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Sharon Shaffer Obituary

SHARON LEE SHAFFER MAR 27, 1945 - NOV 23, 2010 Sharon Lee Shaffer, 65, passed away peacefully in her home in Modesto, Ca on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010. Sharon was born on March 27th, 1945 in Columbus, Ohio to the late Kenneth and Julia Dawley. Asa young girl she moved to California where she married at the age of 17 and relocated to Arizona where she began her family and her work in convalescent care. She returned to Ohio in her late 20's where she remarried and eventually returned to California. She continued to work in the nursing field and remarried for a third and final time. She moved to the Modesto area in 1987 and was employed with Dan Gamel's RV Center for a number of years until becoming an in-home caregiver for the elderly until her retirement in 2005. Sharon enjoyed bingo, dancing and traveling. She was fiercely independent and had recently renewed her love of camping and meeting new friends. She had spent most of this past summer and fall camping at Woodward Reservoir in Oakdale with her devoted Maltipoo, Kobe. She was a grateful breast cancer survivor and a humble member of Alcoholics Anonymous. She would have celebrated her 20th year anniversary of sobriety in December. Her greatest passion was helping others in need during her years in AA. She touched the lives of many and will be remembered for her honesty, sage advice, and commitment to the program, always reminding others to ''pass it on.'' She is survived by two of her three husbands, Ronald Jaksch of Black Canyon City, AZ and Fred Shaffer of Modesto, Ca. She was preceded in death by her second husband, James Shannon. She is also survived by her brother Brian Dawley of Capay, Ca and her sister Karen Sue Wood of Thousand Oaks, Ca. She is survived by her four sons, Kenneth Jaksch of Black Canyon City, AZ., David Shaffer of Sacramento, Ca, Richard Jaksch of Modesto, Ca and Steven Shaffer of Salida, Ca. She was preceded in death by her son, James Shannon, Jr. She is also survived by her four daughters, Mary Angel'' Jaksch of Waterford, Ca, Marny Shaffer of Jackson, Ca, Leya Shaffer of Salida, Ca and Tamara Shannon of Salida, Ca. She will also be dearly missed by her 14 grandchildren and 7 great-grandchildren, and especially her puppy, Kobe. A private family memorial will be heldat a later date. The family asks that in lieu of flowers,donations in her honor maybe made to The Susan G.Komen Foundation'' http://ww5.komen.org/donate/ donate.htmlGuest Book available online at www.modbee.com/obituaries hughsonlakewood.com

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Published by Modesto Bee from Dec. 11 to Dec. 12, 2010.

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Gloria Ayala

December 20, 2010

steven and family so sorry to hear of your moms passing, We will always remember her as a loving and outgoing lady. May her memories be with you always. The Ayala family Eddie,Gloria,Christina and Veronica

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Bobbi Potts

December 12, 2010

Steve, our heartfelt prayers go out to you and your family. May your wonderful memories bring you comfort and peace. We love you. Bobbi Potts Saenz, Brian C. Moorehead,Chris Salas,Jessica Dupree,Carlos Salas,David Holland,Juan and Noelle Saenz.

December 12, 2010

Sincere best wishes to all of the family - and especially to our dear friends and neighbors - Angel and Kassi. Sharon must have been a remarkable lady.
Dan and Pat Padrnos

Dave, Becky, Will Hollingsworth

December 11, 2010

What a beautiful tribute to your mom! You are all in our thoughts and in our prayers.....

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