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Barmettler, Robert Stephen died peacefully at home on Sunday, December 16, 2012 after a long life lived intensely and well. A secular memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, January 12 at the Octagon Theatre at the Alabama Shakespeare Festival.

Born 25 April 1924, in Stans, Switzerland, Robert immigrated to America with his family in 1930. He quickly added English to the French and German he already knew, excelled in sports and theatrical productions at school and entered the U.S. Army in 1942, where he served in the European Theater of Operations during WW2. After the war, he graduated from San Jose State University in 1949 and joined the U.S. Air Force, where he trained to be a pilot and later a navigator. He served with distinction in many locations including most of Europe, North Africa, the Middle East, India and Vietnam where he earned both Bronze and Silver Stars for valor. In addition to flying, he was a squadron commander at the Air Force Academy and an administrator at the Air War College at Maxwell AFB. He retired in 1970 as a lieutenant colonel and began a second career as a professor of English and Drama at Huntingdon College. During his career, he earned a masters degree and eventually a PhD.

Robert is best known in Montgomery for creating the Dungeon Theatre on the campus of Huntingdon College and teaching there for 18 years; supporting Alabama Shakespeare Festival both as an actor and patron; performing with and supporting the Montgomery Civic Ballet; establishing the Montgomery School of Fine Arts; teaching speech at Alabama State University for 10 years; performing for many summers as Old Tom in the outdoor drama "The Lost Colony"; and for collaborating and writing with Dr. Jeanne E. Shaffer a number of musical stage plays. After leaving Huntingdon, he married Jeanne Shaffer, and they traveled throughout the US performing in regional music theatre before returning to Montgomery permanently.

He was preceded in death by his parents, two brothers, a sister and his second wife. He is survived by two sisters: Hildegard Barmettler Graves and Johanna Barmettler Black; Babette Barmettler and Heidi Barmettler Eldred, his daughters with Caroline Barmettler; and, four granddaughters: Elizabeth, Virginia, Margaret and Anne Eldred. He is also survived by the children of Jeanne Shaffer: Jeannette Sowman, Madolyn Griffin, Beverly Shaffer, Larry Shaffer and Malinda Shaffer-Farrington; and, nine step-grandchildren.

Anyone wishing to speak at the memorial service should contact Babette Barmettler 334-462-7748. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Alabama Shakespeare Festival or the arts education fund of the donor's choice in his honor.

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Published by Montgomery Advertiser on Jan. 6, 2013.

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Kathleen Avant

July 10, 2013

A class act in every sense of the word. He left an indelible footprint on the lives he touched. I have thought of him often through the years since meeting him in Oliver at the Montgomery Little Theater, circa 1969. I thought he was so suave and sophisticated and he was every bit of that and more. What a gentleman he was. Break a leg, Colonel B.

Dr. Jim Vicikrey

March 16, 2013

My once and future student, Deanne, thought so highly of him tha I have had to reach a similar high opinion of him, even though we met only once, sadly, I must confuss.

Chuck Ryerson

February 25, 2013

I remember him from when I was a cadet at the AF Academy.
I hope you'll be celebrating a life well lived. You can cherish the memories forever.

Ellen Gonzalez

February 23, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Col. Barmettler as a costume designer for Huntingdon Theater, which led my to my later work with a large costume company in Altanta. I will always remember him as a talented, kind and giving individual. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. Ellen Summer Gonzalez

PR HALL

January 15, 2013

A GREAT MAN HAS PASSED .

Charles Craig

January 14, 2013

I was Bob's office-mate at ASU and a good friend. He was an energetic, kind, and generous soul. I shall miss him.

Marshall St.clair

January 12, 2013

Lt Col Robert Barmettler was the first person involved with community theater I met in Montgomery. I was a newly assigned cook at the Airman's Dining Hall, Maxwell AFB. The Maxwell Playhouse was right beside the dining hall. A few nights after the first of the New Year in January 1970 I noticed lights were on at the playhouse. I decided to stop in and when I walked in the door this man came over to me and introduced himself..."Hi I'm Bob Barmettler, welcome.......". It was not until a few days later I found out he was an officer. I was walking somewhere on base when I had to a salute a Lt Col coming toward me. Guess who! Hard to realize that was 43 years ago.

One of many wonderful experiences that stand out for me is when the Maxwell Playhouse performed, in the round, "The Man of La Mancha" and he was Don Quixote.

The 604th AF Band was our orchestra and was placed in the balcony. The Colonel was having trouble with the tempo to his songs so his staging had him face the orchestra as the conductor leaned over the railing toward him with a lighted baton. We burned out 4 or 5 baton's by the end of the extend run. He was a wonderful Quixote!

I am so thankful I had the opportunity to chat with him opening night of Season's Greetings at Cloverdale Playhouse. He gently shook my hand and thanked me for all I have for the theater. On the contrary, it is I who must thank him for making a young and very homesick airman feel so welcome. So much so, Montgomery has been my home for a majority of these 43 years of friendship.

RIP Colonel, I will miss you.

Townley McGiffert

January 12, 2013

There will never be another like him. He influenced me in ways I still recognize in myself to this day.

Greta Lambert

January 12, 2013

A dear, sweet wonderful man and a terrific actor and lover of the arts. I will miss him.

Greg Thornton

January 11, 2013

I am very sorry to hear this sad news. The Colonel meant a lot to many actors who came through or stayed or are from Montgomery. The theatre was clearly a great love of his and it manifested itself in so many ways. I shall hold close the memory and wonderful graciousness he always extended to me.

I am so pleased he was able to be at the Cloverdale Playhouse and see the season through. From ASF to the Playhouse, his walk through the doors was always something I looked forward to. His spirit shall remain within the theatres that meant so much to him.

William Peavy

January 11, 2013

I remember the Colonel clearly and with great respect and affection. I know I speak for all my squadron mates in CS-24 at USAFA when I say that his leadership and courtesy in dealing with the cadets under his command was an inspiration to us all. He was a fine officer, a fine gentleman and he is missed.

Sandy and Jerry McEwen

January 7, 2013

Sandy and I enjoyed the Colonel's company many times on our trips to Atlanta for various movie shoots. He was just the kindest, most gentle, and most intelligent man you could ever imagine. He was quite a trooper and never complained about any difficulty, but just did his duty with great skill and competence. We loved him and will miss him very much.

January 7, 2013

I was so sad to hear of Bob's death. Just yesterday my wife and I were talking of the Dungeon Theatre and the great work that Bob and Jeanne did there. Bob was a "character" in all of the best ways, and will be missed. David Myrick Class of '67

January 7, 2013

He was a part of all of our lives and will be greatly missed. He was a loyal patron and audience at The Cloverdale Playhouse. I feel fortunate to have seen him a few days before he died. We kissed, as we always did, but I had a feeling this was the last time. He said what he always said, " Darling, we must do a play together soon!" One of a kind. Absolutely one of a kind.I cannot believe he is gone.It was not supposed to ever happen.

Fred Frost

January 7, 2013

I can hear him as he so clearly enunciated for us: "Elocution - that is lips, tongue, and teeth!" I regret that the Lord evidently broke the mold after he crafted so fine a piece as Col. Robert Barmettler. Missed and not forgotten.

Mark McGuire

January 7, 2013

It was a pleasure and an honor to have met and work with Col. Barmettler. He was a kind and compassionate man who was always there to help you. You will be missed. Rest In Peace.

Harry Harrison

January 7, 2013

He was an inspiration to the cadets. He did not kow tow to authority like many of the other Air Officer Commandings.

Herb Patterson

January 6, 2013

Thank you, Colonel, for your service to our country and our college. We will miss you.

tommye Cauthen

January 6, 2013

One of the Greatest men I think I have ever met. I enjoyed practicing and preforming in musicals he directed. Barmettler was truly one of kind. From his signature mustache to his unique type of hat. I know he will be directing muscials in Heaven. God Bless you and you family

Ronald Shinn

January 6, 2013

So sorry to hear our friend and colleague Bob has passed away. He was one of the most colorful characters I ever met, and always so supportive of our family. We will miss him.

Louisa Moore Elmore

January 6, 2013

What a wonderful life lived! I was a student of Col. Barmettler in the early 80's. Even though I was a shy, small town girl with a country accent, Col. Barmettler believed in me and pushed me to perform on the stage. I doubt I ever would have had those wonderful theatre experiences without his encouragement. The confidence he instilled in me has served me well in my professional life. As an elementary music teacher, I often thought of the Col. and what he taught me as I directed musicals. I am blessed to have known him and been directed by him and Jeanne Shaffer. His care and concern for his students is perhaps his greatest legacy. My prayers are with the Barmettler and Shaffer families.

Robert B. Giffen

January 6, 2013

Col. Barmettler served as an inspiration to me and my Academy 24th Squadron classmates as our Air Officer Commander. He was one of my most influential role models throughout my 35 years in the Air Force.

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