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Kaleb Clowes Obituary
GORHAM -- Kaleb Scott Clowes, 18, and a senior at Gorham High School, died unexpectedly
at home on Tuesday, May 10, 2011, much to the sadness of his family; but we take comfort in knowing he is in his heavenly father's presence now and at peace.
Kaleb was a man of few words but with a great love for the written word, especially great science fiction and fantasy. He enjoyed writing enthusiastic and insightful reviews of the books he read and sharing them on facebook, where he went by 'Kaleb Captain Marvelous Clowes.'
He also enjoyed hanging out in front of the computer, spending time listening to the music he loved, participating in role- playing games, and sketching on paper and on the computer.
Kaleb was shy with others but loved his family and his three dogs and four cats; he had some close friendships at school and was close to his cousins. Those who knew him well appreciated his quick sense of humor and imagination.
He was a beloved son, big brother, grandson, and cousin in the midst of a close-knit extended family.
He was born in Portland on July 30, and grew up attending Gorham schools.
He is survived by his mom and dad, Jenni Harriman Clowes and Peter Clowes; his younger brother and sister, Jacob and Kaitlyn; his grandmother, Joan Harriman; his uncles and aunts, Peter and Beth Harriman, Paul and Kelly Harriman, and Mark Harriman, all of Gorham, and Tom and Jeannie Clowes of New Sweden, Craig and Pam Clowes of Caribou, and Suzanne Clowes of Newton, Mass.; and cousins, Christopher Harriman, Ryan Harriman, Josh Harriman, Nate Harriman, Jessica Harriman and Rachel Harriman.
Friends and family are invited to attend a service in celebration of Kaleb's life on Saturday, May 14, at 1 p.m., at South Gorham Baptist Church, 53 County Rd., Gorham. Arrangements are by the Dolby and Dorr Funeral Chapel, Gorham. For online condolences, please visit our web site at www.dolbyfuneralchapels.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kaleb Clowes
Paul Collette
June 6, 2011
Dear Peter and Family,
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. We will keep you in our prayers and hope that you will find comfort and peace.
Paul and Jeanette Collette
caitlyn
May 27, 2011
I only met kaleb last summer but i had become really good friends with him.....he was funny.....he was smart....and he listened to me .....kaleb was a great friend and i miss him so much .....RIP kaleb 5/10/11
Lynn Muller
May 16, 2011
Jennifer & Family,
You have been in our thoughts. Our sincere sympathy to you. Kurt & Lynn (Hillock) Muller
Kathleen Boyman Smith
May 15, 2011
Jenni
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that you all will feel the love of the father as he wraps his arms around each of you. I pray that his grace and mercy will rain you. Know that I will be praying for peace, understanding and healing in the days ahead.
Steve and Debbie (Sirois) Giggey
May 14, 2011
Peter and Jen,
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Being parents is such an honor and this is why it hurts us so when they pass. Kaleb was a loved young man and we certainly hope that the next few days will be about celebrating his life and wonderful happenings.
Take great comfort that you have family and friends that support you during these tough times.
Cynthia Jokinen
May 14, 2011
As you celebrate Kaleb's life, I will hold you all in my heart. Remembering the times you laughed with him or the funny things he did when he was little, helps soothe the pain. You are very unselfish to have money donated to a teen center to help other teens I did not know you all, but I bet he got his unselfishness from ya all. Cindy J mom to Gus 311, Fred 29 and the late Frankie May 8/2/77 to 10/30.2010
Theresa Kozloff
May 14, 2011
I'm so sorry for your loss, Kaleb was a good friend I knew him since pre-school. If there is anything I can do to help please email me."You all will be in our thoughts and prayers- Blessed be
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Jim Donnelly
May 13, 2011
We are so sorry to learn of your incredible loss. I can't imagine your pain from such loss. We have you in our thoughts and prayers.
Ami DeRienzo
May 13, 2011
There are no words. Just want you to know that you are loved. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Cassy Surrette ?, Also Ryan and Ashley Linscott
May 13, 2011
My boyfriend was pretty close friends with Kaleb and is really sad about his death they hung out a lot when they were in school together. I also talked to Kaleb and he was a great kid and when I heard the news I cried. And Kaleb's friend Ashley is torn over this they go to school together and were close friends. Kaleb will be forever missed RIP Kaleb ? 5-10-11
Scott Harriman
May 13, 2011
Pete and Jenn~
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Scott and Gayle Harriman
Peter Clowes
May 13, 2011
Jen and I looked for an organization that helps teens who need a little help and I would encourage in lieu of flowers you could consider a contribution to the Mission Possible Teen Center in Westbrook Maine.
Thanks, Peter Clowes
Cynthia Jokinen
May 13, 2011
I am so so sorry for the loss of your beloved Kaleb. As a mom I Yunderstand your grief hurt pain, grief and heartache. May his memories help you all through all those feelings now and always. Cindy J mom of Gus 31, Fred 29 and the late Frankie MAY 8/22/77 TO 10/30/2010
Veronica Meserve
May 13, 2011
Peter and family,
So so sorry to hear of your loss. Have been thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.
May 13, 2011
Dear Clowes Family,
I read today of the loss of you dear son,Kaleb. I'm so sorry for your loss.
My prayer are with your family. God Bless
May 13, 2011
WE ARE SO VERY DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND HEARTACHE. WITH LOVE . JIM AND HUBBA
Kathy Savage
May 13, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We have never met but your openness about Kaleb touched our family. We have a Junior that has recently been perscribed an antidepressent and mirrors Kaleb as you have described him.
Thank you for sharing your son and his story with us all. God Bless and keep you all.
T.L. pierce
May 13, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Lisa Jones(Josh's Aunt)
May 13, 2011
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
allyssa a
May 13, 2011
Rest in peace kaleb, you went on my bus and we had hilarious conversations.
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