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Ann Curtis Cuneo Ann Curtis Cuneo, native San Franciscan Olympic swimming champion, died Tuesday at home in San Rafael, California. She was 86. Ann won two gold medals and one silver medal in freestyle events at the 1948 summer Olympic games held in London, England. At that time there were only five Olympic swimming events for women and participants were limited to swimming only three events. She won the 400 meter freestyle, setting a new Olympic Record, and swam a brilliant anchor on the winning 4 by 100 meter freestyle relay. The U.S. team was not favored to win but did so while setting an Olympic Record. Her silver medal came in the 100 meter freestyle. Ann was the premier female freestyle swimmer of her era. She won 34 National AAU swimming championships in her career spanning from 1943 through 1948, a record finally broken by Tracy Caulkins in 1981. Ann was the star freestyler of Hall of Fame coach Charlie Sava. She was a middle distance swimmer and not a sprinter although she won the U.S. 100 yard and 100 meter crowns six times. Cuneo won all 9 of her Nationals in the 400 meter distance and was undefeated leading up to her Olympic 400 meter win. Her other national titles came in the 200-, 800- and 1500 meter events. Ann set two world records, in the 880 yard and 440 yard freestyle events. Ann was taught to swim by the nuns at the Ursuline Convent in Santa Rosa, California where she attended boarding school. At age 11 she began competitive swimming at the Jewish Community Center in San Francisco. At 15 she tried-out for the Crystal Plunge swim team coached by Charlie Sava. When Ann first swam for Charlie he was not impressed with her abilities. Her mother, Florence Curtis, begged Charlie to include Ann on his team. She trained seven days a week, swimming three miles a day. After two months or so, Charlie recognized he was training a potential champion. Miss Curtis graduated from Washington High School and attended the University of California at Berkeley. Since Cal did not have a women's swim team she traveled twice a day from Berkeley to Treasure Island to train. Because of World War II the Olympic Games were cancelled in 1944, however she was unanimously chosen for the "Mythical Olympic Team" by the International Swimming Hall of Fame. When she finally competed in the 1948 games, Ann was 22 years old. In addition to winning her medals, Ann said another honor was to be invited to Buckingham Palace after the games to meet King George IV and his daughter, then-Princess Elizabeth. When she returned to San Francisco from London she and other Olympians were honored with a ticker tape parade down Market Street. Cuneo was also given the keys to the city and a Chevrolet convertible. Ann married her college sweetheart, Gordon Cuneo, in 1949. Ann met Gordon at Cal where he was a starting forward on the basketball team. Ann Curtis Cuneo was one of the best known sportswomen of her time and was the first woman and first swimmer to win the Sullivan Award in 1944. This award is given each year to the most outstanding amateur athlete in the U.S.A. That same year she was named the Associated Press female athlete. She was a cover girl on the front of Colliers, Newsweek and several other national magazines. Ann was inducted into the International Swimming Hall of Fame as an Honor Swimmer in 1966 and the Bay Area Sports Hall of Fame in 1983. In 1999 the ANG newspaper agency named her one of the "50 Most Significant Bay Area Sports Figures of the Century." In spite of all of the competitive swimming accolades Ann always thought her signature achievement was building and operating the Ann Curtis School of Swimming in San Rafael. In 1959, with three young children and one on the way, Ann and husband Gordon moved from San Francisco to San Rafael, built swimming pool facilities (Gordon built the office, bath house and pump room after work and on the weekends) and opened the swim club. While raising five children, she coached a swim team for 25 years, a synchronized team for 12 years, and built the business into the well-known swim school and private swim club that it is today. For the past 53 years, she has provided a valuable service to the community. It is estimated that over 40,000 students have learned to swim at her school, which continues to draw many customers from the broader Bay Area. Celebrated graduates include Rick DeMont (gold medalist, Munich, 1972 and world record holder in the '70s) and Ben Wildman-Tobriner (gold medalist, Beijing, 2008). Ann's passion and love for swimming moved her to try to provide the best swim lessons to as many students as possible. She credited her teaching progression to her coach Charlie, although she continued to make improvements to her method throughout the years. Sava also designed the teaching pool, which is shallow throughout and allows the students to practice skill repetition to acquire muscle memory. Her daughter, Carrie, now runs the swim program and continues to provide the same high quality for which Ann strived. Her swim instructors and life guards have been older high-school and college students, 16- to 25-year olds. So many of these young adults got their first working experience under Ann's wing. She set high standards and helped shape their professional lives. Her influence is best expressed by a past female employee: "As amazingly accomplished as she was, she was extremely humble, hard-working, and very self-assured. She showed me what it means to be a strong woman, without sacrificing her femininity. She is irreplaceable and has touched so many thousands of people for the better. I am so grateful to have known her and learned from her grace." -Amy Jones. Ann is preceded in death by her husband Gordon and her son Bill Cuneo. She will be dearly missed by her children Carrie Cuneo of San Rafael, Susan Cuneo Starr of Lafayette, CA, David Cuneo of Corte Madera, Brian Cuneo of Truckee, nine grandchildren Kristina Reich, Kara Sanderson, Nicholas Starr, Alex Starr, Curtis Cuneo, Jack Cuneo, Steffen Cuneo, AnnElise Cuneo, Kate Cuneo and four great-grandchildren. Family and friends are invited to a memorial service and reception on Saturday, July 21 in the San Rafael Ballroom at the Embassy Suites Hotel, 101 McInnis Parkway, San Rafael at 1 PM. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Ann Curtis Cuneo Swimming Scholarship Fund at UC Berkeley. Checks may be made to UC Regents, with a memo to the Ann Curtis Cuneo Swimming Scholarship Fund, 195 Haas Pavilion, Berkeley, CA 94720 or call Brian Raney at (510) 643-0888.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal on Jul. 1, 2012.

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Steve clark

June 24, 2020

Ann was and remains special. So many kids she taught are now adults who remember her fondly, and still enjoy the water because of her. Our oldest daughter Nina now 48 learned to swim there, and our middle daughter Nicki taught there for a few summers. I felt privileged to know Ann and her husband Gordon. Ann's swimming legacy lives on with the new owners, Copeland and Adrian.

Nancy Ridout

June 24, 2019

Ann's memory and legacy lives on in the many, many children she taught to swim who are now adults with children, or grandchildren, of their own. It's wonderful her swim school will continue. As a teammate of Ann's in Masters swimming, she was an inspiration and model of excellence.

Fayne Paris Knox

August 8, 2012

Dear Cuneo family,

I was a friend of Ann's when we attended Berkeley at the same time. I met her at Crystal Plunge where she trained with Charlie Sava, and I was in a floating water ballet directed by Dr. Charlotte C. Baer from the UC Medical School. In fact, I was in a newpaper picture with Ann and some of our other friends on campus, and I still have that clipping,

We were all also in a RKO Pathe movie short that featured Ann's career. When Crystal Plunge gave water ballet shows, Ann was a featured swimmer along with Dr. Sammy Lee, who was the Olympic diving champion, and our water ballet team were always also in the shows.

We always used to watch the varsity basketball games in which Gordon was a player, along with my best friend's husband, Richard Kretsiger.

After college I continued in the floating ballet, but Ann and I lost touch. In 1950, I became a staff member of the S.F. Red Cross and was in charge of all the free water safety classes given in the city dur9ing the school year and during the summer.I gave public classes at the Chrystal Plunge for the Red Cross, and saw Charlie almost daily.

Ann was such a terific gal, so unassuming and humble for all of her achievements.

I have thught of her so fondly all these years, and was so saddened to read of her death. But how thrilled I was to read of her having such a lovely big family, and for having such a remarkable teaching career.

In 1951 I was married and moved to New Jersey in 1952 where I volunteered with the Red Cross as Chairman of Water Safety for Ocean County, where I taught smimming in 7 locations, rivers, lakes and the bay, a new experience for someone who used to teach at Fleishacker Pool and the SF Y.

Please accept my syncere condolences. Your Mother was absolutely one of the finest women I have ever met.

Most sincerely,

Fayne Paris Knox

August 5, 2012

August 5,2012
From a 1944 classmate of George Washington High school

I remember Ann with gratitude and fondness. She taught me to swim so I could fulfill the requirement for graduation by swimming the length of the Jewish Community Center pool. The last time we met was at a class reunion in 1991 and she was just as radiant and gracious as ever. Bless you Ann.

Helen Nouguier Lazorisak Irvine, CA

July 28, 2012

Carrie: I met your mom through you 30 years ago. I was sorry to hear of her passing. I wish you the best. Thomas Yasuda.

Greg Jacobs

July 24, 2012

To the family of Ann Curtis Cuneo. I first heard of Ann when I was quite young, growing up in Sebastopol. I started age group swimming in 1957, and swam against a lot kids from the bay area. My mother used to talk about Ann Curtis all of the time, as a local Olympian. I finally met Ann after I joined the Marin Aquatic Masters. It was my great privilege to be on the same masters swim team as Ann. She was a great lady, and always extremely gracious. And a wonderful sense of humor. Please accept my condolences.

The Sheppard Family

July 20, 2012

God's Blessings to your wonderful family as you remember your Mom. You continue Ann's legacy in everything you do at your swim school and we are blessed to be a part of Ann's unique gift to us all.
Love and Prayers,
Isabel, Nicholas, Doug and Judy Sheppard

Linda Woodward

July 16, 2012

My heartfelt sympathies to the family and friends of Ann Curtis Cuneo.

I spent many enjoyable times at the pool when I was growing up in Terra Linda and fondly remember Ann and her family.

During this time of loss, I pray for comfort for you.

geoff hindin

July 12, 2012

I had the pleasure to have Ann as a Client, not once but twice. I worked with Ann designing and building both her kitchen in the Terra Linda home and also the design and building of the kitchen and bathrooms in her Tahoe home. She loved engaging in the work of design, her approach was that of a craftsman beginning their work. In those weeks during the process of both projects, I saw Ann with a twinkle in her eye, the same twinkle I saw when she was at the Pool. She was engaged and loving every minute of it. That twinkle told me I was in sync with what she wanted, sometimes unspoken but always being guided by that twinkle. This is the Ann I will always remember. My heart felt feelings go out to Carrie, Susan, David, and Brian, the hub of their family has passed on, in life she will be missed, in ones heart she will live forever.

Lynn (DiGiorgio) Laffey

July 11, 2012

Dear Cuneo Family,

Ann's influence has lasted throughout my life. She was a strong woman who I admired. Upon entereing college, I needed to write an essay about someone who was my hero. Of course, I wrote about Ann Curtis Cuneo. She was more than a coach, she was a mentor. Over the years she would often come to mind. She will be missed, but forever in my heart.

Greg Massialas

July 10, 2012

Ann was somebody that always stood out in my mind, even though we only met about half dozen times. She leaves a great legacy in Northern California and she will be dearly missed by all that knew her.

Greg Massialas
1980,'84,'88 USA Olympic Fencer
2012 & 2008 USA Olympic Fencing Coach
President, Northern Calif. Olympians

Patty (Maloney) Groves

July 10, 2012

Dear Carrie, Sue, Dave and Brian,
The way each one of you would speak of your mom always impressed me. Impressed that each of you knew the gem that you were blessed to call "Mom". And impressed that the woman who gave so much to all of the young people lucky enough to work for her, balanced it out at home as well. I have said so many times that I hope Maggie and Daniel (my kids) have a first boss like I did...kind, caring and expecting. Your mother has touch my life in so many ways!

July 9, 2012

Dear Family of Ann Curtis Cuneo,

When our family moved to Terra Linda our 3 older children, ages 9, 8, and 7 had passed the swimming test at our former home area at Strawberry Recreation Pool in Mill Valley. Ann allowed them to come to the pool without a parent as our younger children were all under 3 so Ann allowed us to bring them with helpers. It was the hottest summer ever - even to this year. We never forgot her kindness. We are sorry we will be out of town the day of the of the celebration of her life.

Bobbie & Dave Heldt

Devon Carter

July 8, 2012

I first met Ann when I had my office at the Mount Tam Racquet Club. Then, when we bought our house on Golden Hinde I discovered we were neighbors. Our kids took swim lessons at Ann Curtis Swimming. My kids have a passion for swimming that has it's roots in Ann's approach and passion for teaching kids to swim! Thank you Ann and Cuneo Family for your legacy! Our thoughts are with you in your time of loss.

Tom O'Doul

July 8, 2012

To the Cuneo Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. It was an honor to have known Ann. She was a good friend and a very special person. I will never forget her smile. It was always a joy to see her and have a brief conversation while delivering the mail. Ann helped "make my day".

Steve and Julia Maslach

July 8, 2012

Much love to the Cuneo clan from all of us on Bainbridge Island. Our hearts are with you.
Steve, Julia, Dillon and Jamie Maslach

Mark Rowley

July 6, 2012

A flood of memories of all the GREAT Thanksgivings and family reunions with Ann & Gordon and all my cousins. Love you all. Forever.

geoff hindin

July 5, 2012

I grew up with the Cuneo's, Bill there oldest son was my life long friend until his passing a number of years ago. I loved both Ann and Gordon as if they were a set of second parents to me. I remember all the wonderful lunch's spent in the family room of their home watching and talking sports. The quick wit of Ann mirrored against the dead pan expressions of Gordon always touched my heart. They were a true family, and I always felt quite honored to be a guest in both their home in Marin and their home in Tahoe. I remember working with Ann and Gordon during the periods of remodeling work in both homes. Ann always knew what she wanted and I loved the way Gordo always worked to make sure she got it. I cannot think of Ann without Gordon, its how I saw them, a real marriage of two loving people who cared for each other every moment of their lives. I miss Bill every day, I miss Gordon every day and now I will miss Ann also everyday. She was an extraordinary woman in so many ways, but mostly I knew her as my best friends mom.

Kathy Bottarini-Welch

July 5, 2012

I went to school with her son Brian, and always walked by Ann Curtis Swim School, I remember Brian talking about his mom, of how much he loved and respected her. It was because of Ann, that I eventually took up swimming and swam with the Marin Aquatic Club for several years. God Bless the entire Cuneo family at this sad time, I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and Prayers are with you during this sad time.

Steve Crow

July 5, 2012

Ann was my first coach when we moved to San Rafael. She also gave my first job. Because of her in spiration, I coached for 26 years. My family even planned a vacation so that my daughter could take lessons at her school. Who is now also a swim coach. Ann has had an influence on swimmers across the U.S. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family

Christina Zimbardo

July 4, 2012

Ann was such an amazing presence in my life -- a wonderful aunt, the best swim teacher ever, and an inspirational role model. Whenever I had a school assignment to describe my hero, I always picked her. My family and I will always treasure the many family reunions and holiday meals and swim days at the Ann Curtis Swim Club and the Cuneo home. My love to all of the Cuneo family at this sad time --

Janice Downey

July 3, 2012

Many thanks to Ann Curtis for teaching a then-5-year-old how to survive and have fun in the water. Additional thanks for privately helping my mother, a transplanted Midwesterner, come to terms with her fear of water.

Suzie (O'Neill) Williamson

July 3, 2012

My heart goes out to your family. I have so many great childhood memories of swimming on the Ann Curtis Swim Team. Ann was such a great coach & a wonderful person. She was a real inspiration to us swimmers - always try your hardest and just do your best. Thank you Cuneo's for having such a wonderful Mom who shared so much of her life with so many. My thoughts & prayers are with you.

Jim Jensen

July 3, 2012

Signing in as John Rowley's brother-in-law. Ann was John's aunt and I wanted to pay my respects. I did not know her but I know John. If she was anything like him she has my total respect. And maybe the present USA swim team should have a moment of silence at this year's Olympics.

Jim Jensen, Sacramento, California

Ken DeMont

July 2, 2012

How sad I was to hear of Ann's passing. She was truly a role model for me as I was first a swimmer and now a coach almost 50 years after she took me on her team as a 5 year old. To this day some of her influences are used daily on the deck as I instill a love for the sport to my students that she once instilled in me. She was and still is a huge part of our family. My condolences to the entire Cuneo family.

Leslie (Hoover) Redwine

July 2, 2012

My heartfelt condolences go to all of you and I am truly comforted by you carrying the torch, Carrie. The Pool, as we called it is a part of me. I spent so much time under Ann's direction and believe that my experience there helped frame the person I am today. So today, while swimming laps, fatigue taking over, I refused to succumb. I kept on in her honor and will continue doing so.

Jeremy Faust

July 2, 2012

Ann created what was for so many of us, a heaven on Earth. Countless memories of long afternoons spent basking in the beauty of those grounds and the community she lovingly oversaw. She commanded the respect of the Olympic Champion that she always was, and yet carried such elegance that she was like a grandmother to us all. She will be missed and her legacy carried on. All my love to her family and friends.

July 2, 2012

Ann was a no nonsnese teacher and role model to all of us no matter what our age. She taught me to swim in 1958 at age 13 and then my two children in the 70's. What a loss to her community --- she will always be remembered for her gold medal performance at the North Beach Crystal Plunge Pool where her practicing lead her to win her Olympic Gold Medal in 1948. Condolences to her family.
Pat W. Terra Linda

Ilana Gauss

July 1, 2012

I have so many fond memories of going to the Ann Curtis swim club with my family and friends. Ann left a wonderful legacy.

Mary Bondoc

July 1, 2012

All the women swimming at the Olympics this year will feel her spirit there.

Charleen Kuykendall

July 1, 2012

Ann had a very positive influence that went beyond swim lessons and swim team for the Kuykendall Family. It all came back to us when another Kuykendall generation started lessons a few weeks ago. It was really like going back home! Thank you Carrie for continuing the wonderful work started by your Mother. Condolences to the entire Cuneo Family.

Maureen Fox

July 1, 2012

To the Cuneo Family: We were so saddened to read of Ann's passing. Our family was long time members of the Ann Curtis Swim Club and all four children (now adults) learned to swim there. What a legacy she established in touching so many children's lives! The anticipation of the first swim of the season and competing to be the last one out of the pool at the end of the season are happy recollections we reflect back on as we remember your mom.

Sincerely, The Fox Family-San Francisco

Amy Jones

July 1, 2012

Beautifully done! Looking forward to honoring Ann and family and the memorial in a few weeks. I'm sure there will be a huge turnout. She meant so much to so many of us.

Michelle Cherrick

July 1, 2012

Cuneo Family - your Mom was such an inspiration to so many. She was my first coach and first boss . . .I owe much of my discipline and success to her teaching and guidance. She lives on in all of you and her students. God Bless.

Nancy Ridout

July 1, 2012

Ann was a special woman and an excellent role model. I enjoyed knowing and swimming with her so very much. She lived a good life and made a difference in the lives of many.

Barbara Rowley

July 1, 2012

All my love and heartfelt support to my cousins for the loss of your mom. Lots if fond memories of Ann, Gordon, Bill and you.

Barbara Rowley

July 1, 2012

A true Pisces, a fish to water! Ever kind, friendly, and supportive. I can remember her laughing to the point of tears with her sister over a dropped Thanksgiving turkey! She taught me to swim when I was 2 1/2. A lovely woman and aunt. All my love to Carrie, Suzie, David and Brian. Barbara

Steve and Betsy Clark

July 1, 2012

Ann-- you will be missed by so many people, including the world swimming community. I just scolded the Marin IJ this week for not having written an article on you to tie you into the London Games this summer. They said they would.

Greg McCormick

July 1, 2012

My first coach, my best boss, my lifelong friend, she will never be forgotten. Hugs to all the Cuneo's. I'm going swimming!

Kathy Sowers

July 1, 2012

To our dear Cuneo family -

I was so blessed to see Ann several weeks ago. We will miss our only aunt and always remember the wonderful times of family gatherings.

We love you all,
Kathy

Kandy Flautt(Economides)

July 1, 2012

Dear Cuneo Family,
I read about Ann's passing with profound sadness. Your Mom was an integral force in my life,knowing her and swimming on her team was one my greatest joys. May she rest in peace.

Ellen Monck

July 1, 2012

My dear Cuneo cousins and families,

I share your grief and loss. I was so blessed to visit Ann, your mother/mother-in-law/grandmother, just two weeks ago. Her courage to carry on was a model for all of us.

The extended Rowley family holds all of you up in prayer, and we cherish all of you as much as we do our dear Aunt Ann. We are with you in this.

Love Always,
Ellen and family

cathy gowdy

July 1, 2012

I am saddened by this news. I have fond memories of Ann and the school.

Peter Gowdy

July 1, 2012

I am very saddened by this. Ann and her school were a significant and important part of my life.

servet gokkoyun

July 1, 2012

may god bless you and your family in this

time of sorrow

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