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Ellen Mettler Obituary

Ellen Mettler Ellen Mettler, 49, passed away peacefully at her home in Muir Beach on Thursday, August 2nd, 2007 after a courageous three-year fight against lung cancer. A Memorial Celebration of Her Life will be held in Muir Beach on the 19th of August at 3:00 p.m. Ellen grew up in New Jersey and in Tallahassee, Florida spending summers at the family ranch in Moose, Wyoming. She graduated from the New England School of Acupuncture, and continued her studies in Oriental Medicine, receiving an advanced degree from the California Acupuncture College in Santa Barbara. She settled in Muir Beach, CA, and opened up an acupuncture office in Mill Valley. In addition to her acupuncture office, in the 80s, she had a business called The Kitchen's Inc., a commercial kitchen facility. She continued her yearly visits to Wyoming even until this June despite it being difficult to breathe in the altitude. She did not want to miss a trip, and just like her aunt Helen Mettler, she shared the sentiment, "God Bless Wyoming, and Keep It WILD." Ellen was a volunteer to her core. At her son's schools in Mill Valley as well as in every part of community life in Muir Beach from the Volunteer Fire Department, to the Muir Beach Quilters, Ellen's participation was inspirational. From making meals for people with sniffles, working her acupuncture magic, humbly and frankly sharing her wisdom with friends and loved ones, to making countless colorful quilts for friends, new babies, and the newly wed, she found satisfaction in simply being present in the lives of so very many people, inspiring those around her into generosity and community service. Ellen was well known for her wit, her honesty and her extraordinary ability to stay positive. She is survived by her husband, Michael Moore, her eight-year-old son Maxx, as well as two brothers, John W. Mettler of New York City, Peter W. Mettler of Palm Beach, and Louise M. Davenport of Tallahassee as well as numerous nieces and nephews, and friends in California, Wyoming, Florida, and beyond. ELLEN WANTED EVERYONE TO KNOW THAT SHE DISCOVERED SHE HAD LUNG CANCER AT AGE 47, AND HAD NEVER BEEN A SMOKER. LUNG CANCER OFTEN APPEARS IN NON-SMOKING WOMEN IN THEIR 40s AND THIS FACT IS NOT HIGHLY PUBLICIZED, SO IF YOU HAVE A COUGH THAT WON'T GO AWAY, GET A CHEST X-RAY. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent to: THE CENTER FOR ATTITUDINAL HEALING, 33 BUCHANAN DRIVE, SAUSALITO, CA 94965; DRAWBRIDGE, AN ARTS PROGRAM FOR HOMELESS CHILDREN, P.O. BOX 2698, SAN RAFAEL, CA 94912; UC DAVIS REGENTS IN HONOR OF HER DOCTOR, ANGELA DAVIES, UC DAVIS CANCER CENTER, 45O1 'X' STREET, SUITE 3016, SACRAMENTO, CA 95817 AND THE METTLER FUND AT MACLAY SCHOOL, 3737 N. MERIDIAN RD., TALLAHASSEE, FL 32312 or go out and volunteer in your own community as she inspired us all to do.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from Aug. 11 to Aug. 19, 2007.

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Hope Frank-Nicklin

August 5, 2023

I am missing you Ellen. You will forever me an inspiration and guiding light as to how to live a life steeped in integrity, humility and humanity. You continue to be a guiding light for so many of us. Sending you love way up there.

Pam Tyler

July 2, 2019

Ellen how I miss you . So many times when I'm gardening, decorating, cooking, or contemplating the stars I wonder simply ..what are you doing???? You left us all way too soon.

Marcia McCaslin

August 18, 2007

Ellen, I did not know you, but I have had a fascination with your aunt, Helen Mettler's, story and the plaque that last I saw was hanging in St. John's Hospital. Just wanted to comment, that's all, and to your family, my condolences.

Cindy, Sutton, Dylan & Sean Freebairn-Smith

August 16, 2007

Ellen, we will miss you dearly. Your perseverance, love, and integrity will live on with us forever. Mike and Maxx, we are here for you always. Love to you.

lonna

August 15, 2007

ellen was a rare bird who has left us here on earth. an honor and privilege to have known her - she will be sorely missed by so many, but will remain in our hearts forever

Vazquez Adams Family

August 14, 2007

Ellen, you are forever in our hearts. Thinking of you makes us smile, and sometimes laugh. You changed the world in many ways. We are truly blessed that you were in our lives. Mike and Maxx we are with you, and we love you all.

Rene' Jenkins

August 13, 2007

Dear Ellen,
I'm grateful for the brief and blessed moments we shared. Thank you for opening your heart and entrusting me with your hopes & intentions. I feel honored that you would allow me to see both your volnerability & your powerfully determined & dynamic Spirit. Though I played a very small part in your life, it will be everlasting to me.
I send many blessings on your transition & to your beautiful family.

Jack Finley

August 7, 2007

Ellen and I were schoolmates at Maclay and it was sad to read of her passing. I remember her as very sweet, kind, and generous. Her family hosted terrific pool parties for our "gang" at their lovely home. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss.

Gennell & Allen Thompson

August 7, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Mettler and Davenport families in this their time of loss.

Though we didn't know her well we know Ellen will be missed.

This is such a loving family, so any member missing will surely be a great loss.

I have often recalled that many times at social occasions, her Mother would come up to me and say in a very-very loud voice: "Allen, How's your Mother!".

Kit & Louise have always treated me as family.

My family feels your loss and sends our regards of deepest sympathy to all the family.

Van & Maryann Jones

August 7, 2007

Dear John, Peter and Louise,

Maryann and I were saddend to read of Ellen's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you and with the entire Mettler family.

kim atkinson

August 7, 2007

to the mettler and davenport families- my prayers are with you and your family in thes time of loss. ellen will be dearly missed.

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