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Mary Bettencourt-Alves Obituary

MARY DELORES BETTENCOURT-ALVES SEP 20, 1932 - NOV 15, 2010 Mary Delores Bettencourt - Alves, 78 of Newman passed away Monday at her Residence. Mrs. Alves was born in Modesto, CA and was a lifetime resident of Newman. She worked for Golden Valley Creamery, Leprino Creamery and Patterson Frozen Foods as a Bookkeeper. She was a parishioner of St Joachim's Catholic Church in Newman and a member of Y.L.I. and Newman Historical Society. She enjoyed gardening, antiquing and spending time with family and friends. Mrs. Alves is survived by her daughters, Susan DePauw of Crows Landing, Jane Steitz of Salinas; brother, Edward Bettencourt of Newman; 10 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her sons, Robert Alves and Michael Alves. A Rosary/Funeral Mass will be held at 10:00 am, Friday, November 19th at St Joachim's Catholic Church in Newman. Private Burial. Remembrances may be made to: Community Hospice, 4368 Spyres Way, Modesto, Ca 95356, Y.L.I. (Young Ladies Institute), C/O St Joachim's Catholic Church, 1121 Main Street, Newman, CA 95360 or Newman Historical Society, PO Box 123, Newman, CA 95360. Services conducted by Hillview Funeral Chapel, Newman. www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee on Nov. 18, 2010.

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Pam Davis

November 22, 2010

Susan and Jane, So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours and may God watch over all of you. Pam Davis and Daryl and Modesta Hall.

Caroline Perry

November 18, 2010

Susan, Jane & families, Sweet Mary will be deeply missed by many. She is and always be a very special friend to me. I can just imagine the sorrow you all feel. She blessed my life in so many ways..I will miss her so much. God bless you all.

November 18, 2010

Susan, Jane and family, I am so sorry about your loss. I wish that I had the words to say or a way to help your family through this sad time. May her memories help to ease your sorrows. Mary touched alot of people through her genuine kindness and love. May God bless you. Sylvia Vela (Avondale, Az)

Cathy Strohmeyer

November 18, 2010

Dear Susan and Family,
I was so saddened to hear of your mothers passing. She was one of the dearest ladies I have ever know. I'm also saddened I didn't get to talk to you two at the doctors office a few months back.
May your memories hold her close.
Stan & Cathy (Lema) Strohmeyer

Robert Teeple

November 18, 2010

May the peace of the Lord be upon you. Know that we share an enternal life through Jesus our Christ.

Fr. Robert Teeple

Mary Coelho

November 18, 2010

Dear Family:
Your Mom was one of a kind. Newman has lost a sincere, kind and beautiful lady. She brought sunshine and a sweet demeanor wherever she was. She loved and cared for all of you and may that knowledge and God's love now comfort you.

With Sympathy,
Mary Relvas Coelho & Family

Ray &Cece Santos

November 18, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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