff.
She is survived by her daughters, Victoria, Sharon and Alexandra; her son-in-law, Scott Avore; and her grandchildren, Danika McClenahan, Michael Pratt, Alexandra Pratt, Katherine Avore and Malcolm Avore.
Visiting hours will be held from 6 to 8 p.m. on Friday, June 3, at Knowlton & Hewins Funeral Home and Cremation Service, One Church St., Augusta. A memorial mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Saturday at St. Mary of The Assumption Roman Catholic Church, Western Avenue, Augusta, with the Rev. George Hickey celebrant. Interment will follow at St. Mary's Cemetery in Augusta.
In lieu of flowers, contributions to honor Elaine's life may be made to the Barbara Bush Children's Hospital, c/o Neo Natal Intensive Care Unit, 22 Bramhall St., Portland, ME 04102.
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June 4, 2011
"Sending love and prayers to you and your family, Vikki, from your Cheyenne friends. May God Bless You and comfort you." Russ and Kathy Carr (Cheyenne, WY)
Bob Patnaude
June 3, 2011
Vicki,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Julie Beth Lees
June 3, 2011
Chief---I am sorry to hear of your loss. May you find happiness in your memories of this wonderful lady! You are in my thoughts and prayers
Liz Nitzel
June 3, 2011
Dear Alex, Scott, Malcolm, Katie, and Family,
I spent many joyful hours sitting with Elaine during the children's sporting events and I am so thankful for her wonderful stories and thoughtful/well-timed advice. My heartfelt sympathy is with you all. Liz Nitzel
Diane Maheux
June 3, 2011
I was very sad to hear of your mom's passing. She always put a smile on my face and always was interested in how my family, Mariah and Moe were doing. May God Bless you during this difficult time.
LINDA PARE
June 2, 2011
MY CONDOLENCES ARE WITH ALL OF YOU. ELAINE WAS A WONDERFUL LADY...SHE TOOK TOLE PAINTING CLASSES FROM ME. I ENJOYED HER VERY MUCH.
Sue Altshuler Norton
June 2, 2011
Thinking of all of you upon the loss of your mother.
Monica Godfrey-Gorman
June 2, 2011
I worked in the same building as Elaine for a number of years. She was a sweetheart! My condolences to her family you were truly blessed to have her in your lives.
Steve Savage
June 2, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Cyndee Stacey
June 1, 2011
To the family of Aunt Elaine,I extend my heartfelt condolences.I had a genuine fondness for her the first time I met her. She surely did love the "the little people" Hold tight to your precious memories. Cyndee Stacey
Kristin Fortin
June 1, 2011
I only met Elaine last summer when she noticed I put Breast Cancer plates on my car. Having a daughter that has gone through this herself, Elaine came over and introduced herself. At that time I was just starting chemo and radiation. She opened her doors to me and my family at one of our hardest times. Elaine would have my husband Richard, myself and our 4 year old son over for a swim to cool down. I have enjoyed the time we have had and will miss her dearly!
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