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Josie Patton Obituary

Josie Rocha Patton passed away Thursday, April 8, 2010 peacefully and surrounded by her family. She was born May 20, 1934 in Pecos, Texas. She was raised in Pecos, Texas with her 12 brothers and sisters. She attended Pecos High School and later married Phil Rocha of Mission, TX. Together they raised their family in Pecos, McAllen and then chose to settle down in Midland. Her husband Phil passed away in 1983 and Josie remarried Glenn Patton, who passed away last fall. Josie was very friendly and loved talking with friends and meeting new people. She was well known at Midland Memorial Hospital where she was employed for 20 years working with families who needed financial assistance. She was compassionate, kind and always treated families with respect. Upon retiring she worked at Dillard's department store. Always one to put family first, Josie quit her job at Dillard's so that she could be with her new granddaughter in Chicago. Josie was well liked and had many friends at the City of Midland Aquatic Center where she swam several times a week and enjoyed spending time with her friends and instructors in the Water Walking Class. She leaves behind a family who adored her daughters, Ellen Jayne Friday and husband Lance of Midland; Elizabeth "Lisa" Shydlowski and husband Michael of Chicago, IL; son, Homer James Rocha and wife Rosa of Jacksonville, FL; She will be dearly missed by her grandchildren, Philip Friday, Michael Friday, Mark Friday, Isabella Shydlowski, Sam Shydlowski, Jack Shydlowski, Jennifer Rocha, and great grand-daughter Christina Rocha. She also had four loving stepchildren, Marilyn Vela and her family Mark, Michelle and Mark, Jr. of McAllen; Frank Rocha and his family Marilou, Diane and Amy of Houston, Philip Rocha, Jr. and his family Mona, Phil III, Cynthia and Kathy of McAllen and Imelda Oehlstrom and her family Dave, Arthur, Dave Jr, Cyndi and the late Dawn Oehlstom of Cleveland, Ohio. Funeral services have been scheduled for 1:00 P.M. Saturday, April 10, 2010 at St. Ann's Catholic Church. Interment will follow at Resthaven Memorial Park. Pallbears will be, Mike Shydlowski, Lance Friday, Michael Friday, Mark Friday, Philip Friday, Uncle Art Granado, Homer James Rocha, and Frank Rocha. Arrangements are under the direction of Ellis Funeral Home. Condolences may be offered at www.ellisfunerals.com. In lieu of flowers, Josie's family would truly appreciate your considering making a donation to Hospice of Midland, PO Box 2621, Midland, Texas 79702. They were angels to our family during a very difficult time and mom would want them to be recognized in this way. We would also like to thank the following individuals, Sandy Leiker, Kelli Reavis, Christina Salazar, Dr. Helen Rhim and the many other doctors and Hospice volunteers at Midland Memorial along with all of our dear friends who cared for our mom and supported our family during this difficult time.

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Published by Midland Reporter-Telegram from Apr. 9 to Apr. 10, 2010.

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April 14, 2010

Dear Lisa, Mike, Bella, Sam, Jack and family,

We are sorry for your loss. May the love shared with family, friends and God be a source of inspiration and comfort to you all. May the promise of eternal life fill you with hope.
We are thinking of you and remembering her and you in our prayers.
Love,
~ Louie, Carl,Brie,Emma & Danny,

April 13, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

~ Rose, Jesse, and Rebecca Rodriguez

Vickie Avalos Cordova

April 13, 2010

Lisa,
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I always think of our time as students at St. Ann's and remember the wonderful friendships we have shared with one another.

April 12, 2010

Oh my goodness Lisa. I can't beleive we walked such a similar walk the last few days and we were not even aware of it. My father passed away under Hospice Care on Saturday, April 3rd. His memorial mass was at 10:30 Saturday morning at St. Ann's, right before your mother's.
There are no words for me to say. I'm just so sorry for you and your family.
Take care,
Paula Johns Mackey
Midland, Texas

Susan Scott

April 12, 2010

Dear Ellen,
I always enjoyed visiting with Josie at Dillards. What a sweet little lady she was! Her picture is so beautiful, and you look so much like her. I'm so deeply sorry for your loss.

Susan Scott

April 10, 2010

Dear Lisa, Ellen, Homer and Family,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of you Mother. What a wonderful woman she was, always full of so much love and laughter. Our memories of Josie always bring wide smiles to our faces and much laughter. As you carry on your legacy of your Mom, may you also brighten people's day, and lighten their hearts.

Much love to all of you and your families,

Blaire and Stan Shydlowski

Laurie Klaisner

April 10, 2010

Dear Mike,Lisa,Bella Sammy and Jack
God be with you through this time of sadness our prayer are with you and your family's God bless

Love
Laurie Kevin
Katie & Nikki

Eileen and Jim Shydlowski

April 10, 2010

Dear Lisa, Mike, Bella, Sammy and Jack and Family and Friends,

We are keeping you close in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time for you and your entire family. We hope you are comforted by God and will find support in each other.

Much love,

April 10, 2010

Thinking of you in your time of loss.
Chaplain Terry Johnson

Angela Fulton

April 10, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

April 10, 2010

I went to school with Josie in Pecos. We graduated in 1954 and have tried to have her attend some of the reunions, but she did not--we were so sorry for we would loved to have seen her.
My deepest condolences to you and your family as she was such a vibrant and lovely classmate.
Susie Daniel Lambeth, '54

Victoria Kartaltepe

April 9, 2010

Dearest cousins,

I am so sorry for the passing of Aunt Josie. She was dearly loved by my mom Dora and the Gonzalez family
(my late father Jose, Alex, Ana, Victoria, and Rose). I remember her as an elegant, lovely woman. My husband Armagan and I were honored when she and Glen attended our wedding in San Antonio. Our prayers go out to you and your loved ones.

Much love, your cousin Victoria Kartaltepe and family (Armagan,Konnor and Katiana)

Texas National Bank

April 9, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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