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Bernadette Kelleher Obituary

Bernadette Ann Kelleher Sep. 25, 1939-Oct. 10, 2012 A rich and full life ended October 10, 2012, as Bernie Kelleher, 73, died of complications from heart surgery. Loyal wife of Raymond Kelleher, proud Mom to sons Kevin (Kristine), and Brian (Michelle), and Nana to Lauren, Erin, and Rachel. Born to Caesar and Mary Esteves on September 25, 1939 in Niles, California, Bernie grew up in the east bay town of Rodeo. She graduated from St. Vincent's High School in Vallejo, and went on to earn her undergraduate degree from Dominican College of San Rafael. Later, Bernie earned a Master's Degree from the University of San Francisco. Bernie was a committed and enthusiastic teacher for over 40 years. Most of those years were spent teaching 3rd Grade at St. Isabella's School in San Rafael. A past president of ADK (Marin), Bernie was also on the Board of Directors of Timothy Murphy School, was active in the Marin Irish American Club, a member of the Marin Retired Teachers Association, and a Good Samaritan at St. Isabella's Church. She enjoyed travelling, shopping, and volunteering. Most of all, she loved her family, friends, colleagues, and classmates, and treasured the time she spent with everyone. She was an energetic, enthusiastic, vibrant, and giving woman, who will be sorely missed by many. Visitation and Rosary will be held on October 17, 2012, from 6-7:45 PM at the Church of St. Isabella, 1 Trinity Way, San Rafael. A funeral mass will be held October 18, 2012, at 10:30 AM, at St. Isabella's. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Marin Irish American Club Scholarship Fund at PO Box 6025, San Rafael, CA 94903 or the Good Samaritans of St. Isabella's Church at 1 Trinity Way, San Rafael, CA 94903.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal on Oct. 14, 2012.

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January 5, 2013

Deepest Sympathy to the Kelleher Family, from Una Kelleher (Daughter of Patrick Kelleher, Buttevant, Co. Cork, nephew of Mickael Kelleher Monaflugh, Co. Cork.)
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November 6, 2012

Ray
So sorry to hear about the passing of your lovely wife. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Beth Roland

Steve and Sherry Giannini

October 18, 2012

Ray, Kevin and Brian, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. If you attended St. Isabella's in the 80's, you cannot think about St. Isabella's without thinking about Bernie. She was such a special teacher. Her memory will live on with the hundreds of students that were fortunate to be in her class. She did not just teach 3rd grade, she taught students how to be better people. Those memories will live forever.

Andy/Ethel Parodi

October 17, 2012

Dear Ray, Andy and I send our sincere condolences to you and the boys. We just heard about Bernie's death this evening. I remember being with her at St. Isabella's School when I was the school secretary and she the third grade teacher. She and I were also committed to the Parish of St. Isabella's. We are unable to attend her funeral tomorrow, but she will be in my prayers at Mass. Be strong, Ray.

Renee Espinoza

October 17, 2012

I am so sorry for you loss. Mrs. Kelleher was one of my favorite teachers and inspired me to become one myself. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I will forever remember her.

Teresa Espinoza

October 17, 2012

Rest in Peace Mrs. Kelleher, You will be missed. Love the Espinoza's

Jeff Pheatt

October 17, 2012

Dear Ray,

We wish we could gather the right words to make your pain less and offer you some comfort. You are always in our thoughts.

God bless Bernie.

Jeff and Ginny Pheatt

October 17, 2012

Dear Ray and family, We are very sorry for your loss and know how much you will miss her. Our prayers are with her and all of you. If you need anything, please call us. Sincerely, Rock and Jackie Morgan

Jacki and Frank Tarantino

October 16, 2012

Dear Ray,
We are so sorry to hear of Bernie's death. Her smile and good nature will always be in our mind. She was a wonderful person,good teaching companion and so dedicated to her family and friends.

Paula Sauve

October 15, 2012

To the Kelleher Family,
Bernie was my 3 children's 3rd grade teacher in the '80's and '90's. Our paths have crossed over the years, and I was always amazed at how Bernie would ask after the children by name 20 years after she taught them. She will be greatly missed by many, especially the Godmothers. She was a dedicated member and so generous with her time and enthusiasm. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Paula Sauve and Family

Ned Hills

October 15, 2012

Dear Ray: Very, very sorry to hear about your wife. Make sure to take care of yourself. When things are better please call as Linehan and I want to get together with you. All our best. The hills family. P.S. 650-321-4947

Colleen McGuinn

October 15, 2012

My deepest sympathies, Ray, Kevin and Brian. Bernie..you will always be in my thoughts and memories.

October 14, 2012

Bernie, you are alive in our hearts and in our memories. We feel your passing in disbelief. Our deepest sympathies to Ray, your sons,and families.
Daly and David Schreck

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