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WILLIAM A BENNING
AGE: 76 TOMS RIVER, FORMERLY OF MIDDLETOWN
William A Benning, 76, of Toms River, died Monday, Jan. 11, 2010 at his home. He was born in Jersey City and was a lifelong resident of Middletown before moving to Toms River three years ago. Bill graduated from St. Francis College in Loretto, PA. Bill worked as an Insurance Adjuster for many years and also worked in the maintenance department for St. Mary's School in New Monmouth and St. Mary's School in Deal. He was a former trustee, member of the Holy Name Society and active member of St. Mary's Parish in New Monmouth. Bill was a veteran of the US Army.
Surviving are his wife, Christine Benning; son and daughter-in-law, Joseph and Debbie Benning of Lyndonville, VT; son and daughter-in-law, William and Deirdre Benning of Wanamassa, NJ; son and daughter-in-law, Robert and Debbie Benning of Wylliesburg, VA; daughter and son-in-law, Cathy and Don Guglielmo of Hamilton Square, NJ; son and daughter-in-law, Jeff and Jessica Schymanski of Atlanta, GA; daughter and son-in-law, Jenn and Matt Gawron of Jackson, NJ; brother and sister-in-law, Jack and Mary Jane Benning of Belford; 15 grandchildren; 3 nephews, and 2 nieces. Bill was preceded in death by his parents, William and Mary Benning, and one grandson, Jacob Gawron.
Visiting will be Thursday, Jan. 14, 2010 from 2-4 & 7-9 pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown. Funeral services are scheduled for Friday at 8:45 am from the funeral home. A Funeral Liturgy will be offered at 9:30 am at St. Mary's Chapel, 26 Leonardville Rd., Middletown. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St Mary's Building Fund, 19 Cherry Tree Farm Rd, Middletown, NJ 07748. Condolences may be emailed to [email protected].
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Memories and Condolences
for William Benning
Jody Eckrote
January 18, 2010
Bill was always so welcoming to our family. I will always remember how positive and caring he was. May God bless all his family and friends. They are in our prayers and thoughts.
Christine Benning
January 18, 2010
Hey Bud,
There is not enough words or space to express all I want to say. You are sorely missed by all those that loved and knew you. You touched more people in life then you ever knew. I kept my promise and I and wait for you to keep yours. I will be waiting for the day when you come for me and we will be together again, this time forever. I love you with my entire heart and soul - Chris
Robert Benning
January 17, 2010
Hey Pop,
Since it is impossible to sum up a lifetime of memories and thoughts in just a few simple words...all I will say here is 'Thank You.' Thank you, for everything you taught me, everything you ever did for me - even the things I didn't realize you had done had for me until I had children of my own and finally realized what being a father really meant. I won't forget that Pop, and I won't forget how you always tried your best to guide me in the right direction in life. Who I am today, has a lot to do with who you were, and I will never forget that. And I won't forget to continue passing that on to my children the best way I can. Be at peace Pop, and rest easy knowing I am not the only one who will always carry a part of you with them with every step they take in life. Also know I am doing my best to keep a smile on my face right now, despite the shadow over my heart... after all, would you expect anything different from the kid you called 'Smiley' for 44 years?
Jack Gawron
January 16, 2010
Bill always made me feel welcome, comfortable and relaxed in his presence. Anyone who knew him should truly feel blessed. I'll deeply miss Bill, but always remember him. May God bless his family and give them strength and peace.
Clyde & Jeanette
January 15, 2010
Bill is in our hearts and prayers.
With love, his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Jane Eckrote
January 14, 2010
My heart broke when I heard the news of Bill's passing. What a kind and caring person with a warm and friendly smile. It was a blessing to know him and he will be deeply missed. Bill will forever be in my heart, and his family will be in my prayers.
Cindy (Panza) Russell
January 14, 2010
Uncle Bill,
The last time I saw you was when you danced with me at my wedding in 1985, I told you then how much I loved you and that we loved you as if you were born into our family(the Catons), not married into it, and how lucky I was to have you. My heart broke when several months later you were gone, now it is broken again, knowing that I will never see you again on this earth.
I know that all of the Catons feel the same way...we never stopped missing you.
Love,
Cindy
Jeanette & Clyde Jones
January 14, 2010
Bill is forever in our hearts and prayers. With Love, from your mother-in-law and father-in-law.
Kathy King
January 14, 2010
Bill - You were the BEST Custodian, Human Being, Friend - thank you for some wonderful memories ! Everybody at Pope John XXIII will always remember how much you did for us (EVERYTHING...)and what a terrific person you were. Rest in Peace. Love, Kathy King
January 14, 2010
Words cannot express how shocked and saddened we were to learn of Bill's passing. He was such a kind and caring person to all those he worked with or came in contact with. He shared so much of his time, talent and treasure at St. Mary's NM, making sure everything in the school and parish was always at it's best. We wish to express our deepest sympathies to you Chris and to all the children and grandchildren as you mourn this sudden loss. We will keep all of you as well as Bill close to us in our thoughts and prayers. Most sincerely, Victoria and Bob Quinn
January 14, 2010
We are so sad to lose Bill. He was a wonderful and sweet person who adored his family. His encouraging words and positivity will always be something I remember about him. He always had a kind thing to say and made me feel so welcome in his home and family. He will be missed greatly by his family and friends. (Lindsey Caldwell, family of Matt and Jenn Gawron)
Matt Gawron
January 14, 2010
Words can't express all the sadness that I feel. I am so fortunate to call you my father-in-law. My sons were so lucky to have such a wonderful grandpa that they could spend so much time with - they will miss you so much. Family dinner will never be the same. Know that my family will take care of your family, Chris will be in great hands.
Jessica Schymanski
January 14, 2010
Bill, you were one of the nicest, kindest men I've ever met. I'll miss hearing you call me "kid". Thank you for welcoming me to your family with open arms and for loving me like one of your own. You are already terribly missed. We'll all be together again one day and I can't wait to hear you bicker with Jeff again. I love you Bill.
January 14, 2010
You will be missed greatly Mr. Benning.
with love, the Becker family (formerly of St. Mary's School, Ocean)
Matt Gawron
January 13, 2010
Words can't express all the sadness that I feel. I am so fortunate to call you my father-in-law. My sons were so lucky to have such a wonderful grandpa that they could spend so much time with - they will miss you so much. Family dinner will never be the same. Know that my family will take care of your family, Chris will be in great hands. Matt Gawron
Meg Furio
January 13, 2010
I have wonderful memories of all the times our families spent together when we were younger. Uncle Bill taught me how to swim in the ocean for the first time. Of course, he didn't tell me not to swallow the water!
He treated me like his own daughter (even yelled at me like I was his kid) and I am glad that I had him in my life.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mary Reilly
January 13, 2010
Uncle Bill I love you! I know I'll never forget the Caton family reunions and you's always come out and check on us in the tent, and make us laugh. You were always special to us. Cathy, Joe, Bill and Bob, Please accept my heartfelt condolences on your loss! And I know my sibs feel the same way!
Love,
Mary Reilly
Ann McGovern
January 13, 2010
Uncle Bill had ALOT of loving nieces and nephews from the Caton side that have and will miss him to include us Reillys. I have many memories of him especially when he called me during a difficult time in my own life. Please know that I wish I could be there with you Bennings. I am really sorry. Ann Reilly McGovern
Cathy Boland
January 13, 2010
Remember when you used to dance around the room with me standing on your feet? I love you dad. Cathy
January 13, 2010
I love you Bill - Jenn
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