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Deborah Engert
March 14, 2022
Dr.McDowell, you are very much missed. Everyday what u have taught me lives within me. U reside in my soul. U cared about me & not by telling me anything but by being you. You taught me without words but love that nothing matters more than to be truly loved & cared for. With that, u have all that is important & with that u can then start your true journey in life. I see u everywhere. Walking up Madison Avenue getting in the elevator on 57th st. Sitting in your office talking to me about art literature books & at the same time behind all that simple talking u taught me the true meaning of love, caring & true validation. I’ll always miss u & I look forward to seeing you in the next chapter of our lives. I see u swinging on a swing over a pond looking down at the fishes or under a tree reading a wonderful book. U r my light out of my darkness. I want to also say a word to your parents. They must have been wonderful caring people for you can’t give what you did not get. You will always remain in my minds eye & heart & u will never be forgotten.
Debbie E.
Alan Weitz
July 23, 2020
The reason I can't believe how many years have passed since you, Dave, passed is that your spirit is with me every day. Your light never goes out. I was your patient....I still am.
Sara Wiedt
February 19, 2015
This is my second message regarding Dr. David McDowell. I miss him more and more every day as a patient of many many years. It's been almost a year now. I have yet to find a new therapist ; there simply isn't anyone out there with his intelligence and empathy not to mention his physical charm and sense of humor. I missed the service at St. Barts as my own mother was ill but if anyone would care to share anything more about Dr Dave's tribute please contact me at [email protected]
Sincerely,
SaraWiedt
October 19, 2014
To Carlos: You are the hero, the unsung hero, the loving life partner for the past six years, Dave's happiest. I saw you take care of him every day through his illness and passing. Because of you, he could spend every one of those last days at home. You encouraged him, nursed him, fed him, loved him, accompanied him each step of the way. Your wonderful mother, Rosa, tenderly and quietly cared for him in ways he could accept from few. Dave and many of his friends and colleagues would want you to be acknowledged and honored for this and for all you were to him. Carlos, we salute and thank you. Dave, we miss you. The world is not the same without you.
Joanne
October 8, 2014
Just read about Dave's passing. He was always a kind thoughtful person who never missed a beat throughout my psychiatric training and my years at Columbia. My condolences and warm wishes to his family and friends.
Dan Schechter, Geneva, Switzerland
Liam F
September 30, 2014
To The McDowell Family,
My sincerest condolences for your loss.
David Wilson
September 2, 2014
To Carlos Moreira
Carlos, sincere condolences on the loss of your wonderful partner, David. You were there for him when he needed you most.
Robin James Storer
August 28, 2014
My sincere condolences for your loss..
Jane-Bailey Enquist
June 28, 2014
Dearest Jacqie---I called a cousin in Conn last week to get your phone number and she told me about reading of a death in your family.I asked her to send me the article. Well today it has arrived.
What a fabulous young man you have raised.I am so sorry your beautiful family has this sadness . I am so surprised that you had all those boys!!!! So successful and doing such great things for this crazy world. I am using Becks computer for today. So send me your phone number or URl and I will contact you. Lots of memories from l943....You are in my prayers. Jane Bailey Enquist
Sara Wiedt
June 15, 2014
Dear McDowell Family,
I saw David once a week for the last 18 or so years. He taught me more about life and love, Music,( I was in the Met Chorus and I knew immediately he was a beautiful tenor) writing a good letter ,being the best me I could be than anyone else. He met my family. Though private he was my family in NYC after a divorce. Helped save my
pension through contacts he shared and He saw me through
amazing life challenges. He was my rock. Most weeks I would bring him a soy latte from Starbucks and we would share stories. None of this tells the whole story of one of the kindest human beings I have ever known. Please know his goodness is all around us in all he touched. I will miss him unimaginably so. Heaven is surely enhanced with his sweet smile.
Feel free to contact me for any reason. Sincerely, Sara Wiedt
Ted Herrmann
June 12, 2014
To the McDowell Family - too many years have passed, but memories remain as if they were yesterday. I remember some great times with your family and some of the antics David did as a toddler/youngster - Reconnecting with him on Facebook allowed me to catch up with him after 45 or more years - it was amazing to see who David had become. My deepest sympathies to you all - David was truly a remarkable man.
June 10, 2014
We extend our deepest condolences to the entire McDowell Family. With sincere sympathy the Oppenheimer family.
June 10, 2014
Dear Jackie and family. I'm so very sorry to hear about your David. I remember with a smile the times he devoured spaghetti at our house and kept the crowd in stiches. My prayers are with you.
Loretta Cavanaugh McAlpin
Juliet Cavanaugh
June 10, 2014
I am so very sorry to hear of David's passing. May you find comfort in your memories of him...I myself remember many funny, crazy, musical times during our high school days...he was one of a kind.
Ara Peters
June 9, 2014
Dave was my doctor on and off for the last 20 years....he became more like a friend in my mind. He was not only so smart, witty, charming and insightful but more important Dave was KIND. He was an extraordinary Doctor and I will miss him in my life. To his family and loved ones, I send my thoughts and condolences...Ara Peters
Kim & Garth Colegrove
June 9, 2014
We extend our deepest condolences to all of the McDowells on the loss of David. May you embrace all the time that you did have with him and be comforted in knowing that his life had such a positive impact on so many friends, family and clients. He leaves this world light, as he left a lot behind. We will remember David for being compassionate and for making others around him happy by virtue of his smile.
Jolene Mastrio
June 9, 2014
I'm so sorry to hear of David's passing. What a great loss for your family and the world. I shared a seat with David so many times on our bus ride to school. (Mercy/Xavier). And was very fortunate to see him perform on stage. He obviously went on to do great things and will be forever in our thoughts. God Bless his soul.
Jolene Dube Mastrio
June 9, 2014
Our prayers and condolences to the McDowell Family
The Mylchreest/ Boehme Families
June 9, 2014
Tom and family,
Very sorry for the loss of your brother. May you have many fond memories.
Janet Heizman
Laurie Quinn
June 9, 2014
Steve and Family-
My deepest condolences to you all during this difficult time...
Jenner Libby McAteer
June 9, 2014
Dear McDowell family,
Tommy and I are holding you all close in our hearts and prayers. Our deepest sympathy.
The McAteers
Theresa (Sienkiewicz) Krauth
June 9, 2014
To All in the McDowell Family, I am saddened to hear of David's passing. Although I hadn't been in touch with him in many years, I considered him a wonderful friend. I had the delightful experience of being in Mercy-Xavier's Production of "Oliver" when David played "the Artful Dodger." His sense of humor and fun loving nature made the production and multiple cast parties so memorable! My deepest sympathy goes to all of you, he was one of my favorite people in our high school years!
LeAnn Murphy Cassidy
June 9, 2014
I had the honor of meeting David when we were mere high school students. He was a talented, compassionate, and loving human being. Anyone who crossed his path was blessed for having known him. May his memory be eternal.
Judy Dawe
June 9, 2014
Dear Jackie, Carlos, Bud, Gail, Steve, Vicki, Tommy, Liz, and the entire McDowell clan, I am so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. That was so fast. They say only the good die young. They also say, God only gives us as much sorrow as we can handle. I agree with the first, but still grapple with the second. May the wonderful memories of a life well lived and shared so joyfully, help to ease the pain of your loss over time. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. RIP David. Love, Judy Dawe Stankewicz
June 9, 2014
To the McDowell family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of your great loss.
George and Millie Hunter
Laura Zawisa
June 9, 2014
To the McDowell Family - we were shocked and saddened to hear of David's passing. Too soon to lose such a brilliant mind and effervescent personality. We all have many happy memories of David's younger years when we all played together in everyone's backyards. We send our deepest sympathy and please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Walt, Chris, Laura Zawisa and Donna Zawisa Hensler
Dean Fredericks
June 9, 2014
To the entire McDowell Family,
Our prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Your family has always been very special to all of us.
The Fredericks Family
Adele Myers
June 9, 2014
To the McDowell Family, I am so sorry to hear about David's passing. I have been a patient of his for many years and he helped me so much. I just can't believe he's gone. The guidance he gave me will be with me always and I am so thankful to have known him.
Jack & Lynda Herrmann
June 9, 2014
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Elaine Jackson
June 9, 2014
Thoughts and prayers to the McDowell families. David will always be in our hearts and he is watching over all of us. He has always been a shining star since we were in elementary school in Higganum. He is helping people in heaven now. He is at peace with no pain and suffering. Godspeed David!
Elaine and Seth Jackson
June 8, 2014
To the McDowell family,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with now more than they usually are.
Ed Kerrigan
J ames Ferrara
June 8, 2014
Dear Mrs McDowell and Family,
I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear about David. I am so blessed to have the opportunity to share many conversations while he was in school. I will always remember him as a true gentleman. Sincerely, James Ferrara and Family
Wendy & Terry O'Rourke
June 8, 2014
Very sorry to read this. may god hold you tightly in this time of sorrow
Evelyn & Jim McIntyre
June 7, 2014
Buddy and family,
So sorry to hear about David, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sharon Godwin Purzycki
June 7, 2014
Dear Mrs. McDowell and family,
I am sorry for your loss. His memories will live on in your hearts. Thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Sharon Godwin Purzycki
June 7, 2014
I will always remember how proud Aunt Kay and Uncle Bill Trimble were of David when you would appear on the Montell Williams show. They were retired and living in Florida. They always made sure that all of their friends watched.
Judith Henry Brown
June 7, 2014
Tom and family,
God bless.
Paul & Carol Peloquin
River Valley Landscape
Haddam
Michael Lake
June 7, 2014
I was a patient of Dr. McDowell's for the last couple years. Such a tragic loss in such a short period of time - I'm still in shock. He was a caring and trusted physician who was clearly passionate about his work and always maintained a high sense of humor. The help he provided to me through our short time together was invaluable in getting me over some of life's obstacles and making me a better person, and I will always remember that. I can only hope he knew, and that it brings some solace, what a positive impact he made on so many people, just as he did with me. It is such an overused phrase, but he was truly someone who made this world such a better place because he was in it. My deepest sympathies to his friends and family.
June 7, 2014
Dear Buddie and Gail, we were so sorry to read of the passing of your dear brother. Our prayers are with you and your entire family at this very sad time. We are visiting our daughter ,Theresa in Portland, Oregon ,when my family called us about your dear brother. God Bless you all at this very sad time.
Very sincerely, Patty and Tom Inglis and family
June 7, 2014
David's Family I am so sorry far your loss Remember God only takes the best. your family is in my prayers Liz,Vicki and Steve you all know time will help and I know you will be there for Jackie to go on. I love your family and sometimes life is so unfair Paulette Evans
June 7, 2014
To the McDowell family, I'm shocked to hear of the passing of David , such a loss, he had such a brilliant mind , I remember when you all lived next door to us on lake pocotopaug in east hampton, big Red Sox fans , I enjoyed reading about David on all his web sites, please call if theirs anything I can do for you Jackie, Robin Hood Boyce, Greenville, sc
June 7, 2014
McDowell's,
David possessed a wonderful mind, an excellent heart, and an indestructible spirit. This is truth.
"A great soul serves everyone all the time. A great soul never dies. It brings us together again and again."
- Maya Angelou
Love, comfort and peace to the family and his partner.
Ken
June 7, 2014
Dear Jackie,
I am so sorry for your loss. Deepest sympathy to you and the family.
Susi Delldonna
June 6, 2014
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Alan Weitz
June 6, 2014
You once suggested I put flowers around my apartment. I still do. I will never forget you, nor your wisdom, humor, brightness; your unique gifts for healing; your sarcasm. Today I will buy a flower for you. Love. Farewell.
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