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RAYMOND DRACKER Obituary

Raymond (Ray) Joseph Dracker March 21, 1955 - June 25, 2010 Ray Dracker passed away in a tragic kayak accident while vacationing in North Carolina on Friday, June 25, 2010. He was 55. Ray was born to Joan and Raymond Dracker in Bethpage, New York, and was the oldest of 8 children. Largely putting himself through college, Ray received his double undergraduate degrees from University of New York Oneonta and University of Buffalo in Physics and Engineering. In his pursuit of his advanced degree and a warmer climate, he attended the University of Arizona where he graduated with a masters degree in Nuclear Engineering. But Ray's professional focus and passion had always been in the development and promotion of advanced renewable energy. Ray began his career at PG&E where he worked for 13 years followed by 5 years at Bechtel in the areas of advanced fossil technology, solar technology and other advanced energy systems. Beginning in 1998, Ray worked for 3 years for the National Renewable Energy Laboratory in Colorado as the Director of Operations and Technology Transfer which included managing the laboratory's intellectual property. After this, Ray worked for the next 5 years for the Center for Resource Solutions as their Technical Director and was responsible for implementing a series of projects and programs to assess renewable energy power options for western states. For the last 3 years, Ray worked for Solar Millennium LLC as Senior Vice President of Project Development where he was responsible for the engineering and development of solar energy power plants. While he died before seeing their 4 developed power plants completed, he was the originator of their design, responsible for their site selection, permitting, licensing, financial development and development engineering. Ray's entire life was about passion, love, caring and boundless energy for the people and things he thought were important and that he loved. He had an incredibly curious mind and a vast interest in many different areas. His thirst to plan and lead adventures for his friends and family was never ending as he organized hikes to the top of Mt. Whitney, Half Dome in Yosemite, down and back up the Grand Canyon in one day, kayaking from Marin to AT&T park for a Giants game, and numerous other hiking, skiing and biking adventures. He loved to entertain and cook and it was not unusual for him to prepare a gourmet meal for a large group of friends after a long day of hiking, or a New Year's Eve sit down dinner at his home for 30 people. Nothing was more important to Ray than the people in his world. He was devoted to his wife and 3 children, his family, his friends, the people he worked with and the community of Marin. He was his son's little league baseball coach and the ultimate soccer dad for his 3 children whom he adored. He was the team tournament coordinator for 2 of the teams, a regular chaperone and was so very proud watching his children play. Everything about Ray was done on a grand scale - his purchases at Costco, his home projects, his love of sports and the Yankees, the hours he worked and played for all that he loved. For Ray, there was no task too hard to tackle, no problem too difficult to solve, no conversation that he didn't want to engage in, no point of view that he hesitated to share, no issue too small to debate, no person he wouldn't help. And with all of his accomplishments, all of his abilities and all of his intelligence, he was a humble, genuine man with the ability to make people laugh and enjoy life. Ray is survived by his adoring wife Peggy of 28 years, his 3 beautiful children, Matthew, Alexis and Sophia, his 5 sisters, Susan Bestany, Virginia Trupia, Joanne Remsbecker, Anne Marie Pumo, Lisa Danz and his brother, Steven Dracker and many nieces, nephews and friends. Memorial service: 11:00 am, Saturday, July 3. St. Raphael's Church, 1104 5th Ave, San Rafael. Reception to follow at the Elk's Lodge, 1312 Mission Ave, San Rafael. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be sent to a college fund that has been established for the 3 children. Donations can be mailed to Wells Fargo Bank, 1203 4th Street, San Rafael, CA 94901 for the benefit of the Dracker Family, account 8073464771.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from Jun. 30 to Jul. 2, 2010.

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Karen

March 24, 2025

Happy birthday!!! I know I'm a little late, but there has been a lot going on down here.
Body parts in; body parts out.
I promise I don't mind being old. I just want to be old for a long, long time!
I think of you often and Peggy and all of us are more relaxed talking about you -- actually saying your name out loud. It's always good stuff, funny stuff. You really did leave an impression. xoxo

Karen

June 25, 2024

I was up past midnight, and I really wanted to write something then, *but* I got all caught up reading the accounts from other newspapers. My goodness, you were a successful man -in all areas of your like. The world needs more of you; you taught us how to live. One newspaper accounting that I found interesting was the Bay City News: "Remembering Raymond Dracker."

And I do remember you...I'm not kidding, I bet at least once a day your name pops into my head. And usually the accompanying thought has something to do with being kind or being resourceful, or persevering. I've made a big promise to myself today. You do your part and I'll do mine.

Peggy is fine and so are your kids. They are independent adults. We sisters were trying to figure out birthdays last night. Oh my word! But I think the mistakes we made at figuring their pages was because the numbers we came up with just didn't seem right. Joan will be 55 in September-- too old for her and much too young for you.
xxoo

Karen

March 21, 2024

Happy birthday, Ray. I am smiling; I never thought I would!
Peggy and the rest of her sisters zoomed last night. I hoped you eavesdropped. My age is showing: I forgot! Several texts and phone calls later, I raced to the computer to check in.
Everything is moving along down here. Peggy is flourishing, really, flourishing! Her work colleagues admire her and.....well, you KNOW what wonderful friends she has. She is witty and loving, generous and compassionate. I could learn a lot from the both of you!
Now, go celebrate! xoxo

Peggy

June 26, 2022

Hi my sweetheart,
The wedding of Matt and Hanna was beautiful. I pictured you there and it made me happy and sad. So then I pictured you in heaven watching it all. I was able to find some comfort there. He is like you in so many ways Ray - that´s true for the girls too. Promise that you´ll help them make good decisions in life. You are good at that.
I went to the cemetery on the 25th. I brought roses again - 5 this time since Hanna is now officially part of the family. I told her that while she didn´t know you, I know she would have loved you.
I love you more everyday, Ray. I think it just grows inside of me pent up in anticipation that one day I´ll be able let it all out and hold you again.
Love you. Love you Live you with all of my heart.

Karen

June 25, 2022

Oh Ray....if you only knew. But you do know, don't you?
You always knew that your children would grow to be incredible adults. You and Peggy modeled what good, kind, loving behavior was all about. They learned well. They are young people who you *want* to be with. They interact well with us "old" people.

I stayed in your au pair room last week. Peggy was downstairs. It felt like 12 years ago, EXCEPT it really was a very happy occasion. Matthew just got married to the SWEETEST young lady! Her name is Hanna, and you would love her. They complement each other so well.

You need to know that if thoughts of *you* aren't guiding me, then thoughts of Peggy are. YOU two complemented each other too!
I will talk to you later! xoxoxoxo

Peggy Dracker

March 24, 2022

I went to Costco for your birthday and searched for something giant to buy and the kids said they would "build something" in your honor. :) You would be so proud of them, Ray. I see a part of you in each of them. We all miss you my sweetheart and love of my life. I give you a hug every night before I go to bed at night and close my eyes and imagine you are here with me. Keep smiling on us down here. We still need you. Forever. xoxo

Karen

March 23, 2022

Happy birthday, Ray! So many people remember you, love you, and miss you. xoxo

Karen

June 25, 2021

Once again, I am checking in. I promise you: you cross my mind every . single . day. Maybe it's recycling, maybe it's thoughts of Peggy, maybe it's Michael,, maybe it's kayaking, maybe it's my own marriage. Last night it was Costco! We were visiting the triplets and Sara had both refrigerators and one separate freezer FILLED with food. She explained that they buy everything on a grand scale....
. from Costco. Then I told them about your grand purchase
of . . . salt!!! It still makes me laugh.
Your children are amazing, your wife is resilient, and all of us are muddling through. By the way, following in your footsteps is *hard*! But we carry on. Pray for us. xoxo

Karen Guzek

March 21, 2021

Happy birthday. Ray. THIS time I think I have the day right! You would be surprised - or maybe Peggy would - at how often you cross my mind. Sometimes, when I think of Michael, I think of you too. Sometimes when I see the ocean, I think of you. And sometimes, when I think of Peggy, especially when I think of Peggy, I think of you. The world would be better with you in it. The rest of us are hanging on and trying hard. xoxo

Karen Guzek

June 24, 2020

Happy birthday, Ray. In quiet times when i think of you, i *still* get tears in my eyes. You were boved and needed by so many people. Im here to tell you that your family is thriving beyond anything you could inaine. They have all the kindness, awereness, and decency that you instilled by example. And Peggy never skipped a beat in raising those kids to reflect your values and hers, AND she herslf has carried on in this world as a a fighter for justice. She joins her sisters as an advocste for fairness and peace. I hope she sees this because i am a sobbing mess right now. You . were . perfect. Miss you every day. xoxo

Marguerite Dracker Dolezal

March 23, 2020

Ray's warm smile and family values will be passed on by recalling many cousin celebrations. Stay strong my dear Dracker Family.

March 21, 2020

Happy Birthday Ray. You would be 65 today. It's been almost 10 years since you left this earth, but I feel you with me every minute of every day trying to help me be a better person and make some difference on this earth while I'm here. I hope to see you again if God will let me... I miss you so much my dear sweet loving humble husband. I will love you forever. Forever.

Karen Guzek

February 27, 2020

I don't know how often you check back on this page, Peggy, but I want you to know that I think of Ray probably every day. And by extension, I think of you! xoxo

Peggy

July 13, 2018

Ray would be so proud of the young adults his children have become and the good choices in life they have made. His good soul and his unselfish love live on in them. I love you Ray, always and forever.

Peggy

April 30, 2016

Just thinking about Ray tonight. He was a gift to me and I miss him every day. Every Day. I love you Ray.

July 1, 2012

Thank you Jeff. It touches me to know that there are others out there who remember him with fondness.
Peggy (Ray's wife)

Jeff Tolan

April 17, 2012

I worked with Ray about 12 years ago, when he was at NREL and I was negotiating a license to some patents. I found Ray to be very engaging, and I learned a lot from him. I happened to be reviewing some notes from one our meetings, and I decided to look him up on Google. This news saddens me greatly, and my heart goes out to his family.

Jeff Tolan
Ottawa, Canada

September 11, 2010

I also just learned about the tragic accident! I was Virginia's roommate in college, and soon became like another Dracker - or the 6th sister! Although distance and years have resulted in less communication with the Drackers, I will always have love in my heart for each family member. Raymond was an amazing man and my heart goes out to his family in CA and to all the Drackers!This planet is truly at a loss!!! ~ Stephanie (Radow) Brenner

Ben Paulos

September 10, 2010

I just heard the news about Ray. I was a professional colleague of his, working on renewable energy. It was great to have someone with Ray's formidable knowledge and no-nonsense attitude on our side, working for a better world. He did so much good, but there is so much more good he could have done. -- Ben Paulos

July 14, 2010

Peggy, Matt, Alexis and Soph. I am so so sorry to hear this tragic news. Ray was a wonderful man and father and I know he will be sorely missed. My thoughts and love are with you all during this difficult time.
~Kelly Sutton xxxxx

July 9, 2010

Dear Peggy,
My memories of Raymond were joyful Sunday's spent at Grandpa George and Grandma Amelia Drackers home in Queens,NY. We shared many fun family picnics growing up on LI.
Ray's sparkling eyes and warm smile is a family trait that will always be remembered.My family will keep all of you dear in our hearts and prayers.
Love
Cousin Marguerite Almasy Dolezal,Manorville,NY

July 7, 2010

Dear Peggy:

Jerry and I are at a loss for words. I'm so shocked to hear that I lost another Wonderful cousin. Our prayers go out to you and your family.

Cousin Joan and Jerry Szymczak

July 6, 2010

Dear Peggy,

Roger and I send our sincere sympathy to you and your family.

Love,
Brenda Lauer

July 5, 2010

I know Raymond was a family man, I am privileged to be part of that family. What I learned in the past few days however was how big his "California family" really was. My brother has amazing friends that quickly became friends of mine.They supported us all during that last few days.Thinking of everything we couldn't. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. Lisa Danz

July 2, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time of loss and sorrow.
Darrin, Mary Sue and Annalise Schlafer

Julia DeGutes

July 2, 2010

Peggy...My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry. He is among the angels now. Love, Julia DeGutes

Morry Cater

July 2, 2010

We send our deepest sympathy and love to the Draker family. The loss of Ray, and his larger than life personality is incalculable. We are stunned, and grieve for you. A friend once told me -- we are not human beings having a spiritual life. We are spiritual beings having a human life. We know Ray is with us still. much love Morry Peter Mac Silas Madison and Justin

Debbie Klein

July 2, 2010

Ray and Peggy made each Christmas special for our family. Kevin and I love you guys and we will miss Ray. Debbie Klein (Santa Rosa, CA) and Kevin Hazard (Houston, TX).

Doreen Pettus Castellucci

July 1, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to the Dracker Family. We all have the fondest memories of the number street days. Our prayers are with you all from the Pettus Family

Barbara Dracker

July 1, 2010

With love from Ray's uncles, aunts and cousins on the East Coast.
Ray truly was a reflection of his parents, Ray and Joan Dracker and his grandparents, George and Amelia Dracker.
We are all so proud of Ray's accomplishments but prouder still of the man, husband and father that he became.

July 1, 2010

Susan,

I wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss and that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
Lorrie O'Neal

Christian Gutknecht-Stoehr

July 1, 2010

I would like to express my sincere condolences on the untimely passing away of our dear college Ray Dracker.
To me this news is a shock and my thoughts will be with Rays family and all of you US colleges who worked closely with Ray for the least years.
From Germany

June 30, 2010

Peggy, How very sad to lose Ray so soon. My thoughts are with you and the kids.
Anne Wardell

Bob Pumo

June 30, 2010

To a man who loved life,his wife ,children and his family.You will be missed.You are now with your Mother,father and your Brother.

Pamela Painter

June 30, 2010

Peggy, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences. You and your family are in all our thoughts and prayers.

June 30, 2010

Ray 's Truth: his love for ... his family...For his friends...for life....
Ray's Friendship: Oh we all thank God that he was ever a friend of ours...
Ray's Love: Peggy, Matthew, Alexis and Sophia...Ray's love is with you......his love will always find you, support you....in ways that are beyond comprehension. Thank you for loving him as you have and will forever more.
Ray's Courage...accept that courage as yours during this time of incomprehensible difficulty.
Ray's Determination: That, too, is yours as you face all future challenges.
Ray's Commitment: Carry it on...he strived to make the world a healthier, happier place.
(Terry-a friend from Oneonta days)

Claudia Maiero

June 30, 2010

Dear Peggy and Family,
I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear about Ray. He lived his life to the fullest and had the respect of his family, friends and coworkers. He will be missed but not forgotten.

June 30, 2010

Peggy, I cannot find words to soothe your sorrow. Hugs to you, Matthew, Alexis and Sophia for now.
I will always have Ray's energy and big smile in my heavy heart.
Margaret Wong with Brian, Philip and Elle

Lisa and Michael

June 30, 2010

We will miss Ray. So many wonderful memories from our great neighborhood. So many happy moments shared together with our children as they were growing up. We'll be sure to watch out for Peggy and the kids as they are extensions of our own family. All our love: Lisa, Michael, Rachael & Gabby.

Al and Lee Dracker

June 30, 2010

Our hearts are broken by the passing of our nephew. Rest in peace Raymond.
Uncle Al and Aunt Lee

Joanie Bettencourt

June 30, 2010

Our hearts go out to you in this time of sorrow and loss. We are thinking of you.
Joanie, Alexis and Family

Linda Hochenberger

June 30, 2010

Our hearts go out to Peggy and the children on the loss of Raymond. He is in our thoughts and prayers
Linda Dracker Hochenberger and family,North Syracuse,New York

Linda Trocki

June 30, 2010

Ray was a wonderful colleague at Bechtel, and a true leader at promoting renewable energy projects there and at NREL. I greatly appreciated him not only for his technical knowledge, but especially for his kindness, respect for others, and his perseverance. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Marlies Carver

June 30, 2010

Dear Mrs. Dracker,

My deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband in such a tragic way. May your love and memories sustain you and your children and all your family during this difficult time.

Ray was a wonderful and hard working colleague at Bechtel R&D, always ready to help and give his time freely.

In sympathy,
Marlies Carver, ret. Bechtel R&D 2004

Martin Coyne

June 30, 2010

Our deepest sorrow and prayers go to the Dracker Family from Anne & Martin and Heather & Shannon Coyne

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