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MARY WARNECKE Obituary

Mary Ann Derham Warnecke Age 54, beloved wife and step mother, passed away December 23rd, 2010, from a head injury sustained from an accidental fall in her home. Mary, a 3rd generation Californian and Mill Valley native, was born August 3rd, 1956 to Helen and Charles Derham. She attended school at Mount Caramel, Marin Catholic, Tamalpais High School and College of Marin. Mary lived in San Rafael with her husband Fred Warnecke, they were married October 26th, 1991. In her early career Mary worked in banking and real-estate in San Francisco's financial district, and later at Coldwell Banker in Marin. Recently, her enthusiasm for fashion led her to open a high-end online clothing store. She had the best eye for clothing and loved dressing up and attending parties. Mary loved Marin, going to the beach, playing with her two cats, following the news, sports and politics, and writing about it all on Facebook. She was a beautiful woman who lit up rooms with her radiance, zest for life, and unmatchable compassion. Her honesty and humor charmed all that knew her and she will be remembered for the love and care she gave to her family and friends. Mary is survived by her husband Fred; her step-children Pierce and Alice Warnecke; her mother Helen and brothers Richard and Vincent Derham; her nephew Justin and nieces Kimberly, Grace and Elizabeth. She is predeceased by her dear father Charles Derham and her oldest and most loved friend, her sister Charmaine Derham. A Funeral Mass will be held at St Sebastian's Chuch, 373 Bon Air Road, Kentfield, CA, on Wednesday January 5 at 11:00 am. In lieu of flowers please make any donations to the Marin Humane Society-415-883-4621. Arrangements in the care of ADOBE CREEK FUENRAL HOME, 331 Lakeville St, Petaluma, CA 94952. CHEDA & LYONS Directors 415-883-8070

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Published by Marin Independent Journal on Jan. 2, 2011.

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January 23, 2011

Dearest Freddie,Alice and Pierce,
I have tonight just learned of Mary's passing and the huge impact it has on us all. I guess it takes a little longer for the news to get through here in Montana. My heart and love go out to you to embrace your loss. Beautiful girl our Mary. I am stunned and so saddened. I weep for such a difficult loss. She was my friend and I will miss her. I apologize that I was not there at her celebration of life to be with each one of you, to share hugs and memories.. I send to each one of you my warmest and most sincere condolences.
All my love,
Judy Patton

Cory Bytof

January 7, 2011

We're so sorry for your loss. Peace be with you, Fred, and family and friends. - Cory and Beth at Falkirk

PATRICIA STEPHENS

January 6, 2011

My heart is broken with the loss of Mary. She had the most joyous and loving spirit and was always there for her friends and family. My love and condolences to Freddy ,Alice and Pierce.
Trish Stephens San Francisco

Adrianna & Bobby Sullivan

January 4, 2011

We are deeply saddened by the tragic loss of Mary. We will always remember her joy and radiance. Our thoughts and prayers are with Fred and her family and friends. God Bless you Mary.

SANDRA HANSEN

January 3, 2011

I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MARY WAS MARY.A SMILE SO BRIGHT A HEART SO BIG AND DREAMS SO BIG TO FILL.SHE HAD STYLE AND SHE HAD GRACE AND WILL BE MISSED

SANDRA HANSEN

January 3, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Adobe Creek Funeral Home

January 2, 2011

Our thoughts are with the family and friends at this time.

Kathleen Wade-Caston

January 3, 2011

I'm still at a loss of words; but would love to convey my heartfelt loving expressions of condelences to Mary's family and many friends. God surely holds a special place for Mary. Much love to everyone who knew her...

Tish Gilfillan-Barrow

January 3, 2011

I just got re-aquainted with Mary via Facebook and I am so at a loss for not being able to continue this friendship. My condolences to the family and I am sorry that I will be out of town for the services.

Marguerite Devlin, Corky Corcoran

January 2, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Mimi Petersen

January 2, 2011

We were so sad to hear of Mary's passing. She just came back into our lives via FB. I loved her uplifting posts and the caring and compassionate responses she sent to me. She shared with me her love and pride for her step children. Mary expressed that they were such a joy in her life.
Both my husband and I remember a very happy nice highschool pal. Clearly she remained a shinning light.
Our deepest sympathies

January 1, 2011

I am so sorry for the loss of Mary, truly a bright star who lit up good spirits wherever she went.
Deepest sympathy to Fred and all the family.
Sande Schlumberger

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