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Karen
March 24, 2025
Happy birthday!!! I know I'm a little late, but there has been a lot going on down here.
Body parts in; body parts out.
I promise I don't mind being old. I just want to be old for a long, long time!
I think of you often and Peggy and all of us are more relaxed talking about you -- actually saying your name out loud. It's always good stuff, funny stuff. You really did leave an impression. xoxo
Karen
June 25, 2024
I was up past midnight, and I really wanted to write something then, *but* I got all caught up reading the accounts from other newspapers. My goodness, you were a successful man -in all areas of your like. The world needs more of you; you taught us how to live. One newspaper accounting that I found interesting was the Bay City News: "Remembering Raymond Dracker."
And I do remember you...I'm not kidding, I bet at least once a day your name pops into my head. And usually the accompanying thought has something to do with being kind or being resourceful, or persevering. I've made a big promise to myself today. You do your part and I'll do mine.
Peggy is fine and so are your kids. They are independent adults. We sisters were trying to figure out birthdays last night. Oh my word! But I think the mistakes we made at figuring their pages was because the numbers we came up with just didn't seem right. Joan will be 55 in September-- too old for her and much too young for you.
xxoo
Karen
March 21, 2024
Happy birthday, Ray. I am smiling; I never thought I would!
Peggy and the rest of her sisters zoomed last night. I hoped you eavesdropped. My age is showing: I forgot! Several texts and phone calls later, I raced to the computer to check in.
Everything is moving along down here. Peggy is flourishing, really, flourishing! Her work colleagues admire her and.....well, you KNOW what wonderful friends she has. She is witty and loving, generous and compassionate. I could learn a lot from the both of you!
Now, go celebrate! xoxo
Peggy
June 26, 2022
Hi my sweetheart,
The wedding of Matt and Hanna was beautiful. I pictured you there and it made me happy and sad. So then I pictured you in heaven watching it all. I was able to find some comfort there. He is like you in so many ways Ray - that´s true for the girls too. Promise that you´ll help them make good decisions in life. You are good at that.
I went to the cemetery on the 25th. I brought roses again - 5 this time since Hanna is now officially part of the family. I told her that while she didn´t know you, I know she would have loved you.
I love you more everyday, Ray. I think it just grows inside of me pent up in anticipation that one day I´ll be able let it all out and hold you again.
Love you. Love you Live you with all of my heart.
Karen
June 25, 2022
Oh Ray....if you only knew. But you do know, don't you?
You always knew that your children would grow to be incredible adults. You and Peggy modeled what good, kind, loving behavior was all about. They learned well. They are young people who you *want* to be with. They interact well with us "old" people.
I stayed in your au pair room last week. Peggy was downstairs. It felt like 12 years ago, EXCEPT it really was a very happy occasion. Matthew just got married to the SWEETEST young lady! Her name is Hanna, and you would love her. They complement each other so well.
You need to know that if thoughts of *you* aren't guiding me, then thoughts of Peggy are. YOU two complemented each other too!
I will talk to you later! xoxoxoxo
Peggy Dracker
March 24, 2022
I went to Costco for your birthday and searched for something giant to buy and the kids said they would "build something" in your honor. :) You would be so proud of them, Ray. I see a part of you in each of them. We all miss you my sweetheart and love of my life. I give you a hug every night before I go to bed at night and close my eyes and imagine you are here with me. Keep smiling on us down here. We still need you. Forever. xoxo
Karen
March 23, 2022
Happy birthday, Ray! So many people remember you, love you, and miss you. xoxo
Karen
June 25, 2021
Once again, I am checking in. I promise you: you cross my mind every . single . day. Maybe it's recycling, maybe it's thoughts of Peggy, maybe it's Michael,, maybe it's kayaking, maybe it's my own marriage. Last night it was Costco! We were visiting the triplets and Sara had both refrigerators and one separate freezer FILLED with food. She explained that they buy everything on a grand scale....
. from Costco. Then I told them about your grand purchase
of . . . salt!!! It still makes me laugh.
Your children are amazing, your wife is resilient, and all of us are muddling through. By the way, following in your footsteps is *hard*! But we carry on. Pray for us. xoxo
Karen Guzek
March 21, 2021
Happy birthday. Ray. THIS time I think I have the day right! You would be surprised - or maybe Peggy would - at how often you cross my mind. Sometimes, when I think of Michael, I think of you too. Sometimes when I see the ocean, I think of you. And sometimes, when I think of Peggy, especially when I think of Peggy, I think of you. The world would be better with you in it. The rest of us are hanging on and trying hard. xoxo
Karen Guzek
June 24, 2020
Happy birthday, Ray. In quiet times when i think of you, i *still* get tears in my eyes. You were boved and needed by so many people. Im here to tell you that your family is thriving beyond anything you could inaine. They have all the kindness, awereness, and decency that you instilled by example. And Peggy never skipped a beat in raising those kids to reflect your values and hers, AND she herslf has carried on in this world as a a fighter for justice. She joins her sisters as an advocste for fairness and peace. I hope she sees this because i am a sobbing mess right now. You . were . perfect. Miss you every day. xoxo
Marguerite Dracker Dolezal
March 23, 2020
Ray's warm smile and family values will be passed on by recalling many cousin celebrations. Stay strong my dear Dracker Family.
March 21, 2020
Happy Birthday Ray. You would be 65 today. It's been almost 10 years since you left this earth, but I feel you with me every minute of every day trying to help me be a better person and make some difference on this earth while I'm here. I hope to see you again if God will let me... I miss you so much my dear sweet loving humble husband. I will love you forever. Forever.
Karen Guzek
February 27, 2020
I don't know how often you check back on this page, Peggy, but I want you to know that I think of Ray probably every day. And by extension, I think of you! xoxo
Peggy
July 13, 2018
Ray would be so proud of the young adults his children have become and the good choices in life they have made. His good soul and his unselfish love live on in them. I love you Ray, always and forever.
Peggy
April 30, 2016
Just thinking about Ray tonight. He was a gift to me and I miss him every day. Every Day. I love you Ray.
July 1, 2012
Thank you Jeff. It touches me to know that there are others out there who remember him with fondness.
Peggy (Ray's wife)
Jeff Tolan
April 17, 2012
I worked with Ray about 12 years ago, when he was at NREL and I was negotiating a license to some patents. I found Ray to be very engaging, and I learned a lot from him. I happened to be reviewing some notes from one our meetings, and I decided to look him up on Google. This news saddens me greatly, and my heart goes out to his family.
Jeff Tolan
Ottawa, Canada
September 11, 2010
I also just learned about the tragic accident! I was Virginia's roommate in college, and soon became like another Dracker - or the 6th sister! Although distance and years have resulted in less communication with the Drackers, I will always have love in my heart for each family member. Raymond was an amazing man and my heart goes out to his family in CA and to all the Drackers!This planet is truly at a loss!!! ~ Stephanie (Radow) Brenner
Ben Paulos
September 10, 2010
I just heard the news about Ray. I was a professional colleague of his, working on renewable energy. It was great to have someone with Ray's formidable knowledge and no-nonsense attitude on our side, working for a better world. He did so much good, but there is so much more good he could have done. -- Ben Paulos
July 14, 2010
Peggy, Matt, Alexis and Soph. I am so so sorry to hear this tragic news. Ray was a wonderful man and father and I know he will be sorely missed. My thoughts and love are with you all during this difficult time.
~Kelly Sutton xxxxx
July 9, 2010
Dear Peggy,
My memories of Raymond were joyful Sunday's spent at Grandpa George and Grandma Amelia Drackers home in Queens,NY. We shared many fun family picnics growing up on LI.
Ray's sparkling eyes and warm smile is a family trait that will always be remembered.My family will keep all of you dear in our hearts and prayers.
Love
Cousin Marguerite Almasy Dolezal,Manorville,NY
July 7, 2010
Dear Peggy:
Jerry and I are at a loss for words. I'm so shocked to hear that I lost another Wonderful cousin. Our prayers go out to you and your family.
Cousin Joan and Jerry Szymczak
July 6, 2010
Dear Peggy,
Roger and I send our sincere sympathy to you and your family.
Love,
Brenda Lauer
July 5, 2010
I know Raymond was a family man, I am privileged to be part of that family. What I learned in the past few days however was how big his "California family" really was. My brother has amazing friends that quickly became friends of mine.They supported us all during that last few days.Thinking of everything we couldn't. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. Lisa Danz
July 2, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time of loss and sorrow.
Darrin, Mary Sue and Annalise Schlafer
Julia DeGutes
July 2, 2010
Peggy...My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry. He is among the angels now. Love, Julia DeGutes
Morry Cater
July 2, 2010
We send our deepest sympathy and love to the Draker family. The loss of Ray, and his larger than life personality is incalculable. We are stunned, and grieve for you. A friend once told me -- we are not human beings having a spiritual life. We are spiritual beings having a human life. We know Ray is with us still. much love Morry Peter Mac Silas Madison and Justin
Debbie Klein
July 2, 2010
Ray and Peggy made each Christmas special for our family. Kevin and I love you guys and we will miss Ray. Debbie Klein (Santa Rosa, CA) and Kevin Hazard (Houston, TX).
Doreen Pettus Castellucci
July 1, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to the Dracker Family. We all have the fondest memories of the number street days. Our prayers are with you all from the Pettus Family
Barbara Dracker
July 1, 2010
With love from Ray's uncles, aunts and cousins on the East Coast.
Ray truly was a reflection of his parents, Ray and Joan Dracker and his grandparents, George and Amelia Dracker.
We are all so proud of Ray's accomplishments but prouder still of the man, husband and father that he became.
July 1, 2010
Susan,
I wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss and that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
Lorrie O'Neal
Christian Gutknecht-Stoehr
July 1, 2010
I would like to express my sincere condolences on the untimely passing away of our dear college Ray Dracker.
To me this news is a shock and my thoughts will be with Rays family and all of you US colleges who worked closely with Ray for the least years.
From Germany
June 30, 2010
Peggy, How very sad to lose Ray so soon. My thoughts are with you and the kids.
Anne Wardell
Bob Pumo
June 30, 2010
To a man who loved life,his wife ,children and his family.You will be missed.You are now with your Mother,father and your Brother.
Pamela Painter
June 30, 2010
Peggy, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences. You and your family are in all our thoughts and prayers.
June 30, 2010
Ray 's Truth: his love for ... his family...For his friends...for life....
Ray's Friendship: Oh we all thank God that he was ever a friend of ours...
Ray's Love: Peggy, Matthew, Alexis and Sophia...Ray's love is with you......his love will always find you, support you....in ways that are beyond comprehension. Thank you for loving him as you have and will forever more.
Ray's Courage...accept that courage as yours during this time of incomprehensible difficulty.
Ray's Determination: That, too, is yours as you face all future challenges.
Ray's Commitment: Carry it on...he strived to make the world a healthier, happier place.
(Terry-a friend from Oneonta days)
Claudia Maiero
June 30, 2010
Dear Peggy and Family,
I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear about Ray. He lived his life to the fullest and had the respect of his family, friends and coworkers. He will be missed but not forgotten.
June 30, 2010
Peggy, I cannot find words to soothe your sorrow. Hugs to you, Matthew, Alexis and Sophia for now.
I will always have Ray's energy and big smile in my heavy heart.
Margaret Wong with Brian, Philip and Elle
Lisa and Michael
June 30, 2010
We will miss Ray. So many wonderful memories from our great neighborhood. So many happy moments shared together with our children as they were growing up. We'll be sure to watch out for Peggy and the kids as they are extensions of our own family. All our love: Lisa, Michael, Rachael & Gabby.
Al and Lee Dracker
June 30, 2010
Our hearts are broken by the passing of our nephew. Rest in peace Raymond.
Uncle Al and Aunt Lee
Joanie Bettencourt
June 30, 2010
Our hearts go out to you in this time of sorrow and loss. We are thinking of you.
Joanie, Alexis and Family
Linda Hochenberger
June 30, 2010
Our hearts go out to Peggy and the children on the loss of Raymond. He is in our thoughts and prayers
Linda Dracker Hochenberger and family,North Syracuse,New York
Linda Trocki
June 30, 2010
Ray was a wonderful colleague at Bechtel, and a true leader at promoting renewable energy projects there and at NREL. I greatly appreciated him not only for his technical knowledge, but especially for his kindness, respect for others, and his perseverance. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Marlies Carver
June 30, 2010
Dear Mrs. Dracker,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband in such a tragic way. May your love and memories sustain you and your children and all your family during this difficult time.
Ray was a wonderful and hard working colleague at Bechtel R&D, always ready to help and give his time freely.
In sympathy,
Marlies Carver, ret. Bechtel R&D 2004
Martin Coyne
June 30, 2010
Our deepest sorrow and prayers go to the Dracker Family from Anne & Martin and Heather & Shannon Coyne
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