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Ifraj Beyah Obituary
June 30, 1977 ~ September 24, 2006
"Heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences."
SEASIDE – Ifraj "Iffi/Ika" Beyah died Sunday, September 24, 2006 in Oakland, at the age of 29, CA. A native of Seaside, CA Ifraj was born on June 30, 1977, in San Francisco, CA.
Ifraj was a true leader and accomplished much in her all too short lifetime. Her thirst for knowledge and adventure and drive for success lead her down many paths. A graduate of Seaside High School, she obtained a Bachelor of Science degree from San Jose State University, where she also served on the AmeriCorps Program in California, the Navajo Nation and El Salvador. She also completed Certificate studies in Real Estate, Massage and Sign Language. She was enrolled in a postgraduate program at Cal State East Bay at the time of her death. Through her success and achievement, she remained a woman of resilience, confidence, clarity and faith.
Ifraj loved her family deeply and cherished her friends. Her love for her family and friends brought smiles and joy whenever she was in their presence. Preceding her in death was grandfather, George Winston, cousin, Askia Bismillah.
Ifraj is survived by her son, Na'im Sadiq Beyah-Adams; her parents, Ira and Georgette Beyah; brothers: Ira (Bubba), Willie, Trevor, Hassan, Jason, Bob and Malcolm; Companion, 'Tone' Adams; god father, Fred Huntsman; aunt, Diane Bismillah-Henson; cousins: Tonya Bismillah, Tamar & Eric Collins and a host of Aunts, Uncles, cousins and friends.
There will be a graveside service at Mission Memorial Park, 1915 Ord Grove Avenue, Seaside, CA 93955, Thursday, September 28, 2006 at 3:00 p.m. Immediately following will be A Celebration of Ifraj's Life at the Embassy Suites Hotel, Seaside, CA.
"Verily to Allah belongs what he took and to Him belongs what He gave, and everything with Him has an appointed time…."
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Memories and Condolences
for Ifraj Beyah
Elizabeth Kennedy
September 24, 2007
I still feel I'll never quite have another friend who could make me laugh so hard, so often. Missing, missing, missing Ifraj.
"What we are given is taken away, but we manage to keep it secretly. We lose everything, but make harvest of the consequence it was to us." –Jack Gilbert
John McDowell
September 1, 2007
To the Beyah Family. Have not seen you all in many many years, I ran upon the obituary randomly and was shocked. We are so sorry for your loss. I believe Iffy is in the hands of her creator and at peace and we will continue to keep Iffy and you all in our daily prayers. I recently found pictures of Brandi playing with Iffy with the BOYS, and it is just the cutest picture. Iffy- truly a beutiful girl. We do not know how you feel, yet The McDowell Family has experienced too much loss in the recent years and understand those feelings of such deep sadness when we loose one of our own. Our prayers for you wish peace for you all and Iffy was fortunate to have you all and you were all fortunate to have Iffy. Death is only temporary, as we all will be together one day with our loved ones.
You will stay in our prayers.
The McDowell Family
Keantha Belton
June 20, 2007
Wow...Iffy, my God. I am at such a loss for words as I have come across your obituary this evening. I was doing a random search for your name on the internet as I have never forgotten you since our days at Seaside High; playing basketball, hanging out and having many laughs in the "Pettas Palace" a.k.a Mr. Pettas' geometry class our 10th grade year. And wow, you have a baby boy! From looking through the posts to this guestbook it is obvious that you grew to be a great woman that will be missed by many. As I read through your message in my 1993 yearbook (that you signed as "If-Dog") I can't help but smile, yet even through the absence in each other's lives my heart still feels heavy. Farewell old friend, and I hope to see you again someday...
Brenda Olave
June 5, 2007
Sweet Mama Ifraj,
It seems like just yesterday we were talking and laughing on the phone. I cannot believe you are gone and that I will never again see your beautiful smile or hear your contagious laugh or spend hours talking about the silliest of things. You are such a beautiful, special woman... so strong and full of life. You were like a sister to me in college, I love you very much and miss our beautiful friendship. To the Beyah Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you, I am sorry for your loss- she was one of the most amazing people I ever met, I love her dearly. Ifraj touched my life in a special way and I thank you for raising such a beautiful person blessing us with her presence, though it was too short she made every moment count.
Eduardo Fonseca
May 21, 2007
I just now heard about this and am at a loss for words. Ifraj was one of those rare people that we need more of in this world. Everyone who met her, will always remember her laugh and smile. I will remember her for the beautiful heart she had. We spent a lot of time together in Arizona, El Salvador and in class and she had nothing but love for everybody. May she rest in peace and my condolences go out to her family.
Tonya Bismillah
October 27, 2006
Cousin,
Thank you for blessing our entire family with your presence. Your bright smile, laugh, friendship and loving heart was felt by all. Kiss Ski, Papa and the rest of the family for us. We love and miss each of you, hence why it hurts so much!
Gretta Johnson
October 26, 2006
Ms. Iffi even though we only spent a few times together. I will always cherish that time we spent together, especially the last time we had sooo much fun. My deepest sympathy to your family and to your beatuiful baby boy Namin. I'll see ya later...
Lanecia (PUNKIN) Strom
October 25, 2006
Iffi,
I'm having such a hard time with your absence. I have sent you a message in a prayer, for God to embrace you with open wings and to tell you how much I miss you and love you. Your beautiful smile and contagious laughter will live inside us all. Thank you for ther precious memories we have shared together, they will be stored in my heart for ever. I will see you in heaven....
Tinee Collins
October 23, 2006
I just wanted to thank everyone who shared all of their thoughts, prayers, and memories. Everyday we continue to grieve but knowing that Iffi was loved by so many makes it a little bit easier. Thank you again and continue to keep us in your prayers.
Angelica Dansby
October 23, 2006
Iffy. God has placed you in a better place.
Tamika Hughes
October 18, 2006
Iffy, I will miss you and never forget you. I know that you are a angel that will always be watching over your son and family. I always will remeber your laugh and smile that always lit up a room.
Love always, Mica and Family
Seante Hayes
October 14, 2006
My deepest sympathy to all the Beyah Family. I'll always remember her beautiful smile and that unique laughter.
Shana Newson
October 14, 2006
Everytime the moon races the sky, we think of things we cannot hide, of emotions, trapped deep inside. Tears in our eyes and fear in hearts, we think of the end, were it starts. We think about all the things, discrimination, occuring from nation to nation. When dark clouds bring in the rain, still harsh air brings back pain. Through all the tears we cried, GOD has promised to stand by our side. Our thoughts and prayer goes out to the entire Beyah Family.
Brina(Twin) Newson
October 12, 2006
Iffy, I remember when Tinee first introduced me to you. Dian was driving us to your halloween party somewhere near Santa Cruz;in that blue pick up Truck. When you opened the door, the very first thing I remember was your contagious smile, and your unique laugh. You have really made a great impression on many people. You will be deeply missed, and I send my prayer's and entire love to the Beyah Family.
Lonny Aviles-Crespo
October 12, 2006
Iffy I will truly miss you girl. It made me so sad when I hered this news of your passing. Than I started thinking of how blessed I was to have spent some time with you on this earth. I thank God for your friendship. Your smile,laughter and kind heart will never be forgotting. I'm so glad I got to see you befor you left. You will be missed. My condolence to the family.
Diane Bismillah-Henson
October 11, 2006
Niece,I miss your infectious smile and laughter. My heart aches with your absence but I know that Allah is God and his will is done. Please give Ski and Dad a hug and kiss from me. You were a super mom, sister,daughter, cousin and friend! I will watch out over the family. Love Auntie Diane
Luana Jones
October 11, 2006
It's crazy how some people you just don't forget. I haven't seen Iffy since Seaside High, and I remember her so well...that smile definitely lit up a room. God Bless her family, and everyonw who has ever came in contact with Iffy, if you remember her you will always have that place in your heart for her.
Darshanna Hart
October 10, 2006
IFFY, I remember you when I moved to California. Darshanna Hart. I went with u to all your Baseball games . To me you were the best on the team. I will always have your smile in my Heart. You are missed already.
Jammie McFarland
October 10, 2006
Hey cousin,
I'm sad that I wasnt around to see you do your thing as a mom, but I know you were great at it. Your son is handsome and watching him play catch with my son was so beautiful. I see him following in your and your brothers footsteps with the sports. The last time I saw you, you were working at the Boys & Girls Club & you were happy and sportin that big smile and that's the way I will always remember you; smiling and happy. I know you and Ski will be happy to be together again. Tell him I said hi and I miss him dearly just like I will miss you.
Latonia Patterson
October 10, 2006
I can't believe it, you just don't know the special bond I had with Ifraj. Her spirit was wonderful to be around, and her smile always brighten up my day no matter what was going on. I ask myself why, and a answer could not come to surface for me, god always has a plan for his angels, A angel Ifraj was. GOD BLESS. I send my prayers to the Beyah family.. Iffie will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
kim edwards
October 10, 2006
U r such an angel on earth please continue to be that angel in heaven and be that angel for Na'im to smile. we love and miss u Miss Sweatheart.
Infinity Smith
October 9, 2006
To a women with a lasting smile,and a beautiful heart. You will be forever missed. Fin
Tamar Collins
October 9, 2006
It's so real it's unreal. I can't believe your gone...in my heart I know your gone, but in my mind I still see your beautiful smile,and I hear your unique laugh. Forever in my heart and memories.
kim edwards
October 9, 2006
We love and miss u Miss IFFY aka sweetheart be that angel u r and guide us all in the right path. For snickeres aka Na'im be that angel for him to smile.
love u
EUSIMAHDI WASHINGTON
October 9, 2006
Keep smiling baby,see you later.
Nikki Roseby
October 8, 2006
When I heard the news, I couldn't believe it. Too young to be taken away from us, but He has a plan. My deepest sympathy to the family and may He provide you all with the strength and loving memories of Iffy! God Bless her lil man Na'im, Always.
Jeneal Hill
October 7, 2006
When I heard the news my heart dropped. Life is truly a gift and you never know when it is your time to go home. Iffy was a vibrant, athletic, and beautiful person. Her laugh was infectious, and her confidence was at times intimidating. However if u knew her you wanted to be around her. The last time i saw iffy i was walking around Lake Merit in oakland. She was the same, and that smile was present...You will be missed and never forgotten.. My god keep the Beyah family...Bubba, you are my friend, continue to be strong.. hugs Jeneal
Bernadette Holmes
October 6, 2006
Iffy,
It has been a week and a half since you passed away and I am still at a loss for words. I want to thank you for your guidance, courage, strength, wisdom and love not only as a friend but as a big sister. I love and miss you dearly. My heart and deepest sympathy goes out to the Beyah famliy, I love you all.
Always,
Bernadette Holmes
October 6, 2006
Iffy,
It has been a week and a half since you passed away and I am still at a loss for words. I want to thank you for your guidance, courage, strength, wisdom and love not only as a friend but as a sister. I love and miss you dearly.
Always,
Davina Martin
October 6, 2006
I remember your smile just as if it were yesterday and not 10 years ago when I saw you. It is very sad to hear you are gone. My condolences go out to the entire Beyah family. May you Rest in Peace. Much love to you.
Errica Roseby
October 6, 2006
My family prayers go out to the Beyah family. Iffy was truly an Angel from up above. We'll miss her.
Aleyna Viray-Hollings
October 5, 2006
My deepest sypathy goes out to the Beyah family. My prayers are with you as you try to cope through this time.
Latrice Womack (LaGon)
October 5, 2006
Ifraj was truly a wonderful person to know, she was full of energy & enjoyed life. I am so proud to say that she's a friend. I pray for peace for her family that only the Lord can provide.
DAMIKA WOODS
October 4, 2006
I was truly blessed to have known such a wonderful loving person like yourself. You will be missed. See you in heaven.
Evette Washington
October 3, 2006
Iffi,
I am so honored to have known you in this life time. Your beautiful smile and the glare in your eyes, truly amazing. You have been a true friend to me in every way. I think the last time we spoke was a few months ago when I was in Frisco. I still hear your voice calling my name and laughing. I will always remember our crazy trips to Oakland to get our hair braided by Trina. This seems so surreal that I am signing a guest book for your passing. If only I could stop the hands of time, I would bring you back. My heart is so broken as I am having a hard time accepting that you are no longer here. May your beautiful soul rest in peace and I will always remember you and keep you in my heart. Na'im will always have Auntie Vette Vette so no worries. Love you girl and missing you forever. May God Bless you and your family. You were truly one in a million:)
Keisha Garner
October 2, 2006
Ifraj you truly are a gem and I will never forget that wonderful smile and that unique laugh you had. My prayers go out to the family...
alisha
October 2, 2006
Iffi your brother and I still can not believe you are not here..Your laugh and our conversations are already missed more than you know..you were and still are loved so much and will never be forgotten...love you....
Sheron Madison (Roberts)
October 2, 2006
Ifraj, one of my best friends whose relationship I will cherish forever. I pray to God to one day meet someone like you in my lifetime. Your laughter will ring loud in my ears, and our times together will be alive in my memories, pictures, and dreams...I love and miss you always
Ghenna Mincey (Sherrill)
October 2, 2006
Iffy, You had a smile that would light up any room and a presence that made everyone take notice. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Stacey Williams-Scruggs
October 2, 2006
Iffy, I will miss you! We all will miss you and I know that you are watching over us and whispering in our ears. When we need you to look out for us. But now you can watch over your son 24/7 and know that he is safe. I will watch and try to take care of Alex "As much as he will let me". I am so happy that we were all there together with him for his birthday I know that he was happy to see you we all were. I love you girl and I will miss seeing your bright smile.
Bridgette McNeil
October 2, 2006
Sending my prayers to the entire family. Be blessed and Iffy will truly be missed.
Janice Hagins
October 1, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Jasmine Henry(Proctor)
September 30, 2006
Iffi,I cannot express how much you will be missed in this world now that you are gone,Your beautiful smile brightend an entire room..The memories I have of you and with you I will cherish for a lifetime..May you watch over us and keep us safe while we are still here and may your beautiful soul rest in peace..Until we meet again.I love you,Jazzy Jazz.
Please keep an eye on my son Jackson up there and give him a kiss for me...
Quentin Wiley
September 30, 2006
Sending my prayers out to the beyah family.
Adrianne Hill-Wiltz (Seaside, CA)
September 30, 2006
Iffy, Its been a long time, but I remember it like yesterday when we were in high school. You were such a good friend and I was in shock when I heard the news. You are in my prayers. I send my prayers to the entire Beyah family. With love!
Margaret Spight(Roberts)
September 30, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the Beya Family. I am so sorry for the loss of Iffy. I remember her fondly from Seaside High and I will pray for comfort and peace for her loved ones in the times ahead.
Jon Brown
September 30, 2006
Iffi, you'll be missed. Peace be with your son and the entire Beyah familty in this time of heartache.
Shani & Nicole Whindleton/Ferguson
September 30, 2006
Iffi ... we are in shock as to the news of your passing. I can remember like yesterday the encounters we had at Seaside High! My heart goes out to you and your family and we will contunue to keep your family in our prayers. Heaven has redeemed another one of it's angels~
Courtney Neff
September 30, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the Beyah Family and all Iffy's loved ones.
Tina Terrell
September 29, 2006
Iffy,my big cousin who always showed me her heart.You always told me "be who you are, shine through and don't let any one change that". You lived by those words, always with a smile followed by much laughter and expressivness. You shined for all of us and you still do, I love you Iffy.Your love for us and our love for you will never be lost. Blessing are upon you Iffy,Uncle Ira, Auntie Gorgie,your son Naim,Bubba,and Hassie.
Love Tina,Charlene,Harold,Mika, and Keita.
Shawanda & Carlos Petty and Joseph Patterson
September 29, 2006
The the Beyah Family,
I've known Bubba,Trevor,Ski, Tonya, Tiny, and Diane(Mom) for many years. When I heard the news about Iffi, I could not believe it. In fact, I'm still in shock. Iffy used to take care of my son, Joseph at the Boys and Girls Club. I saw her last at the Monterey Blues Festival. It's seems like I just saw her. I have to know that God has a plan for everything. May the Lord Bless you and your family. Remember, God likes Angels too!
Johnie and Anita Barnes
September 28, 2006
To the Beyah family: "You are in our prayers". Johnie and Anita Barnes
jasmine smith
September 28, 2006
iffy....i remember like yesterday when u were my softball coach....u were my motivation..for myself and my sister..i cant believer youre gone..mine as long as my families prayers are with you and your family...hassan and trevor keep your heads up...may u rest in peace..we love you!
jasmine and jessica smith..and mother angie choates..
Robert & Jocelyn McNeil
September 28, 2006
Our deepest condolences to the entire Beyah Family.
MARK & GINA TROUT
September 28, 2006
IFFY,
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS IT SEEMS LIKE IT WAS JUST YESTERDAY THAT WE COACHED YOU AT SEASIDE OUR BEST TO THE FAMILY
Tamika Woods
September 28, 2006
Iffi you will be missed. It has been a while since we seen each other but all the same you are loved. Give Askia a kiss from me. Seaside grad 1995
Camisha (Fannie) Williams
September 28, 2006
Sorry for your lost, we will all miss Ika. I haven't seen Ika for a while since our family last went and ate at Red Lobster. She was so very happy sitting enjoying all the jokes my family always has. To the family and my cousin Tone, even though we may be selfish and want her here, God called her and she's in a beautiful place with no more worries. God Bless, Fannie
J JONES
September 28, 2006
YOU WERE A GREAT PERSON WHO ALWAYS BROUGHT A SMILE TO PEOPLE'S FACES.. YOU WILL BE TRUELY MISSED..MAY GOD WATCH OVER YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME.
Fred Atkins
September 28, 2006
Ifraj, I always appreciated the kindness you and your family showed me. I will never forget hearing your voice cheering at the baseball field. I realize that this is a very difficult time so I prayed and asked the Lord to comfort your family and never leave their sides. I will cherish the memories.
Bob, Lori, Bobby & Brian Mansfield
September 28, 2006
Ira, Bubba, Hassan and Family,
We are deeply in sorrow for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Rebecca Hinckley
September 28, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the Beyah Family during this difficult time. I am so sorry Iffi was taken so soon. She was a wonderful person. May you find comfort in one another.
Jeannie Fanene
September 28, 2006
my condolence to the family I am very saddened to hear this tragedy Iffy was a good friend of mine we played ball together at Seaside and we gave birth at the same time you will never be forgotten
JUDY HOWARD
September 28, 2006
A GREAT SADNESS CAME OVE ME WHEN I HEARD OF IFFIS DEATH. THE BEYAH FAMILY NOW HAS AN ANGEL WATCHING OVER THEM. OUR HEART GOES OUT TO THE WHOLE BEYAH FAMILY. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
JUDY, BYRON, AND TYRONE HOWARD
Lea Durley (Standifer)
September 28, 2006
We have not been in each others company for years, and despite that, there is a true saddness in my heart today as I learn of Iffy's passing. Please know that this child of God was one of a kind and that she truely left her mark on many. As heartbreaking as this time must surely be, be strong and remember that there is no accounting for how God works. I send my love and prayers to the entire Beyah family and well as the beautiful son Iffy left behind.
Jeannie Fanene
September 28, 2006
I am so saddened by this news I played softball with Iffy and went to school with her cousins as a matter of fact the last time I seen Iffy we gave birth together I pray for your son and family words cannot explain my hurtful moment right now RIP
Cynthia Harding
September 28, 2006
May God be with the Beyah family and especially Na'im. She was loved by all but the most powerful one loved her more. God Bless!
KURT AND MARGIE MATTHEWS
September 28, 2006
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY. STAY STRONG.
LaVerene Gross
September 28, 2006
Ika, you were loved alot......
Delores Gross
September 28, 2006
Ika you will be missed by "Tone's" Family a whole lot. Truly you will be missed!!!
Venessa Gross
September 28, 2006
Ika you will be truly missed.
Venessa better known as Nessa to you!!!!
Your Sis,
Venessa
Marsha Snow
September 28, 2006
Words cannot express
Spiro Pettas
September 28, 2006
My heart goes out to the entire Beyah family during these trying times. I'm sorry for your unfortunate loss. May you stay strong and band together to heal as a family.
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