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Max Bartlow Obituary

MAX GREGORY BARTLOW JUL 22, 1947 - JUN 9, 2011 On June 9, 2011, the Lord Jesus came and took Max Gregory Bartlow to Heaven. He lived his entire life in Modesto. Max is survived by his wife Bonnie of 29 years; Max's two children, Bill McAleavey of Turlock, CA, and Stephanie Abbott of Roseville, CA. Max leaves behind his mother, Bessie Bartlow of Modesto; his brother, Bruce Bartlow of Tacoma, WA; his sister, Janet Noble of Modesto; nephews, Nathan and Morgan Bartlow, of the Tacoma, WA area; grandchildren, Marcus Ray, Austin William and Abbigail McAleavey, and Austin Ray, Alyssa, and Adyson Abbott. His father Max Bartlow died 33 years ago. Max graduated from Davis High School in 1966. He served in the U.S. Navy from 1966 - 1970, a proud Vietnam Veteran. Max was employed at Campbell Soup in Modesto for 12 years until they closed the plant. He was the resident welder- mechanic. A member of the Butchers Union, then at E.J. Gallo Winery, Brandy Dept. from Sept. 24, 1996 until his death, where for 13+ years he belonged to UFCW Local 186. Max loved his family and friends and was very proud of his children and grandchildren. He loved life and lived it to the fullest. He enjoyed meeting people and "never met a man he didn't like." He valued his friendships and was a true and loyal friend to all that knew him. He enjoyed NASCAR. Earnhart was his favorite forever, as well as fishing and hunting. He was a board member of Turlock Sportsman Club. He was also active at Waterford and Escalon Gun Clubs. He was an avid Clay Shooter and participated in summer and winter league shoots. He will be sadly missed by his family, friends and work. Graveside services will be held on Saturday, June 18th at 10:00 a.m. at Acacia Memorial Park, Modesto, CA. A Celebration of Life for Max will be held at the Turlock Sportsmen Club, date to be announced later. A Celebration of Life will also be held at the Waterford Sportsmens Club on Sunday, July 10th at 9:00 a.m.. www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee from Jun. 15 to Jun. 17, 2011.

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Marcus McAleavey

November 7, 2019

Our Grandpa Max will always be remembered as the guy you bring with you to the fist fight, He was tough as nails. Love u and miss you grandpa max save me a spot up there next to u

Abbigail McAleavey

January 21, 2012

i will always miss my grandpa max and i will also keep him in my mind forever i love u grandpa

June 25, 2011

What you saw is what you got. Max was a good friend for about 30 years and was never pretencious. He called the shots whereever they landed. I'll miss him and always will. We talked 2-3 times a week, and he would relate his sucess or failure at the Turlock Gun Club. He had many friends there. So, farwell Max, my friend. May Heaven smile upon you.
Your friend Fred.










miss calling him 2-3 times a week to update on his trap-shooting prowess. A good and lasting friend, even in his passing

Linda Acre(Chapman)

June 22, 2011

I knew Max in High School.He was my first Boyfriend. He was such a sweetheart. He was also a great friend. He would do anything for you if reasonable. i think of him often and and so glad he was a part of my life.. i have nothing but good memories..God Bless You Max and I love you.

denice vanbuskirk

June 17, 2011

you were so much fun to be around in school...a few of us changed ur last name in fun and thats how u took it. a genuine honest and non judgemental guy is what u were. ive thought of u often throughout the years. rest with the angels my firend.

June 17, 2011

Max,
You will be missed greatly. Our family gatherings won't be the same without you.

June 16, 2011

I believe that through life you meet the same people over and over and every now and then God gives you someone special that you know you will never meet anyone like this person again Max was that gift to the Dycus family the memories we have of our friend Max will last a lifetime we love you and will always miss you Max their will be a big hole in our family without you but we will never forget you love Dave and Patty Dycus

Ann Laney

June 16, 2011

I will miss my trips to the airport and back to pick Max up. The big guy carrying his big gun, during hunting season. I'll never forget some of the faces of some of the people, seeing him pick up his gun and carry it out of the airport. You will be riding in a different carriage and flying with heavenly wings. To all the Bartlow family, like you I prayed and wished for a different outcome...but Max is in a far better place and will be waiting for us to join him some day. God Bless You All! My Love and Prayers, Ann and Ed

courtney mccall

June 16, 2011

max was my dads bestfriend he was an uncle to me.. growing up as a young child we never left his house without a rose.. he was a great man and would do anything to help out a friend... we love you uncle max

Bill & Chris Alred

June 16, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to the entire Bartlow family. God Bless.

Michael Butler

June 15, 2011

Im going to miss you max, you were my camping buddie, i wont forget all the late night talks we had, and most of all, all the beating you at shooting lol, RIP Buddie

Jamie & Tom Murillo

June 15, 2011

I already posted on here but i just wanted to light a candle in memory of you Max!!!!

Jamie Murillo

June 15, 2011

I met Max when i lives on Kildare lane with my dad Tom and my first experience with him was a very memorable one! It saddens me to know of his passing i live in Oregon and my dad called me today to tell me. He REALLY was a GREAT man and i feel very blessed to have had the opportunity to know Max! He will be missed by all! I know my dad Tom is very sad about this news! Well my deepest and utmost sympathy goes out to the family! I LOVE U MAX!!!!! Jamie Murillo

June 15, 2011

Max was a great part of Joaquin Street history. His kindness, helpfulness and easy smile made him a favorite of many.

Robert, Frances, and Michael Butler

June 15, 2011

Words, however kind,
can't mend your heartache:
but those who care and
share your loss wish you
comfort and peace of mind.
May you find strength
in the love of family
and in the warm embrace
of friends.

Deepest Sympathy

Alicia VanderTop

June 15, 2011

How does one say good-bye to someone they have grown up with their whole entire lives? Oh how Janet, Pamela and I liked to tattle on you and Bruce. You loved to pick on us and we would run to your mama and get you in trouble all the time. The day you showed up on my doorstep with a pomegranate juice squeezer you had made by hand just for me was the day that without words....we knew how much we loved each other. I will see you again someday. Until then.....rest in peace my cousin. I will eternally love you!

randy rogers

June 15, 2011

so long max we all will miss you

Laurie Norton

June 15, 2011

Max was a genuine character & will be greatly missed at Gallo. He added much joy & color to our work place. It will not be the same place now that he is gone.

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